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pic related is what I'm aiming for in the near future.
>have qt gf
>she usually talks in a really gay voice; think the female version of a flamboyant femboy
>get up to lewd times earlier
>she suddenly says a sentence in a really deep, husky voice, that I have never even made the faintest acquiantance with before
I have no idea where that came from, but I want more.
Am I the only one in this fucking tumblr-ridden general that prefers soft bodies over abs and muscle? And by soft I don't mean fat, just delicious flat bellies that retain all the softness of a girl. Pic related.
>inb4 blue board
I need to get banned before I begin classes or I'm gonna fail, so get fucked.
Both are great as far as I'm concerned.
It's def more tumblr to prefer soft over fit bodies. All the same I can go for either.
Trying to be fit myself though. Shallow and health reasons.
Straight tumblr sure.
Lesbian tumblr shits itself over thick girls. It's either skinny white girls or thick brown girls on all the lesbian junk. For some reason no thick white girls unless they're fatfucks in that pity-body-positive attempt and really no skinny brown girl stuff either.
That or you're looking at the underage babydykes. That are mainly bi/pan/queer chicks so they mainly like dudes.
>lilaccu is making a nozoeli doujin with het marriage
What the fuck man. Why would she do this.
Eh way too muscly for my tastes. I prefer fit people myself as I'm fit and I expect the same care but full on abs? We're women yunno kinda prefer to still have girly features.
S-so we're all guys here right?
Also greetings from /v/pol/, first time i come to this degenerate board but keep the cuties coming.
This is a blue board but everyone's posting nsfw images, is this normal here? Because i have some other stuff.
>ever allowing nsfw
It's just that there are no specific /lgbt/ mods dingus
Not a trubian. Can't be. True admirers of girls don't have preferences. They love both the thick, the thin, the muscle, the average, the soft, the tough, tiny and tall. From cup AA to J. From bubble butt to thunder thighs, long hair to short, it's all good. This is a true lesbian. One without bounds. And very little standards besides a need for vagina and no tolerance for gruesome obesity or snapable bones.
>got harrassed by old drunk guy at work until security got him out yesterday
>have dream about being chased by various phallic monsters and now can't get back to sleep
Bit too on the nose, subconscious. Thanks, Freud.
Bodybuilding is a huge part of my life and it's incredibly important for me to be fit and continue getting bigger.
That being said, I would actually prefer to date a girl who isn't as muscular as me and instead is soft and delicate. Though the girl in that picture is small enough.
Pic related is close to the ideal body for myself but not my partner.
>tfw no cardio bunny gf
As much as I like her body, personally I'm aiming more for pic related, should be there soon.
>gf and I play MMO's and shit like that together
>She's jap and has one of THE cutest names you can imagine
>Wants to use it in a new game that's coming out
>Someone else takes it a few seconds before she can get it
>your gf will never play mmos with you
>or kiss you
>or be exclusive
I have made a huge mistake. She cuddles, we have sex, she's nice to me. I'm even her favorite. But this is not comfy. 4chan, how do I stop hooking up with girls that hurt me? I just want an underachieving nerd girlfriend that likes to be physical and doesn't know how to cook. I keep falling for these vibrant personalities that tear me apart, though.
>I just want an underachieving nerd girlfriend that likes to be physical and doesn't know how to cook
Finally, low enough standards that even I can reach!
>I just want an underachieving nerd girlfriend that likes to be physical and doesn't know how to cook.
Fuck, I know how to cook.
Stumbled at the final hurdle.
I know what you mean though, my ex was this whirlwind of passion and colour and everything.
She was amazing to be around.
She was also horrific to be in a relationship with, since she'd go out for half an hour, and come back three days later having slept over at a friend's house, been to an antifa march, then slept over at said friend's house again, the finally come home.
All without a text or anything.
It pretty much destroyed me, but for a long time the thrill that was just 'her' was worth it.
Guys with penises and a mental condition who think they're a lesbian please go.
>tfw no japanese gf
They are LITERALLY the only race I can fantasize about now.
I'm sorry but your concept of racism might be unethical for me.
Might as well call me sexist for not wanting to sex men.
>might get paid to dick around disney world for a year again
I'm excited, lesgen, I plan on kissing way more princesses' friends this time
I'm sure that you're cute! Hell, I wasn't even a performer, just an attendant, so i wasn't paid to be cute either
I know music crushes was a couple threads ago but I just saw Nightwish a few nights ago and I cannot get over Floor. Perfection in a woman imo.
I remember being offered that Job awhile ago in Cali said no because standing around all day seems boring as heck and I know it's decent pay but family is already rich and Disneyland is relatively far away from where I live. Don't think I'll do any jobs where my looks are involved unless I somehow tank college in which case fuck it I guess.
I dunno, doesnt sound so bad.
Sometimes, a job that isnt particularly intellectually stimulating is kinda enticing. Just stand around, make little kids' days by quoting off the movies at them, then go home and engage in godless lesbianism with gf.
Sounds nice honestly.
W-well yeah there's that.
Damn anon, why you gotta bring me crashing back to reality
Yeah, Blade and Soul. Anyone here gonna be playing it, or any other MMO for that matter?
>gf played as a reverse trap during CBT
>Giggles every time someone thinks her character is male
It's fun. I don't plan on working at the parks forever, I want to go corporate eventually, but a couple years looks good on a resume. Plus everyone there is pretty gay so I feel more comfortable flirting with girls there than i do in my hometown. Hopefully I'll meet a qt and she'll propose during the fireworks.
I want to believe
Yeah I suppose so. I know it's weird but a part of me would also like to be a housewife.
>tfw you can't procreate with another female
Maybe it's because I'm kinda narcissistic but raising me to be an even better me than me would be pretty cool. Would prob need a father figure tho. I guess my brother could work.
Seriously tho there might be an influx of clones because if this process if it gets perfected which will be neat.
Negative effects of incest have been way overblown by the media. First generational incest rarely has serious negative effects. It's when incest keeps happening over several generations where problems arise but even then it's generally only blood issues not retardation or things of that nature. The more you know I guess. Not like it really matters.
