How did /lgbt/'s dysfunction and toxicity impact you? What were your worst, most distressing experiences here?
Vent and tell your stories. Let's turn the spotlight around, and support each other.
>>8542217
So many people who'll flirt with you and lead you on, only to discover one minor thing and block you on the spot.
>letting discourse on a 4chan board impact your mood or emotional state in any way shape or form
Kill yourselves. Paper thin skinned people aren't allowed in reality.
It doesn't impact me at all, however I do think it's funny the gays on 4chan think they are THE authority on homosexuality because they're do and don't subscribe to certain ideologies that go against the grain.
The kind of gay guy who thinks that because they refer to themselves as a fag and acknowledge their "sins" they can pass judgement on our whole kind.
I'm a lesbian, I like being one, but lately I've found myself having sex dreams about men and enjoying them in the moment, but I wake up feeling disgusted. I don't like bisexuals and I don't like men, almost all of them are shit, I couldn't possibly have any kind of relationship with a man that isn't platonic, how do I stop my dicklust from growing?
>>8541882
Wrist so icy, wonder why she like me, bitch I'm drownin' in water, I just bought a Cuban, dipped it in a fountain. Every where that I go it's a light show, I'm surrounded
>>8541882
Try to stop being such a fucking bitch.
>>8541904
W-Will that make me gay?
Why are girls much nicer than gay guys when it comes to size? I'm 5'9 give or take. The first dude I ever met is 5'8 and called me a Manlet and told me he only wants guys 6 foot and bigger.
First time I've ever been called small like that.
>>8541883
Thanks for the reply but I disagree. I've dated a lot of women and none have given me shit like that it even said anything about my size. Some have even called me tall lmao
>>8541871
Wrist so icy, wonder why she like me, bitch I'm drownin' in water, I just bought a Cuban, dipped it in a fountain. Every where that I go it's a light show, I'm surrounded
If it's any consolation, I, personally, don't consider height to be a governing factor when it comes to guys. I actually think shorter, stocky guys are v. hot.
A skeltal lower body is one of my chiefest turn-offs, and a lot of lanklets suffer from this.
Yes or no?
>>8541843
If you want to fuck my ass, then yes.
If you want to suck my dick, then no.
>>8541843
Not ugly but that's a weird fucking face to make. But yeah if you hit me up on okc is to out with you if you didn't want to do weird shit with my penis.
>>8541848
Hahaha i am at work so i am shitty ohone posting only pic size that fit lol
>be teenage me
>Listen to sissy hypnos every night and get into trans porn. No other porn works for me
>Start dressing In college and posting pics online, roleplay on kik, /b/, and Reddit
>Start getting good at dressing, shaving, makeup and get a big library of pics.
>Start using dildos and butt plugs. Used to get ashamed after cumming but eventually don't care, even jerk off with guys on Omegle and eat my own cum in front of them.hottest experience of my life
>get qt GF somehow, try to balance straight and sissy lifestyles
> Eventually purge and delete all photos and online profiles permanently.
>Few months later and I still only masturbate to transporn
>See gif of myself on /gif/ and just want my pics back so I can roleplay again
Wtf, I don't want to be trans but it's the only thing that turns me on
Well, you're not trans so don't transition, that makes 0 sense.
What I think you should is just to cut off porn entirely and limit your fap significantly. It will be difficult at first, but you can make it.
If things are really out of control, go seek a profesional therapist.
I try but I work alone with nothing to do, so I always end up watching transporn and jerking in the bathroom, then swearing that that was the last time before doing it the next day
>>8541496
>you're not trans
[citation needed]
Here's the dealio my dudes. I'm gay. I know I've been since I teen. Now I'm in my 20's. I'm an aspie, no social skills or social life. I've never been kissed, hugged, or held someone's hand before. I've never even been on a date. Obviously I'm a huge virgin. But I crave the touch of another human being. What is the quickest and easiest way for a gay virgin man like myself to get laid. I have no standards either. A 300 pound 40 year old man is fair game. Cock is cock
>>8540068
First off, get some damn standards.
Being lonely is no excuse to get AIDS.
Secondly if your that desperate to get fucked get any number of meet and fuck apps on your phone and go to town.
Good luck, use a damn condom, and make sure you don't do something you'll regret.
>>8540068
grindr. and you wont even have to settle for a 300 pound man
>>8540102
I guess I wouldn't do a black man, does that count?
does HRT change your personality?
>>8539857
Yes
Yes. The moment that poison enters your body, you become something less than human.
T = more angry
E = more cry-e
YAAAS QUEEN
>>8539696
Literal peak degeneracy.
I don't know... I shivered.
Wow... i just... love is beautifil
Can we start banning TERFs from LGBT? They really don't have any place here. I'm serious. Get rid of them, mods. Oh wait, I forgot, we're on a website that doesn't care about good moderation and is incubating one of the worst communities on the internet.
>>8539691
I know it. SOMETHING needs to be done about those damned origami fanatics, they're getting out of hand.
