Archived threads in /lgbt/ - Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender - 257. page

>>8618869
I know that feel op.

The thing is, I thought I was straight, then I thought I was bi. But the truth is, I just don't feel much of anything at all. I have sex, but it's mechanical and yeah, it feels good, but it isn't magical. And I've never had any trauma in my life, so I don't know why I'm this way. First encounters are always great, because I actually sexually enjoy them, but after that I just kind of quickly lose interest in the sexual aspect but keep doing it because it's okay for me and great for my partner. I don't know what I am, but it fucking sucks man.

>also in my early 30s and have been around a bit to figure things out

>>8618869
The only feelings I've ever had in my life for people have been after I've spent a long time with them. Always friends for at least a few weeks before I get a hint that I'm falling for them. It could be that you haven't spent enough time together.

Also, wtf, do muscular masculine gays actually exist? I'm 23, turning 24, and can only find other bottom bitch lisping faggots. Terrifying and depressing.

>>8619004
We exist and we generally find bottom bitch lisping faggots disgusting.

You stop pretending like meta attraction exists and the problem goes away.

Can someone explain what "meta-attraction" even is? I googled it, and half the results just point me back to /lgbt/.

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>>8618846
Do you feel like you're socially "supposed" to be with a man?

>>8618729
>what about that?
Because we don't want to have male bodies.
That's what makes us trans, dummy.

>>8618729
This picture made me horny desu

>>8618768
yeah, but why this happens? we a human can't be happy with her actual body?

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>>8618641
>inducing gender dysphoria in prepubescent children in order to virtue signal how much of a progressive you are

What could possibly go wrong?

>>8618648
I would expect nothing less from a Jew

>>8618641
do gay parents trade their jr. twinks at pride parades?

"Tranny" is actually a fun word to say, SJW word police fucks are dumber than bricks. :3

>>8618453
>:3
Sorry, but you have no right to be criticizing anyone.

>>8618456
owo
oohh ye

Yes.

Also is this a slide thread? I think it might be.

It's not gay if the girl is cute
The dick makes it better

>>8618411
This. Dicks are so cute.

boo thread

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hello

boobs are great

Traps and trannies are kinda two different things, so calling a tranny a trap causes some confusion about how they really identify.

>>8618327
using it to describe an MTF? Yes.

Using it to describe a femboy/twink/andro guy? No.

They're two entirely different things, traps are cis men who pass, it's often just camera trickery on their end honestly.

>>8618320
I would suggest buying dildos first and using them for a while so you get used to it.
Once you use dildos for a while you'll get used to knowing when your ass isn't clean or ready for sex, plus you can get used to using douches and whatnot.

I used dildos for the majority of my life and when I first had anal sex everything went just fine.

Just make sure he understands that you need to guide him through it the first time. Assumably, he's never done it before, now if this is the case he needs to understand not to unintentionally hurt you. You need to go slow, and work yourself up to it. Some people like the poster above suggest dildos, and if that works for you then I would definitely reccomend that. Me however, I could not enjoy that sensation. The way it worked for me is that I had to have to guy cock tease me to work me up for it mentally and have me loosen up. So basically find what works and make sure he understands that he has to work with you.

>>8618320
I don't bottom, but here's a couple of tips for the top:
1. Use a gloved hand for prep, just in case the bottom isn't clean and doesn't know it. I'm knew to topping, and for me the idea of hitting a turd would just kill everything.
Then after the bottoms been loosened up, just take off the glove and get on the condom. And if you met a turd, ask the bottom to clean himself and go from there.
2. One method of loosening the hole is to enter one, then ask for the bottom to squeeze on that hard until the muscle gets worn out. Then two fingers, and if he's as big as you say, three. It works pretty well, especially if you're still learning to relax.

And instead of a dildo, try a plug. You CAN train with a dildo, but a plug has that steady increase in size that will help you go from small to big.

Why wouldn't I?
It would be nice to find a guy with my same interests, then we could keep each other motivated.

This was more of a joke post, but in all seriousness I tend to find that most people who are buff and attractive in the gay community tend to be very one sided and superficial. I know it's not ok to generalize, but, at least the ones near me, only care about surface level concerns and we never be what I consider sweet, caring, or relatable.

Also, I know it may sound like I'm being bitter, but it's not like I'm in bad shape or unatractive. I have had success in pursuing these people, they just aren't people that exemplify the traits I'd be seeking.

>>8618159

Fuck yes

i am horrified

>>8618159
at least she's got a little bit of womanly shaped hips though. thank god she at least removed her body hair and applied makeup when taking stupid pictures. most hons at passgen don't even try half as much as her.

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>>8618076
If you were able to be conditioned into being masculine, it's because you identified with it.

>>8618084
It's actually because my mom physically beat me while telling me I was going to burn in hell every time I acted feminine for years and years you piece of shit troll. Do you have to shit up EVERY fucking thread with your trutrans bait?

time on hrt broke down that barrier for me
wearing makeup makes me feel happy and pretty now instead of perverted and shameful

>>8617949
>Does that sound like a turnoff?
Accidental castration? Sort off.

>>8617949
no, personally it's a turn on

>>8617954
>>8617961
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>>8617851

Nice academic analysis, what do you suggest for repressed gays like me? I have always struggled with being gay and haven't come out, and I've tried to have relationships with women (they have never worked out).

I'm also not aggressive or 'easy to spot', and have accepted that I will be alone or find a bf, but I can't face up to admitting that I'm gay in public or to my loved ones

I don't understand how people are able to lie to themselves, I've never been able to do it... though I guess I never wanted to be able to do it, either.
I struggle to lie to other people, even when it's in my own best interests. And I can't stand putting on affectations of any kind. It all just seems exhausting, being boring is so much easier.
How do so many people go for decades living lies without going crazy?

>>8617911
The fact that you appear to have accepted that you're gay although unable to be happy with it or to come out to those around you means you're in a healthier position than the subjects of this thread who are a long way from being able to admit that. As long as you're not living a lie your heading in the 'right' direction.

>>8617801
also that literally every single feminine guy is coming out as some variant of genderfluid/flux/queer/whatever stupid nonsense just because they like skirts

Maybe stop being such a fag. If you're a man, act like one.

Like, if WE don't pass for sufficiently masculine men or feminine women and get misgendered, we get told it's our own fault for not dressing and acting the part. Why the fuck shouldn't those rules apply to you?

>>8617825
>assuming I'm cis