>work at small print shop
>lots of people have left over past year
>last few new hires quit within a week
>now only two people at job that needs at least four-five
>want to quit because I can't stand boss and it's not even my field
>would feel bad for qt that I work with, who would be stuck with all the work
That said, I'm looking for another job and if I get a better offer, I should bail like everyone else did too, right?
Just out of curiousity, which server are you guys gonna be playing on? A friend we're gonna be playing with wanted to roll on Mushin, but it's probably gonna be really overcrowded there, and I don't know if I feel like dealing with that.
Anyway, I hope you guys had better luck with the name reservation than us. I'm still pretty salty about it.
Honestly I'm not even sure what server we're rolling on yet.
So far all I know is that we're going US, because the majority of the players are US based (there's me, in the UK, and one guy in Australia and that's it pretty much).
As for name, I didnt shell out to get the fancy version so I havent been able to name reserve.
But then, my name's never been taken in anything in over a decade. So I should be alright!
If not I'll be hella mad.
You're absolutely retarded if you think fetishization of one particular nation of people isn't racist as fuck. Not just against that one population, but against pretty much all the other ones. You absolutely can't justify that without some dumbass, racist shit as a premise.
Eat shit, weeb.
So, like... does not finding men attractive make me sexist?
Does not finding blondes as attractive as redheads make me hairist?
Does not finding children attractive made me ageist?
You are being foolish anon.
People like what they like.
Finding asian women or black women or white women or latin women more attractive than others isnt racist at all, it's just in what you find attractive.
Of course, some people might behave in a racist fashion in the pursuit of that attraction, or might ascribe to racist stereotypes because of or as a cause of that attraction, but the base attraction itself isnt racist.
You fucking nigger.
Those aren't equalitive. You're just mad because you've been called out. This is why you're alone. Liking flat noses is fine. Liking thin lips is fine. Liking brown eyes and black hair is fine. It's called having a type. But "I'm only into Japanese people" is unjustifiable tripe. There are non-japanese people that look like that, act like that, think like that. And there are japanese people that don't look like that, act like that, think like that. You're generalizing traits to a large smear of the human genome that are unrelated -- that's racism.
Think before you speak, you fucking doublenigger.
>LA LA LA I'M NOT LISTENING
HOLY FUCK LMAO I CAN'T BELIEVE YOU ACTUALLY DID THAT HAHAHA
No, I just find it funny that youre calling me mad and alone because I find japanese girls attractive.
When I'm not overly mad, especially not in comparison to you, I'm not single, and I dont find have any particular attraction to the japanese 'type'.
The only reason I can see for you not responding to my argument is you somewhere inside that broken head of yours you know you're wrong. So hey if you want to be an ignorant fool and basically do the equivalent of going "LOL DIDN'T READ" go ahead nobody is gonna think you're very bright.
There's nothing to respond to. You farted on your keyboard and expect a response? Create a coherent post that isn't meme vomit and unconnected identity accusations and you'll get one.
Seems plenty coherent to me. Is the lack of commas and perfect punctuation scary to you? Oh sorry I didn't create a draft for you grade are you my English teacher? Seriously you're just finding an excuse to avoid an argument because you don't have a valid response. Also this is the Internet not only that this is 4chan if you wanna chicken out because of "identity accusations" sounds like the only one who needs a safe space here is you.
You're not making any stance. You're not attacking any argument. You're just throwing a bunch of random ass insults at the wall and hoping something sticks. And you're still doing it.
Anon, you might have brain damage. That can happen when atrophy sets in. Seek medical attention. I've seen this in caged mice.
Fuck, I hate how these tumblr idiots have invaded our board. Thank God they're small in numbers.
But still, I wasn't expecting that from her, the person who half of her drawings are completely yuri NozoEli, and now she's making a NozoEli doujin with het marriage. I feel betrayed in a way, yes I'm a filthy purityfag and hope she's just doing that for the sake of forced drama and not because she likes to NTR characters with men.
>trying to make shit about who the poster behind an anonymous post could be, instead of what the post literally contains
>tries to claim this is ideal, classic 4chan behavior
Drown yourself in a vat of AIDS shit, my man. You're so newfag that you probably fell in ass first from Reddit just last year. What's great about an anonymous image board is we can leave all that lowbrow forum politicking behind and call each other faggots in peace. Anonymous is anonymous, retard.
Fine let me go plain and simple and start over. How is having a preference towards a specific race or culture or even fetishizing it racist? The best comparison I can see is I like girls so if I open a door for another woman to be nice to her but I don't do that for a man I guess you could say that's sexist but I don't hate the man and it causes no negative effect to our society if I do that or if a man who likes women did that too.
Now let's say I'm sexually attracted to Asian women but I happen to not be attracted to a lot of Black Women. The only black people I hate are awful people and I'd hate them regardless of their race because being awful has nothing to do with race it has to do with culture and such. So if I open the door for an Asian woman I like but not a black woman or hell someone of my own race. You really think that's someone racist or negative to society?
I know that feel anon. It's a personal annoyance of mine when characters claim to like girls exclusively and/or have no interest in men suddenly start a relationship with a dude.
Some irrational part of me is just like "Shit like this is why dudes think they can keep pestering me about letting them fuck me." The whole "Lesbian with one exception" trope is getting old.
If NozoEli isn't a cannon yuri couple then disregard what I said.
Don't assume that because we don't see many of them here that they're small in numbers. These are the people that are destroying academia and making first world countries full of weak cry babies. They have bigger numbers than some think.
NozoEli isn't canon, but lilacc ships them hard, so it really took me by surprise that in her doujin she would depict het marriage with the characters. Actually my rage isn't even about the characters, but the author, for example if Takemiya Jin were to suddenly pull a het work I would feel upset and betrayed but that's only cause I'm autistic and a raging purityfag.
While I agree with you fully it's probably best if you don't argue with those types on here. They come and go and arguments just derail the thread. These people aren't the rational types so arguing just makes it worse.
