Post your 'letter' and what other 'letter' of the spectrum you dislike the most
B
I dislike T the most
T
dislike T the most obviously
>>8746026
G
Dislike T the most.
Am I even T if I'm repressing?
I dislike P, for /pol/ard fuckwits who keep trying to cause internal strife between the different groups.
i keep reading about lgbt people getting addicted to alcohol or drugs and self harming. who actually has destructive tendencies here?
i feel like im nosediving nowadays; i cant help myself from taking substances to make me feel at ease. im trying so hard to be good, to not fall back into self injury, but its fucking hard.
/blog
>>8745922
mtf, not passing
many years hrt, many years heavy drug abuse
suffered brain and liver and heart damage(and possibly more that wasn't detected), taking heart medication at the age of 23, trying to stop drinking alcohol
all that because I failed to pass as a woman and couldn't live with myself. anything was better than facing reality, and death seemed more like a release than an end
I go on alcohol binges thar last a few days
literally start drinking right when I wake up, often I won't even eat anything at all for the entire day
I don't cut or anything but my therapist has said she thinks the binges are a form of self harm and she's probably right
>>8745926
iktf
hug edition:
• Makeup tutorials : http://masterposter.tumblr.com/post/116605714860
• Male vs Female measurement data: https://www.bwc.ohio.gov/downloads/blankpdf/ErgoAnthropometricData.pdf
• Correct hormone levels:http://www.hemingways.org/GIDinfo/hrt_ref.htm
• Checking your levels:http://www.privatemdlabs.com/lp/Female_Hormone_Testing.php
• Transition time lines:http://imgur.com/a/qWpxv
• Voice Training:https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/1ske7b/mtf_voice_training_regimen/
http://www.genderlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/voicebook020.pdf
• Voice Help: http://webjedi.net/projects/lgbtq/speech-therapy/
• IRC: https://www.rizon.net/chat#mtfg
old >>8744564
First.
>>8745851
you caught me, im just a really confused trap
>>8745855
they get terrified muscles will make them more manly looking. the definition they give though is super sexy and really helps avoid a skinnyfat look. everybody should lift desu but trannies have a lot to get from it
>tfw 8 months on HRT and still looking like a guy and presenting like a guy
>tfw makeup makes me andro BUT ruins my skin quality for half a week afterwards
>tfw trying a new skincare routine with the asianbeauty subreddit
>tfw not sure what the hell is going on because it's week 6 of classes in semester 2 of Uni and the lecturer gave a little speech on preferred names
>tfw when people discuss femboys and trans people near me it freaks me out and unnerves me because I wonder if they know (although every time it's happened in the context of another conversation so it's never out of the blue)
>tfw get looked at sometimes in the male toilet but I must be looking at them too in order to notice it so maybe I'm not feminine after all?
Play it cool. Play it cool.
>"I felt like a girl ever since I was 4"
>"rawr I'll kick your faggot ass"
this thread again.
post hons acting or talking like angry men.
http://archive.loveisover.me/lgbt/search/text/kill%20yourself/username/sertii/
http://archive.loveisover.me/lgbt/search/text/kill%20yourself/username/nicole/
Do you think this will trick transwomen into not being angry and aggressive? lol
Literally every person I associate with loves it when some trans woman goes off on some Fox New pundit or some online editorial author.
>>8745857
>http://archive.loveisover.me/lgbt/search/text/kill%20yourself/username/sertii/
this is golden. literally all posts are mangry taunts lmao
Dear cis lessers,
Sorry about all the tranners who are making your life inconvenient. It makes me anxious seeing us existing, in general. I used to hang out with you on vidchat before the transpocalypse, it was good times, but cringey tranners ruined it, you started /clg/ and I left out of respect. Please keep your cis only space strong, I want it to exist because its what I'd want if I were cis tbqh
Anyway good luck getting a femme powerdyke cis gf
Sincerely,
Hon
>>8745757
>its what I'd want if I were cis tbqh
???
There's no need to apologize for other people's behavior.
Know that not as many of us hate MtFs as /clg/ may lead you to believe, especially not in real life.
Good luck in life.
>>8745802
If I were cis I'd want a space insulated from trans stuff
>be mtf tranny
>several years hrt, not transition yet
>not because of passing, or lack of finances or support...
>BECAUSE OF SHAME
>taking hrt and not telling anyone is easy. presenting as a woman is hard.
>I'm always on guard when I talk to people. When I lower my guard, I act, talk and gesture in a way that is fundamentally feminine. Even my voice gets high pitched.
>once I realize what I'm doing I stop immediately, feeling intense, burning shame. Even thinking back about acting like that creates shame.
