Smart tip of the day: You don't have to worry about passing ever if you never start presenting socially as a woman tbqh
>>8224833
Except when you have to start downplaying your feminine features because you can't pass as female and don't look like a normal male anymore.
>>8224844
>when you have to start downplaying your feminine features
Don't have any tbqh
I literally look like a Chad with metal guy hair
>>8224864
>I literally look like a Chad with metal guy hair
I have the strangest boner right now.
If two lesbians got a divorce, would the "man" in the relationship have to pay a ton of alimony to their spouse, which would devastate them, they'd be out of a job, and then kill themselves? Sorry, none of this happens in the yuri manga I read, so help me out.
>>8223632
It's currently untested in the courts how to determine the 'man'. Also untested is how the police decide who to arrest if there's a domestic dispute.
>>8223691
So they don't drink themselves to death after a break up?
>>8223632
A friend of my cousins is a divorce lawyer and he said doing gay/lesbian divorces are quite a bit harder than normal divorces just due to the fact that there's no inherent court system biases that can be quickly abused by lawyers on each side.
Obviously abusing court/judge biases is kind of sleezy but that's exactly what you're paying your lawyer to do technically
Anyone here got experience being a rent boy?
Preferably in the U.K.
How did you get into it?
>>8223428
wait and see if the libdems do make a comeback next month. no point entering the market if demand isn't good.
>rent boy
That really invades those dendritic cells.
>>8223482
Man that post really stimulates the axon hillock
are there seriously no chill MtFs left in the world?
>met one girl who seemed okay but i found out she was a trip fag, so i blocked her on everything
>trip fags are annoying and almost always are AGP
>other girl i got close too was always talking about suicide and being a depressed emo 24/7
>blocked her after a manic episode she had within 1 month of being friends
>met another girl who seemed chill for a bit but then started hitting on me and getting creepy
>sigh, blocked
>last friend I disowned would talk non-stop about trans stuff, it was the only thing on her mind
>talking about gender is ok unless its 24/7..
>blocked her for having no other hobbies other then her identity
i just want a friend who isn't a total hon and isn't insane, someone i can be real with, someone who isn't a depressed baby tranny who thinks about gender nonstop.
is this possible?
>>8223367
>and almost always are AGP
What's wrong with that?
What orientation are you btw?
>>8223367
Hold up nigga.... are you me?!?!?!?
I like traps and some gay porn and was thinking maybe I was gay, but not once have I been attracted to a guy in person, what's wrong with me?
Stop watching porn
Or become a trap
Your choice
>>8223154
most real men aren't that attractive
>>8223158
don't tell her how to live her life :^)
I propose a 3rd category of MtF transitioners, an expansion on blanchard's AGP/HSTS dichotomy. I present to you: the "failed male" theory, which doesn't fit exactly into either AGP or HSTS.
A failed male is a male that is unable to fulfill the expectations for a man to get respect and women.
Often the problem is physical: Short height, small stature, lack of muscle, narrow shoulders, feminine facial structure, low testosterone, high voice. When these tiny beta manlets try to look like men, they end up looking like ugly nerds and get ridicule/bullying from men, and social rejection from women. Many of them are strictly cis men in their minds, not trans girls, so they refuse to transition and sound grossed out if you suggest it to them. These grow up to be frustrated creepy men, or go out like Elliot Rodger. Others are fully aware that they would make cute/pretty girls... a small runt of male who takes on the appearance of a female is disarming. Men are more likely to leave them alone, since they're too cute/pretty to bully. And women accept them as friends, since they're too cute to be creepy. But it's still likely for them to be attracted to girls, which means they're still forever alone since girls aren't attracted to males who look like girls.
They have some characteristics of both AGP and HSTS but never fall cleanly into one or the other, so they deserve to be a separate category. They are HSTS in their motivations for transition (easier to fit in socially as a girl), ease of passing, lack of fetishism in transition, young age of transition. But AGP in that they often are attracted to girls, never showed signs of being trans or feminine behavior as a child.
>>8222957
What. Lots of people, including women, are very attracted to androgynous people.
>>8222957
t. trent
>>8222957
For most failed males, transition isn't an attractive option. The ones for whom it is are the ones who are AGP anyway.
Anons, I'm afraid I may have gotten Hepatitis from a sexual encounter I had last month. I don't know why the fear entered me, but now I'm paranoid.
When I met up with the guy, I performed oral sex on him (penile only). Afterwards, he topped me with a condom and lube; however, he didn't even actually cum (at least, I believe so) because I told him to stop because he was so big.
There was no deep-kissing involved, or rimming.
And I'm really afraid. I've been feeling a general discomfort in my stomach for a few days now. Now I have to go get tested for HEP A/B/C and HIV, even though my work schedule makes it extremely hard to do so.
Fuck, why did I ever do a hook-up again, after my scare with HIV??
>>8222075
My man.
I'm going through the same thing. I think between googling any type of symptoms you're making yourself crazy.
Just. Get. Tested.
Put your mind at ease. Never ever ever do anything unprotected. It's as simple as that. No one on these boards know what's going on in your body. You need a test for peace of mind.
You did what you had to do in terms of using a condom.
>>8223020
I think I'll kill myself if I come back positive. I don't make much money, and have no desire to spend every bit of the miserly earnings I bring in on treatment and meds. Plus no one will want to date me (it's hard enough dating as it is). And lastly, people blame you for these diseases - "he deserved it for being a slut" or "he got it for being a degenerate". I'd rather have cancer, since they get all the pity points, and nobody ever lays the blame on them.