Well, a better method would be to make both oocyte and sperm from stem cells, it's the only reasonable way to try to avoid getting large segments of identical DNA in the final zygote (ie assign a maternal and paternal chromosome from all 23 pairs and make the oocyte contain maternals etc). Otherwise the maternal-paternal mix (both on a full chromosome level and segmental level due to recombination) in the oocyte will have too much similarity to the sperm and you'd probably get something nonviable or defect.
So basically, getting a complete clone of yourself, in terms of DNA nucleotide bases. (You'd lose out on epigenetics such as parental imprinting though.)
It's not like sibling incest. Siblings share 50% of their DNA on average. It's like identical twin or self incest. You're reproducing with someone that shares 100% of your DNA. That's pretty bad. You're going to lose 50% of the difference between every pair of chromosomes.
>only blood issues not retardation or things of that nature
I think you'd enjoy reading about the Finnish disease heritage. Or Dor Yeshorim. Personally I have a friend with unrelated Finnish parents whose younger sibling died of Krabbes disease, and I saw a couple with, again, unrelated parents from the same Middle Eastern country with two kids - both with a severe, extremely rare, genetic disorder that leads to blindness, mental retardation, various organ failures, and death before reaching their teenage years.
Indeed these are examples of late consequences of bottlenecks or selective breeding, but saying that generations of inbreeding generally causes "only blood issues" (whatever that's supposed to mean) is a pretty severe downplay, when you could have any possible kind of disease suddenly appearing.
Incest defender here. So what are the odds of a brother and sister who have kids together something going wrong if there hasn't been any incest from at least 3rd cousins or beyond (that we know of) for at least 3 generations.
>mfw complained about being horny 24/7 yesterday in last thread and it's still going on
Let's start a Horny Lesbians Club, for all of us sexually frustrated ladies.
It's more than if it weren't incest, and not insignificant. That by default means that regardless of whether you approve or not of incestuous relationship, you should disapprove of putting a child at risk like that. I don't care about incest, but the moment you reproduce, you're potentially putting yourself in a position of child neglect.
But what if they really love eachother. I know this is a controversial topic but if two people love each other even if the odds of something going wrong with the kid shouldn't they at least try instead of saying "well the odds of our kid having a disease, etc is a bit higher than a normal relationship so we shouldn't even chance having a happy family because something might go wrong"?
It's weird how some women genuinely just don't have a sex drive. I wonder what the reason for that is. I hope I don't lose mine. Mine has been going strong since I was 13 and I'm 21 now. If you don't mind me asking how old are you now?
They can use any other number of methods for having children. Putting a future child at a heightened risk of genetic disease for any reason is unacceptably selfish. The chances aren't just a bit higher, they're significantly higher. You share a lot of your genes with immediate family members and the moment there's someone in your family tree carrying a genetic disease, you're heightening the risk of disease by conceiving a child in incest. If you carry a genetic disease, your immediate family members have a significant chance of also being carriers themselves.
What it boils down to is there's a heightened risk, no matter how large, of producing a child with a disease while knowing the risks. Love isn't an excuse for putting others in danger like that. The only reason I don't mind incest is that we have the technology and the knowledge to know that the only line not to cross is reproduction.
Do you easily get along with other grills, leggbuttinas?
Effectively I have 3 female friends besides my sister (one of which I rarely see around) and two guy friends. These are my close friends.
Beyond this, everyone I know is pretty much guys, even in college (sans 1 girl I usually work with). This is because it's a million times easier for me to hit it off and relate to guys.
Girls on the other hand, not only are they usually very hard to relate to, if they're pretty I'll be all spaghetti, to the point I start thinking I look bad in comparison to them and lose my confidence.
I want to change that.
What's the trick?
I don't have any friends (not even online), but putting that aside, females don't like me so I get along better with males. I am however unable to befriend anyone because I lack interest in building relationships.
>just one person I might sit with so I don't eat alone
I get along with grills my age only when forced to (like my research group) or when they're bubbly however I work perfectly with older women. Otherwise, I gravitate towards guys naturally. They share my hobbies and are easier to kid with.
Anyway, you're asking on the wrong website friend.
My best friend is a man and I get along pretty well with his girlfriend. I've got a female friend too who's into games and anime but she's straight and was more than ambiguous so I'm putting some distance with her these days. I'm friends with another straight girl who had a crush on me and hated me a while for it but now we're okay. I get along with my collegues too, but I'm more comfortable with men than women, and I'm not really the hyper sociable type.
Oddly enough I seem to get along more with bi and straight girls not sure why. Maybe because they're generally more girly and I'm into that kinda thing? Anyways I used to have a much bigger social life with a lot of women but friend wise I only have 2 female friends and one is a 11 years old :I and the other is a Hardcore Christian (but holy fuck she's hot). The other two women I know i'm currently dating :D
Last night I hanged out with this girl that happens to be bulimic. We had a few drinks and she had to take a cab home so she's coming back to pick up her ride in an hour or so, probably hang out some more and all that.
The issue is that since we were drinking and alcohol has a lot of calories she puked in the bathroom sink. I don't have an issue with eating disorders since most of the girls I go out with have them.
But how can I tell her nicely to do that shit in the toilet? Specially since she claims to be over t and I don't want to be an ass. Really I only know because my roommate told me.
>one is a 11 years old
>the other is a Hardcore Christian (but holy fuck she's hot)
>other two women I know i'm currently dating :D
This whole post
>Incest defender here
>So what are the odds of a brother and sister who have kids together something going wrong
Given an allele x, only present in one parent (who is heterozygote), the probability of both siblings inheriting x is 1/4. The probability of the child inheriting x from both siblings is 1/4. Thus, the child has a 1/16=0.06 risk of being homozygous for x.
If the other parent is also heterozygote for an allele not found in the first parent, the child's risk of being homozygote for one or both of these is 1-(15/16)^2=0.12.
