This is a pic of me and my first and current boyfriend before I knew him, I thought I was straight and now I regret this because of the pressure its putting me in. My family is really strong Serbian and would disown me and maybe even throw me out of the house. but i can keep this a secret any more. How did u guys come out what should i tell them what do i do ?
maybe your right maybe being gay is wrong and i should go see a psych or something because i cant look at my dad or my friends at school with out looking at them in a sexual way
maybe im just drugfucked
If accepting you comes second to their beliefs, do they really love you back? Is there anyone in your family you feel more secure with, do you think they could help you and support you?
dude fuck your parents, just drop out of school and take a road trip with your boyfriend somewhere. School means nothing in the real world don't worry about your future, you will be better with real life skills rather than being stuck in an oppressive family and without your lover
why do gay guys always look like shit compared to regular guys?
youd think theyd try and get as much dick as possibly by looking good, but none of the homos on this thing to to the gym or anything.
Ako nisi dijaspora, tj. ako zivis u Srbiji I govoris srpski, mogu ti reci sledece:
Nemoj im reci da si gej. Sta njih briga? Oni su tvoj zivot dali tebi u ruke, I sada ga zivi kako ti hoces. Ako hoces da im kazes da si gej jer su ti roditelji, pa smatras da trebaju da znaju, moras shvatiti da im tu informaciji ne dugujes. U najboljem slucaju stavljas ih u nezgodnu poziciju, a u najgorem ces spavati ispod plavog mosta.
A sad kad sam ti to rekao, moram te pitati, zasto smatras da tu tajnu vise ne mozes kriti od njih, I takodje, da li roditelji tvog decka znaju da je on gej?
Hahaha! You chose a great country to be gay in!
Stay in the closet and move to Canada.
But in all fairness, I think that we (Serbs) are moving further to acceptance this days. I met a few gays that are generally well accepted.
'Te neko diro?
Nisam OP ali generalno planiram da se iselim, dobio sam magicnu kombinaciju gej+trans, tako da mi zivot bas i nije nesto srecan ovamo. Koliko je generalno lako/tesko se iseliti u Kanadu?
Pa dobro, ti si ok. Novi Sad je najfegetskiji grad. Mislim to pozitivno.
Ja kontam da kod mene generalno bi ljude bilo bas briga, ali nisam dovoljno gay da bi imao potrebu da nekom kazem.
Koliko imas godina? Iskreno, mnogo mi je kul to sto si trans, malo je kod nas takvih. Skontao sam samo jednog lika, mnogo sladak decko.
Nekako mi je neprirodno da se ovde prica srpski, ja nikako da se naviknem na postojanje ovog treda.
Imate li vi partnere? Jeste li bi ili skroz gej? Kakvi vam se muskarci dopadaju?
Ova pitanja postavljam ovde jer u stvarnom zivotu nemam tu priliku.
Meni licno se dopadaju twinkovi, kojih ovde nema ili su vrlo retki, a kad ih ima onda su "straight".
Jebes mi zivot.
Sesnaest. Pubertet mi ide ekstremno brze u odnosu na ostale. Izgledam kao 25-ogodisnji muskarac zbog >tfw slavic genes, samo bez brade. Ali znam da necu moci uspesno da uradim tranziciju jer imam dubok glas, jako sam visok (1.9m), izgledam musko.
Nadao sam se da ce disforija proci ali mi se krece kao prekidac za sijalicu, jedan dan ne zelim da ustanem iz kreveta, drugi sam skroz super.
I to je samo jedan od mnogih licnih problema.
Nemam partnere. Nisam karakteristican gay, ne krecem se u tim krugovima. Ljude koje sam znao da su gay u sustini nismo delili slicna interesovanja i nisu mi se svidjali. Više strejt nego gej definitivno.
Mogu se sloziti twink, MtF, FtM i te stvari. Ali umerenst je tu bitna.
Inace, za twinkove. Drug od jednog ortaka je tipa top koji gotivi twinkove i nalazi ih brda i jebe ih. Mislim da je tu vise kako se snalazis. Ja sam zbunjen pa sam zbunje. Sa devojkama, likovima i svim drugim stvarima.
Kako se ti snalazis sa tim stvarima?
Pricaju ljudi srpski ovde...
Jebiga čovek, ti si stvarno ubo premiju sa genima i sve. Ćosavost nije naivna stvar. Mene je to uvek smaralo.
