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Very passive bottom here virgin meet great top guy seems to be Dom but don't know, how to be sub? Not into bdsm but the whole dom/sub thing is kind of a turn on to a point.
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>>5497139
Try again, this time in English.
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>>5497139
All D/s relationships are different. You can't apply everything you see in one, or seen in a porn video, into your relationship.

Furthermore, even if he is a Dom, and you're a sub, don't say all at once all of the crazy things you would like to do. (E.g. on the first date, don't say you'd like to be spanked and call him daddy while he pours hot wax over your balls, even though I have tried this and it is fun.)

When you both talk about sex, ease into it and start to say your interests. When you say you are submissive, and new to D/s, he might ask you if you are interested in starting out with the basics:
>Simple restraints
>Hard sex
>Spanking
>Dirty talk

Make sure that before each time, you both spell out what you are going to do, and make a safe word.

If you want to get into more advanced things, try suggesting stuff like:

>Foot play
>Whips, paddles, riding crops, and flogs
>Dildos, vibrators, and butt plugs
>"punishments"
>Hot wax
>Roles/positions laid out (i.e. don't speak unless spoken to, be naked on your knees in front of the bed by the time I come into the room, say 'thank you' when spanked, etc.)

If you want to get a little more extreme, there's:

>Light choking
>Pet play
>Daddy Dom/little boy play
>Older Brother/little brother play
>Master/slave role play
etc.

Try introducing things slowly, one at a time, set limits before hand, and do what both of you are comfortable with.

>>5497206
You do realize that:
1.
4chan attracts people of all different nations and languages
(I applaud your Anglo-Chauvinism, though. I hope you will be appointed Minister of Linguistic and Cultural Purity and Preservation once Trump gets elected president and sacks the cabinet.)

2.
4chan accepts a form of communication that is equally grammatically incorrect, in the form of
>greentext
(i.c.):

>Very passive bottom here
>virgin
>meet great top guy
>seems to be Dom
How to be sub? Not into bdsm but the whole dom/sub thing is kind of a turn on to a point.
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>>5497206
My apologies English teacher. I am fine with English, was just nervous and wanted to get it out and posted quickly before i changed my mind. Consider me schooled, and I promise to be conscious of my grammar and punctuation next time.
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>>5497734
Thank you, this was the kind of answer I was looking for, I also appreciated your willingness to defend a stranger , you are very kind.
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