Now, I found varying numbers for the number of recessive alleles with a major impact on fitness carried in individual human genomes, as it varies with population, method used, definition of "major impact", etc.
Assuming 2 or 4 with zero parental consanguinity, the risk is then 1-(15/16)^4 = 0.23 or 1-(15/16)^8 = 0.40 for the child to be homozygous for at least one of these alleles. So, 6-40% risk of unknown major bad thing such as miscarriage, metabolic disorder, mental retardation, etc.
It's purely theoretical calculation and as sibling marriage is extremely taboo in most (all?) cultures I doubt there's any good actual data.
I did read a case article on a gypsy sibling mating pair with Waardenburg syndrome though. It was one of the most surreal things I've ever read
>They share my hobbies and are easier to kid with
Same and this makes me so sad because I have always wanted female friends but there never are meaningful things in common with each other.
I'm sorry for saying this but young women in real life are fucking stupid, I have only encountered around 7 young women in here (4chan) that didn't seem utterly idiotic, and around 4 of them were here in lesgen (which I trust they were women and not men pretending or trannies).
Young men are very stupid too, like holy shit many dudes that literally have no clue what they are talking about and other stupid stuff which is specially annoying since they are louder and more opinionated than girls, but unfortunately I have encountered way more young males that seemed like reasonable people than I have encountered young females. Not to mention men can take jokes considered offensive by many or at least don't mind it while women mostly can't.
Yeah. Didn't always used to. But I like the female friends I have. Guy friends too. It's oddly a pretty even split among our regular group and besides one couple none have dated each other. One gay dude that's my best bud, another lesbian, one bi, the rest straight.
In uni I had more guy friends but I don't think that was intentional as much as my major being engineering and the school itself having more guys by 60/40.
I do find it easier to make guy friends than girl for similar reasons you have. Getting nervous if they're pretty though that's easy to get over. Plus it's occurred where I wanna make a straight girl friend, we hang out, shopping, eating giant salads, dancing, girly shit like that and then they find out I'm lesbian and it's just done. Never hear from her again.
One thing I notice different about the straight sexes is how they talk about sex. I refuse to be friends with girls that have or wanna fuck my guy friends because I don't need to know more intimate details about how small or weird or bad or good or odd my guy friends are in bed. God damn am I happy to not be a guy holy shit how are they not more insecure with how straight girls shit on them sometimes?
Straight dudes just either go on about boobs/nipples or if the pussy was good or bad. They really don't get into minor shit. I guess lesbians are more like that too. Bitching about sex partners it's either she was a princess pillow or you came or you came multiple times. That's about it.
Depends where they come from. When I joke or say offensive stuff my female collegues or friends don't look at me like I'm some kind of monster, and most of the time they overbid. Maybe you're just around stupid people.
>Maybe you're just around stupid people
How do you objectively measure the stupidity of people, though? I was taking CS in the best private university in my country with an admission exam from Caltech and shit, in which you needed to score between the 70 or 80-100% to get admitted, and the test evaluated mathematical and linguistical aptitudes. Is that not enough to filter the retards? Yeah, apparently not.
Most people in my classes were normies, completely average people. They were there to memorize the theoretical stuff and learn how to program, did not like to get engaged in debates about related topics, most of them were a complete joke when it came to ethics too, putting their morals and feelings before anything else, just showing how self-centered these faggots are. The most heated conversations I ever had were with teachers, young people are simply fucking stupid [spoiler]except me of course[/spoiler].
>mfw I'm on another lesbian forum and someone asks if we "enjoy watching male-on-male porn" and I can't respond with "No, I'm a fucking lesbian." without getting banned
Yeah girl friends I hang with we talk a lot of shit in joking way to each other. It's not just me either. I've seen my mom and her work friends and they talk some damn shit and offensive fucked up jokes.
Either you don't get to know girls well enough to be at that shittalking stage of friendship or you're one of those "I'm not like other girls" sluts. If you wanna be on dudes dicks that bad just go sit on one.
>enjoy watching male-on-male porn
Just how. How can you enjoy this shit, especially when you're a lesbian? And now it reminds me that one of my collegues was watching gay porn of his fucking phone. At work. And that he is supposed to be straight. Yeah, right.
>I was taking CS in the best private university in my country with an admission exam from Caltech and shit, in which you needed to score between the 70 or 80-100% to get admitted, and the test evaluated mathematical and linguistical aptitudes. Is that not enough to filter the retards? Yeah, apparently not.
Wow this sounds like some shit a retarded person would say to prove they aren't retarded. Like damn.
Also man do I hate to brag but I always laugh at baby cs fuckers on 4chan bragging about their school when I actually went to MIT and Carnegie Mellon for shit and met far less pretentious cs fuckers. Like "waah I went to a school almost as good as Caltech". Bitch that brag don't mean shit unless you went to actual Caltech. Don't brag unless it's legit shit it seems stupid.
Right? I mean, at least with straight porn you can focus on the woman or whatever. With gay male porn there's literally nothing to look at but giant hairy man-dicks covered in shit. Utterly revolting.
Yeah that's why I hang out here, mostly. I don't go there often.
In middle school I was a little into yaoi, like naruto I wanna say was it and then I saw hinate/sakura stuff and realized I just liked cute girls and stuck with that for a while until I thought "wait...this is kinda gay" so I stayed in the closet and away from anime for a long time. Out of the closet now, can't get back into anime so whatever.
I really fell hard for the meme of this uni, expensive as shit but its strong point are humanities and shit like law and business. It actually is good for engineering, but not for a field as math-centered as CS. I got really disappointed when I saw the public university in the capital got fucking cool subjects, like recursivity, several courses on probability, set theory, cryptography, quantum computing, introduction to artificial intelligence, etc., while in the private university I was in was stuck with meme bullshit courses like learning Swift so you can create your Applel apps!!!!, Java cuz that's what companies use lmao plus it's ez, vidaygaymen design!1111!!!, and the most interesting thing in the program was neural networks and computer security, which both are also taught at the public university in the capital.
I wasted two years of my life and money kill me.