Budi gay, gledaj da ne budeš trans jer ćeš se usrati. Mada trandže znaju biti baš buff ali to je generalno sranje.
Druga stvar, kako ove nove generacije su sve visoke metar devedeset. Svi su izdžigljali.
Pravo da ti kazem, ja sam ceo zivot bio desnicar, a sada serem kvake da krocim u gej barove jer znam sta me ceka ako me iko ikad vidi u njima. Znam, posto sam bio u tim krugovima, da se za homoseksualce misli da su svi pedofilcine najgore, i da ih treba zaglati kao govna, pa zbog toga sam onako.. zatvoren oko sekualnih pitanja, no svi naravno misle da sam strejt.
Za dve godine, kada zavrsim ovu skolu, idem ja u Bec, videcu da li cu da ucim lingvistiku ili da nadjem nesto vezano za pravo ili diplomatiju, i braco moja, tada cu je najebati twinkova, evo kunem se u sve sto je sveto.
I guess I kinda know the feeling. My family is Albanian, but I've lived in Denmark all my life though.
So I have this contrast between living in a really gay-friendly country, while having parents who are kinda conservative. They're not religious at all, but they have mixed feelings when it comes to gays because of the environment they grew up in.
I'm definitely gonna come out though. I mean you have to sooner or later. But I'm doing it once I move out. So I wont depend on them in case they have a shitty reaction.
Meni je mesavina liberalnog misljenja, depresivnosti i licne perspektive dovelo do toga da mi je glavna potreba emocijalna veza, normalno ponasanje, generalno povezana interesovanja i da ga mogu pogledati a da me ne zabole oci. Ne volim hookup culture i to kod muskog dela LGBTa, ja sam vise monogamski, cuddle'n'cute stuff lik.
Znači ti si Miki Miljković iz serije Shameless?
Da, ti desničari su uvek gay, skontao sam ja to.
Neće niko da te dira, ko će da te nađe. To za mišljenje je idiotski, nikad nisam kontao. Iskreno nikad nisam išao na takva mesta jer me nije nešto interesovalo.
Nikad nisam sebe kontao da sam gay ili straight, kontam samo da sam čudan. Uvek sam bio čudan.
Ti si maloletan? Svi su maloletni... jel si i ti visok metar devedeset?
God damn, i have an aversion to that flag of yours due to the actions of your people in the 90's.
I must now counter your post, to restore the balance.
>braco moja, tada cu je najebati twinkova, evo kunem se u sve sto je sveto
>due to the actions of your people in the 90's.
The reason I'm in Denmark is because of the actions of Serbs though. So I'm not sure what you're referring to exactly.
I guess I should thank the U.S, or my family would probably be dead before they even arrived in Denmark.
>Albanian, this is not a goatfucking thread.
I don't fuck goats, I fuck guys. Which is what you and me have in common despite our differences. Or maybe you take it in the ass instead?
>We don't take kindly to you goatfuckers out here.
I know. You seem more aggressive towards us, than we are to you. But you guys are sort of a mini-Russia, and Russians are known for being a bit too angry as well.
for all those serbian posts i dont really understand im 2and generation serbian i can speak a small bit i often use it as a pickup line for guys.
kinda like hey guys im a big serbian agressive homo drunk.
Gays are fucking gay suck my dick homos
Pa pazi anone, atraktivnost je subjektivna. Ako si ti twink, ja ti mogu garantovati da ces mi biti privlacan, bar na nekom nivou. A, hipoteticki, kada bi se ti svideo meni, pa ja tebi, itd. vremenom bi malo vise akcenta stavili na nase licnosti nego na sam izgled, zar ne?
Possibly somewhat true. But to be fair there were fucked up things on both sides. But I guess if things were reversed we would both do the same.
Nisam ja dijaspora. Ja sam ti autohtono stanovništvo. Težim ka tome da budem dijaspora.
Eto, vas dvojica se skontate i to bude super.
Btw, I've always wondered this. How does it feel knowing your country is so strongly aligned with such an anti-gay place like Russia? Considering you're gay yourself?
Albanians have pretty much been sucking the U.S's dick since 1999. But I like the social liberal influence it's had on the people.
But a Russia influence can't possibly be a good thing for a gay person living in Serbia? I'm just curious on your opinion.
