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>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?
>when did you come out?
>when did you start hrt?
>how long have you been on hrt?
>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)
>do you pass?
>do you ever think about detransitioning?
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>>5541111
Checked,

19
19
3 months after turning 20
2.5 months
Wisdom teeth out like 4 years ago
Kinda, will easily be able to after more time into transition tho
No
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>>5541111
7
14
17
5y
no
yes
occasionally
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>>5541111
>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?
11
>when did you come out?
13
>when did you start hrt?
13
>how long have you been on hrt?
8 years
>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)
no
>do you pass?
yes
>do you ever think about detransitioning?
no
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>>5541111
13
15
18
9years
no
i dont think so but get told i'm qt
never stopped hrt, but had some moments where i just wanted to give up. shaved my head, tried buying guy clothes... /sigh. idk. even after starting hrt i didnt start presenting as female for 2 years after which i went full time / had a legal name change.
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>>5541111

>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?
17
>when did you come out?
About half a year later to parents
>when did you start hrt?
>how long have you been on hrt?
Started AA 38 days ago, haven't received estrogen yet.
>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)
No
>do you pass?
Been told I do or have potential in a previous passing thread. I don't think I pass though.
>do you ever think about detransitioning?
No. I've barely even gotten started.
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>>5541111

>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?

I don't know, it was something I was of two minds about for a long time.

When I was in third grade, I was hospitalized in the same hospital that I was born in because I couldn't breathe. When I was discharged, I asked my mother what I would have been called if I had been born a girl. I was already afraid of what she might think, so I disguised the question by asking what my brothers would have been called as well. I was thinking something like, "having left the place of my birth for the second time, perhaps this could be something like the beginning of my new life as a girl." Sadly, I never did anything, even right after.

Since middle school, I was holding the opposing beliefs that I was not transgender and that I would rather be a girl. I had intrusive thoughts about being transgender and I kept ignoring them. When I wasn't denying it so strongly, I would get pushed back in the closet by relatively innocuous things. At 14, I started hating my father because I knew my parents wouldn't allow me to transition and he was a stronger representation of that prohibition in my mind than my mother. Unfortunately, I tried to bury that because I was stupidly religious "Honour thy father and thy mother," I might have been able to motivate myself to do something with that emotion.

When I finally started facing up to it, I guess I was 17. I then spent the years between 18 and 20 being suicidal.

>when did you come out?

I came out to my younger brother on the 16th of December, I think. He said he reacted homophobically at first, but he calmed down and accepted it for the most part, I think. I came out to my parents two days ago, on Monday. Their reaction wasn't anywhere near as violent as I thought it would be. They said they love me, but they don't seem to be on board with transition at all and seem to think it's just a phase or something that I will cope with without HRT. (to continue in next post)
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>>5541111

>>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?
20
>>when did you come out?
20 (family) 22 (boymode fail)
>>when did you start hrt?
21
>>how long have you been on hrt?
20 months
>>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)
voice surgery 4 months ago
>>do you pass?
people say so but I dont understand why
>>do you ever think about detransitioning?
no, thought about quitting via suicide, but only at the start where it was hard
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>>5541111
>>5541929

>when did you come out? (continued)

My father also thinks it's sexual abuse that made me this way, even though I have never been sexually abused. I think I might be making progress on my father, though. Which makes me sad, because if it's true that I can manage to convince them, I would have only had to say something sooner, back when it mattered, to prevent all the shit I have been through.

>when did you start hrt?

I started taking estradiol pills the first time on July 2, 2015, but stopped because I had been having headaches from a month, which is when I started spironolactone (not sure if that was the cause.) I started again on August 21, 2015. Or when I was 20 years and 7 months old.

>how long have you been on hrt?

I have been on HRT continuously for about 4.5 months. I wish the number were 7 years and 6 months, as that would make me around 13 and a half.

>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)

No. I'm not even sure about surgery. I don't have the cash for it, and wouldn't for a while. Besides, starting before puberty has the chance to start is always better than surgery, no matter how much money you have.

>do you pass?

No. I have a beard shadow at all times. I am not sure at all what potential I have of passing, but I'm not going to post my face to find out.

>do you ever think about detransitioning?

Not really, since I've never gone out in public dressed as a woman. However, I do give thought to having to live as a male for the rest of my life because of never passing. Yet, I think I'll be dead before next January.
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>>5541379

Why would someone who started HRT as young as you be on /lgbt/? How long have you been here?
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>>5541111
>>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?
10
>>when did you come out?
13
>>when did you start hrt?
17 (took puberty blockers when I was 16)
>>how long have you been on hrt?
few months
>>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)
not yet, I'm too young
>>do you pass?
yes
>>do you ever think about detransitioning?
not anymore
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>>5541111
>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?
15 (currently 21)

>when did you come out?
At approximately 19 or so

>when did you start hrt?
Lol
>having the money to be on hormones while in college

>how long have you been on hrt?
None

>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)
Nope

>do you pass?
If I bind, usually.