>I've been indoctrinated into acting in an aggressive masculine way and feel intense shame at femininity in my behavior
>I shouldn't. I mustn't. I feel shame of being ashamed. This is like a disease eating at my internal organs, sipping away my life.
please help
>>8745744
Can you see a therapist?
>>8745744
Get a cute bf to tell you "u smol n cute" everyday, pat you and take the aggressive part outta you.
Gaynons, how does it feel to kiss and cuddle with a bear/bara-type?
Bad. This is better
>>8745568
>that smile at the end
I think I just died a little inside. Also, I wish I could answer your question OP
pretty great, like a big soft teddy bear.... great.. now I have a boner.
>>8745580
those are great too, no reason not to like both.
IMO, only the big blubbery saggy sweaty smelly hairless lardass ones are bad
do cis lesbians like this exist? how common are they?
>wide shoulders
>busty and big
>tall
>dominant in relationship and in bed (similar to a man)
>not a butch, just a Domme
>still has long hair and big bobs
>likes to dress in tight clothing and wears kinky stuff
i'd like to know this bc this is just my type and im transgender lesbian in the closet (fuck off blanchardfags and AGP posters noone likes you)
I've only met one person like this (pic related), and well I want to know if more exist.
>>8745407
>in the closet
so you're just a manly man who's not even on hrt but being straight is not special enough for you?
>>8745413
I can't transition
I don't have a prescription for hormones yet and i dont want to risk self medding
I also have parents who are still coming around to the idea of me being trans
not everything works perfectly in this world anon
>>8745500
>don't won't to risk self medding like most people here actually did
>bitch about -the world- being a cruel placee
kek. also you're a straight man with inflated ego who needs to pretend to be a special snowflake-a transgirl, to make up for his, presumingly, giant insecurities
no transgirl I know, and not me, ever wanted to engage in sex with a woman pre-hrt. Not one.
Don't call yourself transgender, you're a mental rapist who makes us all a bad name.
So I'm an MtF and I'm into cars. Is that weird LGBT? I have been into cars for years before transitioning and it's something I really enjoy. Is wanting to be a girl and liking cars weird? I understand that liking cars is a sort of masculine thing, but going to a drift event in my Boosted E36 is just so fun. I still do girly things, like makeup, and wearing dresses but I just enjoy cars.
There is literally nothing that says only boys can have certain interests, it's a dumb control tactic to try and make us believe otherwise.
>>8745317
Not really, I like cars too, and military history. I also build scale models. It doesn't change who I am as a person, they're just interesting things I like taking part in, if I was that preoccupied with what people thought of my hobbies, let alone more glaringly obvious things like being a tranner, I would've ended myself years ago
PS:
Why the fuck are you trying to drift in slavcore garbage
>>8745317
I'm an mtf and I'm into trains lol
Why does it matter; just be yourself sis~
I'm a 20 year old bisexual virgin boy. Because of depression and low self-esteem I have never really been out meeting people and such, so I don't have much social experience and absolutely nothing close to sexual experience. Lately I have realized that I want a bf and sex but I'm too insecure to do anything towards that goal. What do?
Maybe go to a party, it might be easier there to socialise
>>8745316
Think of sex as a fringe benefit that you expect from a fulfilling relationship and not a goal unto itself, for starters.
Try looking for a guy who is also experimenting with his sexuality and then see if you can form a relationship that is closer than friends.
>>8745316
use the internet. also, be honest about yourself, virgins are cute and don't have diseases
Cis Lesbian General (/clg/): Dating Edition
Do you use any dating apps? If you have, which has given you the most success and why? For the women that actively date - what is your advice to your less fortunate friends? Let's continue to encourage each other to have confidence and reach tfw gf.
And if you aren't interested in dating - how come?
Should you notice a particularly incessant shitposter, work together and exercise the ability to HIDE and REPORT.
https://pastebin.com/P644WESi
Recent News
>Pediatric nurses are annoying
>Riding bikes is fun
>Anon is banned from HER for having standards
>/clg/ thinks about anal
>"also because I like real women's bodies." 2D btfo
>"May the qt amateur webm dump never cease"
>British girl sells out and marries an American woman. Now blissfully lives as a housewife.
>"25 and still waiting."
>/clg/ is really lewd
>"tfw too ugly to be dom"
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>>8744510
>"25 and still waiting."
Dammit, Nazi.
Why do you have to put my shame in the news.
>>8744544
How? I'm scared that might be me in the future
>tfw no gf
>>8744510
When are we going to get the other op back?
Recently a transgirl was introduced into my friend group, and we all hit it off well with her. She's got a great personality and fits in well. However, I got kind of a weird question when it comes to addressing her.
I don't know why, but ever since I was young I talked like a cartoon surfer and I have this habit of calling everyone dude and man, even my cis girl friends. It's a pretty noticeable feature of my natural speech. I feel like I should avoid calling our new friend 'bro' or 'dude' or anything like that, but I'm also worried that she'll realize I'm only making this effort for her and not for our cis friends. What do?
