>>5568886 Too much? Around the eyes I think I agree. The lack of sleep I get plus too much caffeine is something I need to fix. I think you just motivated me. Ugh. dark circles and puffy is hard to fix with out caking it on.
Now this is too much makeup. Sometimes I overcompensate.
female elbows are angled differntely than mens, likewise shoulders behave differently.
women 'hip walk' rather than swing the legs straight line men.
study up on it. its the major reason people like Carmen Carrera or Big Ugly Black Dude on TV Show >you know who I mean can pass, they are 150% facially male yet they carry their bodies like women and that's what fools the eye
elbows are a dead giveaway right now. hard to explain technically but look at this pic and see how boxy and acute the elbows are also the forearm bulk is a tell but that's not that bad.
mens arms are like a straight cone from shoulder down and womens arms are more of a > shape that doesn't have the taper if that makes any sense. google female elbow and start practicing what else can i say
>>5568991 Imo yes. Your face passes, but the body pic shows that tour hips are kinda narrow. Your clothing choice looks kinda old, too. Dress a little more modern with some loose stuff to make your hips look bigger. You have a really cute face. Good luck. Hows your voice?
>>5571448 You're really normal, normal looking and levelheaded. It's sociopaths like Jenner and Yardley.
I mean Yardley isn't just frightening and totally unwilling to put any effort into passing. Also lobbies parliment to block anyone under 25 from access to HRT and spends time on the net bullying kids. Horrible people who evade consequences due to money or political connections who kick down.
>>5572266 >So why do chasers spot me a mile away if I am not a hon? Not trying to be rude here, but I don't get why people say you pass every time you post a pic. You look like a prototypical transwoman.
>>5572279 My opinion of that is that somehow I look cute while not being actually passable if that makes any sense. That cuteness makes people not want to be mean to me. That is how I feel in public interacting anyway.
Cis women make me feel this way most, and are by far the creepiest chasers. They feel they are allowed to grope.
>>5574301 I think the ones who try too hard are just seen as sex objects by the same men who would be mean to you. That's my guess. Is it the bigots who are mean or even men who might otherwise be nice about it? How many men out of ten are mean to you? Just really curious about what it's like for people. I hope it's not too bad.
>>5574370 I think people have it wrong about hons. Sure, they're gonna regret not transitioning earlier, but by the time you're 40, I've been told that people literally stop giving a fuck about looks and become more confident in who they are.
I do honestly believe being young and vain is worse than being a hon. We strive to be those cute, teen girls so badly that we basically sell our lives for it.
Of course there are probably some suicidal hons, but I envy the ones that just say "fuck it" and accept what they got.
>>5576071 Agreed. Not to mention a lot of biological females don't age well, are somewhat masculine, or were never super attractive to begin with. It's pretty dumb to think being female is only about how pretty you look and cute you act. In a way, girls like that just give up too much personal power, because their lives become all about being pleasing to others.
After conversion therapy as a young kid I bacame very depressed. The therapy lasted from 4 to 6 or so for the most part, but some lasted much longer. Once my cousins had permission to beat me up they never stopped. It lasted forever.
Once puberty started the very bad depression started and I was drunk every day from 8th grade on.
That and just not caring about my body or life at all took a heavy toll. I got very fat.
I smoked two packs of reds a day and drank a case of bear or a 5th or vodka or Jack most days for years. I hated myself and wanted to die.
It has taken my great effort to correct the damage.
Went vegan. Quit smoking, lost weight then started hormones. I am so much happier. Even with the problems it has caused. Nothing the world can do to me will be as bad as how I felt back then.
What I am saying is. If you base your value on how pretty you are you have lost at life.
Find actual fulfillment. If you are female be one. It isn't about fashion or beauty. It is something in your heart.
So it's me the cute hon. I need some advice kids. I have been acing phone interviews. I have another in person interview Tomorrow for an investment firm, and just got done a couple min ago with a seperate phone interview for a different investment firm.
My ID isn't changed because I don't have the cash 1 to 3k depending on difficulty to change it.
So I informed and they guy was very surpised. So far since my switch to financial firms instead of engineering and oil and gas I have had much more interest.
So I am positive my voice is very very passable, but this look. I am so close. So very close.
Should I keep informing or show up. The guy today, and some facebook friends are saying it is not a factor, but if I pass on the phone and I show up and you see me wouldn't that make you angry? I don't know?
I am so close to a happy life I can taste it. Grrr this stupid body.
>>5580793 I went through this recently. I used to make it a point to let my interviewer know I was trans after my interview had been established. Probably did that for a few months. But eventually I said fuck it and just started getting on with it. If they didn't want to hire me for my talent or resume, then I could really care less. You've got to be totally confident in yourself. You pass well enough to get past the first hurdles and then you can just concentrate on nailing your interview. Good luck!!!
I honestly envy hons a lot sometimes. They seem pretty happy just being able to live as a women, even if they're buttugly and barely pass. Younger Transgender women seem so caught up in looks and dating and trivial stuff like that they end up losing sight of the big picture.
>>5582246 That's just because they don't have a choice in the matter. I don't mind hons, but I don't like it when they give young transitioners advice. It's not the same situation at all.
Especially "don't worry about passing." You're going to miss out on a lot of the fleeting pleasures of youth that way, and be socially retarded later besides. You won't make the connections that are necessary for productive life after middle age, you won't have satisfactory relationships or be productive, and you won't a third thing that I thought I had planned when I started writing this but I didn't. The point is, it's important to act your age: the young should definitely have a bit of vanity.
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