>do you ever think about detransitioning?
Nope, though I suppose other than socially I haven't really started
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>>5541111
>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?
14
>when did you come out?
To friends: 18-20
To family: Hahahahaha never
>when did you start hrt?
20, two months before 21st birthday
was too scared to self-med at a teen, living at home w/ parents... now I live away because uni
>how long have you been on hrt?
3.5 months
>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)
No
>do you pass?
Not even a little bit
>do you ever think about detransitioning?
Fuck no, I was ready to kill myself when I started, this is at least an improvement
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>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?
10 (discovered the term at 14)
>when did you come out?
19
>when did you start hrt?
20
>how long have you been on hrt?
couple of months
>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)
no
>do you pass?
not even in girlmode, so no.
>do you ever think about detransitioning?
Going good so far, so no.
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>>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?
maybe 15 or 16
>>when did you come out?
came out to my parents & therapist at 19, not public yet
>>when did you start hrt?
i'm waiting for hrt since you need to see special people who have months of waiting time in my country
>>how long have you been on hrt?
--
>>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)
want to get srs in the future
>>do you pass?
not quite since haven't even came out, but sometimes my friends jonkingly comment and i have a quite feminine nickname
>>do you ever think about detransitioning?
no, even on the worst days i'm 100% committed (and i have bipolar or something)

mtf btw
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>>5541111
>>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?
4 or 13, depending on interpretations
>>when did you come out?
22
>>when did you start hrt?
22
>>how long have you been on hrt?
6 months
>>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)
no
>>do you pass?
no
>>do you ever think about detransitioning?
no
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>>5541111
21
22
23
20 months
Got surgeries over the next few months
Kinda andro, after FFS I should
No
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>>5541111
>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?
12. Didn't show any real signs before then asides for not liking to run around and play, and refusing to cut my hair, but the moment puberty struck I knew I was fucked
>>when did you come out?
still in the closet lmao
>how long have you been on hrt?
around four months, but two before so on just anti-androgens. Started shortly before I turned 18
>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)
Nope
>do you pass?
I think I have potential, but not yet
>do you ever think about detransitioning?
I'd rather kill myself than life out the rest of my life as a man desu
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>>5541111
>6-ish?
>19
>20
>8 years
>No (but want SRS)
>Yes
>Never
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>>5541971
>Why would someone who started HRT as young as you be on /lgbt/?
Why not? I'm /t/ after all.
>How long have you been here?
I've been on /lgbt/ since 2013. I don't remember how long I've been on 4chan.
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>>5542605

>Why not? I'm /t/ after all.

Well, if you started HRT at 13, you've got virtually nothing in common with us, since you cut puberty off at it's head. The biggest commonality would be SRS and public treatment/perception for being trans.

I just realized you're at most like a year older than I am, too, now I'm jelly.

Could you tell the story of how you came out?
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>>5541111
>>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?
17
>>when did you come out?
21
>>when did you start hrt?
21
>>how long have you been on hrt?
2 years
>>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)
SRS and BA in 2 weeks, so 2 years in.
>>do you pass?
Yes
>>do you ever think about detransitioning?
No
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>>5541111

>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?
Thinking back to my childhood, I can see that I've been having trans feelings for a long time. I'm going to say 11-12, but it's probably been longer than that. But I wasn't really conscious of it until 17.

>when did you come out?
I came out to my mom last month. I've heavily implied it to my friends - not that my cross-dressing hadn't lead them to suspect. I don't want to talk about it with my dad. He'll just laugh at me.

>when did you start hrt?
I want to talk to a counselor first. Starting transition is a big decision and I can't shake the worry that I'm insane, confused, or just stupid.

>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)
Obviously no. I definitely want FFS, though. Probably SRS, too.

>do you pass?
I will never ever pass
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>>5542709
forgot to mention I'm 19 now
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>>5542676
>public treatment/perception for being trans.
Feels bad man. I live in Mississippi, so I can't date without the risk of being beaten to death.

>Could you tell the story of how you came out?
My parents caught me crossdressing and asked if I wanted to be a girl. I said yes and they found me a gender therapist.

I'm lucky to have great parents. They've been extremely supportive.
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20
July 2015 to a few friends then everyone in November 2015
August 2015
6 Months exactly
Nope
Not really
Nope
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>>5542858

Ah, so it was luck. I'm >>5541929 and >>5541938. I was too afraid of being caught cross-dressing, so I never did. It's ironic getting caught helped you out, in my view. Does it seem that way to you? I am not sure how my parents would have taken it had we been in your and your parents' positions, but I know now it would not have been quite as bad as I thought it would be.

Well, Mississippi must suck for sure. I wish you more good luck, so you can move to a better state and live in peace.
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>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?
11
>when did you come out?
13
>when did you start hrt?
16
>how long have you been on hrt?
Off and on for 4 years
>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)
Orchiectomy 1 month ago
>do you pass?
No but orchie been helping desu
>do you ever think about detransitioning?
Used to, not anymore

