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So I recently ended a year and a half relationship with a married man who had two sons around my age (I'm 21, they're 17-21). We had a great relationship, I met his wife and she liked me. They had an open arrangement where he had a boyfriend and she had a girlfriend outside of the marriage. In NYC, not too out there.

Anyways, sex was great and our conversations never got old. He's nearly 50, so I thought this was quite interesting. However, I realize that the life he showed me is what I want out of a serious relationship. I find it hard to be attracted to guys my age. My preference is above 30. Typically, I like that they are more established and cultured. Especially in NYC, this provides a very nice lifestyle with the right guy.

So now I realize I'm open to the idea of being a trophy husband to an older guy eventually when I'm out of school. Not sure how I feel entirely about this, but does anyone have ny experience with this?
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Are his sons hot?
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>>5497178
If you can do it, go for it, but you'll never be happy at heart.

And I don't mean to sound like a prude but you know I'm right, it is the truth.

These girls that go off with older men are very insecure and a trophy parter is what it is, a thing you are proud of, and show off to guests, but other then that, a trophy is left on a shelf collecting dust.

Your choice would be an easy life with money and everything provided for sex.

Vs a chance at happiness.

I don't really know what option is better.
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>>5497244
They are actually. And I happened to meet one of them before I met him (I didn't connect the two until mid-way through our relationship).
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I was a "rent boy" for an older gentleman in college. I didn't actually do it for just the money, but being paid was nice as I was thinking about doing it anyway

greentext time

>be me 24 in last year of college. Not bad looking 7/10 but body is of a serious road cyclist so I get lots of looks

>I wear my hair long and get the up and down from guys who see a slim/feminine looking person with shaved legs and they look up and see the face of a guy

>they usually apologize, sometimes they get pissy.

nobigdeal.wav

>An evening out a few weeks later

> I meet a bunch of older more refined people and one guy 20 years older starts talking to me

>We exchange reasons for being at the gallery: he was looking for some more art for his house and I being a good but inexpensive photographer who was FWB of the female gallery owner got an invite plus $500 cash to take photos for the lifestyle page.

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