Don't change your vocabulary.
Don't change your vocabulary, my dude.
>>8744348
>>8744355
Thanks for the input, anons. I would love to trade my Gondolas with you.
Let's say we get the tech that allows you to have children without women. Let's also say this tech let's you choose the orientation and gender of the kid. What is the winning combination for success.
I think a group of coordinated bisexuals (of both genders) would be the most devious and would be the strongest.
Offer your thoughts
>>8744025
The strongest for what?
>>8744042
General measures of success. High income bracket, getting jobs in leadership positions (politicial seats, generals, CEOs, the big chairs on education and research teams).
Is this even a question? We'd breed women and sissies out of existence and create a race of alpha gay men.
>went to Susan's place to find support for my transition
>everyone is nice and welcoming
>read some post, everyone complements and encourages one another
>see guys with wigs being called beautiful
>what the fuck, too much support, gtfo
TFW you need the assholes of 4chan to tell you you such once on a while
>>8743412
>going to susan's unironically
You were doomed from the start, anon
>>8743431
I didn't know what I was getting myself into. I just heard the name D':
>>8743412
If that's you in that pic, you're being to hard on yourself. Sweetie, I'm sure the men are drooling over you.
Hey /lgbt/, I'm here to ask for some advice.
I'm a 19 y/o boy. When I was a lot younger (6-10) I often found myself gravitating towards books with female protagonists. I remember being disappointed when I realized I could not match their clothing choices. I regularly played dress up role-playing games with a neighbor girl, where I was always the butler or knight-prince, but wishing I could wear the dresses of the maid or the princess.
In middle school I started having thoughts about what it would be like to be a girl. I said yes when asked if I would take an opportunity to be a girl for a day at a sleepover with my guy friends, though I dismissed it as a joke to much laughter.
In highschool I started realizing that I felt attracted to guys. A few times at a friend's pool parties I secretly tried on girl's bikinis in the bathroom that had been left there, and I really enjoyed it. A guy friend pointed out to me that I kept unconsciously standing and sitting in feminine positions, and how my voice is soft and quiet, and joked that I was basically a girl. I learned about HRT and the thought has been nagging the back of my mind ever since.
I started living on my own for college recently. I bought myself a set of panties online a few days ago and I love wearing them around my apartment. I feel more comfortable in them than boxers or briefs. I'm happy, I feel cute. I like how they make my hips look less manly.
But I'm not sure what I am. (1/)
>>8743264
(2/2?) Because I also like girls a lot. I like my dick from both a practical and sexual standpoint, I'd never want to get rid of it, and hearing horror stories about them shriveling under hormones scares me. Whenever I look at my body in the mirror I have a constant mental battle over whether I wish my shoulders were wider and more muscular or narrower so I could pass easier, and I sometimes look down in the shower and wish I had some small boobs. I like my birth name and don't care about pronouns, but a female friend gave me a feminine nickname as a joke that stuck and it makes me smile and feel cute when she or other friends call me it. I feel like I can relate and talk better with my girl friends than my guy friends, but most of my hobbies (besides maybe drawing) are pretty "masculine"- guns, vidya, hiking, mechanics, etc.
I have a pretty androgynous body. My hips are pretty wide for a dude's and my shoulders aren't very broad, and I'm only 5'7", 6.5" if I'm being honest. I feel like if I took HRT I could pass easily. But all my male cousins had a final growth spurt at 22-25 where they grew 2.5 inches and their shoulders broadened out more, and the thought that I could possibly miss my opportunity and be stuck like that terrifies me, but so does the idea of doing hormones and permanently fucking up my dick and having breasts I don't want.
So what am I? A trans girl? An over reacting femboy? Just a regular bi dude who likes to crossdress a little?
What should I do? T-blockers until I figure out what I want to be? HRT? Get a therapist? Nothing? I worry about the costs of these things, especially with my growing student debt pile even with a part time job.
Please help me out.
>>8743264
>>8743269
You're obviously AGP. AGPs can be happy as trans girls or perhaps as femboys.
Keep exploring your feminine side and wearing female clothes as long as it makes you happy. Choose how you present, whether to use female or male names, etc. A male name and female nickname is fine, and you can change later if you want, regardless of how you present.
It's fine to have masculine hobbies and don't limit yourself in either direction.
Ask /hrtgen/ and /femgen/ for advice on stopping your 20s growth spurt and keeping your dick functioning.
>>8743264
Your school should have free counseling, why not set up an appointment and talk about these things there?
There is nothing wrong with being a boy and wanting to be cute. Do things that make you happy.
If you are torn about whether you'd like hrt, you should read about the possible side effects and talk to a gender therapist about it.