Fix/save my life (please).
25, nearly 26 year old virgin guy, most likely gay, but deep in the closet. Have a nice job where I work hard, but don't do anything outside of work except TV and sleep. Live alone.
I could make a request for a single solution, how do I turn into a super confident, sexually experienced, out guy. But all I want is a suggestion on one step I could take to improve my life, before any remnants of skinny twinkiness disappear forever and I hopefully kill myself.
Find a hobby you can be social with, join a club, join some sort of group with people, volunteer somewhere, just find something you'll be interested in enough that you'll be able to have fun with other people while doing it.
With confidence you just have to force it. It is something you can fake and will still have the right affects, or you could learn to value yourself for who you are and gain confidence from that. Do not be overly confident.
Because if you haven't managed to get laid before the age of 25 regardless of orientation you've reached a dead end.
If you were straight no women would want to spend the time having to train you, and to gay men you become a joke.
Just accept your asexuality.
For me, being confident comes from forgetting for a moment about the irreversible consequences of every single action I take in my life.
So whenever you want to say or do something, in the words of Shia LaBeouf: Just do it.
Do this. Just try some new stuff OP. Remember that it's NEVER too late to change your life, even though it may feel like it. You can always make it better for yourself, maybe you'll just have to work harder in some cases.