Archived threads in /lgbt/ - Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender - 201. page

>>8678403
it was inevitable

>>8678383
You can go back to doing news and stuff anytime; even if it didn't affect thread quality it was appreciated.

>>8678342
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i am confused by all this terminology
help please

>>8678437
It's 90% memes.

>>8678018
Take a DNA sample. For passing trannies, there's no other way to tell.

>>8678018
you don't you dumb dummy and we are real women, you have to call real real women cis women now

also more rare memes please

>>8678018
You don't, if you get tricked just kill that hoe nigga, just wack em NIGGA

>>8677774
that's not how dna works ya cunt
but anyway
step 1: be a person worth loyalty

>>8677774
fags ain't loyal

I'll just leave this here. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JXRN_LkCa_o

>>8677685
from what I gather people don't get srs for sexual reasons, and if they do, that's a shitty reason. the whole situation *is* awful, but you're already in an awful situation by being trans. you just have to find the *person* who will love you as you are, it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks.

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>>8677685

>>8677685
I don't know, I really don't care about my dating pool or whatever. I want my dick gone and a successful neo-vag. Finding a partner is not more important than loving yourself.

I very much doubt someone PREFERS neovaginas unless they have some really specific fetish, but I can assure you I know a lot of people who just don't care, they don't prefer them but they tolerate them like any other vagina. These people exist.

>>8677309
>My first and only question was, “Is he hot?”
HSTS are as terrible as women.

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>>8677309
A bisexual man dating a straight trans woman without telling her is a worse and more damaging offense.

>>8677338
This.

>>8677265
The issues with your junk could just be sensitivity in your clit and natural variation between vaginas.

Your male look could simply be a higher than normal for a girl T exposure in the womb/during puberty or something more intersex.

Being ok with your masculinity and considering trans and nonbinary just mean you aren't attached to traditional femininity. You can identify as a masculine female, non-female, nonbinary or male whether or not you're intersex or decide to transition. Do whichever feels best for you, regardless of transition/intersex.

Talk to your parents or look into your medical records for the intersex thing.

Okay, so anatomy first:

As the other anon said, the issue with pain in your clit COULD be just a natural variation in sensitivity. Personally, I found it quite painful to touch myself pre-T, and I had to do so only through underwear or whatever. (MOST people get more sensitive on T; I'm one of the few who lost sensitivity.)

I also felt like something seemed to be "blocking" the entrance of my vag, and inserting anything larger than a finger was extremely painful. I thought something was physically wrong with me - but no, multiple examinations and scans (pelvic ultrasound, MRI) later and I have been assured my vagina is perfectly normal. (I got those scans for other reasons, btw, probably you just need a doc to give you a routine pelvic examination.) I DO think I probably have mild-moderate vaginismus, so that's something you might want to look into. Zero idea about your urethra - are you sure you've identified the correct body part?

Anyway, those could be your issues. Or maybe your anatomy is really malformed in some way, but none of us can tell you. You need to go to the doctor and express any concerns you have about pain and get them to examine you.

About transition:

MAYBE you're trans. Maybe you're a masculine woman. Why are you really upset by the latter idea?

Thing is, when people detransition from an FtM transition, they virtually always say that they didn't feel like they COULD be a masculine woman and felt pressured into being a man instead. It seems to me like they never thought deeply about who they really are and what they want regardless of what anyone else thinks. That's really the thing you need to spend a lot of time thinking about - what you want FOR YOU. What would you pick if no one else cared or existed?

You probably want to talk to a therapist to help sort it out. I mean, good luck if you want to transition. But it's largely irreversible so please don't rush into it without first sorting out if you're maybe trying to fix what ain't broke.

>>8677445
>when people detransition from an FtM transition, they virtually always say that they didn't feel like they COULD be a masculine woman and felt pressured into being a man instead.
This is what I was trying to help OP with in my post. When they only mentioned being nonbinary if they're intersex it raised flags that if they aren't they might forced themselves into transition when they'd be happy identifying as nonbinary and not transitioning.

grindr

>>8676985
craigslist

>>8676985
Gay bars are a way better experience than Grindr, even if you have to spend money and deal with the occasional obnoxious jerk.

>>8676234
East coast is a shithole.

>>8676234
I'm in Maine if you need me.

>>8676234
yeah, whats up?

Also, don't forget to join the Discord server (if you want to!)

https://discord.gg/3NrSCsk

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>>8676101

You could have let the older thread reach the bump of 310 bro.

Discord link: https://discord.gg/3NrSCsk

>>8676140
Well it's too late now! Sorry!

By blaming others for your misfortune.

>>8676030
You don't. You'll always be a freak. Just gotta own it.
"Never forget what you are. The rest of the world will not. Wear it like armor, and it can never be used to hurt you." - Tyrion Lannister

>>8676030
The first anon was correct

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I'll post some stuff.

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>>8675993
too dark to tell

>>8675296
By watching media portraying how to stand up for yourself.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=trDsXlDJIbM

>>8675296
Assertiveness and confidence are skills you have to practice over time. They don't come naturally to plenty of men as well. It might sound odd, but one tip I can give is to think about your own interests more when you make decisions. Go with your gut. Take note whenever you compromise on your own feelings for others -- don't stop compromising entirely, because that would make you a dick, but really ask if you're doing the right thing for *yourself*.

I can intellectually understand the whole dysphoria over your body making you need to change your physical appearance to match what you feel you are inside your head thing... but I will never understand the trans need to conform to the retarded stereotypes that any sane cis person considers outdated or irrelevant to gender.

Inside your head you are a man, so you change your body to that of a man, fair enough.. but if you need someone else to explain every detail of that man's entire personality, then that man is not actually inside your head at all.

Real men come in all types of personalities. Right now you sound like an insecure man who wants to put on a fake macho front. People make fun of guy's like that for a reason.

>things that never happened

>>8675084
Oh but anon, it did.

>>8675084
>not wanting to lick that sweet soft estrogen soaked girldick while wading through her chubby thighs and playing with her puffy nipples