D-does anyone wanna Skype?
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>>5541111
15
15
16
2 years
no
yes
no
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15
16
I can't transition until I graduate my religious high school and go to college :/
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>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?
13
>when did you come out?
Never
>when did you start hrt?
Haven't yet
>how long have you been on hrt?
Haven't started
>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)
None related to being trans.
>do you pass?
If I put in a lot of effort
>do you ever think about detransitioning?
Haven't transitioned
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>>5541111
>>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?
about 15, ive felt dysphoria since about 8 though but didnt know what it was
>>when did you come out?
about 2 months ago at 21
>>when did you start hrt?
at 21
>>how long have you been on hrt?
3 months
>>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)
nothing, i want SRS though, i think im fine without FFS
>>do you pass?
eh its hard to say (no gendered greetings and stuff here) but sometimes, mostly when i dont focus on passing as the opposite gender
>>do you ever think about detransitioning?
i havent really come far enough into transition to consider this
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>>5541111
>>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?
I had thoughts about wanting to be a girl since I was a little kid, I always pretended I was a girl when my little sister and I played pretend and stuff. I don't think I admitted to myself that I was trans until probably around 19
>>when did you come out?
25
>>when did you start hrt?
25
>>how long have you been on hrt?
2.5 years
>>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)
No
>>do you pass?
Surpassingly yes
>>do you ever think about detransitioning?
No, I'm pretty fucking happy these days
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>>5543501

Reminder that hip bones fuse shut between 18-23, so I would get on those hormones regardless of what everyone else thinks, if I were you.
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23
23
9 months
No surgeries (yet)
No
I have regrets for not starting earlier and I hate my ugly man skeleton with zero hips and very wide shoulders but I don't think about detransitioning
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>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?
14
>when did you come out?
18 to close friends, 20 to parents
>when did you start hrt?
21
>how long have you been on hrt?
Nearly 12 years
>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)
Not yet
>do you pass?
98% success rate
>do you ever think about detransitioning?
Nope, I'm happy.
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>>5541111
8
18
18
18 months
6 months ago srs
yes
never
>>
preschool
various times from 8-25
doctors aren't helpful
at all
in any way
yes somehow
literally never
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>>5541111
>>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?
ummm was boyish all my life, started feeling body dysphoria at 15, didn't learn that trans men existed until 27, started id-ing as trans shortly thereafter
>>when did you come out?
28
>>when did you start hrt?
28
>>how long have you been on hrt?
a little over 2 years
>>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)
top surgery about a year ago
>>do you pass?
yes
>>do you ever think about detransitioning?
no way
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>>5541938
>but stopped because I had been having headaches from a month, which is when I started spironolactone (not sure if that was the cause.)
Spiro does that. If you're still getting headaches from it, try taking it right after meals.
>Yet, I think I'll be dead before next January.
:(
>>5542970
Getting caught definitely helped, though my parents said they suspected it before then.
>I wish you more good luck, so you can move to a better state and live in peace.
I applied for graduate school at several universities on the west coast. Hoping I get accepted to one!
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>>5541111

5
20
21
2
None
If i dress up real nice and do my hair then yes. Otherwise when im really lazy i look like a cisgirl tomboy.
Nope, Never liked my masculine features. Especially facial hair, body hair. Deep voice. Most of which i luckily got rid of.
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>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?
Around 12 I think

>when did you come out?
Accidentally came out to my mom when I was having an emotional break down 3rd year of high school. 30 seconds later I tried to take it all back by telling her "oh it's probably just a phase mum nbd forget about everything i just said" Poor her, she was so confused. Biggest regret though, I wonder where I'd be now if I didn't chicken out.

>when did you start hrt?
>how long have you been on hrt?
Haven't done anything

>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)
Nope

>do you pass?
I'm azn+ftm so even just tying my hair back and putting on a hoodie some people are already "????u r??"

>do you ever think about detransitioning?
Not even sure if I'll ever transition
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>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?
14 or so. As soon as I discovered 420chan and "oooh that's what trans means" being a girl was no longer a fantasy but an attainable reality

>when did you come out?
16 to a few friends. Then to everyone else at 20 :(

>when did you start hrt?
20

>how long have you been on hrt?
10 months!

>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)
Voice feminization surgery at Yeson, 6 weeks ago. My voice passed before but not having to put on a fake voice helps me SO much psychologically and my confidence skyrocketed.

>do you pass?
Yep :)

>do you ever think about detransitioning?
Hahahahahahaha, no.
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>>5544018
How much did the voice surgery cost you?
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>>5544041
$7400 + $400 botox injection due to vocal tremors, $1100 flight to South Korea, $600 for my hotel, and probably $200-300 on food. So all and all about $10,000 total.
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>>5544060
>vocal tremors

What is that? It sounds scary.
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>>5543953

>Spiro does that. If you're still getting headaches from it, try taking it right after meals.

I switched to cypro maybe two weeks ago. The reason I'm not sure about the cause of the headaches was that I was knocked out (just a random crime) nearly 4 years before my headaches started, and something occurred right before the headaches that made me remember that time. They had decreased in intensity, even while I was on spiro, so I'm not sure if it really was the reminder or that my body just developed a tolerance to spiro.

> :(

If it were just being trans, I didn't plan on killing myself. I planned on moving it out on my own and getting a dog to keep me company then picking up some outdoor hobbies. But life seldom ever leaves you just one one problem to deal with at a time.

>Getting caught definitely helped, though my parents said they suspected it before then.

My father said I caught him blindsided, but I think my mother and grandmother knew better. But who knows how long they had been suspecting even if my speculation is correct?

>I applied for graduate school at several universities on the west coast. Hoping I get accepted to one!

So you're graduating college this year? Congratulations. What's your major?

