How old were you when you started questioning if you were trans? How long did it take for you to find out? Was it like this since birth?
>>7902281
Before I even knew what the word transgender was
>>7902281
At 3 I can remember having symptoms of being transgender. Most of my friends were girls, I'd play mostly with my sister's toys, dress up in my mom's clothes and makeup, didn't interact much with boys, etc. This stuff probably started earlier but I can't remember anything at all from before I was 3.
At 12 I first learned than transgender people existed and what it was, but I was still in denial about being it myself. I also started having major dysphoria issues as a result of puberty and my body's development.
At 14 I decided that I was probably trans, but also decided that I should wait for puberty to finish before doing anything in case it can "fix" me and makes me feel like a man.
At 16-17 I was suffering near constant bouts of anxiety and depression as a result of my dysphoria. I missed probably half of my last two years of highschool because it was often so bad that I couldn't bear to go to school. My friends and family were worried sick.
At 18 I finally accepted being trans and that dysphoria wasn't just something that would go away without help. Came out to my friends and family, got a therapist, and started hrt within 6 months of that realization.
At 19 now, 9 months hrt, and I feel so much better about myself. I get gendered female about 90% of the time even though I only go outside in boymode, and I have a great boyfriend too. I still regret being so stupid when I was 14 and not pursuing help then and there, though.
Age 22: learn about the concept of transgender. Question self if I am trans also. Decide no, not trans.
>Want bf
>be fat
>losing weight but have visible stretch marks
>just want to be twinkish
I want to get off Mr. Bones wild ride
>>7902237
>Wanting to become a skeleton when you can be a human teddy bear
>>7903690
>thinking other people care about your opinions
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http://www.attn.com/stories/15518/creative-sexism-experiment-female-co-worker?utm_source=nevschulman&utm_medium=fbpost&utm_campaign=influencer
So this story has been getting some attention in the Independent, Daily Mail, Huffington Post, etc. But none of the outlets seem to mention that the girl in question, the nickyknacks girl, is trans? But it seems really obvious from her pictures on Twitter and stuff. I feel like this would change the entire premise of the story? And then apparently she recently wrote an article called "Working While Female" LOL. Does this kind of bother anyone else?
I think that might actually lend credibility to the stories. Someone who used to live as a male and is now living as a female would have unique insights on how females are treated as opposed to male, due to that "control" of past male experience. As for the email thing specifically, does it really matter? When they swapped names they presumably changed nothing about else about how they work. So even if two cis men did the experiment (but one used a female name), or two cis women with one using a male name, or two trannies, wouldn't the results be equally credible?
She also appears to totally pass, assuming the image you posted is her. Of course this doesn't matter for the emails, but assuming no one would guess she isn't actually a cis woman, that wouldn't significantly affect how people perceive and treat her at her workplace unless it makes her behavior not like that of a typical cis woman.
While it's an interesting thing to note, I don't think it actually has much relevance to the stories. They're both about how perception (I'm assuming this about the working while female one, I haven't read it), and she's presumably trying her hardest to be perceived as female. It's less about her and more about the people around her.
>>7901526
Wether or not she's trans has no bearing on the story, you just want to out her and scream TRANNY!!! cause she's leftists and you're not.
Last month, a 42-year-old English accountant who goes by the pseudonym Helen Highwater wrote a blog post disputing the idea that trans women are women.* Helen is trans herself; in the last few years, she says, she has taken all the steps the U.K.’s National Health Service requires before it authorizes gender reassignment surgery, which she plans to have in 2016. Yet she has come to reject the idea that she is truly female or that she ever will be. Though “trans women are women” has become a trans rights rallying cry, Highwater writes, it primes trans women for failure, disappointment, and cognitive dissonance. She calls it a “vicious lie.”
“It’s a lie that sets us up to be triggered every time we are called he, or ‘guys’ or somebody dares to suggest that we have male biology,” she writes. “Even a cursory glance from a stranger can cut to our very core. The very foundations of our self-worth are fragile.”
http://www.slate.com/articles/double_x/doublex/2015/12/gender_critical_trans_women_the_apostates_of_the_trans_rights_movement.html?wpsrc=sh_all_dt_tw_top
the cia niggers invented the concept of real wombyn
this is a problem with third wave feminism and the modern critical theory culture. he is preaching to the choir here. this is still overly complicating the premise that transition reduces dysphoric feelings. thats the entire premise. everything else is baggage.
>>7901513
Sounds like a hon who failed to pass and blamed other trans people for selling her a "big lie".
Can we get a /WhineGen/ going?
>tfw shitty hairline with ugly shitty color
>tfw athletic shoulders
>tfw hormones do nothing
>tfw will never ever resemble a woman
Just kys me now, famifam.
