/lgbt/ gets accused of being sjw. Is it true?
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>>8122747
lol nice meme.
>>8122747
traditionalism: 83%
liberal feminism: 58%
radical feminism: 13%
marxist feminism: 12%
cultural feminism: 11%
straight male (female)
>>8122761
>traditionalism: 83%
Trent? Say it isn't so...
I've never posted about this nor have I told anyone, it wouldn't go over well. But ever since I can remember I've wished and or wanted to be a girl. The only boy out of 3 sisters makes me feel cheated.
I'm 22 now and I feel like there is no chance for me to transition because of age and the people in my life like my GF and parents.
Any way I can express this side of me without judgement? I guess what I'm asking is how I would go about embracing it without the serious repercussions of a total MtF transformation. I wish I could do that above all else but as I said, it seems too risky =\.
Anyone else feel this way? Sorry if it seems like I'm just complaining but I didn't know where else to go to to talk about it
See a psychologist.
>>8155877
22 isn't too old by the way. 25 is generally considered too late all memes aside. Try talking to your sisters about it if you're on good terms with them.
>>8155883
You think so? I mean to determine if I actually identify as female or just random feelings?
They opened a new transgender toilet in our college, it's the disabled toilet
I'm not even a tranny but I'm suddenly pretty upset about this "your kind can all go to that bathroom over there" crap.
>>8155828
It's not a bad option for non-passing trans people. If you pass, just use the regular bathroom.
Nah I hate fags so they don't deserve a toilet at all, just dig them a hole so they can shit and piss in it
I feel like if I transition I probably wont be happy since I will just be a man in a dress but if I don't I wont be happy because I hate myself. On one hand maybe I transition and can kinda pass and be a little more happy or I could end up looking like a freak and be more depressed. I look normal as a guy but I fucking hate myself thing is I don't know if I would be that much happier if I transitioned. Potentially throwing away family and basically everything and still looking like a man after is pretty scary honestly. I wish I transitioned in my teens so I would have better odds.
>>8155090
What motivates you in life?
>>8155115
To be 100% honest with you I kind of just exist. Nothing really motivates me.
>>8155152
This is probably a bigger problem for you than your gender issues.
So I have a problem folks, I inherited the family homestead a few years back I was 19 then(family car accident it took my Mother Father and my little sister), i'm 25 now and well I'm lonely and I'm not sure what to do. The Farm gives me a purpose in life and it's all I know, and I've gone to the nearby towns and tried to start something with someone (I'm gay btw) and well the response is always negative because of my lifestyle I think. but also I just don't know how to approach guy's I guess I've only been with two others in the past, but both of them moved away. But anyway this is how the last date went,
>meet a guy at the pub,
>ask if he'd like to meet again next weekend,
>agrees & and gives me his number,
>Next week I pull up in the truck
>he's already kinda putoff by the farm truck
>Take him to the diner and buy him dinner
>Things seem to be going well
>We're talking but he seems distracted
>we get back into the truck and I take him home
>I pull in front and ask if I can see him next week
>he say's why not see me "Inside"
>I'm shocked honestly
>I tell him I've got an early day tomorrow but I really enjoyed the evening and would love to see him again
>he says don't bother calling him anymore and slams the door.
The last three dates have been the same, what am I doing wrong? How do I improve things next time? please help?
>>8154467
Clark kent was a farmer too, just saying
>>8154467
It might not be your lifestyle, but if you do nothing else then you might not come across as very interesting.
And the picking dates up in a farm truck thing might not be the best idea
Yeah you might not have the same selection as a big city but if you put yourself out there you're more likely to find bf
>>8154589
Do people get offended if I don't sleep with them on the first or second date? I was always told not to even kiss till the second or third
It's not gay to fuck someone like this if they think they're a woman
that's true
>>8154421
Nice ass... but I do not like muscles
>>8154431
>not liking big feminine tits and booties
What are you fag
Was Aaron Hernandez /ourguy/?
>>8154008
too back he necked himself
>>8154008
>mfw biscum commit murders and then kill themselves to avoid prosecution to the fullest extent of the law only to go get BTFO by god in the afterlife
w-w-why do people hate hate bisexuals? :^))))))
>>8154008
>/ourguy/?
kek I thought I was on /pol/
vidya edition, what vidya are you playing?
i am replaying dragon age inquisition with my qunari mage and romancing my political advisor, i love dragon age lore.
dragon age > mass effect anyday.
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•Checking your levels: http://www.privatemdlabs.com/lp/Female_Hormone_Testing.php
•Reducing Muscle http://www.trans-health.com/2001/lose-muscle-gain-fat-dieting-for-mtfs/
•Size charts: http://www.americanapparel.net/sizing/default.asp?chart=womens.pantse_conversion_chart.php
•Transition time lines: http://imgur.com/a/qWpxv
•Voice Training: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/1ske7b/mtf_voice_training_regimen/
•Voice Help: http://webjedi.net/projects/lgbtq/speech-therapy/
•IRC: https://www.rizon.net/chat#mtfg
old: >>8152297
tfw no interest in vidya anymore
I hope after I have lost weight that I get a boyfriend
>alot of people want to look/dress/act androgynous
>alot of people are attracted to androgyny
just fucking let people be this way openly already, its not that weird you fucks
>>8153313
Hell yes I'm in.
>>8153313
Yes yes yes yes.