>>5544086

I'm not that anon, but I think it's something like vibrato, but without being intentional. So it's something of a defect.
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>>5544086
A natural shakiness to my voice when I speak. It's subtle, and lots of people have it. The botox corrects it.
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>>5543647


It's not so much a social thing as it is a "not getting kicked out of high school" kinda thing.

I've been thinking of transitioning earlier like during the last 2-3 months of senior year, and trying to keep everything hidden from the administration I guess.
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>>5545105

>I've been thinking of transitioning earlier like during the last 2-3 months of senior year, and trying to keep everything hidden from the administration I guess.

You better do that then, lassie. It's not worth missing the time window where your hips can grow and being stuck with man-hips all of your life.
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>>5541111
>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?
13

>when did you come out?
22

>when did you start hrt?
21

>how long have you been on hrt?
5 months

>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)
nope

>do you pass?
generally yeah

>do you ever think about detransitioning?
occasionally
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>>5541111
>12
>18
>19
>2 years
>nope
>yes
>nope. I still could get surgeries if things were shitty for whatever reason.
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>>5541111
>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?
The age you before first grade starts.

>when did you come out?
20 or 21.

>when did you start hrt?
22, fml.

>how long have you been on hrt?
6 years.

>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)
Tracheal shave tomorrow morning at 6:00 am.

>do you pass?
Surprisingly yes, swimingly in fact. Constant attention from straight guys and lesbians. Heck at dinner last night the owner gave me a free appetizer without me asking for it, and then some guy tried to give me a glass a wine and offered to buy me desert, but I declined cause no booze before surgery. I also mode sometimes. My friends were all surprised that I'm getting this tracheal shave since they never even noticed that I had a little Adam's apple.

>do you ever think about detransitioning?
Absolutely not. Never have - not even during the first couple years when shit was really hard cause I didn't pass well.
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>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?
13
>when did you come out?
21
>when did you start hrt?
I haven't yet, 24 years old now.

I don't really know what the point would be anymore, I guess I've just been exposed to so much transphobia it just hurts to even think about. Plus I'd never be a real woman, so what's the fucking point.
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>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?
18
>when did you come out?
22
>when did you start hrt?
25
>how long have you been on hrt?
3 years
>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)
two months ago!
>do you pass?
n-no.. about 40% of the time.
>do you ever think about detransitioning
no
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>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?
18
>when did you come out?
19
>when did you start hrt?
Haven't yet, but soon, so ~20
>how long have you been on hrt?
Nada
>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)
Nothing gender related
>do you pass?
Surprisingly, with the right clothing, I pass about half of the time
>do you ever think about detransitioning?
Never have, hopefully never will
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14-15
18
18
18
5 months on just 100mg spiro by itself, 2 and a half with 3mg estradiol and 200 mg spiro
i don't have clothes and make yet so i don't know
no
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>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?
17 and 5 months
>when did you come out?
A week later
>when did you start hrt?
6 months later, 17, 11 months
>how long have you been on hrt?
31 months
>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)
Nope
>do you pass?
Stealth
>do you ever think about detransitioning?
No, transition is the only thing that has gone well in this miserable life.
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>>5542058
It's as if we're the same person.
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>tfw you're almost 30 and havent started hrt...
>>5545748
as one of the only people whove posted thats not under 21... how do you feel about starting hrt as late as you did? what surgery did you have? are you generally happy? do you think you will ever look how you want to look?
basically you need to tell me everything will be okay...
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>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?
Early or mid teens, maybe?
>when did you come out?
I told my dad at around 20 or so and my mom more recently, but even today I'm not really 'out' to anyone but my parents and doctors.
>when did you start hrt?
29.
>how long have you been on hrt?
About 8 months.
>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)
Nope.
>do you pass?
Nope, and full time boymode until I get rid of my facial hair at least; even then I don't have much of a chance of passing given my age and 6'4" height
>do you ever think about detransitioning?
Absolutely not. I of course wish had I started earlier and beat myself up a lot about not having done so, but even still I feel better about myself now than I have since starting puberty.
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>17
>not yet
>i just cant in my situation
>6 years if think would have go alright
>tumor, does that count ?
>no
>yes
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>>5541111

>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?
18 was when I became pretty sure, but I repressed it until now (20)

>when did you come out?
Haven't yet

>when did you start hrt?
Should be starting before the month's over.

>how long have you been on hrt?
Never

>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)
No

>do you pass?
I think I already can, but I refuse to let anybody see me in girlmode before I'm on hrt.

>do you ever think about detransitioning?
I'll need to see how this goes.
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>>5541111

>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?
14
>when did you come out?
15
>when did you start hrt?
16
>how long have you been on hrt?
2 years
>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)
no
>do you pass?
no ;_;
>do you ever think about detransitioning?
no, but i'm thinking about am heroing if i don't pass soon
>>
>>5541111
>>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?
21.
>>when did you come out?
Fuck that.
>>when did you start hrt?
SOON. Hopefully.
>>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)
At some point in the future assuming I don't die.
>>do you pass?
As my assigned sex? Pretty fucking spectacularly, unfortunately.
>>do you ever think about detransitioning?
Never will, no matter what.
>>
>>5541111
16
18
Hahahaha
0 years 0 month 0 days
No
No
I've considered killing myself and saving the time and enegy
>>
>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?
15
>when did you come out?
still haven't
>when did you start hrt?
stop
>how long have you been on hrt?
please
>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)
ugh
>do you pass?
nooooooooooooo
>do you ever think about detransitioning?
I'm in it to win it.
>>
>>5542858
>My parents caught me crossdressing and asked if I wanted to be a girl.
This is basically what early transition comes down to, but most of the time the parents will be scolding for it (as that was the suggested action from "medical professionals").

