So, here's the thing. I'm supposed to meet up with this guy next weekend to hang out and drink. Basically to hook up.
I'm a male. A twink, if you will.
He's a grad student I think where as I'm only 20, so he's probably 5 or 6 years older than me.
He has a pretty nice body and dick and is pretty cute..
Basically I'm wondering if you guys have any tips for me to prepare/stay safe or anything like that because I don't have much experience with guys if I'm being completely honest.
If he wants anal, enema and try to stay away from heavy meals and absolutely use a condom.
Eat same strawberries shortly before you meet or when things are getting heated so that your kisses will taste great.
Don't go too fast and go at your own pace, even if he's dom he can't make you do anything.
You'll probably be fine anyway because from my experience most gays are used to inexperienced lovers.
Yeah I was planning on an enema just to be safe, although I'm not sure if it will go that far. It very well might though.. I guess it just depends how it goes. I feel like if I get a drink or two in me, I will get super horny and just go for it.
And thanks for the advice. I don't think I would have a problem letting him know if it was going to fast, but I also like to be just treated like a slut so again I guess we will find out lol.
Strawberries.. I will have to remember that
How do I give a good blowjob? Again I've never done any of this stuff before. I've always figured that the two best aspects of a good blowjob are a lot of spit and messiness. Should I just focus on those two things ?
It's really dependent on the dick, but assuming he's white and average size, blowjobs aren't anything like they are in porn, you don't need to deep throat with spit flying everywhere to actually satisfy a man. You can find good tips on the internet for beginner steps even if they're intended for women.
It might be a good idea to let him know you're inexperienced as well.