I'm worried my body's trying to sexually cannibalize itself by turning me into my own gf.
I had kinda the same thought.
>25 y/o virgin
>barely had a gf for a few months at 22, didn't bang, apparently she was almost begging for it
>99% sure I'm trans
>feel like I need to have sex to make extra super duper sure
>man up, get tinder
>hook up with 3 different girls
>crushing tfwnotagirl after each one
If you feel like you wish to be a girl, nogf or not, you probably wish to be a girl.
>never had a gf
>always dreamed/hoped of eventually finding a girl that would like me
>give up and work on my body and lose weight and acne
>finally look attractive (from what im told) still no luck though
>give up completely, stick with porn
>be 19 now
>still no gf, no prom night sex, nothing
>ill never have a gf im too sensitive anyways
>give up on being male
>might as well be my own gf
>come out as trans
>find out half the girls wanted to fuck me and i was too naive to notice
>want to be a man again if im not as bad as i thought i was
>everytime i try to stop taking my hormones i end up caving and starting them again
>hate feeling grimy or hair like a man now
>too used to being soft and smelling good
I think that's just your mind trying to make the best in coping with your feelings. I've been through this as well. Uhhhh. I'm still pre-hormones but I get upset anytime I see an attractive girl in public. Also, I can pretty much only get off now when I think of myself getting fucked hard and passionately.
>want to be a girl
>have the sex
>still want to be a girl
get a gf asap and hopefully she's all the femininity you'll need
being trans sucks especially if you don't pass, which is the case most often
I had thought that in the past. Then I got a gf and was jelous of her the entire relationship. I feel like in some of my relationships with girls I was trying to live vicariously through them
Cis people don't trick themselves into thinking they're trans, usually. Take some time to talk about your concerns with a therapist, and they'll give you a more polite version of: "holy shit, you are such a tranny, why did you even bother to ask?" But hearing that might help you, and talking about your thoughts might too.
Shhhh, baby. I'll let you live with me while you transition. I'll make sure to treat you like my little princess and buy you pretty dresses that you can show off to me. How does that sound?
I'm mtf and I've always had girls, but mostly out of envy. When I'm with them I pretend they are me. I also had been denying for a while so I used them to prop up a masculinity that never existed, which is why I get mad when I can't get sex out of them because it makes me feel like I'm not masc enough and feels threatening to the facade. Brains are dumb. Atleast I'm being honest with myself now though, it took my current relationship almost imploding for me to do so though. I met a trans man who really inspired me and made me fearless.
That would be a bitching storyline though.
"I wanted a girlfriend not to be one!"
Write it generic, sell it on amazon.
Fetishists will buy it.
Joking aside I doubt that's how it really goes.
I just need to find a gf, I'm not a tranny, I'm a normal well adjusted man who sometimes fantasizes about being a little girl forced to give blowjobs to lots of men at a fancy party while in a slutty maid outfit. I just need to find a gf.
I know, I know. You're not one of those trannies Princess. You're my girl. Now get on your knees and suck my cock. I'll make sure to pull your hair and I'll try not to smear your makeup. I know how hard you work to look good for me. I love that confused look on your face when you struggle so hard, but at the end of the day you always come back to my cock like a good little slut.
Don't go to the mall you don't want anyone that goes to the mall. Go to a farmers market and talk to a girl selling fruit and buy some. Come back a few times a week and comment on how sweet the fruit always is. Go back and say you want something sweeter, like a date with her. Then don't fuck it up.
Been there OP. Then when I had a girlfriend some aspects of the insecurity and dislike of myself grew twofold, like being the man in a relationship was a huge fucking lie. I don't know if that's dysphoria, but whatever has been wrong with me got worse when I was with her. Never had sex if that matters. Anyway I don't know how much help I'm being, but that was my experience.
I've heard the same thing >>5533901 's friends said from my own friends. Apparently it is strange for a straight man to wish he could be a woman or in the woman's position.
>girl selling fruit
said girl probably has a dozen propositions a day if they look half decent
Idk it worked for me atleast 3 times. Only got to fuck 2 of them though, the third was super into Jesus and I can't compete with him. Does he have a big dick or something? Girls always seem so irreparably attached to him. Only ever corrupted 3 who were saving themselves for him. Hehehehe then I dumped them before I even took the bloody condom off.