>>5542970
In general, early transition is about luck, there are only a few cases kids go out of their way to transition.

>>5543647
In cis females the average age is like 16, there are a lot of very early transitioning girls that ended up with boy hips.
>>
>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?
9
>when did you come out?
20
>when did you start hrt?
25
>how long have you been on hrt?
9 months
>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)
>do you pass?
no
>do you ever think about detransitioning?
no
>>
>>5543501
get a checking account set up the minute you turn 18 and order spiro. Get a PO box if you need to. I was in your situation and waited till i turned 19.
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>>5541111
>>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?
felt wrong or different all my life but was never knew what it was. stuff got worse and i found out i was trans at about 24ish didn't want to admit it to myself cause it somewhat disgusted me and I didn't even know the difference between transgender, transsexual and all that at the time. came to terms with it at 26.

>>when did you come out?
close friends and some of my relatives at 27

>>when did you start hrt?
27

>>how long have you been on hrt?
6 months on the day.

>>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)
no.

>>do you pass?
yes, as long as i don't open my mouth.

>>do you ever think about detransitioning?
No never.


And i still hate all you early transitioning girls =_=
Hope everything turn out the way you want it though.
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>>5542858
>My parents caught me crossdressing and asked if I wanted to be a girl. I said yes and they found me a gender therapist.
good on you but also REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE IF MY PARENTS HAD BEEN SUPPORTIVE I COULD HAVE GONE ON BLOCKERS AT 14 REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE NOW I'M A CAVEMANFACE PERMAHON
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>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?
20
>when did you come out?
not yet
>when did you start hrt?
21
>how long have you been on hrt?
7 months, though first 6½ I was on spiro which didn't do shit and now I'm on cypro
>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)
Nope
>do you pass?
No idea, sometimes i look feminine in the mirror sometimes i look like a guy
>do you ever think about detransitioning?
Sometimes I try to convince myself to be happy as androgynous male but it's to no avail
>>
>>5541111
>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?
18

>when did you come out?
18

>when did you start hrt?
around 19

>how long have you been on hrt?
2.5 years

>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)
No surgeries at all

>do you pass?
Ever since around the 7 month mark I started getting clocked less and less little by little
No issues at all anymore beside people just being surprised by my height for a chick

>do you ever think about detransitioning?
Sometimes I do, its a weird situation I'm in
I have so many opportunities and things in the works right now to be someone and do stuff I'd never have the opportunity to do if I were a guy, places to go, and people to meet, as well as I know I'm much more attractive as a chick than I was ever as a guy

However there is always that remembering how much easier life was as a guy. Sure life can be harder as a guy than a girl given dating and less opportunities. But as trans sometimes it gets frustrating figuring out your whole sexuality, where you fit on the kinsey scale etc.

It'd be hard enough to find someone that you'd get along with and find attractive that finds you attractive, as well as meet and etc. But now your entire potential pool is cut down to a much smaller puddle of people that would even consider dating you after just seeing you as a bucket list fuck or just 'interesting'.

On paper my life should be going great right now, but the crippling loneliness onset by that and the ways I've just learned to keep people out just only fuel into a slowly developing benzo addiction that I hope someone around me will be able to see and realize that I haven't been okay and help pull me out before its too late as my mother's bipolar and other mental disorders have just recently started to become prevalent in my own mind as well, and I fear some days for my stability and sanity.
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>>5546160
I started HRT late 24, 27 now. I felt shitty about starting it as late as I did but eh. I've had no surgery as of yet, but I'm gonna be getting FFS once laser/electrolysis is finally done in a few months.

I'm much more emotional, as in I cry more, but I feel I simply express myself more now because it's healthier than how I used to be... all bottled up and junk. I don't think I will ever look how I want to look, because it would take some serious prep time to look like Singularity every single day. But I'm much more content about my body than I was, even before surgery. Just the fact that testosterone isn't ravaging me anymore is a huge burden off my mind, let alone the fat redistribution and boobs. They're tiny but they're mine and the joy, anon. The joy. I lost lots of weight too, but that was most likely due to stress in the beginning. I pass most of the time I go out, but I do need a fair amount of prep time for that as of now. I assume things will be a little easier after my FFS though. I get dates just fine with either gender, considering a lot of my friends are either really chill or LGBT themselves. It helps to have cool and understanding friends. Support is vital.