>>8539691
damned crusty jugglers
The word TERF is a libfem creation in order for them to say that they enjoy their kill-all-men Dworkin/Solanis buddies, and all the other associated batshit radfem policies, but they have to put their foot down over those gosh darn trans opinions that go too far
A TERF is just a radfem who doesn't hide it online, and any "good" radfem will probably be seconds away from a privilege discussion on transwomen or assume that blacks are the true leaders of all things LGBT if the conversation goes that way
What you want is less radfems entirely
Just about every trans person i met
>hates chasers
>Desperately wants to be with someone
>will get mad if a straight person doesn't want
to date them because their trans
What i don't understand here is a gay guy wouldn't want to date some chick because hes GAY right?
So why do they think some straight guy who is STRAIGHT going to want to date some GUY with girly features? even if you're the most 100% passable person on the planet there's still things you can't change simply because you where born that way.
Its the same thing as some straight women asking a gay guy out.. it just is not going to happen
with that being said why don't they just date chasers? they literally want what you have but they seem to be insistent on going after what they'll never have.
>>8538516
>why don't they just date chasers?
Because they hate themselves.
So if someone likes them, then they are immediately suspect.
>>8538516
Pretty sure this has been answered like a thousand fucking times.
People don't want chasers because often chasers are bottoms as in they want the transgirl to fuck them or they want to suck their dick, or they're just creepy in some other general way.
Also there's lots of bi guys that are perfectly fine with transgirls and there's also technically some 'chasers' out there that wouldn't fit into the above category. There's also occasionally straight guys that will date transgirls even if it wasn't their original intention.
>>8538516
What is your definition of a chaser? To me, it's someone who fetishises and dehumanises trans people, and just see them as pieces of meat/sex objects to be consumed, with no actual interest in them beyond a sexual one. I don't think anyone would want to be with someone like that, and there are an unfortunately large number of people who see trans people (women especially) that way. I don't find a problem personally with someone being attracted to certain physical characteristics/finding a trans person attractive in general, but it's the fetishisation that makes it shitty.
That links kind of nicely with the 2nd part, about straight guys. I think it's fine to be unattracted to male characteristics in a woman (including genitals) if you're straight. No one can help that (though i suppose you could make a point about the way we're all influenced by a societal view of beauty). my problem is with people who are, by and large, attracted to the way someone looks, attracted to them as a person, fine with their genitals or whatever, all up until the point of finding out they're trans and being disgusted by that. That, i think, is basically just transphobia. Finding trans-ness, and the idea of being with a trans person disgusting, just by virtue of them being trans. It gives an insight into the opinions they hold, which might be really bigoted For example, a straight guy might view a transwoman as 'a man in a dress' and push her away for that, despite appearing and acting in a way that's completely feminine, cuz that'd be gay bro. You can apply that on a non-sexual level, as well.
Long answer, and i probably missed a bunch of stuff i could say, but i hope it gives you a better insight into the subject.
How do we mend the image of transbians? Everybody hates us, even other trans women.
Where does this sheer animosity stem from? Is it homophobia and misogyny?
>>8538011
its the fact that some people expect you to like the other gender. its pretty much homophobia, yeah. its definetly weird though.
It's a specific area of hate from within the wider issue of transmisogyny
>>8538011
we just take over the world tbqhon
Hi /lgbt/ I'm a male and like tom boyish girls. Does that make me gay?
Pic related
>>8537334
no?
>>8537334
>I am a guy that likes girls
>does this make me gay
yes
What was your childhood like in relation to your religious beliefs and/or the religious beliefs of those around you? Did it hurt?
Do you still have suicidal thoughts and nightmares about your significant other burning in hell? What if?
Do you sometimes desire to go on a homicidal rampage against everyone who's ever told you that you were a sinner in God's eyes? Burn down some churches?
Do you miss your best friend from childhood? Do you wish you could bring them back, and tell them how much they meant to you? Do you dream about protecting them from the words that were said, that made them pick up that gun?
Do you hate humanity? Do you hate God?
Are you alone?
>>8537101
Nope, I lucked out. I was raised Catholic, so my parents and school community were very supportive towards things like homosexuality.
I came out to my mom, who's deeply Catholic, about being trans and she said she's very proud of me and that "I'll make a beautiful woman."
Can't speak for other religions, but Catholicism was pretty boss. I'm agnostic now and don't care about religion, but I have to at least throw them a bone and say I never had to worry about that sort of thing.
Why do MtFs hate MRA? Surely a bunch of people who hated the male social role should agree with another bunch of people who says the male social role sucks?
>>8537013
MGTOW all the way brothers!
>>8537013
Men are evil and its mostly men who are a threat to trans women. That said men rights is a legit issue and common men are treated unjustly.
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Tell us about your celebrations, times you felt fireworks with girls, or dumping bad exs.
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>>8536409
dumping bad exs.
>start dating professional golfer
>older than me, pretty well off
>dates, gifts, comfortable with her
>this could be the one
>move into her condo
>suddenly it's control central
>she needs to know where I'm going, check in from work, doesn't want me talking to friends
>she's going on tour, insists I go with her
>just can't/don't want to leave my job
>she's getting more and more irate every day
>accuses me of wanting to cheat on her while she's gone
>had enough, decide to leave her
>while she's out I load my stuff in my car
>just as I'm finishing she pulls into parking lot
>tell her it's over
>she goes to the trunk of her car and pulls a golf club out
>literally chases my car as I leave banging on truck with club
>harasses my friends trying to find me
>finally leaves on tour
sometimes I see her on TV and actually miss the good times we had