In case you didn't notice I hate women for wasting their gift so I use them for sex and make them feel bad about themselves for sport.
im surprised everyone says i am trans cause i dont really believe it. im pretty sure for me its agp cause i dont act the way a trans person should. i make fun of trans stuff all the time even when im by myself cause i find the fact that every trans person needs to scream to the mountains that they are is hilarious. i sit there and am like okay if im trans i kinda just wanna disappear from people altogether yall niggas have fun doing that weird shit. even when i started telling people i still hated hanging out with girls too even though they all wanted me to join their groups as the token lgbt member. managed to be lucky enough to keep all my guy friends with support as well. they tried treating me like a girl and i hated it and to tell them to stop it which they were cool with too. its just weird cause i know this body wont last forever and id rather die and go to hell before becoming one of those 40 freaks who starts taking e and looses everything
one of the rich girls (used to be an all girls private school) had a party and basically i guess i was the main talk after i came out (wasn't there, to self conscious/scared to go) the one thing that went around for a week was that most girls had wanted to fuck me and were disapointed which i was surprised by because i was always the fat ugly kid which by senior year i had finally learned what eating less meant and had a decent fashion sense that on top of there being about 14 guys in the school total at that point. the only reason i found out was cause the guys at my table were laughing about it on monday.
AGP is real, but it actually means you're likely transexual. The study only really meant to theorize WHY previously "straight men" were motivated to transition and live as a woman, it also managed to invalidate trans-folks identities. While I do believe that the motivation to transition was entirely sexually motivated for myself(it was in my case), it should not invalidate my identity at all. In fact, one of Blanchard's colleagues, Anne Lawrence supports transition for AGP folks, and is a self-proffessed autogynephilic trans-woman herself.
nah ill probably end up either quiting the mones once a week each month like i always do and eventually reach the point where i either quit all together or end up on suicide watch for driving myself crazy
thats the other thing too yall chasers/other fucked 4chan kids say shit like that to get in these poor fuckers heads. chasers either bother you on kik for a week and then eventually ask for pics and want you to role play until they move on to the next poor fuck and the weirdos on here to troll you guys have some serious personal issues.
yes it can, even if it happens rarely
it's like magic when too people notice each other and they also happen to be single
usually happens when you're not expecting it too
I'm no chaser. I just enjoy seeing a girl find her place in life as the cockslut she is. Maybe is she's lucky, her man will be nice and gentle, maybe even let little miss "AGP" sit on his lap and massage his cock before sucking it like a lollipop.
What exactly does /lgbt/ hate about chasers? Isn't it just a preference thing? Like with men preferring to date women with brown hair, blonde hair, light skin, dark skin. What's the difference?
They don't. Some do because a lot of chasers are either closeted bi/gay guys (or even trans themselves) who are obsessed with tgirl cock or absolute creeps, and a lot of girls here have had some bad experiences. But consider it, they've had said experiences because they've dated/hooked up with chasers several times. So chasers have a bad rep in the community, and it's a bit of a taboo/embaressment for a tgirl to admit she accepts chasers. But the thing is, chasers are more or less GUARANTEED sex for tgirl - and it's seldom that any member of the goddamn human race will not find guaranteed sex at least a little intriguing. For every girl yapping about what creeps they are they are at least two who secretly wish they could get with one. Yeah they might regret it later if they wind up with a creep, but they'll be curious.
Not wierd at all. My theory is that there are three major reasons a guy is a chaser. 1) He's a closeted tranny himself 2) He loves the cock - he really REALLY loves the cawk 3) He don't give a shit and likes trans and cisgirls about the same.
(Then there are to guys who like dominating sissies and girlyboys, but I'm talking about transwomen only.) Seems to me that transwomen would not mind 3) but dislike 2) and are ambivalent about 1).
There's also incidental factors. If you're attracted to insecurity or fucked up people, for example, lotta transwomen fit that portfolio. Similarly, people attracted to andro, might also date twinks tomboys etc.
Also dunno if i'd call a guy who is 3) a chaser, if it's just doesn't mind if a girl is a tgirl or not. Chaser implies they're after specifically transwomen.
Sure sure, but I think it's those three major categories as far as nominally "straight" guys go. But of course you can never reduce human sexuality to neat little categories, we're all kinda wild and wierd in the end.
Guess I'm not a chaser then. *shrugs*
But at the same time idk... I mean I guess I don't just go after tgirls specifically, but lately I kinda do just because I've never been with one. It's not about sating my curiosity, just that I feel like I'm missing out on something since I've only recently been comfortable enough to admit I like all women, cis or trans. Does that make sense?
what about trans/trans chasers?
(I'm personally mtf attracted to ftm, but I also like mtf too)