You're gonna be ok anon. But transition is probably one of the hardest things I've ever done. The hardest part is starting. Be brave. Do it for you.
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>>5545703
Waiting for my surgery now (starts in 15 minutes), and omg my surgeon is such a hottie! He just came in to check on me, and was grabbing my cold little toes and caressing my feet as he spoke to me. Too bad he's already maried to a hot European model...
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>>5542858
This thread is useless without pics.
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>>5541111
>age discovered
19, but I could have seen the signs before
>come out
lol never
>hrt
after i move out of my parents house
>surgeries
need
>pass
no
>detransition
I don't know if I will ever pass so i might have 2
>>
>>5541111
>15
>19
>21
>3 months
>None
>Yes
>Never.
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>>5546618

I already have a checking account and almost ordered some pueraria mirifica when my dysphoria got kinda bad a week ago...
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>>5549161
ORDER MONES
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>>5541111
>like 4, but the specific wording and stuff when I was like 12
>I haven't
>I haven't
>I haven't
>I've been told I might
>no
>>
>>5541111

11
17-18
19
2+ years
no
yes
never!
>>
>>5541111
9-10
19
19
4.5 years
yes rhinoplasty + chin augmentation
yes
fuck no
>>
>all these early transitioners passing
ffuvkckoxcsdfjpvndfklvnjkdfvnjkfsbvnkdsbjkvsdn c nm\mnv HVUVJUM FVHYCK VH FUCK MY LIFE YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW MUCH I ENVY YOU
>>
>>5541111

>>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?
Confused at 6, Knew for sure at 17.

>>when did you come out?

26.
>>when did you start hrt?

25. 7 months before coming out.
>>how long have you been on hrt?

7 months.
>>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)

No. Will do orchi, trach shave, SRS and/or rhinoplasty.
>>do you pass?

Somewhat. Maybe 80% of the time.
>>do you ever think about detransitioning?

I wish I could've been happy as a cis male. I don't think about it though.
>>
>>5549756

What do you consider to be early?
>>
There's only two genders. If you got a dick you're a dood. Got a front hole and you a grill. Otherwise rid yourself of this world pls.
>>
>>5549894
<18
>>
>>5550027
>tfw started at 18
>tfw eventually will not be considered early tranny
>>
>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?
18
>when did you come out?
18
>when did you start hrt?
19
>how long have you been on hrt?
5.5 years
>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)
SRS - 2013
>do you pass?
Yes
>do you ever think about detransitioning?
Hell no
>>
simpler survey
mtf only
http://strawpoll.me/6539532
>>
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>>5541111
>>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?
4

>>when did you come out?
23

>>when did you start hrt?
25

>>how long have you been on hrt?
a year

>>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)
none

>>do you pass?
nope

>>do you ever think about detransitioning?
never

>tfw people who started hrt young should face a firing squad because its bullshit and cheats people like me out of happiness
>>
>>5550178
don't let anyone tell you you're not beautiful
>>
>>5550216
I'm a monster. All of mtfg said I am hideous and I should kill myself. I will never pass or be happy.
>>
>>5550220
yeah IKTF actually and I would love to genocide this new generation of early transitioners

at least you're beautiful in my eyes
>>
>>5550220
same desu, I really want to stop existing especially after hearing/seeing stuff about early transitioners
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>>5543895
I can tell by the way you talk. Cut the "ummmm" shit, tumblr.

>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?
Knew from 7 or so, 13 - learned the term.
>when did you come out?
Tried at 13. Called delusional. Jettisoned back into the closet. Out again, as of recently.
>when did you start hrt?
Kek
>how long have you been on hrt?
N/A, T is a goal.
>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)
No. Want too surgery and meta.
>do you pass?
Yes. 75% of the time.
>do you ever think about detransitioning?
Not really

18, FTM.
>>
>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?
Either 6 or 28. Always felt more like a girl but somehow didn't know 'trans' was a thing until I was 28. Before then I suppressed it because my only knowledge was Rocky Horror and Buffalo Bill and I felt like a freak.
>when did you come out?
29
>when did you start hrt?
29
>how long have you been on hrt?
10 months
>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)
No
>do you pass?
Luckily yes. Even in my late 20s pre-hrt I would get mistaken for a girl once in a while.
>do you ever think about detransitioning?
No
>>
>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?
Actually about uh. 22, then I spent years coming to terms with it, trying to establish I wasn't transtrending or just otherwise fucked up.
>when did you come out?
28
>when did you start hrt?
About a month afterwards
>how long have you been on hrt?
Three months.
>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)
Apart from wisdom teeth, nah.
>do you pass?
As a nineteen year old boy, yeah. A little more time and I should be able to do so more easily.
>do you ever think about detransitioning?
More like I get moments of panic that I'm still deluding myself, or that five years down the road I'll change my mind. Nothing serious or anything that hangs on for longer than a few minutes. I'm barely into it, but I like what's happening to me. I sound right, and that's bothered me for a long fucking time.
>>
>>5541111
>How old were you when you discovererd you're trans?
13, but I had feelings like that for a while before, just didn't really know what being trans was

>when did you come out?
14

>When did you start hrt?
my situation with hrt is a bit different, at around 15 I went on spiro, but I didn't start oestrogen until 3 days ago

>how long have you been on hrt?
3 years spiro, 3 days oestrogen

>Have you had any surgeries?
Nothing explicitly trans related, but I did have jaw surgery to fix my underbite, and I told the surgeon that I was trans so that when he did it he could get a more feminine result

>do you pass?
two things stopping me from passing now, my haircut, and my tiny boobs. doesn't really mean I'm attractive, it just means that I could pass.

