Can someone be bisexual if never had a gf but always had feelings towards women?. The bisexuality thing started a few years ago. I've never felt attraction towards men until i was like 21 or 22, now i get off to men and women, but never actually had sex with either of them. Also the attraction towards one gender or the other changes from time to time, and it gets pretty exclusive with the other gender(meaning that if im attracted to males in a certain period, looking at women is far less interesting, and when im attracted to women i can't even think of men)
Sexuality does not necessitate or, for that matter, guarantee sexual activity. It's a persistent pattern of romantic and sexual attraction, not a record of sex partners that informs a sexuality.
I'm bisexual because I view sex as happiness, people are hording happiness, heterosex is a numbers game, the more women you fuck the more social points you get and are looked up to(kinda like a batting average, or a fps game stat or kill death ratio). The more cute girls you fuck the mo happiness and resources you get. Heterosex is about giving the finger to people who can't get sex, most try to horde it and horde women to fuck. That's why I always fuck a hot girl if I get the chance(just for the points, to add points to my self worth)
Homosex on the other hand is kinda degrading but I bet it feels alot better than heterosex, i'd always pick sex with a handsome well endowed man(or average no biggie) over a not so cute girl/women because I reckon I'd get much more plesure out of it.
I don't even jack off to women unless there's a fit guy with a big cock inside her. Therapist told me that I'm probably not bisexual, just gay... but hey as long as i fuck women right in the pussy nobody will no otherwise.
I always got jealous when other men got sex, that was the main reason I started trying to pick up girls in the first place, I didn't want to end my night alone like a loser.
Also, I always viewed pussies as having more social values than dicks. Kinda like resources, and it was a sellers market(pussies market).
Are you peeps getting what I'm talking about? I see the world this way from watching tv and movies, this is how every pussy hunter in every movie acts(like sex is a numbers game), don't get angry at me for having such a distorted view of sex, blame society.
How does that relate to my thread?. I don't give a fuck about sex competition, im just confused about my arousals
Problem is that is not persistent, i don't always want to lust men, i don't always want to lust women, and i never lust both at the same time(well sometimes i do but i always tend to focus more in one than the other, and it isn't always the same)
The pattern you describe is a periodic vacillation between primary attraction to men and primary attraction to women. And from what you describe, it has persisted thus for years.
We don't have a special name for that. It's just another bisexuality.
Sounds like you are bisexual but only you can know what you are. I suggest reading through this website. It may help you understand yourself better.
this is the notorious "bi-cycle", I am bi and have never experienced it but apparently many many bi people do.
bisexuality is way understudied, underrepresented, discussed, etc, so unfortunately there are not that many resources :(. there is a bisexual subreddit where people are often helpful though