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Is it impossible for androgynous people to ever have a dominant position in a relationship? I'm starting to think so.

I've been assertive all my life other than a brief period of self-consciousness in my pre-teens/early teens as I came to grips with not being like other guys, physically, emotionally, and sexually. But I was in sports when I was younger, debate team in high school, college newspaper, local politics/activism, etc.

My love life is nothing like that.

All of the guys I'm attracted to see me as a girl. Full stop. Even guys who have seen the strong side of my personality. And even if I end up choosing where we go eat all the time or I initiate intimacy, somehow I always end up as the feminine bedfellow. I try not to dress feminine, but womens' jeans fit me far better than mens'.

That doesn't mean I'm always the bottom. I've had sex with a jock who preferred it up the ass 9 times out of 10, where he still treated me like the fragile feminine component of the relationship no matter how aggressive I tried to be towards him in bed. He always wanted to finish on my face.

Imagine walking in public and your boyfriend is at least a foot taller than you and he puts his hand in your back pocket, or on your hip, or draped on your shoulder, and you're so short that your hand is just on his side or hip, cementing the idea in any one's head of who you are to this person.

I'm rambling, I know. I'm just frustrated. In about an hour my boyfriend will get off work and text me asking me what's up. He'll want to come over. We'll watch TV. He'll want to cuddle. That'll lead to sex. That sex will involve him fucking me. I'll probably cum along the way because sensitive prostate and he's big. We'll go to sleep. He'll spoon me like a girl. He'll get up first and kiss me bye like a husband leaving a wife for work.

I shouldn't complain. It can be nice. It's nice to be cared about and looked after. But it just feels wrong. I'm in the wrong body.

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What did nature mean by making bottoms more susceptible to STD's than tops?

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I have a serious choice to make now, and I wanted to know what everyone thought so here goes.

Today my therapist offered me the chance to take Hormones, I said I wanted to but wasn't sure because it was a big decision to make (I'm MTF). And she said when I was ready that she would get them for me.

I am 24 right now but I will be 25 in May and I have a list of pros and cons currently, I know no one can make the decision for me, but I wanted to know everyone's thoughts, especially if you've been through this as well.

Pros
My body will get more feminine
I will start a process to someday have a vagina
It will probably make me happier with who I am
I will finally be on the path to be who I am on the inside.

Cons
My family will disown me in a heartbeat
I will be forced to come out (I have still only told a small amount of people).
It may not work well on me.
I am worried about jobs.
I am worried about looking at least decent after transitioning (I don't care how many surgeries etc it will take).
I am worried about living on my own without help.
I will not be able to have children naturally anymore (I don't care about sex, because I never liked it as a male).

There is a lot to consider, any help would be appreciated.

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I decided I'm going to try to transition in April but I haven't figured out what exactly I'm going to do. I can either come out to my parents and try to go to the informed consent clinic that's like an hour away from me assuming their insurance plan that I'm on covers it. Thing with this is I don't know if their insurance even covers it I would have to actually come out to them and I have no clue how that would go and I'm pretty sure cypro would be better than the spiro that I would no doubt get from going there. Other option is just order hormones online. I'm kinda worried about ordering stuff like this online just because I've never ordered anything online before and I'm pretty sure this is illegal. Chances are my parents will see it in the mail because we live in an apartment building and we have these weird mailboxes that they check everyday before and after going to work. I never get anything in the mail so they would probably even open it and see whats in it. So either way I go about this I think it's gonna force me to come out. My mother has been a lot more accepting of me and generally seems to love me unconditionally I could always be wrong but if I came out it would be to her and not my dad. The thing that worries me the most about ordering hormones is my dad being the one to find it in the mail and flipping out since I never really had a great relationship not that it was bad with my dad and hes said some homophobic things before so I can only imagine he feels worse about trans people. While I'm here I might as well ask if I ordered them online which do you think I should get? Was thinking cypro progy. Also I'm a 19(almost 20) year old neet loser with basically no friends so I couldn't even ship it to someone elses house. Sorry for the really long post.

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Why is the idea of men, both in mind and body, removing their genitals surgically when they do not identify as or have any desire to transition to female such a foreign concept to me?

This makes me feel normal in being transgender.

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So even Google is humoring trannies now. When are people going to learn that we don't deserve rights? And this cartoon is a little confusing, is it saying we're the new gays, Muslims, Jews, and disabled people? What does Einstein's theory of relativity have to do with this? And why don't the disabled kids get letters? I'm confused.

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Do you ever feel glorified in your faggotry?

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Any anons wanna share fantasies with a pre t tgirl?

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We have twice as many options.

Prove me wrong that we're not superior, according to multiple threads we're far more intelligent as well.

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tfw no bf

Discord invite: https://discord.gg/BCtmTWx

Previous thread: >>8006975

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This thread is for all the mtfs out there (especially late transitioners) who basically look like femme twinks with conetits.

>that tfw when your early transitioner gf bullies your unsightly conetits every night ;-;

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>Tfw introverted closeted femboy

Existence is pain.

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If you were having a child through IVF treatment and found that the embryo this month meant the child would be born infertile would you delay the pregnancy until next month`s embryo? On a seperate occasion you find out the embryo will be LG or T would you delay the pregnancy? Honestly speaking I probably would in both cases just because I want life to be as plain sailing as possible for any kid but I`d love to get some other opinions even trolls are welcome to vent.

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Hey,
Im the schizo transgirl which wasnt certain wether my "trans" (?) feelings were caused by the schizophrenia or not.
I talked with my psychiatrist about it and he said it can't be due to transsexuality. I straight up told him I keep having and used to have thoughts about wanting to be a girl and if its F64 (GID). He seemed to didn't even know GID or transsexuality, I don't really know what to do.

I can't even order hormones illegally because I have a financial caretaker and theres a risk it's actually just the schizophrenia and I mess up my whole life.

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>tfw addicted to taco bell breakfast
>tfw go over my calorie intake just to munch and crunch on some tbell

Better than penis ngl tbqh