>do you ever think about detransitioning?
I would rather kill myself than live my life as a man
>>
>>5547237
Holy shit, good luck anon
>>
>>5550063

>tfw eventually, starting a trans person on HRT after puberty will universally be considered barbaric malpractice and neglectful parenting
>tfw at least someone makes it through adolescence intact
>Just wish I could have been among them

>>5550178

Calm down, senpai. You remember that thread I told you about where the OP was a photo of you with other /lgbt/ trannies on /r9k/ asking whom of all of you they would fuck? One of the guys there said you were cute or that they would marry you. Though I am sure you don't remember me.
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>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?
10
>when did you come out?
17
>when did you start hrt?
16
>how long have you been on hrt?
5 years
>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)
Next year
>do you pass?
Yes
>do you ever think about detransitioning?
No but I still question if i should be a stealth woman with an srs vag or an out and proud tranny
>>
14, but then I repressed it until 20
21
21
2 yearsish
Nope
Pretty sure I do but sometimes when I'm feeling low it's easy to doubt people who say I do
Sometimes but I don't ever think about like actually detransitioning, just remind myself of the concept and that it's a possibility (and it usually reminds me why I transitioned in the first place b/c fuuuuuuuuuck detransitioning)
>>
>>5541111
>>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?
18
>>when did you come out?
21
>>when did you start hrt?
23
>>how long have you been on hrt? 1 .5 years but off and on
>>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)
no and never will slicing up your penis is for absolute batshit insane psych patients
>>do you pass?
yes
>>do you ever think about detransitioning?
never
>>
17/18
Still mostly in the closet, starting to come out though finally (21, almost 22)
Not yet
N/A
N/A
Sometimes.
N/A
>>
>>5541111
13
22
4 months ago
none yet ://////
more than half the time
sometimes, but it's too embarrassing. idk why i would have to, and if i did it would ruin me. i'd rather kill myself than detranistion. it's a nightmare
>>
>>5541111

>15 but had earlier hints
>25
>25 but before I came out
>4.5 months
>No
>Sometimes in pictures
>No
>>
>>5546897
Underrated post
>>
>>5541111
>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?
18.
>when did you come out?
Never.
>when did you start hrt?
20.
>how long have you been on hrt?
8 years.
>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)
No.
>do you pass?
No.
>do you ever think about detransitioning?
I never transitioned.
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>>5541465
How long can you go on just AA, what's the point of not taking estrogen now?
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>>5559824
Same. I am 1 year in.
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>>5559824
What?
>>
>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?
14
>when did you come out?
27
>when did you start hrt?
27
>how long have you been on hrt?
4 years
>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)
nope
>do you pass?
really well
>do you ever think about detransitioning?
never
>>
>>5541111

Between maybe 11 and 14 I beat off to the idea of having a swimsuit model's body, and discovered transsexuals and transitioning was a thing. But I blew off thinking about it as something I would do for a few years. Didn't know you could self-med until I discovered chan boards, and took me a while to realize I could've used my debit card to start at 16. Puberty blockers weren't a thing in the states until like 07 or so at select locations.
In college I started looking at transsexual porn, seeing transition timelines
I bought a girl's fit concert tee in 07 and wore black nail polish a few times, but didn't actually order some panties bras and breast forms til after graduating at 25. I did end up ordering estrogen and spiro over the internet, but only did it for a couple weeks when I was 26 and again when I was 27 to see what would happen. I think I briefly got some skin softness and really negligible breast discharge if I squeezed my nipples. I quit because I'm a fucking virgin and wasn't ready to be sterile, possibly non-functional, or to come out. I'm hoping to be able to afford laser, sperm-banking and hrt soon and then come out and transition at that time.

Between finally getting some sexual experience, and depending on the effects of hormones, I'll decide whether it's better to be a castrated transsexual or one with a vagina.

I wouldn't say I look like a woman, but there's a vague femininity about some of my features. I'm certainly good looking, not anything like the "son I am disappoint" guy. I guess I have something like a swimmer's body without the physical training - longish arms, musculature concentrated in the legs.
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>>5541111
Sometime between 5 and 10, I can't remember my childhood
13
18 fuck gatekeeping
6 months
No
Yes, I'm extraordinarily lucky and passed enough to be full time after about a month. I taught myself how to do makeup when I was a kid though, and I have great fashion sense / weighed 110 when I started so I also worked for it
No
>>
I realized I wanted hormones around age 14 realized I was actually trans around 16 or 17
Came out to parents and a few others at 18
Started hrt at 19
Been on it for a year
No surgeries
Sometimes I pass, but I don't get out much, so I cant really say for sure
HELL NO.
>>
>>5559824
8 years on hrt without transitioning? thats pretty weird, sounds like future me desu
>>
>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?
When I first put my finger on it? 14
When I first had "I want to be an grill" feels? 10? 9?
>when did you come out?
18
>when did you start hrt?
18
>how long have you been on hrt?
It's self-med, so outrageously expensive for a student. So, on and off since last december. Probably 6 months solid.

>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)
Not for trans stuff.

>do you pass?
I don't think so. I get "miss"d and "love"d (north england, so that's normal), and "darling"d so I guess I pass sometimes

>do you ever think about detransitioning?
Yes. Then I realise that that would do nothing good.
>>
>>5541379

You mean you started estrogen at 13, or just puberty blockers/AAs?
>>
>>5541111
>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?
19
>when did you come out?
19
>when did you start hrt?
19
>how long have you been on hrt?
20 months
>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)
no
>do you pass?
visually
>do you ever think about detransitioning?
no
>>
>>5561910

>visually

Meaning your voice is shit?
>>
>>5544445
I don't know what you're going through, but please try to push through it :(

>>5546897
I laughed. I'm sorry, anon.

