You know, I have feelings of body dysphoria often but I don't completely concede into individualistic fantasy (gender identity) because I know in the long-run I will only hurt myself and others which will lead me to eventually kill myself from not being accepted, so why do u guys not just be androgynous rather than completely transition? Is the idea of being how you see yourself that powerful that you must transition?
I'm not criticising you, I just have foresight of my impending death following coming out and expressing my identity.
"I can't because others", how egoist of you.
>>8793319
Reminder that true egoism is Randian Objectivism, not leftypol "it's a spoop!" memes
>>8793340
That's unenlightened egoism, it's in reality a harsh and brutal collectivism, where many individuals are forced to submit and serve the will of a single person revered as a god. That's not my kind of self interest, I wouldn't call that self interest at all.
I want to feel like a man, how do I do that?
I heard that some anons did it, how did they do it?
Is it possible to at least stop feeling bad?
I can't transition, I'm too repressed + family issues.
How do I do it anons?
Please, I've been questioning myself a lot lately, I kind want to die. =(
Is transition the only way?
There must be something else.
>>8792942
Suicide and transitioning are the only "cures" that i know of
>>8792956
What about those anons saying that they cured it?
>>8792942
depends on how bad your dysphoria is and other specifics.
you can try to mitigate all the co-disorders like anxiety and depression with appropriate drugs
and find the ways to fulfill your social and personal needs - whatever they are - as much as it's possible without the gender/sex change
taking hrt without transition is an option too, you will at least prevent masculinization and leave a chance for transition few years later depending on your situation
plus it can have good mental effect and ease your suffering - hard to tell how much of it is placebo or real neurological antidepressant effect of estrogen but it works for many (and for me)
legbutt I need help
There's this cute girl in my anime club that I'm 75% sure is a very convincing trap.
If you squint your eyes she sort of looks like she has a guy's face, I've only see her wear pants or shorts, and she seems pretty flat, but her hair is really long, and I think she wears perfume.
She's really cute and I'm in the anime club so I wouldn't have the balls to say anything, but am I gay?
Well, are you a guy or a girl? Hard to say if you're gay without knowing it
If you're a girl then it's hella gay. If you're a guy it's not.
You're clearly attracted to her as a woman.
Also, she's in the anime club too- you two already have some common ground. Talk to her!
>>8792864
I'm a guy, yeah, and I've done a little talking simply by proximity.
Also, on the quiz games we were playing her usernames were always something like TrapsRnotgay or lolitrapgirl something with 'traps' in it.
We should change our flag to this
>>8792844
i agree
>loser flag
>>8792860
Daily reminder liftards lost in 1991. Since that time they're nothing, but a laughing-stock.
Why does no one care to discuss his bulge like they do Michael Obama's?
Why doesn't Alex Jones have any videos about "Little Adi"
>>8792673
Why do people care so much about Michael Obama's true (male) gender whereas no one gives two shits about how big the Fuhrer Furter appeared to have been???
Why does it surprise no one to see that Hitler clearly had a bulge long before there were fake dicks???
I’ve been thinking about pronouns, having hears that it can offend people or make them uncomfortable if you get them wrong. I mean, obviously right, who hasn’t heard that particular furore?
Thing is, I’m starting to wonder if it isn’t being blown out of proportion. From a grammar point of view, how often is this happening? Personally I can’t recall ever using someone’s pronoun in their presence, or someone using mine to me.
I can’t even think of many situations where I’d do so. Maybe introducing them? “This is Bob, he’s a builder.” But I’m not convinced I wouldn’t just say “This is Bob, a builder”.
So from what I can tell we’re fussing over a situation that comes up if:
A. You introduce someone
B. You use their pronoun doing so
C. The person being introduced is trans
D. The person being introduced actually cares about pronouns
E. You know them well enough to introduce them but somehow don’t know their pronoun
That’s a pretty small area of the Venn diagram. So, why does it matter what pronoun someone uses for you, given you never get to hear it?
