I'm 38. Whenever I go on Tinder, Grinder, or any website to find another guy to fool around with, how come I'm inundated by late teens, early twenties guys? Especially emo guys. Lots of emo guys. Lots of sissy guys, and crossdressers. The age drops off at upper twenties, and early thirties is practically nothing to mention, with guys my own age responding being roughly zero. Once in a while you'll get some old dude in his 60s in panties, but that's not my thing.
Don't get me wrong, I enjoy a young guy's ass, they're usually pretty eager to service a dick. But what is it about young guys that makes them crave older guys so much? It doesn't match up to bi or gay women my age at all, they mostly get responses from women their own age (I should know, my wife partakes in other women).
Young guys are really clingy too. More likely to want to call you "daddy" or "sir", or even "master" if they're into more kinky shit. Once you initiate a relationship with a younger guy, he's going to start texting you often about every little thing. Lots of emotes, lots of "thinking about you" stuff.
Maybe somebody understands the gay psyche better than me. I just find it hard to believe that so many gay guys have daddy issues or some shit.
I've hooked up with a couple older guys and it was alright. Usually older gay guys are more masculine and make better tops. But for dating I think it would be really weird and I don't think I could do it. Also it was pretty awkward having conversations with them since I really didn't know how to relate to them beyond anything other than sex.
I find this post reassuring.
I have a thing for younger guys, borderline pederast tier, to the point I kinda feel weird about it.
I love their cloying devotion, eagerness to please, funny immature antics, and bratiness. I especially love how vicious and amoral teenage boys can be, for some reason it really turns me on.
I always thought I'd age out someday and have no chance at scoring with them any more. I guess I done been cucked by the "gay death" meme.
> holy shit dis pic
> tfw i dont know anyone like this irl
Well I'm 20 and I hit up older guys all the time. I do it because I hope older guys appreciate me more. In my head younger guys can get laid and have higher standards. If I hook up with an older guy who's standards are lower, he can see just how beautiful I really am. Also they are better at sex in general, or they try more or something.
God fucking dammit, my absolute favorite 10/10 type of boy is the young emo boy, but there haven't been fucking any of them around for over five years in my state. I thought they were all gone and the fad had passed.
Where does a lonely 30 year old go to get emo boys hungry for older guys?
Not OP, but yeah, before I got into a serious relationship I used to comb through prospective lays and only pick out the passables or particularly cute twinks. And I mean they had to make my dick hard right away or I didn't even bother replying. There were always more to pick from. Any Friday night I could keep my phone lit up with who I wanted, and a few times I got more than one of them to play together.
I don't know what it is about young guns but they're desperate for mature dick.
Isn't there a way to block people not in the age range you want (don't use Grindr myself). At the very least, put something in your profile saying "Please nobody under 29" or whatever.
The only two sissies I got to start joining me for sex didn't turn out the best. Flamboyancy has its ugly side. Lots of jealousy and passive-aggressiveness. I had to take a much more dominant role in the relationship than I normally do. Only when I firmly told them to do things would they do it without any bitch behavior.
I admit though, I enjoyed making them suck me at the same time, cause I knew they hated swallowing each others' spit. I eventually got rid of those prisses.
>I just don't necessarily have the time for many video games anymore.
YET I HAVE TIME TO SHIT_POST ON /LGBT/ AND DICK AROUND ON GRINDR
jesus christ i hate you normie middle aged shits
>But what is it about young guys that makes them crave older guys so much?
Daddy issues, or you might just be in a weird location.
I have the opposite issue, I live in an area devoid of cute young guys being a twinkish type myself, my inbox usually gets blown up with fully grown men messaging me.
Late teen here:
Physically and emotionally i'm kind of a faggot and in those ways i'm attracted to masculinity. Late twenties/early thirties guys usually meet that criteria and i find it hot af, cant help it
>tfw you would probably be the clingy little faggot when they don't really get it
>tfw just want a cute relationship
Older guys have beaten around the bush and know what they want and when they want it and i'm always up for whatever plus there is nothing about older guys it might be the rugged body look i just like.
Don't really go beyond that normally it's them texting me getting all mushy and i'm just like DTF or gunna moan about work?
I think its cause lots of gay bottoms secretly desire a masc femme dynamic and that never really works with two guys the only way it works with two guys is if one is much older and experienced to create the dynamic.
Just my experience. I used to exclusively be into older men . Then I transitioned to live as a girl and now I like guys my own age. It feels more normal now
>mfw that accurately describes me except when i thought about transitioning i decided not to
Daily reminder that young, sissy emo boys are probably trans and use the style as an excuse to dress and act more androgynous/feminine.
>Source: Personal experience
Most guys 29-35 are less dramatic, hotter, hornier, more successful, confident, secure, and can make you feel good cause to them you are so god damn sexy. Who wouldnt want someone like that?
>use the style as an excuse to dress and act more androgynous/feminine.
>mfw that's me
>Thinking it takes a couple of minutes to browse 4chan, especially when you're OP
>Thinking it takes a couple of minutes to find a hook-up, going to meet them, etc.
>Suddenly every game ever is incomplete and shitty
Do you ever leave the house? Do you have a job? I bet you don't even have a boyfriend or girlfriend. That's the stereotype of someone who response the way you have.
Don't try to lecture an actual adult on the time it takes to do anything. You've got a long way to go before you can even lick shit from between my toes.
No, but I have dated them and I'm not an old man or mature-looking, so just because a male wants to look something other than the masculine stereotype doesn't mean they secretly want to be a girl.
If you're dressing effeminately and trying to hook up with older men that's probably indicative of a much larger mental disorder than merely being trans, perhaps being trans is another symptom of it.
Well, my life has been plagued by severe obsessive-compulsive disorder, aspergers, depression, suicide attempts and some sick sexual perversions like the sissy fetish, so yeah, this is just another turn in my already fucked up life.
I'm 18, pretty much the type of person OP is talking about in terms of image and stuff but I probably wouldn't call anyone daddy, sir or master unless they asked, but i'd like to have someone to talk to, even over text.
i'm maybe a little clingy, i'd want to cuddle and have some affection and stuff, that's the only really overtly faggy thing i want. I just want a kawaii thing with me and a hot man, usually they're most attractive within that age range.
I like older guys because my dad never hugged me or played with me when I was little (I think)
I hooked up with a 40 yo guy who let me call him daddy the other day and it was great.
I'm 21 btw
Lol I already got an old upper class man hounding me to come over and stay the night with him, I'm kinda want to in a fucked up way, but I'm too afraid that it might scar me and I will get weirded out around other older men and ashamed(especially family members).
I've never been with a man tho, I'm just so scared to meet one and then regret it and then just do stuff with them just so I don't hurt their feelings or piss them off by being a scared prude virgin.
I'm 25 years of age. I've never been with a man, I feel like to much of a robot to get with a decent looking gay guy my age, and I'm really scared of rejection so I don't message men, I let them message me.
>be young and bi
>too jaded and sarcastic to have a relationship with anyone
not gonna waste my breath on this thread.
Pretty much me. I don't spend my time going after older guys unless they state in their Grindr profile that they are hung, and when I see their pictures, it turns out they're just proud to have a dick that still functions without Viagra.
I don't really get responses from guys around my age, though. RIP. Either I'm ugly or they have really high standards, or both, but I can't be ugly since all my female coworkers always try to talk to me even though I'm not interested in getting to know them at all (or most other people for that matter).
Straight women have lower standards then gay/bi/curious men. If you can hold eye contact and smile and confidently speak with women you can become the most handsome mf they ever saw. Men are visual and need everything on their list fulfilled. Like you said yourself, big dick being one thing.