>implying that the only influence in Albania is not Sunni extremist influence
The USA influences the policies of Albania as much as China influences the policies of Serbia, that is to say, it doesn't, in the slightest.
I was in Russia many times, gays can do what ever the flying fuck they want, as long as it doesn't break decency laws. They can have sex, as long as it is not in the street aka breaking decency laws.
Since i went to a law school, i know the law well, and the west is latching onto straws, claiming that Russia has passed an "anti-gay" law, when no such thing happened.
Well you are half muslim, I hardly think that helps you.
Well I am not gay enough to have that huge concern. I find conservatives stupid on some other levels. I got bothered for different kind of things.
Well, being gay here sucks dicks, but I know couple of guys that are gay and have really rich sex life. On contrast to me who mostly dates women and has been on a dry spell for some time.
If you stick to your kind of people you will be fine. The thing we have most common with Russians is thirst for alcohol. I can tell you that once you're drunk you don't care that much.
You must be in denial. The Russian anti-gay propaganda law is very real.
And Albanians are less religious than Serbs are. I wasn't raised with any religion. And none of my extended family in Kosovo are religious either. I don't give a single fuck about Islam and I never have. While Serbs have strong ties to their Orthodox Church.
>I was in Russia many times, gays can do what ever the flying fuck they want
Gays in Russia can do what they want, they just have to keep it a secret. Which is not exactly a dignified life to live.
Fair enough. And my family isn't Muslim btw. I wasn't raised with religion.
Btw. I had this theory that LGBT Albanians and Serbs could bond over their similar experiences, but apparently we hate each other just as much.
Pa ja ne znam da li bi lik i hteo da se vidi samnom.
Anone, ajde ovaj je u pravu, ovo sto sam uradio je bilo bas pederski, ali u negativnom smislu, imas li neki throaway email anone? Ili skype, ili steam? Tako nesto da mi das, da te adujem, ako to zelis tj.
>my personal anecdote means statistics are redundant
>80% of Albanians are not Muslims, i swear on me mum u guiz
Fuck off back to Azerbaijan.
By that, most Serbs I know are liberal and in same time religious. That means nothing. Most religious people here tend to be liberal on a count that they are not dimwits.
I would like to say anything on count of Kosovo, but none information is available. You can't research anything or get a any access to any data. I think that speaks for a "country" quite a lot.
It's easy to be liberal when you live in Denmark.
>Fuck off back to Azerbaijan.
If you've ever been in Kosovo or Albania, you'd know that a huge majority doesn't give a fuck about Islam. We're building a Catholic Church in the middle of Pristina for fucks sake. Which is gonna be one of the tallest building there.
We're nationalistic as fuck. But we're not religious. Holding a cross and yelling "get the faggots out" is your thing.
>It's easy to be liberal when you live in Denmark.
True. But I visit there every year. Albania and Kosovo aren't pro-gay. That's not what I'm saying. But anti-gay views come from it's history with socially conservative communism. Not religion.
>If you've ever been in Kosovo or Albania
My family lived in Pristina, and was cast out by the filthy Albanian KLA.
When the Albanians killed Serbs, they did not do it because of their nationality, they killed the muslim Serbs as well because of their nationality, and nothing else.
You think that because you are a "liberal" in Denmark that the jihadists in Albania are automatically like you? That an attack on them is an attack on you?
Get your head out of the clouds.
Yeah, Muslims are liberal as fuck!
Visiting once a year doesn't go for shit, because you surround yourself with people you are familiar with. They can hardly come from communism. You were under Turks for as long as Serbs, and even worse you got indoctrinated.
Well people will kill people for whatever reason.
Jeeej! Idemo! Napred plavi! Sad ćete da se spanđate?
The reason your family was cast out is simple really. It was just after the war finished. Albanians were angry as fuck for their losses. Looking for revenge. Just as the Serbs revenge-killed Albanians during the NATO-bombings (which is the reason my family fled from Pristina btw).
My grandmother is Croatian. And she couldn't speak Serbian right after the war because people were still tense. Especially those who lost their families/kids etc.
But that tension is gone. At least most of it. I've heard people speak Serbian in Kosovo a few times. Nobody did anything, even if they didn't like it.
But you gotta stop with the "Albanians are religious extremist" thing. It simply isn't true.
>>My grandmother is Croatian. And she couldn't speak Serbian right after the war because people were still tense
Hahahaha, tense! Croats did a thing called holocaust on Serbs, tense is not the word you wanna use. You raped us!
