I thought I was bisexual. Then I thought I was gay. But it's

Insecurity? Porn? Gifsthatmakeyouwantotsuckcock?

>>5590877
Looks like you need some self evaluation to do. Take a moment to think back to your past and childhood, your interactions with your parents and different genders, and use that brain of yours.
Other people will just put a bunch of labels and diagnosis on you, or project themselves and specialists and therapists will just leach money from you.

You are the only one who can help yourself

>>5590895
>Insecurity
No I am actually a confident, fit person.
>porn
Gay porn is kind of OK. I like looking at it once in a while, but it's mostly a fantasy.
>Looks like you need some self evaluation to do. Take a moment to think back to your past and childhood, your interactions with your parents and different genders, and use that brain of yours.
Let me think in silence for a few minutes. Will post what I think itt desu.

>>5590909
OK I thought.
My father died when I was little, and I think I desire I desire a deep connection with another male to feel more connected to my father, and men in general. After all, I still love him with all my heart.
I think I am bisexual to a very slight degree, like a 1 on the Kinsey scale, but I wanted to express that and get rid of my slight fears by going to the hotdog eating contest instead of trying my first hotdog.
Turns out the whole time, my food of choice was the honey melon. You catch my drift?

So did you just find a guy with a big dick to hook up, or did you find a guy that you shared similar interests with that you really wanted to have a sexual experience with.

Hookups and ONS works for people that are very clear on what they want out of something. If you are not in or of that mindset you will have bad experiences.

It doesn't matter to me or anyone else but you if you are gay, bi or straight. But you obviously jumped into something that you weren't really all that mentally prepared for and you had a bad experience. You can take that as a sign that this is not for you, or you can understand that sex regardless of orientation is best with people you are sexually and mentally attracted to.

>>5590945
Yeah, that's sounds about right. Not sure what to do about the male closeness, but one thing for sure is that you should never ever hook up with a stranger. It's obvious that you're are looking for an emotional connection and not sex.
Let's think tank what kind of solutions there are
-Other male relatives? Grandfathers, uncles, older brothers if you have some, and your are in good relationships with them but that's kinda of a stretch.
-Friends? Maybe you could use some of that "bro bro" stuff in your life. Don't ask me how to make friends though, I sure don't know anything about that
-Some rare women actually have a lot of "male" in them, would maybe be nice if you found someone like that

What about your puking problem? Think and analyze what exactly did you felt at those moments

>>5591024
Oh, and just finding a person (of any gender) that you genuinely have a connection with is obviously the best option like that anon said >>5591017

But that's like saying that becoming Superman is the easiest way to lift weights of you know what I'm saying

>>5591017
>So did you just find a guy with a big dick to hook up, or did you find a guy that you shared similar interests with that you really wanted to have a sexual experience with.
Just met a friendly guy on grindr who wanted to blow me, and I couldn't get a hard on. So I tried blowing him (which I did pretty well) but I got bored, and I asked him to stick it in my butt, and I hated that. and then he caught on that something wasn't working for me, so we ended up cuddling. And I didn't really enjoy cuddling either, it was like "when is he gonna leave?"
>-Some rare women actually have a lot of "male" in them, would maybe be nice if you found someone like that
That would be amazing.
>What about your puking problem? Think and analyze what exactly did you felt at those moments
"Oh shit, this guy drive thirty minutes to my house and I don't even want to fuck him. I feel so bad." He told me that he really, really enjoyed it though, so at least his time wasn't wasted.

>>5591046
Oh, well that's pretty normal, you just were embarrassed
But you felt fine then you had sex with a woman right? Was that also a stranger or a person you knew?

>>5591053
>Oh, well that's pretty normal, you just were embarrassed
I felt more embarrassed than giving a presentation to a college class.
>But you felt fine then you had sex with a woman right?
Yeah it was like "FUUUUUAAARK MAH DICK. DAMN LOOK AT THOSE CURVES, TITS, AND PAINTED NAILS. LEMME LICK THAT PUSSY. OH FUCK LOOK AT HER HAIR, SO LONG, I'D FUCK THAT, TOO."
>Was that also a stranger or a person you knew?
Been good friends for two three years.

>>5591074
*Two to three years

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>>5591074
Geez anon, just date women. You can satisfy your slight gayness by jerking of to photos of guys once in a while (not too often,porn can fuck you up)
If by some chance you'll become friends with some cute guy,and letter find out that he's gay for you, then have yourself some gay sex, just don't fuck with strangers anymore.
Oh, and check out dem muscular and sporty and/or smart and nerdy women - they are a bit more like men brain wise. And also just generally hot, so if anything, it should at least five you some wanking material

>>5591111
Quads=truth
>Geez anon, just date women
I probably will.
>You can satisfy your slight gayness by jerking of to photos of guys once in a while (not too often,porn can fuck you up)
Probably will do that.
>If by some chance you'll become friends with some cute guy,and letter find out that he's gay for you, then have yourself some gay sex, just don't fuck with strangers anymore.
That actually makes sense to me
>Oh, and check out dem muscular and sporty and/or smart and nerdy women - they are a bit more like men brain wise. And also just generally hot, so if anything, it should at least five you some wanking material
Not gonna lie I think you just "solved for x", let x=my sexuality

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>>5591135
Yo, Im glad this helped, but you had all of the answers yourself, I just reflected em back at you.
NOW GO GET EM, TIGER

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>>5591161
That pic turns me on like fuck.
I thought I'm straight, but you just shattered my world. No guy can compete with that.

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>>5591161
Thanks anon!
>tfw genetics won't let me get traps like that

>>5590877
>Fucks man, cant get boner and pukes
>fucks woman, loves it, pukes next day
You're straight