How do I know that I'm really gay? >never was really

>>5583489
yeah you're gay.

probably not.

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Nothing gayer than being this insecure about your sexuality.

>>5583502
but I'm not attracted to most guys and I'm not really attracted to hairy masculine dudes.

>>5583507
isn't that a straight thing?

>>5583510
you're probably also not attracted to some type of women. that's normal.

>>5583510
you don't have to be attracted to most men to be gay.

You only have to be attracted to men.

And before you ask: yes, clean shaved and smooth boyish looking men are still men. Feminine men are still men too.

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>>5583521
>Feminine men are still men too.

bullshit

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>>5583489
>Is it possible that I was so lonely that I started reaching out sexually to my guy friend and became a homosexual out of desperation for emotional and physical intimacy? And that maybe I wouldn't have been gay if I had gotten attention from women?

There's no point in agonizing over this. Would it change anything either way?

Women are shit and you've already admitted that yourself. Just embrace the homosex.

>>5583544
I agree that's bullshit. Feminine men are hot in the way that women are hot. Any straight duded would get his wires crossed.

>>5583551
It's possible it would go away if I pursued a women. I'd also be able to keep the respect of my friends and family.

>>5583544
dubs

>>5583586
Just do whatever you want to do man. Don't think too much about it. Gay, not gay whatever. Whatever you find yourself attracted to you should do.
Don't go in with the mindset of
>I am gay so I can only be with men
>Or I am straight I've only taught myself to like this
Notice what people you remember in public. Do you remember that hot guy you saw at the grocery store? What about that cute chick you saw jogging? Did you touch yourself thinking about either of them? Think about that.
Whatever you do don't force yourself one way or the other because "that's what I am" "Or that's what I've always done" just do you.

Friends and family will get over it if you decide to be openly gay. People do all kinds of weird shit in the bedroom. Don't prance around in assless chaps if you don't want people to see it basically.

>>5583544

dubs confirm it, femmes are not mens.

>>5585005
this is pretty solid.
I don't think you can turn gay from lack of hetero attention/experience. Obviously you do have some capability of being attracted to and being with men. So it's more of - are you bi (leaning towards men, or women) or gay?
I mean, it's possible that despite this male attraction, you would feel better with a woman - which you haven't had the means to really explore thus far. But from what you're writing, that doesn't sound like the case.
Feeling that it's impossible to have relations and be intimate with the opposite sex doesn't have to be due to loneliness, too. It could just as well be impossible because you aren't wired that way.

If you're still struggling with loneliness wita resulting (I assume) anxiety, you should prioritize that, because it could be playing tricks with your brain, and it will be easier to explore without that plague.

>>5585005
>>5585113
>guy teetering on the precipice of homosexuality
>feeding him namby-pamby liberal "you-do-you" platitudes
>not just giving him a good hard push over the edge

You fags are the worst. Why do so few of us take recruitment seriously around here?

>>5583489
I feel this OP, but my situation is prob different. I've always thought I was straight until the girl I was semi-dating tried to kiss me after senior prom, and I freaked out and fucking stopped her before she could. It was weird, like, the thought disgusts me then and kinda now too desu. I've had homosexual fantasies throughout my entire post childhood life, but because I also had some hetero tendencies, I signed up for team straight and tried to ignore. It all started to bubble up more and more over the past few years as I started to think harder about it, and I cannot ignore it anymore. So I guess I'm bi or something idk, but I feel gayer by the day ;_;

And I'm terrified this is all some escape/denial mechanism my brain has made up.

I want to suck Marty's peen.

>>5585180
I'm lesbian, and I feed on your fag tears.

JUST DATE WHO YOU WANT TO
JUST FUCK WHO YOU WANT TO
JUST MARRY WHO YOU WANT TO.
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