So we all know that when transbians are in relationships, they're often in one with another transbian (i.e. when they don't become a cis guy's cocksleeve) because most cis lesbians don't want them.
Now, when gay FtMs are in a relationship, are they in them with each other or with cis men most often? Do they instead remain single for those reasons? I ask because not many cis gay men are into FtMs because of the vagina, but then I also doubt that they themselves would want to be with a dickless man.
Also, there seems to be some amount of homophobia against them. Straight FtMs sometimes think of gay FtMs as weak and sissy, sometimes viewing them with disgust for their homosexual attraction. That happens despite the fact the straights were living as lesbians. Why is this?
i had a pretty high opinion of gay ftms but then i had the displeasure of meeting a few in person. some of the most self entitled catty people i've ever met
i thought they'd be bros but i was sadly mistaken
>That happens despite the fact the straights were living as lesbians
i never lived as a lesbian, i knew i was a tranny before i knew gays existed
>So we all know that when transbians are in relationships, they're often in one with another transbian (i.e. when they don't become a cis guy's cocksleeve) because most cis lesbians don't want them.
100% wrong. Most cis lesbians don't care.
"Straight" ftms often have a lot of internalized homophobia, which is why they transition in the first place. Thats why they hate gays.
>B-but im not a nasty butch dyke like THOSE people.. Im a man!
My observations of the few that I know IRL have been that most trannies, be they MtFs or FtMs, seem to gravitate towards cis ppl who are mostly bisexuals... either "true" bisexuals (close to 50/50) or straights or gays who are "flexible" (homoflexible or heteroflexible).
>That happens despite the fact the straights were living as lesbians.
if understand what you were trying to say here...
I think this is more the case with the older generations who started out trying to be "bull/butch" dykes before settling on being an FtM. I think younger generations get to the "I am trans" realization much quicker these days.
>Also, there seems to be some amount of homophobia against them. Straight FtMs sometimes think of gay FtMs as weak and sissy, sometimes viewing them with disgust for their homosexual attraction.
I don't agree with this. I think most FtMs (and MtFs... so basically all trannies) have been through so much shit with their sexuality and orientation, that they aren't too judgmental on others. Most of the "homophobia" that trannies get are from cis ppl... and that's mostly coming from other homos: ei, the "TruGays" and "TruLesbos" looking down on the trans ppl for somehow betraying their born gender. The homophobia coming form straight cis ppl is just the typical homophobia that other gays would get. OC, the "homophobia" in these cases would probably be better described as "transphobia."
this is pretty true in my experience. the only thing is that the TruTrans diehards tend to use gayness as one of the signs that someone's supposedly faking or wrong about their transness. i dont think anyone (any trans people, at least) thinks all gay ftms are straight girls no matter what
this one other gay ftm I know is sorta transitioned? Like he's wearing a binder, sporting short ass hair but damn he's one fucked up basketcase.
He has autism and has an immensely difficult time making friends and often times posts on tumblr about how he's shut in his apartment and having huge anxiety attacks. I think he actually got accused or raping someone but I don't really know the details on that.
He calls himself birdprince or whatever on tumblr and distracts himself by getting attached to whatever fandom of his interest like yaoi transformers. Huge yaoi fan too btw.
I honestly can't see him as a guy, just a depressed tumblr girl.
they will never be women to me. My eyes have been opened
Also most "transbians" are bi so that just increases their disgustingness.
I'm a gay-leaning bi ftm and I have always had cis bi male partners. The only other gay ftm's I knew in high school realized they were ftm the last few years of college and came out recently. Back when, they kept dating or hooking up with cis guys who eventually came out as gay. This happened to them both several times. One of them is dating another ftm now.
Cis lesbian here.
I will not fuck a penis and 90% of my lesbian friends won't either. The others admit they have bisexual tendencies anyways.
stop spreading this meme
I'm a cis gay male and I think I could deal with a FtM as long as she doesn't have boobs. Sure, I don't know the first thing about vaginas but I think I could wrap my head around it with time. It's just that boobs weird me out. I have no idea what to do with them or how anyone finds them even remotely attractive. They just look so fucking weird...
Yo, our boobs weird us out too. Generally we don't like interacting with our disgusting chest lumps, either. If your hypothetical ftm qt bbq does unfortunately end up being cursed with tits at the time you start interacting with them, they would most likely wear binders all the time. I cant have sex without wearing mine, it's fucked. I completely understand your aversion. At least top surgery is relatively cheap.
It's not like trans dudes look like women anyway. T is a hell of a drug.
I know this is a troll but I'm basically this :/.
I'm consider myself to be straight cis male but I do find several of the ftms to be attractive. I'm like a reverse chaser and I feel kinda disgusted by it. I would never admit to this IRL oc and shall remain forever in the closet but they are very cute tbqh.
I'm not trolling. I think it would be interesting to date or at least talk to a ftm, I've never even met one online or seen pics of the ones here. Can you post some please :)
I'm not a chaser, I'm into the most masc of muscle daddies, just curious.
sorry, maybe someone else can. I've seen tumblr and porn pics before that others have linked that were hot af but I didn't save them. The only pics that I have access to are ones who are friends or are friends of friends and linking you those pics would expose them to being doxxed so it aint gonna happen.
Most of the cute ones I've known were in long term relationships, often married. I only know they are transgender because they told me. I do some community organizing at the local level. That means many of them have outed themselves to me at one point or another.
That picture. This is just so fucking hilarious.
Gay FtMs can't be in long term relationships because gay men love cock. However plenty of gay men want to fuck them as a novelty so gay FtMs have good times at bathhouses and shit like that. As long as you don't expect a LTR you'll be fine.
Do these exist? Ive only met gay ones. I always figured lesbians are usually manly as fuck so what's the point of saying you're Trans if you're a lesbian.
The one I fucked was a lesbian before deciding to be a man lol.
i'm a gay ftm top and i've fucked plenty of bi and gay cis men. i don't date tho bc fuck that. i'm stealth and post-transition except for bottom surgery and more masculine than all of the straight ftms i know. shrug
I'm a bi-ish guy (mostly like men though) and I've been with a FtM trans. As always when you're in love, the body doesn't matter that much, it's the character, and since I dislike women mostly due to their feminine character, I was quite happy with my friend.