Is the nitpicking the reason? Are politically correct people wanting to smug it up and blowing the issue out of proportion for that reason?
Or do people use pronouns *more* around trans people because they’re walking on eggshells about it (In which case the people who made it an issue are still the problem, they made people self-conscious about pronouns and thereby made things worse for trans people as they're now more likely to get pronouned at all)
People are nuts. He and she are normal, I can tolerare they. But still, when one like transition into dude, look like a dude and want they and declare himself non - binary, it is like height of stupidity.
>>8792548
But would you even use he/she/they in someone's presence in the first place? I'm not convinced we actually do.
>>8792561
I would he and she without a doubt they would feel strange but I could try. Everything else, no way
>Why do TERFs post like this?
Is there an explanation?
What did they mean by this?
>>8792503
TERF is a slur. Biological males need to stay out of women's only spaces.
>>8792509
>TERF is a slur.
>Biological males need to stay out of women's only spaces.
Fixed that for you.
>>8792503
If you were a woman, you'd understand.
As a male, what is the best place to get an online boyfriend?
>>8792399
No where. All dating websites and apps are 99% people looking for hookups (and rapists!) Most gay clubs are similar too, and you can't risk just hitting on anyone unless you don't mind getting punched.
Being gay is hell romance wise.
>>8792399
OkCupid is probably your best option, as it doesn't have as big a focus on sex as other gay sites and apps. That being said, I havent had much luck with it personally.
4chan
>back in middle school
>massive school dance coming up
>decide to go with some friends
>having a good time dancing
>this 9/10 older guy comes up to us and starts dancing with us
>starts getting a little 'intimate' with me
>feelsgoodman.jpg
>we hang out and cuddle a little for the rest of the night
>go back home after the dance feeling absolutely amazing
>go to school next day
>friend says he knows the guy
>heart skips a beat
>friend tells me that the guy is actually straight and was completely baked that night
>die a little on the inside
its kinda funny looking back on it
>>8792286
>back in what would be the equivalent of high school
>prom coming up
>go with my best friend, a tomboyish girl I kinda but not really had a crush on
>fast forward to nowadays
>I am agp and confused
>keeping it to myself
>last month best friend came out as ftm
oh the irony
>>8792286
thats kinda hot actually
>>8792320
maybe you can meta-like him for real now?
I just want to hook up with a boy (female) and live an average heteronormative patriarchy life where I work and take of home while he works and takes care of me.
Why are they so rare? Also, am I a chaser if they're the only ones that I feel attracted to?
Will I be forever alone?
>>8791899
yes you're a chaser.
yes.
>>8791899
are you a girl (female)?
>>8791899
>Girl
>Cis
>Straight
>On LGBT
Cant happen... Sure you are,hon
I hate to be a man, fucking shit, i want to killmyself.
i am a gay man and i accidentally masturbated to straight porn. i was browsing a gay porn site, so you know, i figured there wouldn't be any women in my gay porn. i found one video whose thumbnail looked promising so i clicked on it and it started mid-sex. the bottom was facedown into the bed in some black lace dress. that should have been a big warning sign, but i assumed it was some sissy fetish thing. not my cup of tea, but the top was hot and really going to town on her so i stuck around.
after the guy (and i) finished, the girl sat up and that's when i saw it... her tits. you should have seen my face. a visage of true terror. i just sat there in shock, contemplating what i had just done. when i broke free of my stupor, i whispered "no hetero" but i fear it wasn't enough
>>8792096
don't worry there are plenty of gays that watch straight porn without feeling attracted to women, in my case I do not feel anything for women other than disgust but some guys really turn me on but yet still I feel disgusted by having watched straight porn after cumming
>What is a femboy?
An androgynous male with feminine and soft features. Most are bi.
>Are femboys trans?
Some inevitably turn out trans. Some age into twunkhood and continue slutting it up on Grindr well past their mid twenties.