>am masculine woman (not dyke, just muscular with "masculine" interests)
>unbelievably attracted to taller androgynous people
My dream is OP's dream
>>8153313
No one cares how you look/dress/act. You're not a victim and it's weird to act like one.
So last night I posted pic related, and you all pushed me in the right direction. Some of you wanted an update, so here it is.
I went over to his dorm at around 1130, after he asked me to after I texted him and then we had a quick chat over the phone.
When I got there, it was pretty awkward for the first maybe 10 mins cus we were just small talking. But I really wanted to have closure.
So I just asked straight up if that night he asked if I was single was because he was interested, and that I wanted to know because I was too.
His face went all red and he didnt say anything, wouldn't even look at me. I had to kind of pry it out of him, I but I knew he wanted to say it. After a bit of reassuring, he shyly said yes. I felt my face going all red but I didn't care.
I told him that I was really, really happy that it was mutual, and I put my hand on his thigh.
He grabbed my hand and moved it up slightly towards his lap, and then I noticed he was crying a bit.
I asked him why, and he said "I'm just feeling so much I can't explain it". Then he went on to say that he didn't actually think I'd ever reciprocate, and then I told him that I felt exactly the same way.
Then he told me he was really happy and relieved, but still too anxious or nervous to do anything ( I think he's still uncomfortable with his sexuality), so I said we could take it slow, which reassured him a bit.
At this point it was something like half past midnight, and we both had class, so I said we should both get some sleep and talk on the weekend some more. He said okay, we hugged for a bit, and I left.
Now we have a "date" on saturday, mostly just gonna talk/hang out like normal, except now theres no more awkward tension.
Thanks to the anons who replied and whacked me on the head with the opportunity I was missing :^)
>>8152895
Cute af anon, I'm proud of you
>>8152895
aww
i'm happy for you, anon. glad you grew some balls and did the right thing
Who's gonna be top?
ATP questions and answers
>Thoughts and feels
>Help, advice, guidance
>Be cozy and chill out
>Share hot tomboys you wish you were
>What is ATP?
Autotomboyphilia, from Greek αὐτό- ("self"), English tomboy and Greek φιλία ("love"). Broadly, arousal to the thought of being a tomboy. It can take many forms - being aroused at imagining or seeing yourself with a tomboyish body, dressing in clothes that make you appear like a tomboy, acting in stereotypical "tomboy" ways, or others.
>Isn't ATP just discredited pseudoscience?
No, ATP is a real phenomenon. Some people disagree with AFP Anon's Typology, which included ATP, but that people experience ATP is indisputable.
>I'm ATP, does this mean I'm not trans?
No, you can be ATP and trans.
>Does ATP mean you're not trans or repressed trans?
Many ATPs do have at least some dysphoria. Some people with ATP will go on to transition, while others are content with incorporating it into their sex life or simply the occasional indulgence. It varies greatly in intensity. If ATP consumes a lot of your mental energy or causes you lots of distress, it is probably worth asking more questions.
>>8152647
Are you implyin that pic is a tomboy?
Just having a cap doesn't mean tomboy you know
>>8152662
Read the filename.
>tfw this is actually my life
Does anyone else really enjoy dildos and whatnot when masturbating but have troubles enjoying sex?
Like I masturbate to the thought of butt sex all the time and I enjoy my dildos a lot but I have trouble enjoying actual sex. I always take forever when I jerk off cause it seems like I have trouble cumming or something, and I don't really rapidly plow my butt or anything moreso just kind of gently move the dildo around lol
Plus I have trouble with anything that's longer than like 5.75"-ish long and it like hits the back of the rectum and hurts a ton. I just can't do it and I have no idea why. I'm not sure if I'm just defective or what though. I get a ton of anxiety during sex as well and it makes it hard to enjoy even with people I'm familiar with....
I've been seeing this guy for quite a while now and I've never been able to cum during sex and most of the time I'm just concentrating on trying to avoid pain. It's annoying because I have zero issues masturbating with dildos....
>>8152619
I'm the same way. If you find a way around this, let me know!
I never jerk off during sex. If I'm bottoming the act of having sex is the whole point, not cumming. If it happens(and it does like 80% of the time), it happens without me touching my dick and its because the sex is really good and his dick is hitting that sweet spot, but it's still just a bonus.
Real life is not porn. You really need to stop trying to fill out some bullshit sex checklist or whatever and just find your own groove and what works for you.
If all you want is to cum, then just jerk off with the guy or something.
shut the fuck up and let your partner use you like the cumrag you are, slut. nobody cares how your butt feels, you are a hole for his pleasure
>tfw you're at the club and you see a thicc girl and your ATP hits you like
>>8152504
>tomboys
>thicc
>>8152504
>when your thicc underclassman wants to be your gf but you just want to be her
>>8152594
>ATP problems
I feel like I am an outsider in cis heterosexual world, most things that exist are targeted at cis heterosexual people and I think like I have no place in such world so I stay asocial no life forever
>>8152480
Are you repressing and unable to fit in among cis men or stealth and unable to fit in among cis women?
>>8152518
Not op but I'm the first and I think if I transitioned I would be the second or I would be a twinkhon unable to fit in with cis women
>>8152526
How do you fail to fit in with men and how do you think you would also fail with women?
When are early transitioners finally going to get their revenge against late transitioners for everything that they've done to them?
>>8152381
>women getting anything done
>>8152400
early transtioners have accomplished everything and every right that you cherish as a transperson
soon