Hey people, so my gf's laptop was left open on a Facebook conversation she was having with her gay friend, and basically she admitted she was bisexual to him, but didn't know how to tell me or her friends because she was worried about the reaction. She doesn't know I saw it, and I haven't said anything because I don't want her to think I was snooping.
Personally I'm proud of her,and I hope that she can trust me enough to tell me, because I love her dearly, but we were on the subject of bisexuality earlier today and she didn't seem to let anything on, so what should I do?
TLDR: Found out gf is bisexual, but she hasn't told me herself
Your story is cute
My advice would be that you should tell her that whatever she turned out to be you'd accept her or something like that (if the occasion comes up)
It's always nerve wracking to come out, I think that if someone told me this kind of thing it would be way easier for me to tell them
I hinted at it, because I want her to be as comfortable with it as possible, the messages also said that she didn't want me to think she'd leave me for it, and that it was just the way she felt. So I reassured her that hypothetically if it happened that i'd love her just the same. I just hope that she has the heart to tell me and it's not upsetting her that she'd think I'd end our relationship :/
I think you're both making mountains out of molehills. Popular culture has us believe most women are at least "a little bisexual" anyway. Not like she'd be leaving you either way; if anything, it means she'd be more open to mff threesomes if that's up your alley.
Also stop snooping on your girlfriend. Computer being open doesn't mean you have to read the screen.
Fuck her vigorously, afterwards in the bed when you're sharing a cigarette lean into her ear and whisper
>"14/88, Sieg Heil"
Walk out of the room and proceed to make a single Peanut Butter and Jelly Sandwich, put an egg on top of it, then smash a second PB & J sandwich, writing "THEY DON'T GO TOGETHER" in the mess you make all over the walls.
Then leave the apartment, clothes not needed.
Should solve all your problems after that.
Go full /pol/ and start saying you have been thinking and bisexuality does not exist. Then go on on how all the people thinking that way are fucking retarded, make sure it's harsh and get a finishing touch with something sensitive involved and reproduce the ending in video related. What could go wrong?
I was right in thinking this wasn't the best place to ask for help, I just thought that somebody might of had the same experience as me, I know alot of 4chan is shitposts and trolls, so I expected alot of this, just hope some advice comes out the of shit :/
I was really hoping I'd get a chance to chat with you since I saw you post last night, I'm surprised you stuck around, it's nice to know someone's got my back :)
On an unrelated note, why is there so much hate for bisexuals here? :/
>I'm surprised you stuck around, it's nice to know someone's got my back :)
I wanted to see other people's advice
>On an unrelated note, why is there so much hate for bisexuals here? :/
I don't know, I guess they're seen as "unstable" because they didn't "choose" to only like women or men, I think a lot of gays (and some straights) went through a phase where they were bisexual, and so they think it's a phase for everyone
Also I think they are not appreciated because of the fear (of gays/lesbians) to get cheated on with someone of the opposite sex (since I think we're already jealous of straight people, it hurts even more to know that even your lover would "betray" you with them)
I get you, as much as I hate to say it, I can be the jealous type and she's knows it, I went through a bad time thinking she would cheat on me because I wasn't good enough, but shes told me time and time again how she couldn't because of how good I've been to her (a few people have used her in her time, that shit has mentally scarred her) so I don't know if that has anything to do with it :/
> so I don't know if that has anything to do with it :/
I guess it could, or not
It seems like bisexual go through domestic abuse even more than gays and lesbians, that's a shame for her
Maybe she's trying to figure out how she could tell you
>It seems like bisexual go through domestic abuse even more than gays and lesbians, that's a shame for her
It really is, which I why I want her to know that I am completely comfortable with what worries me is that something might of happened for her to think it right? Even if it is just her finding her friend attractive, but I'm not going to get mad because it wouldn't be fair, you can't help your sexuality :/
>what worries me is that something might of happened for her to think it right?
If she told her gay friend that's maybe because she think you wouldn't understand since you're straight, I don't know
>Even if it is just her finding her friend attractive, but I'm not going to get mad because it wouldn't be fair, you can't help your sexuality :/
Yeah also the guilt might play a big role I guess
Thanks for all your help anon, I'm gonna come clean and talk to her about it, and reassure her that whatever she decides to be that I'll love her all the same. Thanks for being cool about it all :)