>curious as a teenager or whatever
I absolutely didn't give a shit about sex when I was a teenager; I hated myself too much for that. I realized I was gay when I fell in love with one of my classmates, at 19. Now I remember all the shit I did when I was a kid and can't believe I didn't realize it sooner. But yeah, never been curious about two set of balls swinging and touching each other.
I'm sorry, I went and ranted about the people in the university in that post, but you can see the rant on the university here >>5543235
I got deceived by my family, they convinced me to go straight to that university because both of my parents are from there. I wanted to go to MIT but didn't even apply because I did absolutely nothing worth mentioning during HS and figured I would get trashed even with my oppression points.
Figured that much. Why do you even go there? Can't post anything without offending someone and getting banned.
>tfw ex gf's mom is being really nice and supportive to me
Might miss her more than my ex
Pretty much this, it's generally just a kinda comfy place to sometimes read heartwarming stories.
I mean, I love all you fuckers to death and back, but this place is rarely heartwarming.
I want to get fit but i dont have motivation
Send help :(
Maybe if i get fit i could find a gf or something
I'm gonna make a thread saying that I exclusively date Japanese women and can't comprehend why women of other races get angry when they ask me out and I reject them. How butthurt-worthy is this? I know the anon above saying that it's racist is a troll, he/she/it/xhir has replied with the same thing in several past occasions, but I think leddit would get legit mad on this one considering most of them are far left libturds.
I'm worried they might immediately see through the ruse because of a fresh account, though, can someone here lend me one?
After a week or 2 you actually start to love going to the gym so just do it if you have time to.
I feel bad about having to stop going for some time because I need some work experience while I study, but yeah just do it, anon. Being fat is horrible. People are a lot nicer to me than when I was a fat fuck.
I don't think it will work with a throwaway account, but whatever. I would use a 3yo account if it wasn't already banned there. Also, please give me feedback, I'm about to submit:
"Throwaway account because people that know my main account also post here and all that.
Ok soooooo, I got called a racist by a friend when I confessed to her that I have a preference over how Japanese women look when compared to girls of other races, and to be quite honest I realized I only date Japanese women because they are just extremely gorgeous. I felt guilty when she told me that I was being racist, since I actually have turned down the advances three girls, two Hispanic and one black, since I wasn't physically attracted to them, and yes, among the things I wasn't attracted to were their races, but I still don't really think that's straight-out racist. I mean, I think that I have the choice of dating whoever I want for whatever reason, since it's a decision that affects my person. On the other hand, by turning someone down for their race I am not violating their rights as people, they may feel offended but that's a completely subjective reaction up to them. Note that I would never deny the rights a person has regardless of anything, such as a job, education, housing, water, etc., so I don't think I'm being unethical. I also think that if you can say that rejecting certain people because of their race is racist, then I'm also sexist because I reject men for being men, and people that do drugs for doing drugs... and things like that, but correct me if I'm wrong please :S I don't want to lose her friendship just because she thinks I am a racist bigot... ,-,"
Given no one replied I submitted it https://www.reddit.com/r/actuallesbians/comments/40vhhw/race_preferences_are_racist/
And also check out this masterpiece of thread https://www.reddit.com/r/actuallesbians/comments/40v2bm/is_what_i_did_inappropriatecriminal/
I've seen her around the times I've lurked. I remember once she got really mad because someone posted about not being attracted to black girls. Who then got banned for being "racist". kek
>First of all, I am not one of these "Gamer gurl XDD" type of girls
>I usually try my best not to reveal that I am a female for tons of reasons, such as avoiding being hit on
>not being unfarily priviledged just because I am a girl, stuff like that
>That also makes me avoid voice chatting services becase when I do I can't usually keep my nerve
>I don't want to start any gamergate bullshit (fuck off /r/KotakuInAction)
>Should I stop pretending to be a guy in online games?
Are these trolls? Is /v/pol/ raiding /r/actualtrannies? I refuse to believe all the shit that has been posted and this are real.
>if you aren't attracted to how black people look you are racist
Did you even read the post? Saying, "I'm not and never will be attracted to any black people!" is stupid and reactionary, but saying "I'm not usually attracted to black people" is honest and states your preferences in a truthful and realistic way.
>thinking preferences don't form in a vacuum
Honestly I'm not attracted to any black people because I don't find black/brown skin attractive at all. Give me a black girl with straight black hair, average Japanese features and white pale skin and I would date her.
>new gf I really like
>tells me I'm too negative
>at first pissed
>hurhur I'm not gonna change
>actually fuck that
>fucking hell even I'm tired of being down on shit
I'm not asking for advice here. Ya'll some negative cunts/dudes-pretending-to-be-cunts. Just saying shit. Like I'm reading through this thread in a lighter light and it's like who gives a fuck if fat weird bitches on some other website do fat weird shit. Are you fucking that fat weird bitch? No then why does it bother you.
Awe some sjw pointed out you're a lil racist for not liking blacks and that pisses you off? So? That is a lil racist. Everyone is a lil racist. Shrug shit off ya weeb.
"Raiding" leddit was a mistake and I apologize for starting, but had a good laugh with the incredible ridiculous shit posted on other threads.
>y'all are too negative
>let me be negative at you about your negativity to remedy that
Are they fucking serious? I've only had one instance my gender was of any relevance to my group of strangers and only because they asked if I was really a girl. They then called me a crackhead to kid around. Far from getting hit on.
You're pathetically delusional if you think that's true. You need more perspective in your life.
That's not what's being talked about. You're fabricating a distraction. The actual matter at hand is that anon claimed that "[japanese women] are LITERALLY the only race I can fantasize about". What anon is saying here is that an arbitrary nationality is the only way she can become aroused or engaged. She is ascribing a trait to a racial category, and simultaneously denying it to other racial categories. This generalization is by its very nature racist. That's just how the word is defined. Racism is generalizing (which she is doing) a trait (such as sexual worth) to a racial group (e.g. the Japanese). It doesn't help that she's inventing a race (as if the Japanese were demonstrably different from other East Asians) to play into her fetish.
