>ftm
>best friend has expressed crush on me numerous times over the last 2 years an made me feel horrible dysphoria
>still friends because I was desperate for friends
>now he thinks I have a dick because I showed him a pic of me in underwear and pack around him now
>I asked once and he denies feelings now but I'm still scared
I'm still pre t but very andro, most strangers label me male, and have gotten a lot more masculine than when he first liked me. The complication is that I have feelings for him romantically but would never never want to kiss or bang him, and the thought of him wanting to do that or jerking off to the thought of me makes me suicidal. We cuddle when we're alone together very often, and even though he never has a boner even if we spend the entire night and morning holding each other, does that even mean anything?
I guess I'm just paranoid because closer to the beginning of our friendship he told me he only talked to me because he wanted to fuck me. He made it pretty clear since then he wouldn't stick around if that was the case, but I just really really don't want him to like me that way.
Is there any way to know if he does? Is it possible for a virgin guy like him to even have this sort of relationship where we cuddle and can be sort of sub/dom at times, without him thinking sexual thoughts? It would literally make me want to die if that was the case, but l need to know.
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He loves you. You sound typically female in the way you're ignoring the obvious, no offence.
Experiment: tell him you are considering not transitioning and have feelings for him.. See what happens.
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>>8827118
I'm not ignoring, I just want to know if it is true or not. Is there a way he could just have asexual "love" for me, the same way I do for him? I mean the no boner thing...
I also did do the "I have feelings for you" thing which led to us not talking for a few weeks because he said some horrible graphic stuff about what he'd want to do to me and I still feel disgusted and sorta traumatized/hurt because of it
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>>8827729
Either way he'll never meet anyone else if hes clinging to you all the time. You should tone it down a bit and help him get a girlfriend, that way your original problem wont even matter
Does liking traps make me gay?
I don't like regular guys, I just like guys that are cute like a girl, so I don't think I count as a bisexual.
But I don't want to categorize myself as straight and have traps ignore me because traps are what I lust for.
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>>8826951
If someone doesn't like masculine-looking women, that doesn't make them gay. Same logic applies to you. You're bi, accept it.
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>>8826951
XY + XY = homo
you cant fully appreciate a trap and her feminine penis until you accept that you are at least partially homosexual.
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Saying your bi cause you like traps is stupid.
I tried to watch gay porn and it's a lot harder to ejaculate than if I were watching traps and took me 5-6 minutes longer.
It's not even a fair deduction imo.
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Fucking my husband's sister
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So me and my husband want a baby. My husband sister is 23 out of college with no job and no boyfriend and has agreed to carry our child, which is nice because it will be related to both of us by blood. We have gone through three cycles of artificial insemination, each cycle failing so far. Each cycle cost about $450 but money is not really the problem, my husband's sister doesn't like the insemination. The have to put her in a crazy chair with stirrups, shove a tube into her cervix and then inject her with my sperm. She is wondering why we are doing this when I could just get her pregnant the natural way. If i have sex with her for the 3 days she is ovulating there is only a 20% chance she will get pregnant, so if we do go through with it I might be having sex with her a lot. I have never had sex with a woman and I feel awkward having sex with my sister in law. I really don't know what to do.
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>>8826925
take a viagra and go doggy style
t. straight guy who fucks hideous hookers (cheap)
i come here because /lgbt/ is more comfy and positive than /r9k/
>inb4 hiv positive
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>>8826925
Fuck husband with condom, before you cum remove condom and cum in her while minimizing the sex? Idk just a thought, but it's the first thing that I thought of. Good luck raising a family.
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>>8826945
Seems fucking awful. Ifs bad enough i would have to have sex with her but to have him there with his own sister.
Would it be rude if I just jerked off next to her and put it in when I am about to cum? The weird thing for me is I don't know how to actual have sex with her. Like do I kiss her or look her in the eyes?
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We were good friends because we bonded over our DID but then he made an alter out of my fictional introject and it was then i realised he never had DID.
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>dumb people faking DID so they can LARP 24/7
Cringeworthy
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>>8826859
Fuck you. Copies of fictive introjects are still valid.
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>>8826797
Assholes who fake disorders for attention are the fucking worst. Prob isn't even trans. Just a cis shitlord doing whatever they can to get attention.
MTF here. Is it possible to get rid of really thick black body hair?
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>>8826724
yes, shave and then kys
the hair won't grow back
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>>8826724
Have you ever heard about laser?
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>>8826724
I'm probably stating the obvious here but uuhhhhh hormones?? your body hair will thin out after a year or two
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As a twinkhon, is it even remotely possible to achieve a feminine waist without resorting to corsets or rib removal? There's only a few inches between my hip bone and my ribcage that consists of soft tissue and I'm doubtful my waist can shrink at all, regardless of weight gain.
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Post your bust-waist-hip measurements OP
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>>8826731
53-47-49
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>>8826731
32/33-27/28-34/35 (not sure exactly)
So my waist is quite large for my bust and hip size ;_;
Have my first appointment today.
My biggest concern is my body hair: I am extremely hairy. Tried lazer and waxing, neither worked. I'm counting on asking for a blocker/pill that will stop the body hair.
Is there such a thing?
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>>8826707
You can't stop hair growth with anything. The best thing you can do is electro and that lasts for about 10 years. Just get yourself a epilator since it is the easiest long term heir removal technique.
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>>8826720
Isn't there any pills I can take to block male hormones and make the hair at least much weaker?
