Can /lgbt/ explain to me why they like vaginas? Not a troll here, I know it sounds like it. I'm an ace girl who could see myself dating another girl, but the idea of going down on her wigs me out. I don't see how vaginas can be hot. They just seem too much like a cut/wound to be attractive to me. Maybe If they were described in a different and nicer way I could train myself to not be repulsed? Thanks in advance
The vagina is like a warm, wet blanket, created to hold the penis inside. This isn't the hottest thing about the vagina though. What I find very attractive about the vag is what it represents to me, total submission. That feeling when a girl gets on her back and opens her legs, allowing you inside of her body. That's just hot.
Gay guy here. Vag is much better than a butt. I like men, but physically speaking I'd take the feeling of a vagina over a butt any day. Experience is from my "straight" days in HS and a handful of threeways.
>What I find very attractive about the vag is what it represents to me, total submission. That feeling when a girl gets on her back and opens her legs, allowing you inside of her body. That's just hot.
I endorse this statement.
People like weird things. Christians like provoking others into beating up on them. Gamers like spending obscene amounts on time on silly little imaginary obstacle courses. Liberals like to run around like headless chickens searching for oppressed people to salivate over. Muslims like ripping apart people different from them ... actually, that last bit is rather understandable.
Describing it in a nicer way won't get you to suddenly be on em. You spend your whole life trying to get back inside them. Because they are safety. They're a warm, wet fountain waiting to give you the source of life.
I don't get it either, but I'm a sex-repulsed, neurotic germ freak, and I'm really sensitive to smell and taste. Do you folks really think that pussy smells and/or tastes good? I'm honestly curious. You aren't just saying that to make the ladies feel better, are you? When I was ~sexually active~ (ugh), I always wondered if my ex was just saying that he liked how I smelled and tasted to try to boost my self-esteem because he knew I was really self-conscious. And even though apparently I gave really good head and he seemed to enjoy oral more than actual PIV sex, he always wanted to stick his dick inside me. There's no tongue in there...granted, there also aren't any teeth, but it's not hard to give a non-bitey blow job. I don't have a dick, so I guess I probably just can't understand, but I don't get why oral and manual stimulation isn't preferred over vaginal penetration.
I can hardly even stand the fact that I have a vag, let alone imagine getting near someone else's. Compared to dicks, they seem both unsanitary and ugly. I hate to say it, but the only vulvas I find aesthetically tolerable are the shaved, porn star-esque kind with almost no inner labia. The thought of "mature" pussy makes me want to vomit. Yet I'm attracted to women as well as men - I just don't want to actually get intimate with them...what if you got down there and there was smegma (even typing that word makes me want to vomit) or it smelled awful or something? What do you do, just dive in anyway? ;_;
You ace people are funny.
Of course sex is somewhat gross, it's some kind of primal act, with much fluids and bacteria exchanged. Digusting. It's only good if if you're in the mood - which by definition as asexual you are not/cannot be.
So I would say just give up trying to like it (you most likely wont) and find someone compatible. (not necesarily asexual - some sexual people do not absolutely need to have sex)
I've been with a lot of other women and yes, some vaginas are not as ell cared for as others. For me the vast majority have been pleasant.
Each girl has a unique taste/smell. Most are not off-putting.
And this anon >>5513824 has it right. The feeling of submitting and letting another woman pleasure you or her allowing you to pleasure her is a great feeling. For me there's nothing like being between a woman's thighs as she reaches orgasm because of you.
I meant what I said. I am kind of picky, to be honest. Everyone I've been with that smelled nice had genitalia that followed suit.
As for best places to stick a penis... In my experience, it comes down to the partner. Some were much better with vaginal than oral, others the reverse, and this one guy have such good hand jobs that him involving his mouth at all was more for his benefit than mine.
Skill accounts for more than you'd expect.
>what if you got down there and there was smegma (even typing that word makes me want to vomit) or it smelled awful or something? What do you do, just dive in anyway? ;_;
I'd stop and then teach her or him how to take care of it.
>For me there's nothing like being between a woman's thighs as she reaches orgasm because of you.
The feel of a couple fingers, dildo, or dick in my love glove is wonderful. For somebody I like, I like letting them take over and give me pleasure. I don't see it as total submission, but as a very pleasurable action when done right. (Action isn't a good word, but it's late.)
They seem fascinating to me, I like to study them, play with them, see what kinda reactions and moans I can get out of the girl when I do those things. They also seem kinda warm, wet and kinda nice, very different from a penis. It's also not just the body part, it has more to do with the person attached to the body part for me.