And what is it that she sees as so attractive about the Japanese in particular? What is she implicitly declaring that no other group can have? It doesn't matter in particular, because the act has been performed and that's just details.
No one wants to be dehumanized into a fetish, and such unapologetic racism is a turn-off for most in an empathetic society. This is why anon is alone. The act of her fetishization is disgusting, and the target of her fetishization is transformed into a fucktoy -- just another part of a blend of traits that anon assumes without evidence must be part of that national identity.
tl;dr that's just what the word means, you stupid bitch. You're so far up your own ass that you're creating new issues entirely tangential to the one being discussed, just so you can get mad about those instead. Your brain is rotting. Get help.
The problem is that some people aren't attracted to a certain race because of racist reasons. On a more benign level, you can say you're not attracted to certain features without making it about race.
Yes, you probably were playing against other girls pretending to be men, because everyone knows that when a girl reveals her gender in a game all the thirsty beta cishet males flood to rape her; it's hardwired in their biology, to rape wherever they are.
>you really think beautiful black/asian girls would be interested in racists like you
at the most you would be able to date a mediocre to ugly ass white
>tfw this is the only type of girl you'd be able to get
Soon, probably. The real question is Candy Store tapping that toddler pussy when?
Most of these dudes are agp guys that got into some asian fetish.
Kinda annoying but you learn to ignore/deal. It's like they know being a tranny is some ultimate degeneracy shit so they overcompensate with extra racist edge. Can't shake their asian fetish though.
Thankfully these transbians never leave their homes so you never encounter them irl.
>inb4 no U R THE TRANNY FOR SAYING I AM
Lol nah. You could tell easier before when bitches did tc on occasion. Cause tc full of cis girls never really brought up this kinda bullshit. Now tc is dead, most cis girls peaced out, whatcha gonna do about it.
Yeah it was some tranny shit. Or...nope nah that's some tranny shit.
Like I believe you aren't a tranny for shitting around tranny-specific parts of the internet just like I believe straight dudes totally shit around /lgbt/ for not gay reasons.
She either already is or at least raising her to be the perfect waifu
Let me apologize for throwing out a different flavor of shit out here in this shit pool than you do. Didn't know this was your safe space for negative-positive kinda shit. You should just report me to the mods in fact.
That does sound like those "straight" dudes that come shitposting here.
>Lol I'm not gay for browsing the gayest board on a gay ass korean propaganda blog
>I just come here for that one lesbian thread and 2trollu4lulz
Meanwhile he's actually here for traps and ends up a total fag
I'm gonna use your reply as an excuse to post delicious Kaede.
Random strangers getting disappointed and piteous isn't anger. You must lead a sad, sad life if you can't even figure out the differences between negative attention. Holy shit, I pity you more than ever. Have you ever known a time where you weren't crushingly alone?
Oh yes, keep telling me how miserable and sad and lonely I am, maybe I will change to please you.
But niggers and abbos, those are seriously ugly and not fetish material.
>had weirdest real like dream last night
>in some job training or school or something
>fall in love
>someone tries to end us
>split us up in whatever training
>i fight this whole "i'll just follow her whereever you can't stop"
>some compromise where I get to keep dating
>we're so happy
>so damn happy in this dream
>feel like I'm waking up
>wake up, close says 3AM
>fuck you going back to dream qt
>keep kinda going back to dream
>keep kinda waking up throughout the night
>don't wanna get up for shit today but do
>thinking of sleep tonight
>literally hoping to meet a dream qt
What is wrong with me? That dream qt felt so realistic like a lifetime and days passed. I fucking dreamt us dating over weeks. I dreamt taking care of her when sick and her meeting my family and uncles and her father and all kinds of details and time I never really experience in dreams. My heart actually hurt somehow waking up. I never felt so happy. She wasn't even like super model beautiful just this kinda attainable cute girl with a shy personality but she was stubborn and fleshed out in a way I can't even describe and never really imagined before.
dreams are funny things, anon.
>tfw dreamed about a qt
>tfw qt obviously flirting with me
>tfw can't work up the courage to even make eye contact
not even in my dreams
That's happened to me too funny enough and I'm not even that spastic irl.
Man it really fucked up my day. I haven't been this fucked over a dream since I had one eerie realistic one where someone killed my brothers in front of me.
Nothing bad even happened except that one boss/leader/dean guy tried to brake us up and that was solved early in the dream I think. I'm just feeling horribly sad all day like I've been through a break up and it wasn't even real. And I'd honestly rather be in that dream with her right now than in reality, I've never felt anything like this before. I was legit in love with a dream. This is bugging the shit out of me that I will probably go to sleep and not dream again like that or her ever again.
Sounds like you are super lonely in your waking life.
Time to get a real gf, anon.
But I'm not that lonely! Possibly dating a girl right now, dated a girl earlier in the year, ok on friends.
Goddamn dream qt even met friends. Fuck me I think maybe I just missed that kinda all consuming romance? Everything feels too relaxed in dating. I miss that high school like love where it was over dramatized in your stupid teen brains to feel like us vs. the world. I don't even know what I want in a gf now besides a girl that goes down well.
Or maybe it's that time of the month and I shouldn't drink sleepytime tea before bed.
Really hate that the HER app's update makes YOU start up conversation with people who show interest.
Isn't that better for shy girls? Like, you make the first move by showing interest (I'm guessing you do something to let the other girl know), and if the person is interested back then they'll talk to you. I think it's probably better this way even more so because it forces someone to make which move first and from what I've read girls barely make the first move in dating sites or whatever.
>The only exception being metabolic/thyroid disorders, which is a different conversation entirely
I want to reply that I have that thyroid disorder that fat people use as an excuse, and while yes it makes working out harder, it's still possible to do it and stay in a healthy weight. But last time I even suggested that an overweight person should probably lose weight I was voted down to death.