>>5550220
Kayla you look fine. Mtfg is just mean.

>>5561775
AAs. I didn't start E until I was 16.
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>>5560491
Transitioning is too difficult.
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>>5541111
10
haven't
25
11 months
no
i say no but i sometimes i get called "ma'am"d or "miss"d when in boys clothes when i let my hair down.
no
>>
>>5559824
I'm curious to know what you look like, if that's alright for me to ask.
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>>5541111

>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?
>when did you come out?

I came out as trans at 13.

>when did you start hrt?

16.
>how long have you been on hrt?

2 1/2 years.

>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)

Nope.

>do you pass?

Yes.

>do you ever think about detransitioning?

All the time. Mainly because of no confidence. I'm getting over it and I could never actually bring myself to do it.
>>
5
11
23 lived as myself, there was no traditional "transition"
2
nope
duh
I can't even be somebody else. lol. Actually!. Detransition me into a cyborg, that'd be so cool!
>>
>>5547237
No need for surgery
>>
>>5550220
Post pics. Mild chaser here, will give reliable /10
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>>5541111
>found out at 11
>came out at 17
>hrt at 17
>hrt for 8 months
>no surgery
>pass fairly well except for voice
>>
>>5566582
pix?
>>
I thought 18 would be fairly decent to start but looks like most people started before that even. Is 18 pretty old to start, Should I bother or will I get screwed by age now?
>>
>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?
12
>when did you come out?
26
>when did you start hrt?
22 and 26
>how long have you been on hrt?
15 months
>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)
no
>do you pass?
no
>do you ever think about detransitioning?
Will detransition if I still don't fully pass by the 2 year mark.
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>>5566844
It varies person to person. At 18, if you're sure, I would say start NOW, LIKE RIGHT NOW!!!!!!! YOU WILL STILL GET REALLY GOOD RESULTS AT 18, BUT DON"T HESITATE!!! HONESTLY!!!!!!! START NOW!!!!!
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>>5566977
Are you planning to have kids? Irreversible infertility will have well set in by the 2 year mark for sure.
>>
>>5541111
M E N T A L I L L N E S S
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>>5566988
Not thinking about kids honestly. Can't afford them and don't have the patience for them.
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>>5567014
That's good, because semi-impotence will be an issue as well.
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>>5567021
I really did think about it a lot before hrt but I was starting to get a receding hairline and my face was getting manlier by the day. Had to make a choice.
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>>5541111
>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?
~18 but had thoughts about it earlier than that
>when did you come out?
19
>when did you start hrt?
a few months after turning 20
>how long have you been on hrt?
almost 2 months
>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)
nope
>do you pass?
nope, and probably won't
>do you ever think about detransitioning?
not yet
>>
>>5541111

>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?

16

>when did you come out?

17

>when did you start hrt?

18

>how long have you been on hrt?

1 year and 7 months

>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)

no

>do you pass?

yes

>do you ever think about detransitioning?

not ever, in a 8 month relationship right now living a normal life and happier than i've ever been
>>
>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?
Misleadin question but I was sure that I was trans about 2 years ago. Have wanted to be a girl / felt like one since idk 6 years old?
>when did you come out?
1 year ago at 18
>when did you start hrt?
Not yet, slow process.. but in 3-4 months I'll get mine
>how long have you been on hrt?
0
>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)
none
>do you pass?
not yet atleast
>do you ever think about detransitioning?
Sometimes when I get too anxious, I feel like I'd be better of not trying to look like a girl
>>
>>5541111
>>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?
I was young, when I realized I wanted to be the opposite sex. But didn't truly know I was trans till like 16.
>>when did you come out?
I came out around 19-20
>>when did you start hrt?
November 2013, 21 years old
>>how long have you been on hrt?
About 2 years
>>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)
Like I have that kind of money
>>do you pass?
I don't think so, but my experience says otherwise.
>>do you ever think about detransitioning?
Sometimes. But then I realize I actually am a much happier person now.
>>
>>5541111
16
19
One week before 20
7 1/2 months
no
no, but I've gotten ma'amed like 6 times.
no

Life is hard... I only recently started to work towards passing.
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>>5541111

>>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?
A little kid, I've pretty much always known

>>when did you come out?
Started telling friends at around 12, was fully out to everyone including family by 16

>>when did you start hrt?
18, ftm so couldn't self-med, unsupportive parents meant had to wait until a legal adult

>>how long have you been on hrt?
4 years, I think, don't really keep track any more

>>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)
Top surgery a year and a half ago

>>do you pass?
100%, I'm stealth

>>do you ever think about detransitioning?
No, I've never even considered it, that was never an option, I'd much rather die than have to do it, and my transition is "successful" so there isn't any possible reason I would want to anyway.
>>
>>how old were you when you discovered you're trans?
12
>>when did you come out?
16
>>when did you start hrt?
17
>>how long have you been on hrt?
about 8 months
>>have you had any surgeries? (if so, when?)
not sure
>>do you pass?
lol
>>do you ever think about detransitioning?
no
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