Shit, /lgbt/. 19 year old straight male here, never thought I'd be questioning my sexuality until I had this fucked up dream today. You fellas probably get asked questions like these every day, but here it goes.
Basically, during the dream, I befriended and eventually became attracted to an imaginary transsexual that looked virtually identical to a woman in every way. Her silhouette and her face were indistinguishably feminine, her reproductive organs were also feminine, the way her voice and the way she talked definitely sounded like a woman, touching her skin and kissing her lips felt like actual physical contact with a woman, but deep down inside I knew that, despite feeling like a woman in every way, she had been originated from a male.
And that's the weird thing though, because despite knowing that she was formed from a man, it really didn't bother me in any way. She was so adorable and interesting that I still felt completely attracted to that woman, or at least to that image of a woman, however you think about it. And it's really bothering me, does it mean I have homossexual tendencies? Because I don't really feel attracted to men in any way, but somehow the prospect of being attracted a person that looks like a woman, acts like a woman and feels like a woman but was originally a man doesn't bother me at all.
Is this the Theseus ship applied to gender? Am I homossexual, /lgbt/?
What you have encountered, sir, is a succubus, a demon that feeds off your fleshy desires through your dreams, basically anyone you have sex with in your dream is a succubus so be careful.
>The content and purpose of dreams are not definitively understood, though they have been a topic of scientific speculation, as well as a subject of philosophical and religious interest, throughout recorded history.
Dreams are just dreams. If you want to be with a guy, be with a guy, but beyond that you don't need some intense explanation.
Who knows. Does it matter?
A dream is a dream, especially in such a... uh,
... non-direct way, if you understand what I mean.
It's not like you're having hot steamy dream sex with the same gender every night.
I don't think you should put any thought time into this dream. Don't think too much or you'll become obsessed. No matter whether if someone would classify this as "homosexual behavior", it's such an unlikely scenario that you'll probably never experience it in real life.
Just live your life and see where it takes you.
you think your gay because you were attracted to a woman. ... yeah, you are certainly 19.
and just like the rest of you you are terrified of being gay.
you probably arent gay, but thats impossible for me to assess, something you you find out with time.
maybe you just have hit a milestone in understanding the human condition and being op minded. think beyond just am i gay. you seem to be capable of synthesizing a scenario and actually enjoying... so maybe you could be understanding enough to date a transgirl. but suck a wee wee or two.
ALSO a more appropriate screen cap of sunny would be when mac bumps into carmen the tranny at the gym and finds out she got bottom surgery and married a guy. mac calls the guy gay for dating a post op trans woman and then the guy calls mac actually gay for sleeping with her when she had a dick.
>it's such an unlikely scenario that you'll probably never experience it in real life.
Yes, but under the hypothetical possibility that I actually meet and become attracted to a transsexual, isn't it a pertinent subject to meditate on? I just want to know if that would imply I'm homosexual or not.
Being attracted to a transwoman who looks sounds feels and acts just like a woman is completely straight. On the other hand, if you fantasize about a pre-operation mtf and sucking her dick, thats a little gay.
>and just like the rest of you you are terrified of being gay
To be brutally honest, I'd be terrified about being judged by chads and marginalized by the conservative end of family, not about being gay. Hell, who knows, maybe someday I'll have an epiphany and realize dicks really are my thing? But as of now, my empirical knowledge of only being attracted to females (or at least to the female figure) and having never felt sexually or romantically attracted to a male prevails.
If that's the case then I guess I'm straight? I just want to know how my sexuality would be designated, scientifically speaking.
I get your confusion, but I honestly feel like I'm taking crazy pills these days.
Do what you want to do. If you meet someone, like them, want to be with them then do it. If they have a vagina or used to have a penis or have a penis and like to dress like a woman, fuck it. Just do what makes you feel good. If you live in a place where you're concerned about being attacked, move. Beyond that, you're the only person who can dictate the direction your life moves in and in most major US cities, people don't give a fuck.
I dream about accidentally murdering people often (like I snap their neck or hit them and they die generally). Does that make me a sociopath or a serial killer? Probably not, but it gives me pause occasionally, however when I sit and think about it, I realize it's just a goddamn dream. If they're an allegory for something I haven't gleamed the meaning.
>Her silhouette and her face were indistinguishably feminine, her reproductive organs were also feminine, the way her voice and the way she talked definitely sounded like a woman, touching her skin and kissing her lips felt like actual physical contact with a woman
>Being attracted to all these female bits
>not being hetero
Sexual attraction is provoked by a compound of physical characteristics that tend to be exclusive to one sex. Even if you knew that it was a MtF, this hypothetical person still had everything be womanly on her, 0% man things, so you're straight, don't worry
I've questioned my sexuality ever since I was 5-6. I'm 20 now I'm 2 days past come down from a 48hr K/LSD binge. I had a dream that I fucked my trans friend, and met a whole group of others and went shopping etc. I can now say that I've finally come to an understanding that I'd be better off letting my feminine qualities explode, and I like dick. I don't know how, but it's there plain as day. I now hate myself a lot less.
Love ya OP, godspeed <3
It means you're capable of being intimate with an MtF trans woman. Which doesn't make you gay.
Here's your gay test.
- Watch any gay porn. Did you fap to it?
- Have you ever had a crush on a guy?
- Do you want to suck a guy's dick?
If yes to all three questions, then you're probably bi.
Well, that does clear out a lot of doubts, thanks fellas!
>I refuse to believe in bisexuality.
That's like saying you refuse to believe in mammals.
Willful ignorance doesn't stop people from having sexual attractions to and the capability to form romantic relationships with males and females. Unless you have a very specific personal definition or additional qualifications for bisexual, then I can't possibly see how you're correct about bisexuals not existing.
>If you're not having sex for reproduction, then gender and exclusive sexual attraction makes no sense
I think you're adding too many irrelevant qualifications onto sexual orientations.
So a woman gets her tubes tied after delivering her husband's child and having a c-section. They continue having sex, even though she's infertile because they're both still turned on by each other. Are they no longer a straight couple?
>Being with a girl
>Am I a fag
Bruh. I thought people had stopped this shit?
She didn't even have a dick. Trans girls are girls. You like girls. Now go and try to find a cute femboy or whatnot and experiment if you're curious, no need to label right now
Are you really asking for a scientifical explanation (of anything) here? On /lgbt/, which is basically a Tumblr tumor lodged inside of 4chan? AND about your sexuality, which can litterally not be defined scientifically (or needs te be)?
Dude, calm down on the labes and identity crisis, go out and suck some dicks. The earth is still turning.
> I just want to know if that would imply I'm homosexual or not.
Quit focusing on the labels for fuck's sake! Homo is just a word, have you realized yet? Wether the term applies or not you'd still be fucking a trans girl, so if you do you better fucking own it