>>7901270
>tfw you're not important to any of the people who are important to you
>tfw you could disappear tomorrow and it wouldn't matter
>>7901282
iktf tbqh
I set a date with a guy who doesn't mind trannies and I'm already panicking. I mean he probably expects a sexy shemale pornstar meanwhile I'm just an ugly twink with long hair and conetits and now I am scared and nauseous he'll get really disgusted by me as soon as he sees me and calls me a hideous abomination to my face. What should i doooooo
>>7901199
did you catfish him? If not then you have nothing to worry about
i have this problem too
sometimes i think i look pretty good in some pictures but most of the time i feel like i look like an obvious tranny
>>7901274
No. We just didn't exchange pics yet.
Is BBC safe? I'm tempted.
>>7901084
I recommend this, but it's generally pretty safe, yes.
http://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b00qff3s/episodes/player
>>7901121
>requires a license
>>7901084
do you want aids
Do you always have to clean out your ass before sex or do you just have to wait until you go?
>>7900976
Bump
>>7900976
>Urgent Message from an Exclusively Top Guy
Please do. I love you, but no one likes poop dick .
Plus, No tongue til you do
>This has been an Emergency Public Safety Annoucement
>MtF with pretty bad eczema
I'm fucked aren't I
no cis girls have ever had eczema and they don't make any sort of skin moisturizing products
totally fucked
>>7900830
Head over to the skincare general on /fa/ and ask for some tips?
>>7900830
Take 50mg of Zinc each day with food. You'll see changes in your skin within a day or two. softer, smoother, less irritation.
Ask doctor first if it's okay.
Hiya ladies! Have any of you girls tried FemSkin? I wear it all the time now, and I get referred to as female everytime when outside! I literally couldn't live without it now.
I know it seems weird, hon, but don't worry! Like I said, cis people just think I'm any other girl.
xxx
Goodbye hoooorseeesss
>>7900505
See im ok with these sort of fetishists getting ko but not actual trans girls.
>>7900505
>tfw no society where it's acceptable to wear a plastic anonymous face
Do some of the MTFs here think that they understand womanhood and femininity better than cis women do?
And pray tell, why do you think that?
>>7900220
>And pray tell, why do you think that?
Excuse me, have you SEEN modern western women? My father is more feminine than that since they've already sacrificed their femininity long time ago.
>>7900233
>Excuse me, have you SEEN modern western women?
Nice meme /pol/ friend
When I go to town at peak lunch hours to look at qt girls (seeing them in the flesh is better) plenty of them seem very feminine.
>>7900233
ok.
wrong.
I was thinking of going to a gay bar tonight since its my bday.
Do you think I will find a bf there?
>tfw bone dry Grindr
>>7899831
Go and have fun. If you find a guy then cool. Just don't make it took much of a goal or you'll psych yourself out of it
>>7901350
Pic related. Favorite hometown gay bar/club
> be normal little girl
> have kid relationships with boys
> have my first kiss with my bf in seventh grade
> start working out in eighth grade and immediately become obsessed with it
> get more and more fit and more and more gay simultaneously
> come out junior year, it was already obvious anyway
> get gf and lose virginity
> now a senior in college, still fit, still gay, have a different gf
Has anyone else experienced something like this? I'm not really sure I was ever straight, but I thought I was. But from the time I started working out I became gay.
I've read on /fit/ how sometimes guys will become gay because they appreciate a fit male body more once they start working out, but this is different because the girls I date aren't fellow gym rats, just regular girls.
>>7899652
Too much test made you a faggot
>>7899662
Yeah I think it could be a hormonal thing. I'm also 5'10, which makes me think it's hormones or I'm predispositioned to being masculine somehow
>>7899652
a lot of guys on /fit/ claim that too, guess its normal
Hey guys I need some advice. I'm in a great relationship with my girlfriend and I love her lots but all my life I have felt bi sexual. A part of me has always wanted to go experiment with men to see if it's true but I never did. I want to now more than ever figure out more about my sexuality but I don't want to cheat on my girlfriend. I also can't talk to her about it because I know for a fact it would damage the relationship. Any advice?
Should I experiment and not tell her? If I decide I like sex with men more I would most likely start pushing them romantically but if I decide I don't I want to stay with her forever.
Well, you either cheat or you don't. Just know there's a consequence that could devastate your partner.
''Tis life.
Defs not dude you have a Relationship and are happy in it no? No amout of sex is worth your relationship and what if your not bi and hate it then you just feel like shit and acted shit
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i've posted this a few times before but there still aren't many voters
a blogger i read a lot is running an intellectual turing test, a game in which you read an essay that's written by someone who claims to be writing for a certain side, and you have to tell if they actually believe the side they're arguing or not
the test in question is blanchardians vs people who believe being trans is caused by innate gender identity
we're six essays in so far, all of them written by people claiming to believe in innate gender identity
there aren't many voters so more people should give their opinions
Wouldn't a far better way to do it be to do it be to have trans people and their cis gendered counter parts write an essay on an neutral topic and then see if normies could tell them apart?
If they can't it sort of proves that it doesn't matter or that the test is flawed. More likely though it proves that Trans people are indistinguishable from their internal genders.
>>7899260
it's not trying to prove one view over the other, it's trying to see how good each side is at understanding their opponents
how the fuck are we still talking about the cotton ceiling.
how many years are we going to be talking about this non issue