Archived threads in /lgbt/ - Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender - 293. page

>>8577535
I wish there was that sounds funny

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>>8577545
It's not really that funny they are dictating society.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WZvYwuKY1VA

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w a t c h y o u r b a c k

>>8577491
are you neet?
that would explain it as neets in general are apathetic towards evrything

>>8577491
>For me, at least, pursuing medical transition was motivated by a sense of urgency (I was 16-17 at the time) and now I am on HRT this Urgency is gone I have done little else.
LOL. Are you me?

My dysphoria completely disappeared after months on hormones and now I don't feel the need to actually improve anything about my appearance at all. Like as long as my bod is chemically female I couldn't give a fuck if they call me a "young man" or "ma'am."

>>8577631
Btw I am in boymode 24/7 so it's not like I go around in full beard (can't grow beard anyway) and a tacky cocktail dress, trying to barge into Las Vegas women's bathrooms every day.

this one came first.

>>8577430
This one also wasnt made by cancer: the tripfag

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You're gonna make it

Imagine if you were disabled or born in Yemen.

>>8577312
If I was born in Yemen I could die easily. I have a few chronic illnesses and I'm a basically a shut in so it's not like me being disabled would be that much worse.

>>8577318
So you're a gentle soft cute ill soul? Man, I could just hug you and wrap my arms around you and hold and protect you forever

>>8577222

Damn. Burn, OP.
You showed them!

>>8577231

Thanks, man. Someone has to say it, right? These guys think they are beautiful or something. If they see someone who is a little different, they go insane. And I've seen pictures of most of these fools. Their disturbing, man! Disturbing! It's not right, man! Totally not cool!

Gay men can be just as toxic as women, if not more. It's the truth

>>8577151
I don't think I could do it, would be way too awkward. I've always found it kind of creepy how old gay dudes kind of 'prey' on younger guys. Especially when they try to exploit people in worse off situations. But it's socially acceptable among gays I guess.

>>8577184
>But it's socially acceptable among gays I guess.

That's a relief.

I don't think there is anything exploitative about our relationship. A typical day we would both hangout, smoke, watch tv, fuck, and play video games. The most money he's given me is $20 which I paid him back a few days later. Our relationship just feels really natural to me. I can't imagine being with guys my own age until I'm in my late 30s-40s. I'm just not really attracted to younger men or their personalities.

>>8577151
As long as both of you are legal. I just don't think it will last too long though. Unless he's a bodybuilder or something, in 20 years, he'll probably be wrinkly and at death's door.

>>8577149
>>cant change name to girl name because legally restricted from changing to a different gender name
Isn't Scandinavia supposed to be liberal?

>>know that i will be gatekept 1000% because i was molested as a child
Don't admit it?

How do you know it will be used to gatekeep you?

>>cant change gender marker
What are the restrictions on that in Finland?

>>8577149
You can always just do it semi-illegally and pretend to be a homeless person that lost all your ID and need it reprinted. Then just make up a new identity.

>>8577181
>>What are the restrictions on that in Finland?
you have to be diagnosed with the trans and then a year after that you need to get a second opinion. only then can you get it changed

>>Isn't Scandinavia supposed to be liberal?
its shit and finland is especially shit

>How do you know it will be used to gatekeep you?
because every1 i know have been gatekept and for reasons like fucking DEPRESSION

I actually wouldn't be able to take this deal because going back in time would mean not meeting my bf.

Otherwise sure I'll take 4 years thanks. Make me 18 again.

>>8577088
But I don't want to ever die!

>>8577088
Either 6 years back to when I was 17 because I do think I would have passed decently if I started then or 10 years so I know I would pass. Even if I die young it's fine I want to die as is anyways

Feces

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>>8577043
i started transitioning at 24 and looked like complete shit before. i still look like complete shit because it's only been 8 months but there's more to being a woman than just looking good. fuckin do it already you pussy

go to planned parenthood or self med or something

get your depressed shithole out of the house and don't expect legbutts to make up your mind for you

If you think your life is shit now because you've been scared how do you think it's gonna get any better if you don't just do it?

Start off small if you are worried about what people will think, find out your sizes and order some feminine underwear online, start growing your hair out or something to get you started with feeling comfortable in your own skin.

If you know you want to do something, do it.

>>8576918
I mean, I'm not sure they were the same ones who made fun of us, but they awful.

>>8576918
gee it kinda of feels like being part of a group that has people in it that I don't like I guess...

>>8576918
>late onsets/trans lesbians
Huh, but I was very effeminate and didn't act like a boy as a child, and I'm a trans lesbian?

>>8576474
Movies are a bad idea for a first date
>go to theater
>sit down
>cant really chat
>cant chat at all for 1 1/2 to 3 hours
>tired, dont really wanna chat

>>8576485
This movie theater is usually dead. So we'll just talk. Or atleast I plan to. What other ideas you have?

>>8576494
Mini golf, arcade, anywhere with something to do but the thing you're doing doesnt kill conversation

>>8576003
I should use heavy? Sorry I'm confused. I didn't think it looked too bad?

>>8575996
My makeup is probably better than yours Moap.

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>>8575990
Don't listen to Shakira she's a stupid niggerhon. You can tell because she has no actual advice to give.

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>>8575718
>If I hear "sorry I'm not into cisgender males" from a dude in a gay bar one more time I'm going to punch his guyliner off.

>>8575943
It's rhetoric, don't be a prick.

>>8575718
This is the necessary result of Stonewall and yapping about "pride" in ""gay"" """culture""". The Mattachine was right and the goal should have been integration, even if it were slower; being gay should have been left as a taste for fucking dudes only, with bars for purely practical reasons. The MOMENT we let this shit become a subculture instead, this future was inevitable: now there's all this colorful bullshit and outsider romance around it, and so of course once it's been rendered socially harmless it's being colonized by """"alternative"""" women and their shitty, ugly tattoos.

TL;DR one of the many, many things boomers ruined was faggotry.

Mental illness is a complicated thing. No amount of therapy can change what you are attracted to. And I too do not think institutionalization is the answer as it cannot change how your brain works.

You must try to find a healthy bridge between your attractions and what is good for you. Some kind of artificial situation that gives you no real harm but can still please you. The most effective situation would be to find a partner with complimentary attractions who could help ensure your safety and also provide what you need. Of course that is easier said than done. Further you don't want to get in an abusive relationship that ends up harming you in a way you do not want.

I'm extrapolating here and can only offer what little layman advice I can. I'm no expert but good luck dude. You are not alone.

>>8575746
I appreciate you writing that up anon. The problem for me is that I don't think a healthy bridge exists, my needs are too extreme.

>>8575701
>violent paraphilic masochism
miteBhot

Let's hear it OP.

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>>8575478
What is the point of coming here to ask if we're the people who are going to know that you're obviously lying?

>>8575478
Take your pills, young lady.

>>8575478
Why do you think you're trans? What precipitated this episode?

if you freak out and feel like you need to start blocking testosterone immediately before you get any more masculine, you can buy with a debit card at qhi.co.uk; spironolactone, 100mg every 12 hours