>>8223526
Jesus talk about anxiety. An sti isn't the end of the world, you probably have nothing.
>after my scare with HIV??
If this keeps happening then you should seek help for your anxiety.
What pets do you guys have? Post fluffy animals to lighten the mood. This is one of my hamsters but I also own a black bear hamster a dwarf hamster and two cats. I wanna try to get a chinchilla but I'm saving up for a trip to Massachusetts then I'll probably start looking for one and nice tall cage.
>>8221872
I want to post but I'm scared I'll get doxxed :/
After my cat died I decided I'm not getting another pet until I have a really good job/enough money to take them to the vet for regular check-ups and get them any meds/surgeries they might need to stay healthy.
Losing a pet is depressing, but I fucking refuse to ever feel that "I could have done something more" guilt again for the rest of my goddamn life.
>>8221872
Meet my doggerino.
That's a super cute hamster you got!
>>8221916
Aw...I'm sorry about that. That must be utterly depressing, but you don't have to feel any guilt about it. You did your best, I'm sure.
Will someone please fund her FFS and electrolysis? God why on Earth do some girls lack any self-awareness?
>>8221278
Maybe she doesn't think surgery is worthy it? Don't be so judgmental.
>>8221278
we're trying to pay for cara's hrt, how are we going to spend 10-20 times that amount of money on some hon's ffs
This is stefonknee tier creepy cringe.
Why are hons so pig disgusting?
ITT: we make avatars of ourselves and judge the fuck out of each other/make assumptions on what part of LGBT we are
http://www.editions-delcourt.fr/bouletmaton/
>>8220926
My avatar
Utterly disgusting.
Mine is terrible
>install grindr to find a cute femboy
>everybody has this fucking face
fuck my life
>>8220844
Fuck.grindr.
Too many beards, too many degenerates gloating about barebacking/robbing people on there
>>8220844
>everybody has this fucking face
the guys with the instagram faces show them off.
also there are a lot of fake accounts/chat bots on grindr.
i've had the best luck talking to headless torsos and people without pictures.
these people are downlow and more likely to be real.
if you chat with them long enough eventually they will send you some pics and usually a face pic unless they are a public figure.
i meet guys in the parking lot of my local mall.
i ask them what color shirt they are wearing and then if they don't match their photo or look awful i just leave without even talking to them.
most guys that agree to meet you are pretty honest about themselves.
after chatting with someone for a while i test to see their sincerity by asking for a phone number.
i like to hear their voice and people who don't really want to meet won't give a phone number.
chat bots you can tell within a few minutes because they will give a link to a website that wants you to create an account to 'watch' them on cam.
i just report and block those accounts.
real people don't send you links to their 'website' they just want to meet and play around.
>>8220844
t. Beta "top'
Lets talk about how we shave REAL close.
How do you shave?
What do you shave with?
How much money do you spend on your shave?
>>8219916
I shave with a cheap razor. There's virtually no hair on my body so that suffices just fine. I have a can of shaving cream that's been around for years and I can never finish.
I'm an Asian MtF though, so I'm very hairless by default.
I also am interested in this
bump
>>8219955
you're lucky try being a beard having scotsman
Have you ever selfied yourself taking a selfie?
Tinychat: hahahahaha
Discord: https://discord.gg/xbKzbsx
Previous thread: >>8213850
I started using instagram and posting selfies recently
The dopamine rush of a flood of likes is my guilty pleasure t b h
>>8219928
link instagram
>>8219928
this is the easiest way to clock gay people irl
only gay guys and assholes regularly post selfies
24 Year old wanting MtF transition.
I've been thinking and thinking of how to talk to my doctor to tell him I want to transition, but I just can't think of how I would do it.
I have severe anxiety and depression, and am taking shit loads of drugs to deal with it, but they aren't working.I have felt dysphoric for years, and I am fairly confident that it is contributing to my anxiety and depression.
They have recently been getting worse and worse, and I am miserable every day, but just the thought of going into the doctor and saying stuff makes me feel physically ill, like when I have a panic attack. And I can barely make small talk with people I know without feeling sick, so this is much worse.
I do not know what is worse, the almost suicidal feelings I have every day, or the thought of talking to someone about it.
Advice anons? Specifically like a script I can practice of what to say to the doctor, I wrote one for when I initially went in for the anxiety and depression.
Just buy hormones online and start transitioning
>>8219763
I live in NZ, so it would be practically free and safe by doing it officially. Except for surgery if i choose to do it of course.
>>8219763
Isn't that dangerous?
What are your experiences with using grindr to find a hookup? I've never had sex with a man but really want to. The problem is I live in the country and don't know anyone willing to help with experimenting and I'm kind of introverted. Is it safe? Do you have better ideas
>>8219619
Talk for a while to know what the person is into, even if it's just to know if they like sensual sex (which I'd say us better to start) or roleplay or some shit. Insist on condoms if it goes to anal (and avoid people who admit going bareback often except if they check their status regularly). Living in the country is pretty bad for this stuff though, do you have any opportunities to go in a big city for a bit ? Like a few days.
It's safe but it's not worth it.
You can only be called cute and have your body played with by so many vapid brainlets before you realise you just want someone to talk to
>>8219619
Dont do it