>Can I be a femboy?
It's possible. Masculine bone structure, height, and aging make it hard.
>Should I go on HRT?
Your choice. You'll look younger longer and you won't age like a man. There's more info in the pastebin.
>Is liking femboys considered gay or straight?
Gay. If you're on the fence, you're bi, like a lot of people.
>Pastebin
https://pastebin.com/BKqL0usb
>Discord links
https://pastebin.com/GJg6V6Yq
first~
tfw getting tits despite taking ralox
Trying to think nice thoughts but only shit ones are sticking around.
Is it even worth it for me to transition, when besides my dysphoria my life would be much easier repressing? Dating sites would be nowhere nearly as of a nightmare, I'd have to either bank or give up ever having my own offspring, and I wouldn't have to risk losing conservative family members.
If I could transition and live a mostly normal life I'd do so right now. Even if I couldn't have offspring. But I know that by transitioning I'd have to deal with harassment, TERFs, difficulty finding a partner, and a whole bunch of other shit for the entirety of my life.
>>8791617
the worst of transitioning will be your ''vagina'', it's nothing other than a wound and as such your body will try to heal it and then you will have to flush it and clean it from the accumulation sweat and hair and also consider how painful it will be (I truly can’t believe how any doctor can do this to people)
and then it will be nothing like you think, the best would be for you to be gay and to sweep these bad ideas from your head, you can be a femboy or a transvestite or whatever but do not mutilate yourself it will be your worst error, everybody would continue to see you as a man because you are a man and your ‘’vagina’’ will no change that, dating will be for you a hell no straight man wants you, no gay man would want you and then you will have this hellhole you call vagina that you will have to live with for all your live, if you want to be a transvestite or a femboy or whatever do it, take hormone pills or whatever but do not mutilate yourself and I say this looking for your bests, so don’t think I hate ‘’trans’’ people, I do not, just don’t ruin your future, life and penis for your delusions of thinking that you can be a woman
Do whatever you think is best for yourself.
>TERFs
Terfs are the biggest boogeymen of all time. You'd think there were roaming gangs of "terfs" beating up /lgbt/ mtfs in the streets... but its actually a single subreddit with less than 10k people in it? There will always always be people who hate you for who you are. There are groups of feminists and mras who hate me for being a housewife. But at the end of the day, who cares? Welcome to the real world.
>difficulty finding a partner
Won't it be difficult either way? There are people willing to date trans. Also would you be happy if you had a relationship with someone who loved you as your wrong gender.
>losing conservative family members.
Any family member who loves you will still love you. At worst, they might not understand what you are doing with yourself, but that doesn't mean they don't love you. You might lose like...some distant cousin or whatever, but blood is very strong. Many might even come around.
You don't need to transition if you aren't comfortable. It is very invasive and it will destroy your ability to naturally reproduce. But you need to do whatever is best for your own health.
>>8791617
Accept being a gay guy.
Find some guy to hookup with?
>>8791613
yes.
Lie in bed and read lewd greentext stories while moaning and grinding against a pillow
Get pegged by my girlfriend usually
I have little experience with anal. I've only used my fingers and a small sized butt plug for anal pleasure. The Bad Dragon dildo i was gonna get is Austin The Fox. I'm just wondering what size i should get. I see this question answered on other forums. The answer is usually "get a medium cuz you'll outgrow a small in no time.", but isn't getting a medium rushing it too fast and end up hurting myself? Obviously if i get a medium i'm not gonna try to take the knot first thing, lol. Also, does BD Cum Lube make those BD dildos slip in really well or something?
Just get some generic dildo first, you goon.
>>8791658
I did, and it wasn't a pleasant experience. Mostly cuz the area around the head was pretty rough. lol
Might as well jump in this thread to ask: What dildo do you guys recommend for a realistic look/feel? I'm looking for something primarily for fellatio to start.