When asking out another fellow gay, is it better to say "Would you like to get coffee sometime?" or "Would you like to go grab dinner sometime?
t.want to ask a gay guy out
>>8423739
>thinking gays are anything but sex seeking automatons
HAHAHA
>>8423952
But, I don't want sex with him - at least, not right now.
I would rather talk to him, and be able to reach that point when we can kiss and hold each other. Sex is overrated - you can literally get the same result using your own hand. But actual affection? Only someone else can give you that.
>>8423739
Coffee or lunch, imo. Less committal. Probably should drop a few hints you like him if you work at the same place too. So that you can figure out if he's into you at least as friend first.
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>My intention is to withdraw from full-time surgery at the end of 2018. After then I will undertake primary SRS and FFS on a reducing basis during 2019 only. By the end of 2019 I expect to have retired from undertaking operations on a full-time basis myself, but instead they will be undertaken by fellow Suporn Team surgeons.
I guess I'm fucked tbdesu
>>8423424
I can't say I'm bothered since I've realized I will never pass. No point in keeping the good doctor waiting for a time that will never come.
>>8423424
I'm always going to be a man anyway.
So what do you guys think about father figures and being gay or trans?
t. Bi guy that grew up w/o father
It causes it. You should get reparative therapy.
>>8423345
Maybe not gay, but bi and trans yes.
>>8423345
when you are really young you havn't learned how to hide your faggotry so your parents (and everyone else) can figure it out. your mom might just ignore it because she grew you in her body and she had to push you out of her vag, but your dad will have a harder time ignoring it and is very likely to react to it. Typically they either go overboard trying to make you a man and butch you up so you might end up a closet case who takes years to figure your shit out, or they might get depressed and disconnect from you because they don't know what to do with you and feel like failures and you end up going overboard with faggotry because no strong masculine influence is there to make you feel ashamed of acting like a dumbass cuntbag.
regardless, willfully ignorant people who believe you "choose" to be a faggot because "muh allah don't make no faggots" are going to look at this shit backwards and say that your father's reaction to your innate toddler faggotry was actually the cause of it.
Has anyone here had an irl stalker? There is this weird older guy who follows me around town and it's been getting worse, he usually mumbles things and constantly looks at me. Yesterday he said you're the most beautiful girl ever to me when I walked by him on accident. He had followed me like 2 blocks after I left when I saw him and I didn't even see till the last second.
Can I go to the police? Tech he's not done anything but it's getting worse.. has this happened to anyone here what did you do? He comes into every place I go too
>>8421476
Go! To! The! Police!!!!!
I wish I had gone to the police sooner, they WILL understand! Doubting yourself is common, but please, please report this.
>>8421476
Nicole?
>>8421476
If you think he is a physical danger to you then you can go to the police and file a "restraining order" which is basically you stating what your fears and concerns are and identifying him so that he can be served with papers to compel him to appear in court.
if you don't know who he is or where he lives then this becomes impossible.
if you are able to successfully file the papers, then you will be given a court date in which to appear before a judge and he will also be there to defend himself.
the judge will hear what you have to say and make a decision, usually in your favor if you clearly state the situation.
if the judge finds in your favor then the man will be required to stay a minimum distance away from you and he cannot access your social media accounts or call your phone or whatever else is bothering you.
if he does so then he can be jailed.
if the man doesn't appear in court then the judge usually rules that you win by default and the injunction against him is put into place, usually for a set time frame, usually about a year.
Will chasers quit chasing barely/semi-passable late transitioners a.k.a. twinkhons and switch to early transitioners now that trans women nowadays look like actual women?
At this point if you chasers continue chasing late transitioners with their lanky curvy-less bodies, alpha male shoulders, Blaire White fagvoices, squarish elbows, chins and knees as opposed to early transitioners who feel, smell and look like real women you pretty much risk being called gay, my men.
Unfortunately, truscum policies and hateful parents mean an early transitioner with a large member is going to be a fucking unicorn.
>>8421154
>you pretty much risk being called gay, my men.
Have you ever thought, that a mixture of male and female features is what attracts them.
They're a type of bisexuals, not straight men.
Besides why do you care.
People will fuck what they want to fuck. Who are you to dictate what's okay to fuck and what isnt, weirdo
>>8421154
Define early
Fuck gatekeeping. My psych said he thought I was trans and would give me hormones after I talked about it with my parents. So I did that and now he's back to pretending I don't want hormones. I feel like my soul is being sucked out of my body. I would do anything to get pills. Why do I need to talk to a psych to be allowed to make my body better. I don't want my body to look so disgustingly male anymore.
>>8420660
Ugh. Sorry. How the fuck did that happen?
>>8420660
Can you self med? Fuck the psych.
>>8420660
Seduce him, get his nudes and threaten to show them to his wife if he doesn't give in to your demands.
Dysphoria getting worse every year and I know I have like no chance at passing. Suicide looking better every single day. Why couldn't I just be normal?
>>8419976
Are you absolutely sure you have no chance of passing? A lot of dysphoric people hate their bodies so much that they think they can't pass when the situation isn't actually that bad.