Still don't know how people work. Folks don't tell you things like that in order for you to change to please them. They tell you things like that because it relieves the need to cringe. There's a moment of sympathy for someone too retarded to figure it out on their own. You're totally anonymous, why would I give a gnat's taint about you in particular? You project these things upon me, but that's a very shallow defense.
Lesgen, how do you tell if a blonde is real or not?
As a non-white person, this puzzles me. Someone recently pointed out that my beloved Riley (pic related) is not a true blonde, and she turned out to be right. This is stressing me out. I feel like I don't even know what's real anymore.
Fake blondes have dark eyebrows, for one. Their hair is usually bad (dry, frizzy, dead looking) from the huge amounts of bleaching agents necessary. It's also very, very unlikely for a person to have an orange undertone to their skin and be a natural blonde.
The problem is that I have social anxiety, so I'm going all, "..."
>favorite Yu Gi Oh cards
Damn, ladies, I thought you had better taste than that.
Worst thing is girls on Tinder putting stuff like "don't write stuff like 'what's up' to me", like okay you're probably one of those 90% who never write at all, and now you're demanding others to amuse you with some witty first message. Bet they're not even lesbian so "you're qt let's fuck" would be text rape.
I'm still scared of writing back because the first time I tried it, the qt3.14 was a Tumblr ace who kept talking about her depression and sexual assault...
>get no matches
>decide to just like everyone
>most of my matches are dudes or fat girls
How do guys even get on there when you put it on girls only
Was it that bad like 1-2 years ago? I read it on occasion back then and I don't remember it being that crowded with trannies.
I've had quite a few decent matches (look-wise), and I used to be quite active in sending first messages, but they either 1) never reply (like 70-80%) or 2) are leftist feminist tumblr gender studies cis she/her/hers persons, so the match is basically due to my desperation (70-80%).
Total badness: 150%
There's nothing wrong with only being attracted to Asians or any other race or "fetishizing" them. Fetishes are a natural thing that are here for a reason. If you have a fetish for blondes and you date a blonde she shouldn't like that you love her hair? I'm a different person than the person you're replying to but you really need help if you think that's disgusting because it only makes you look like a racist desu :/
>I love how often lesbians unironically try to police other peoples' sexual preferences; like that hasn't been happening to us for millennia. I usually assume people like you are political lesbians or just trolling though.
I've tried to watch it. It's gross. I think the 'lesbians watching gay-male porn' thing comes from a lot of lesbians thinking that any porn with women in it is automatically exploitative and sexist.
They are still lesbians though. Watching gay male porno doesn't mean you should have to consider yourself as bisexual, straight, or a hasbian. I personally don't consider you to be a gold-star lesbian if you watch it though.
all of our dating apps are worse than the non-lesbian equivalents. it's not the software, it's the community. it's like when youtube tried to improve comment quality by encouraging people to use their real names... futile. the community just sucks.
That's a bit double standardy considering how straight women can deal with lesbian sex a lot better than straight men dealing wth gay sex and most of the men in the gay porn industry are men.
>choosing to be a porn star
Pick one. Free will isn't sexist.
These are the best things I've bought in a long time.
I hope none of you are abusive...
A lesbian couple from Oklahoma have been charged with child abuse involving one of the suspects’ 5-year-old son, who police say was struck with a hammer, whipped with a belt and tortured so badly he suffered strokes and seizures.
The case first came to light in early December when Stevens' 5-year-old son was flown to St John Medical Center in Tulsa suffering from seizures and lesions on his face.
..Investigators subsequently interviewed the little boy and learned that the child had been tied up, had duct tape placed over his eyes and had been kept in a locked room, the document states.
The toddler also claimed that his mother struck him on the hand with a hammer, and that both she and Jones hit him with a belt all over his body.
According to police, the horrific abuse went on for several months. The little boy said on one occasion, his step-mother kicked him in the groin until he bled.
Stuff like this just makes you all look bad. Why do lesbians hate little boys? What did little boys ever do to you?
>it's a troll because they've consistently shown this worldview and supported it every time
This is your brain on /pol/. This is how dumb an echo chamber makes you.
kill u r self desu
Stopped reading right there. If you look at the abuse statistics for that state, they're astronomical. Why? Because the whole state is 1) poor as fuck 2) drunk as hell 3) surrounded by bumblefuck nothingness. Everyone tortures their kids, and the kids grow up to torture their kids. It has nothing to do with faggotry.
Top fucking kek, you are objectively retarded. That rag isn't fit to wipe my own ass with. They've been caught in so many outright lies that they have no journalistic credibility left and never will regain it.
Liking features is not the same thing as only dating one nationality. Nationality has no correlation with physical features or personality traits. None. That's the racist fallacy that's at issue here.
How does it feels to be a filthy niggeress instead of a beautiful honorary aryan girl that everyone wants? You're just being used by da joos to ooga booga raciss whitey, even the gooks are more intelligent than you and know to submit to the master race. Niggers like you should be helping to gas the kikes but you're mere monkey goyim going to be stomped by the white power when the race war begins.
Fuck off, tranny nigger.
>Come out at 18
>Try a few lez clubs
>Don't like culture or the people
>Try a couple other gay-friendly spots
>Nothing but hambeasts outside of the club scene
>Stay anyway and hope for the best
>Meet a guy who catches my interest
>Now that I'm getting laid regularly, I feel sexually frustrated that he's not a girl
You're too high-strung, anon. Let me help you relax.
Japanese people were isolated from the rest of the world for centuries. Also they are quite xenophobic. They have clearly distinctive features you idiot, as well as a rich cultural background that makes them act in ways that are rather unique.
Nationality does have a correlation with physical features and personality traits unless your country has been "culturally enriched by diversity" like you SJW fags like to call it, or in other words, fucked up by immigrant filth like everyone else would say.
I know that feel... It took me years after coming out to finally find a few decent lesbians, and even longer to find someone I could date.
That being said, you shouldn't be dating that guy. It's not fair to either and it's probably not going to end nicely.
My mom is a huge fan of Bowie, she was quite sad, as was my uncle; her brother. He often attributed Bowie's charisma with finding courage to face his own homosexuality, so I feel somewhat impacted. My uncle is the main reason why I am comfortable with my sexuality.
