Been working on this relationship for a year. A year. Things been a little rocky lately. Last weekend he tells me he needs a break from trying to make things work. Right before he goes on vacation touring Europe. Now I know he's on Grindr and Jacked and who knows what else.
How the fuck can people live? This is the worst feeling on the world. And apparently it's common in the gay world. Even if I wanted to revenge fuck I couldn't... It was him, that's all I wanted. How the fuck do you people go on with this shit?
>Well what the fuck am I supposed to do?
Give up :^)
No seriously, if you're looking for anything long-term and committed, don't pursue it any longer, or you're probably going to be disappointed even further.
That's just the nature of gay "relationships", despite what all the politicised white knighting for it insists. The only viable way to do a long-term one is an open relationship.
Open relationship is literal cuckoldry. There's No way I'm doing that. So is the answer just to learn to be happy, alone, forever? Really actually doesn't seem so bad compared to this shit
Well that's what you're getting into my friend.
Do you honestly think gay "married" "couples" stay together just for the sake of the deepest care for each other? You really think they """"""""love"""""""" each other?? Fuck no. At least one of them is taking rows of nigger cocks every week and the other probably doesn't care. It's fucked up, but it's the only thing staving off boredom from each other.
I think they're being a bit too pessimistic. You should be able to find yourself a stable relationship. It might really hurt now but the pain will always be less than growing old alone and unloved.
Are you speaking from experience or just hoping?
I literally don't know any gay couples that have stuck together. Life just feels like shit and I kinda want to die t B h but I know that's being dramatic. Everything just feels fucked.