how much patience does an average guy have for a fwb? I've had some bad experiences with sex so I'd seriously have to know the guy and be able to trust him 100% before being ok with sex.
How long do you think an average guy would be willing to wait?
If you are fwb you were friend before, right ? So no reason to hurry, he should enjoy your company regardles of the benefits. Or is it more of a hookup-type situation ?
Anyway if you need trust/have had bad experiences, maybe you would be better served by seeking a more commited/exclusive relationship than fwb.
I'm meaning guys from grindr. I don't, and I've never had, any male friends.
The only reason I'm doing is because I have already given up on a finding a committed/exclusive relationship. I can't be loved but at least I might get fucked by someone I'm not scared of.
fucking tell me how and I'll do it in a heartbeat
Sometimes I fantasise about going on a grindr date with some dude I don't really even like, go to his place and let him have it, and after he's done and dead asleep, go to his bathroom and kill myself in some really disgusting and gruesome way, just so he has to wake up next morning and find a dead fucking body in his bath tub and deal with it for the rest of his life.
I like the idea of focusing all the hurt and rage of my own lovelessness just to fucking hurt some guy who just wanted a random meaningless fuck just like everyone else. It's not his fault I can't find anyone who'd tolerate me. It's nobody's fault that I'm unlovable.
I just want to mean something to someone, even if I'm the worst thing that ever happened to him.