>Hrt for 2 months
>Already have handfull boobs and started lactating
>100% not ready to come out to people yet
how do I deal with this?
>>8271861
Just say you were doing a really horrible workout and didn't realize it was exclusively working out your pecs
>>8271875
That's such a funny idea that I might do it just for the keks.
>>8271882
In all seriousness when one of my friends asked cause they were kind of poking out my shirt I just said it was a hormonal issue due to diet or something and I was working on it with my doctor
>tfw you thought you were an AGP mtf but it turns out you are just an AFP femboy.
>>8271606
"AFP" is just your repressed AGP expressing itself sexually.
>>8271632
no it's not, quit invalidating my identity you scum.
>>8271606
Maybe you just need to get dicked, so you'll finally accept your true gender like a good girl?
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>>8271571
rope
I hate you. ;_;
>pic related
I'm out as ftm to some of my family and some of my friends. My family accepts me and refers to me as a him.
The problem is, I'm not sure I actually AM trans.
I don't think I'd mind living as a butch lesbian.
I think the reason I live as ftm is for several reasons.
>unlike most ftms, I didn't come out as a butch lesbian first
>I have low self esteem and thought I would have more confidence as a man
>anxiety and depression
>and probably the biggest, my parents are really into traditional gender roles
I think the gender roles thing has a big part to play. When I first started wearing men's clothes, my parents would get really confused and upset. But after I came out as ftm, my mom even said that the reason I like men's clothes was because I'm a man on the inside.
She also attributes a lot of other stupid things to being a man. For example, my family is about to take a trip to New Orleans, and her and my sister where going to do some "pre-vacation shopping". I got confused and asked why she needs to shop before going on vacation. She responded with "You're such a dude".
I also went through a phase before I came out as trans where I really liked being referred to a "he" but now after living as a guy, I kinda like being referred to as a "she".
As far as dysphoria goes, I don't really hate my female body, but I also wouldn't mind being male. I've got a lot of insecurities when it comes to my body so its hard to tell whats dysphoria and whats just me hating myself.
Tumblr also played a role in it too. I used tumblr a lot in my mid teens, the same time I thought I was trans. I heard stuff on tumblr like "if you question that you're trans, you probably are" and "its normal for dysphoria to increase after coming out".
I haven't started hrt or had any surgeries yet, so its not to late for me.
Do I sound like a ftm or just a confused lesbian? Have other ftms gone through this?
I could really use some advice on what to do.
>>8271457
If you don't feel the need to get a hysterectomy, cut your tits off, shoot T and grow a kick ass beard, I'm not really seeing the trans. There's nothing wrong with being a masculine woman.
>>8271457
If you don't hate your female body and only "wouldn't mind" being male, then don't transition. Transition is too much of an ordeal for something you don't very seriously want to the point your life will be significantly worse without it.
Why do you kinda like being called "she" now?
Gender roles suck. Find a social circle that doesn't push you into roles you don't want. For your family, if they try to make you more feminine, keep saying you identify as male. You don't need to transition to claim that, you can say you're a non-transitioning ftm.
>I heard stuff on tumblr like "if you question that you're trans, you probably are"
I think that's aimed at people with a more internal kind of dysphoria than your social and physical dysphoria.
>and "its normal for dysphoria to increase after coming out".
Possibly true but that doesn't mean much. If your dysphoria hasn't increased and even decreased (judging by the pronouns thing) then even less reason for you to transition.
At the end of the day the line between ftm and butch lesbian is pretty fuzzy.
>>8271457
If you don't mind being referred to, looking like, or treated like female then you shouldn't transition. There will be irreversible side effects of T and you'll never be a real man. It's also not garenteed that you'll be more confident considering it's more of how you were raised and depends less on your sex. There are plenty of men who have low self-esteem. You may have BDD if you dislike your body and don't understand why.
How many of you here were also born into a religious conservative family?
>be me, a semi closeted, pre everything MtF
>raised in rural Kentucky by Christian fundamentalists
>they're nice people, but they would most likely disown me if I came out to them
Sometimes I think it would be better to be disowned and homeless...
>>8270930
>be me closted mtf
>live in Georgia
>family all religious
>they say they would love me no matter what but I know that if I came out that would change
>stay in closet and want to die
If I had friends or a single family member that I could trust or stay with if I got kicked out I would just do it
>be me
>closeted MtF in Alabama
>found out at 22, 24 now
>Mom is only one that knows, and she's not that accepting of it
>Only hinted about it to my sister
>Rest of family is very religious
>Unstable distant brother who will likely snap if he finds out
Fuck my life.
my parents were pretty suffocating until they realized that they were raising socially inept christcamp kids.
sometimes the things you grasp on for control end up controlling you
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Who's your favourite superhero? Why bitch?