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>>8826720
Wat electrolysis is permanent. Laser and ipl are only fda approved for hair reduction, but electro is permanent
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Going to Gay court: normie crime unit
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Be me
Have gay thoughts, figure it's a phase and ignore.
Phase isn't going away
>Uh oh
60% guy attraction
40% girl attraction
Have sex with females "cool that was sex"
Have sex with males "holy fuck this is actually sex"
Here's my problem- I didn't get this whole denial thing out of the way until my early 20s so there was this awkward teens phase where I'd be half ass pursuing women trying to prove to myself the gay thoughts weren't mine.
Well now I'm done fooling around and in a great relationship with a guy and my circle of friends are important to me. My concern is they'll assume I'm just prison gay as they saw me pursuing women in my teens. I just feel like sneaking guys around for years worked a little too well.
Are they right? Cuz gay sex is waaaay better than straight sex and I don't see anything long term with a woman romantically or emotionally- it always just felt like I dont care what they have and vise versa but with guys it's so easy and I really connect.
This whole ordeal just feels like I have to somehow justify myself not from my perspective but from theirs.
I dunno it took a long time for me to really let myself be myself. There's a lot they didn't see that I did. I feel like if I fill them in they'll assume I'm just making shit up.
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I prefer gay sex but want to live with a woman. Makes me extremely sad.
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>>8826733
date a mtf
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>>8826733
Yep this, but in that I'm actually romantically attracted to girls almost exlusively. Don't really care about how I present myself. I think the way forward is to find a truly bi girl.
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is 22 too old to become passable ? I'm an mtf i really hate looking masc it makes me really depressed but I'm worried im too old to become passable what are my options? I don't wanna end up a hon should i even bother?
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22 is not too late but don't wait or you will regret
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>>8826677
Age doesn't matter as long as you don't have a huge head, manly ass facial characteristics like a prominent brow or a titanic jaw, big manly body and man crashing shoulders. Problem is that the further you age, the more your body masculinizes so you better hurry and make your dreams come true before it's too late. Unless you're all of these things already which might fuck your passing pretty bad.
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>>8826686
i have gross gorilla shoulders but i have a round face though also nasty ass looking hands thats another issuse
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Trans people, what causes the most dysphoria in you?
For me, it's probably my hip to shoulder ratio. It's so painfully masculine that I want to kill myself whenever I look at it or compare it to that of cis women. My height is fine, and my face is decent enough (and if not, at least fixable). But my shoulders and hips? No amount of hormones surgery can make them feminine.
Also, general dysphoria thread. Post pics and other things that make you want to kys.
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My face and voice is the worst. I don't give a shit about anything else let alone social dysphoria.
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>>8826579
Wait, is this dysphoric because the person in the picture is trans and reminds you of yourself? Or is this supposed to be an "unattainable cis female body", cause like, if so, that's a really low target to aim for.
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>>8826592
It's a random pic I got from another thread. No clue if she's trans or not. Either way, it's the fact that it's a low target that causes dysphoria, because I know I'll never achieve even that.
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which one of you is my qt trap gf
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me
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>>8826580
wow post discord and lets be lewd
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>>8826556
Are you cute, also
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Fucking trannies stop ruining things god i hate trans """"""""""""" people""""""""""""""""
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But I need your validation to make me feel better
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>>8826529
gimme some approval sugar ;)
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>>8826529
>trannies ruined the military
It was already fucked
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Hi all!
I'm a newfag here so please be nice! ^^
I'm interested in learning how to draw trans women, but a recent stint on tumblr has left me with a lot of doubts. I'd like to know how to draw trans women/design characters without making an offensive caricature by accident @-@
I know lots of trans people are here, so I thought I could get some feedback! Trans boys are also welcome to give their feedback, since art knowledge can't hurt!
Please help a newbie learn the ropes!
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Step 1: Draw a girl
Step 2: Give her a penis
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>>8826502
Make sure to get the feminine benis bulge just right.
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Oh, I'm not interested in drawing porn, just sayin
Basically draw someone with otherwise femine features? I know some trans girls have wide foreheads and long torsos but other than that I'm suuuper hesitant to begin
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Why are Eastern transwomen (ladyboys) so much easier to deal with than Western Trans? Serious, its a stark contrast.
>A lot nicer without the vain bitch attitude many transwomen try imitate from regular women
>Easier on the eyes when they transition
>Less Hons compared to the West
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>>8826447
Because you have a warped view based on the internet?
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>>8826447
have you actually been out east, especially to Thailand?
it really sounds like you haven't
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>>8826447
Assuming your claims are true let's look at the following
>socially acceptable to transition there
>information available more easily since so many people transition
>you're not gonna be 20 years old hearing the term "transgender" for the first time
>anyone who wants to transition does when they're young
>no gatekeeping
With all of this it's no wonder they're a lot nicer, they're accepted by their society.
Early transition makes look better and less honlike
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My boyfriend has a slight humiliation fetish for being teased about his size. He's small. I don't really know how to tease anybody but I'm not lettin him know that. Is there a guide to humiliation online or some resources I can study?
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>>8826424
Go to /d/ and search in the catalog "sph". You'll learn the basics.
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>>8826424
Can't give you a resource, but just say things like "Hey there, shorty", "What you up to, little one?" "Look at you all cute and small".
Make sure to ruffle his hair or lean on his head if you're tall enough.