>tfw get to cuddle with gf every night
>tfw together so much people question where the other is whenever we're seperated because we seem "glued together"
>tfw feeling her warm soft skin against mine every night has made the whole getting kicked out and being homeless and abandoned at 18 now seems worth it
I was wondering if anyone had some advice about polyamourous lesbian relationships. My gf wanted one before we started dating, but I didn't really want to date her when she already had a gf. I feel like I was probably being a little close-minded and intolerant, but they eventually broke up after she moved and we got together and it's been great
She still misses her though. I accidentally saw her send her "Love you" when she was replying to her on her iPad the other day. She used to even get down at random times throughout the month about her.
I don't know if it's just a preference for monogamy or the fact that I'm extremely insecure and probably couldn't handle a girl who's better than me in every single aspect dating her or what, but I don't know what to do
I really want her to be happy and it feels like I'm standing in the way of it. I suggested breaking up with her and getting back with her ex and just staying friends so we could all get a place together like she had planned, but she claims to love both of us and all.
The last time I tried hanging out with her and her ex, I ended up crying in the bathroom and ruined the whole evening for everyone. I'm afraid of trying again. She admitted that she even had thoughts about her, her ex and I all having a three way and the thought of it makes me extremely uncomfortable
I don't know what to do. I'm worried I'm just coming off as selfish and intolerant and not being very understanding. I'm just not sure how to deal with this really
Does pic related look like the avg lesbian shitposter?
Is it possible to just get used to it? She's a really great person, I even hoped that maybe we'd get to marry one day once we're financially stable and we were both ready and all, I absolutely adore her in every way, but it's hard to think about it knowing that she still probably wants the polygamy to be a thing
Now it just feels like I'm either going to have to wait for her to break up with me for standing in the way of it, or maybe just bite my tongue and try as hard as I can to get used to it.
I really don't know if I could ever find someone like her again, but it feels awful knowing that she's probably not going to be happy with just me anyway
No it is not. If you don't like th eidea in the first place you will never get into it properly. You will doubt yourself, her, the third part, always. Eventually it will turn sour for one reason or another, there are too many variables that hinge on your comofrt of the situation.
This comment is spewing some serious cancer.
Do you have any suggestions for what to do in the meantime? I'm worried our relationship is kind of doomed now. I don't want her to feel like I'm not being understanding or that I think I feel that she could only date me and that I'm infringing on her freedom or something
If I'm everything that's ruining this, I was hoping that maybe I could just get used to it or move on
Wtf? I'm sorry but....XD I GUESS you're lucky plastic surgery is gonna get really fucking good in the next race or two.
Hey, you are not the only one that has to be understanding here.
The only way this gets fixed is to sit down and talk it out with her properly. Tell her that you want her to be happy but that this polygamy thing is not comfortable enough. If she cannot respect your comforts then your relationship would not last in the first place.
I thought I was kinda fit, I lift 4x a week, pic related. Do I still need to lose weight?
I'm 21, am I fucked for life without going skeleton-mode? Pic also related, less flattering angle
>men attention whoring in lesgen
This is what I needed in my life.
I'm real sorry anon, I posted the original pic in /fit/, some cunt stole it and put it in here and the response really freaked me out. Didn't mean to invade your space, I know it's rude as fuck.
Just keep lifting until you make it. You can lower your bf while gaining muscle, no need to go skelly mode. Now fuck off or at least pretend to be a girl from now on.
Immigrants and first generation kids (ie your parents were immigrants but not you), where are you/your family from and where do you live now?
First generation Russian-American reporting in.
The Japanese weren't isolated from the rest of the world for centuries. The gulfs aren't that big to the Asian mainland, and they took advantage of them. They have a hugely metropolitan and world-accessed culture now -- it's more American than old school Japanese, for example. And a mainstay of that is rebellion and self-discovery.
This is exactly what I mean. You have this fantasy of shit that doesn't exist, and you're shoving complex people into tiny little boxes. You have no inkling of how the world works, and you just reinforce that laughable ignorance with your buzzword nonsense like "culturally enriched" and SJW spasms.
Just own your racism and be proud of it, you stupid hypocrite.
first gen mexican-american sup what.
Dad is mexican-american, mother was the illegal immigrant but became legal pretty easy before I was born. Went back and forth for a while to her hometown until my mom gave up on trying to please her family. Now she shits on any immigrant but especially current mexican ones, legit wants trump to win, pretty racist against everyone except black people in a way because for decades she lived in a black neighborhood. Oddly cool with this whole lesbian daughter thing because she hated how religion ruined her family and doesn't wanna let it ruin us. Plus I avoid the young mexican pregnant girl stereotype and went to college and that's all she ever wanted.
I'm a racist, I won't deny that, and also not the original anon that said something about liking jap girls, but I certainly don't believe that liking a specific kind of girl is racist, regardless if that "something" they like is tied to nationality or race.
I've actually been to Japan and they still have a sense of national pride that has been lost by all this liberal cucks. Sure they weren't 100% cut off from the world but they do have a sense of community and tradition that doesn't translate to westerners. And even now in a globalized context they still give things their own particular spin. Ask anyone that has lived there for long and they'll say that you can spend decades there and you'll always be viewed like an outsider. Not to say they aren't extremely nice and welcoming.
You are the one that lives in a racist world in that fucked up head. It's natural for animals like us to be tribal and to stick to those that are like them and also to prefer certain things over others.
Every now and then some anon will prefer something exotic like in this case, and yes there is a fantasy element to it, but it's not racism; it's this strong pull created by the idealization of Japanese girls, so much so that other girls seem unappealing. But you are the one that sees racism in it because you are butt hurt that some random bitch online likes Asian girls better while your shit skin ass is home alone wondering why they don't have a gf, even if that cunt attitude clearly alienates any pussy that comes into a 100 yard radius.
Better than your /r/atheism fedora tipping level response to that other anon.