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>>8263623
>>8263623
>>8263623
>>8263623
Honestly discord is a FUCKING MESS tho. Delete it immediately and don't bother.
>>8270084
> Who's your favorite Superhero?
Spidey. Probably because I have been into him since childhood.
>>8270084
Favorite superhero of all time is Batman, but if we are going by capeshit standards I'll always stand by my husbando
How many of you have been victims of a hate crime?
Please describe in detail.
>>8270065
A man threatened me because he thought I was ogling his girlfriend.
If he hadn't read me as straight male he wouldn't have.
>>8270179
Why are men so violent and aggressive?
>>8270261
Male expendability.
why cant /lgbt/ just accept the fact that non binary people exist? and yes, we are trans too.
does anyone realize our argument of existence in the trans community is the same as when bisexual ppl argued for their existence in the gay community?
you can't get:
- non-binary hormone levels
- non-binary socialization
- non-binary gender roles
- non-binary dress
- non-binary speech
check m8 attention whores
Everyone accepts the existence of intersex, afaik, its just pretty rare.
Not all intersex people are trans. Some can be. It depends on if they identify with the same gender they were given at birth.
Identifying as a third gender is kind of culture specific. What is "gender"? That is something people are still defining and disagreeing about. Some people see gender and sex as the same (traditional view). Some see gender as being the sex of the brain. Some see gender as some other thing entirely, like how you act in society, or just whatever an individual wants it to be.
What is gender to you, OP?
>>8269898
>bisexual people
>gay as well as straight
>nonbinary people
>neither trans nor cis
See why you don't belong now?
>tfw 6"8
>tfw 56 so hormones won't do shit
>tfw lost my job two days ago so can't afford any surgeries, HRT or even doctor visits
H-hold me.
This thread is made of pure concentrated nightmares tbqh.
At 56 you might as well just buy three burgers and die of a heart attack if you want to exit.
>56
that's over mid life, goodness sakes aren't you old enough for pension benefits?
>when normal girls rape fantasy, they think about a stronk guy overpowering them and it's hot and raw
>when I rape fantasy, I think about being in a relationship and having another woman try to seduce me. I quietly say "no" and try to walk away, she grabs my shoulders, I say "no" a more firmly, but am too meek and frightened to physically stop her while she violates me. Sometimes I cry during, sometimes I dissociate and then cry after
Is this normal? Any other legbutts do this?
So instead of being overpowered by a strong guy you are overpowered by a strong woman?
>>8268368
Not overpowered. Frozen in place by fear and badly emotionally traumatized by the invasive, unwanted sexual acts.
>>8268376
But yeah isn't that still like being overpowered, just not physically? I dunno that kinda seems par for the course for a rape fantasy to me
HOW DO I STOP HAVING A SISSY FETISH PLEASE I WANT TO BE A MAN AGAIN NOT A PRETTY FUCKDOLL
>>8267497
wtf why do you want to be a man not a pretty fuckdoll?
>>8267503
I'm supposed to be a man, it's in my genetics, this fetish has just fucked me up. I can't even get off anymore without thinking of being dressed like a girl and getting fucked.
>>8267497
You'll have to stop looking at sissy fetish porn.
Is 5'9" tall enough for you?
>>8267096
Yeah definitely, I like shorties.
>>8267096
imo if you're short you have to be somewhat fit to make up for it
skinnyfat tall guy = fit shorter guy
that's taller than me so that's totally fine
t. transbian
Any trannies have borderline personality disorder? I have it and I'm really not sure if I'm actually trans or it's just my bpd. I have been questioning for years though so I think I might actually be trans.
>>8266907
There is a lot of correlation between being LGBT and having BPD or related conditions, and being LGBT used to be considered a related condition in itself.
Psychologists and psychiats have always just been categorizing abnormal human behaviour and pushing for normalization where it is considered necessary by the state.
>>8266907
every tranny has BPD
dont worry about it my man
>>8266907
Talk to a psychologist who specializes in gender identity disorder.
1. Your letter
2. Your opinion on bald men
>>8266892
G
Unattractive
>>8266892
T
meh, if they have a nice beard it can work
T
My bf was bald when the military shaved him. He looks infinitely better now that he's done with conscription and has his hair back.
Young childhood/teenage sexual experiences, let's hear them anon
>>8266467
>sold virginity to friends dad for 644$
>new iphone here i come
>>8266467
>boy shows me his genitals
>I cry
>>8266467
>molested by grandpa
>kept it a secret
That, and the spanking from my dad are the only forms of sexual touching I've ever had
>if you can call it that