I know how you feel senpai. i used to feel this way too.
It's never too late to transition though.
I know others who have transitioned in their 40's, 50's, 60's, 70's, 80's, and even a ww2 vet who transitioned in her 90's.
Is AGP a choice?
no, because it doesnt real
>>8419925
Please define AGP. When I discovered (straight) porn I always saw myself as a woman. Then I started reading feminization/gender change stories. I saw this as a symptom of dysphoria and I decided to transition. Oh and like the first couple times I crossdressed when I was a teenager it turned me on. My therapist told me sexual interest has nothing to do with gender dysphoria btw. Does this make me AGP?
>>8419928
fpbp
Self ideal bf/gf threads! Make yourself, judge others!
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>>8418615
>obvious_repressed_mtf.png
FTFY
>>8418615
Op... have you ever though about transitioning?
Any singaporeans? What letter are you?
>>8417648
Aren't you an islamic country though?
>>8417651
Yes but not all of us practise islam
>>8417651
no, we got kicked out of our neighbours up north
yeah, that one with the money stealing ministers and "sex with nine year olds is okay"
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Rule #1 - No tripfagging, no namefagging.
Rule #2. Section A - Don't respond to shit posters or namefags/tripfags.
Rule #2. Section B - Report shitposters
Rule #3 - Post bara dudes
>zeemaps
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>tiny chat:
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> /fit/ sticky
http://liamrosen.com/fitness.html
> Husbando Mode Pastebin (mostly meant for Intermediate lifters)
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well guys it finally happened, im actually dating a cowboy daddy
>be me 25 and single af
>come across a guy on CL advertising how he is looking for a possible bf or at least a friend
>meet up with him and find out its a guy i use to fool around with whos now done with hookup culture
>hes an about 50 , hairy, slim top/verse daddy
>owns a farm, rides horses and is a legit cowboy
>hit it off and get to know each other
>overall a pretty sweet and outgoing guy to compliment how reserved i can be
>visibly upset about something and reveals he just broke up with an ex who was around my age who had used and abused him
>meet a few more times and get to know more about each other
how long does it take for someone to get over a relationship like that?
things are going well and we clearly like each other but hes getting over a breakup so i know itll be a while before we actually become bfs, apparently he even proposed to this guy but after constant cheating and the guy damaging his property i guess it all fell apart
>>8414456
It takes as long as it takes.
I was thinking maybe we could have an /adv/ thread, but gay edition.
So, everyone ask their dating questions and give/receive dating advice (and mention what letter you are and whatever)
gay dude here how do I go about getting a bf in the first place?
So LGBT advice? Or gay only?
>>8407415
Go to gay bars. 4chan is averse to social gatherings but I suggest you go at least once. If you're not comfortable going by yourself get a female acquaintance to go along. All kinds of guys go because it's a place to meet people who are like you, it's not just slutty bar skanks. I've met really shy and socially awkward gamer types which is the type that seems to flood gaygen's basement who basically told me they took because otherwise they wouldn't have come. Plus it's pride month so they're even more welcoming
Recommend LGBT fiction.
This looks like the place to ask, what are some nice story websites about sissification, feminization, sexuality bending, mind control into gay stuff, sex with sissies and shemale or and such? I especially like stories about straight guys who only give into/are tricked into/forced into gay stuff at the peak of horniness, or while drunk/stoned/drugged: they physically like it, but are really against it mentally, but they just can't resist repeating the experience; then it can either progress into sissification or take the shemale route; this might also be accompanied by heavy denial or ignorance; ideally the majority of their sex partners are also sissies or shemales. Futa is also acceptable.
Nifty is gay from the word go, Fictionmania is mostly TG, MCstories is a mixed bag, TFgames is a couple of gems in a sea of unfinished garbage, Literotica is censored and shitty to browse, asstr is plain impossible to browse.
>>8344228
Newfapchan / girly
> First pair of posts is about spank material.
Whelp
I need some advice, I recently moved into an apartment with my gf. We have been together since New years. I honestly love her to death but sometimes she really frustrates me. Most of my frustration comes from being the only one around the house that constantly does chores.
I'm doing dishes at least 3 times a day, 5 or 6 depending on if she demands banana bread or something. I cook breakfast, lunch, and dinner I do most of the grocery shopping and general shopping. She has 1 chore. The laundry. She barley does that twice a month. Thank God we have so much clothing or else I'd have to do that too. What can I say or do to get her to help me more. I've tried talking to her but she really upset about it and I just end up feeling like shit afterwards. Help please. Thanks.
>>8430194
Are you her trans housewife? Or just the cis femme?
>>8430194
Just stop doing dishes and cooking either she starts helping or no one does it
>>8430200
The former
Why are posters on /lgbt/ so desperate to refute the scientific consensus that gender dysphoria is caused by gender identity, despite it having the most evidence and explanatory power?
>>8429973
Because of a lifetime of /pol/ poisoning. Self-hate is a hell of a drug.
>>8429973
>despite it having the most evidence and explanatory power?
???
>>8429973
It doesn't actually have that much evidence right now, but it will be probably be proven later, when we have a better understanding of the brain and its mechanisms.