>>The reason your family was cast out is simple really. It was just after the war finished. Albanians were angry as fuck for their losses
Okay, for you to understand this you need to know Serbs were cast out far before 1999 and long throughout history. Dating back to Great Serbian Migrations. I can't hold a history lesson at the moment.
Dzaba je da mi ovde sipce ucimo istoriju, nista oni to nece skapirati.
Najbolje je da ga pustimo da sere malo o tome kako je moralno superiorniji sto mi nismo pali toliko nisko da pusimo zapadni kurac... jos uvek.
Hah, anone, ti si bas optimistican. Ali dobro je to, bolje je biti optimista nego pesimista. Ali najbolje je biti realista, no ko zna sta se moze desitit? Mozda se nista ne desi, mozda se nesto neverovatno desi, videcmo.
>I can't hold a history lesson at the moment.
Your choice I suppose.
Getting back to LGBT related topics. Would you ever let an Albanian fuck you? Something tells me a lot of your Serb gays are bottoms.
I could probably hate-fuck one of yall.
Well I would be okay with being with Albanian woman and I wouldn't hatefuck her or anything. I have nothing against Albanian women.
Not a bottom and no. I like blonde guys that are really feminine.
I'd edit a danish flag, and "hate fuck a serb" in here, but it's a bit too late now.
I wish it was man, I wish it was.
Nemam pojma, nekako uvek sam bio iz fazona, ako ćeš da radiš nešto, trebaš da radiš kako valja.
Ima nešto u tome.
Like I said, liberal fags would be all over that, but I think you wouldn't get the same satisfaction out of it.
Here's a joke. Serb fucks a Croatian woman and she doesn't climaxes. He gets out of the bed and says
"Srbija 1 Hrvatska 0!"
Taj vic je manje smesan kada ga prevedes, ja mislim da ovo albansko govno taj vic nece razumeti.
Ma koliko Srbija bila sjebana zemlja, meni je drago da cu za 70 godina umreti, i ma sta bude bilo Srbiji, Albanija ce biti u gorem stanju.
Toliko mrzim ta Albanska govna da je to neopisivo. Posebno kada ovako krenu da baitaju, i misle da su nesto pametni, a ja im pokazem da nisu bas nesto pametni.
Ja ih ne mrzim, mrzim kada su ljudi zatucani. Iskreno, da si ti bio više average Serb tebe bi smarao. Ja volim da smaram ljude.
Smara kada tvrde da su liberalni. Niko nije liberalan. Ti si gay pa si average Serb, što poštujem. Ja sam više manje gay, pa više samo serem i mrzim generalno ljude više nego neko ko mrzi određene ljude.
You don't get it. Gay Serbian Bottoms hate Serbia just as much as you, and if not at least they don't care.
Of all people that hate Serbia, Serbs hate Serbia the most. Trust me on that one.
>Albanians have nothing to do at 1:30 AM in COPENHAGEN then to shitpost on an anonymous imageboard.
I see you are utilising the pro-gay stance of Denmark to the max.
Or have all the Arabs taken the twinks from you, resorting to you withdrawing into these fantasies of yours?
I've never met a Serb in person before. It's not every day I get a chance to vent out on yall like this.
And the Arabs are too busy stealing bikes and complaining over bacon in their sandwich.
I'd gladly stay and counter-shitpost the Albanian while discussing whatever comes along with Serb bros on here, but alas i need to get some sleep.
Ajde, laku noc narode, mozda cemo se ponovo sresti u ovakvim tredovima.
Oh, but before i leave, here's a message to the Albanian.
In the beginning you said you had a theory, that Serbian and Albanian gays could be friends. If you abstained from posting your countries flag, much like those nazis did at the stadium a few weeks ago, we would not have cared that you were albanian. But like always, peace is not your goal, you wish to cause conflict so you can profit from it.
Go and get some danes from the Arabs, Albanian. Your fantasies are never coming true.
>you claiming to be all liberal and wanna hatefuck Serb homosluts.
Fucking a Serb is the most liberal thing an Albanina can do.
It's our of saying "I know you guys reacted all crazy at the football match and all, I mean it was just a drone, but I'm still gonna be reasonable and give you the the satisfaction of riding my dick".
>If you abstained from posting your countries flag
What is it with Serbs and flags? I don't give a shit if I see the Serbian flag. Yall overreact too much.