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'State acquired by clinging and favourable to clinging is related to state acquired by clinging and favourable to clinging by meditation condition.' - Buddha
Just keep this fucking thread alive please. No death just mercy bumps ;_;7
invited: Indians + Pakistanis + Nepalis + Sri Lankans + Bhutanese + Bangladeshis + Maldivians + Afghans (if they want) + Diaspora and people with desi blood like Afro-Carib-Indians or whatever + gypsies
not invited: bullies, cancerposters, people who feel the need to spread negativity.
Indians + Pakistanis + Nepalis + Sri Lankans + Bhutanese + Tower Hamlets + Bangladeshis + Maldivians + Afghans (if they want) + Diaspora and people with desi blood like Afro-Carib-Indians or whatever + gypsies
Second for anime weeboos shit
Kolkata guy here
>All they cared about was saving up to buy a corsa+sub woofer so they could drive up and down and listening to Bhangra loudly. Everybody was also obsessed with 'sessioning' which turned out to be just standing in a park and drinking
>A certain poorer demographic is that way, no doubt (both Paki and Indian). But when people have a slightly better upbringing and decent parenting they don't get into that.
Dad worked in Heathrow, so this based on interactions with people from Slough. Horrrible, horrible place, I thought Chalvey was third world.
To be honest though these sorts of diaspora mostly exist in London, they're a bit more toned down outside of London. But I also find them very annoying. Its not even to do with upbringing per se, its just like some weird sort of identity crisis or some bullshit.
Glad I never really hung out too mcuh with the other desi kids at school 2bh.
He's awaiting trial, for supporting ISIS or something.
Also for some reason the police doesn't arrest people walking around with signs saying 'behead those who insult islam' whereas they do arrest those who make racists or off-colour jokes on twitter, strangely enough.
bengali >grill here
yeah that sounds fucking awful. the bengali community here is much more chill than that. we'll hang out with each other but we don't exclusively have only indian friends. i have white and asian people i talk to regularly too
it's definitely an identity crisis thing like >>53741780
>its just like some weird sort of identity crisis or some bullshit.
100% knew guys who went to really good grammar schools who were like this, very much seemed to be an identity crisis situation
yeah their parents raise them well (sort of). they think white people are degen or something, but living in england encourages them to emulate white people nonetheless but with other desi people.
$MIR BRINGING THE #HEAT
yeah it was very segregated when I went to school, whites vs non-whites football, Asian area of the common room was referred to as Taleban corner,
most of it was banter but sometimes it escalated, not all desi's were like this but enough to make it obvious
desu its not their parents fault, there is literally nothing else to do in this country besides drinking
white people are weird, and some of them are degen, but they're alright.
>whites vs non-whites football
>asian corner of the playground
wew did you go my school :D
>some of them are degen
modern western culture is degenerate by desi standards, i don't think this is debatable.
doesn't mean you should dislike them, but if you want your kids to have desi values you should probably not raise them in western culture - that's just asking for this shit to happen.
not really man. I think we have the most degenerated culture in the world to be frank.
>Children sleeping on the road whilst people build skyscraper mansions for themselves.
At least white people are hypocrites about the bad stuff they do, like we are.
not enough indians at my school for them to band together, we mixed with the white and asian kids
we did have some chinese corners though
>you should probably not raise them in western culture
you can't come to a western country and then be upset if your kids absorb some western values though
no offense but if someone wanted to raise their kids strictly in desi culture they should have stayed in south asia
>you can't come to a western country and then be upset if your kids absorb some western values though
that was what i was saying...
That isn't degenerate culture. That's a result of poverty, and common to basically all developing/3rd world countries regardless of their traditions. Our traditional culture is fine. In any case, my statement was about western culture judged from desi standpoint.
>Our traditional culture is fine
Is it? Is having swathes of the population considered untouchable fine? Is the way in which Indian women are treated fine? Is the way we don't seem to care about our immediate surroundings, so much so that we'll pee on walls decorated with religious iconography and then say it was ok to lynch some muslims fine?
Sorry but white people drinking and having casual sex is the least of our concerns to frank.
I despise this moral highground nonsense.
You are judging our culture by western standpoints. Of course there are issues with it then. Vice versa works too.
>Is having swathes of the population considered untouchable fine?
In our dharma, yes.
> Is the way in which Indian women are treated fine?
I see no issue with that. I think they are treated better than in western society. (not talking about stuff like rape, etc. which is very much against our culture anyways....)
> we'll pee on walls decorated with religious iconography and then say it was ok to lynch some muslims fine?
> we'll pee
Again, because a bunch of poor uneducated fucks who don't know much about their own culture do that, doesn't mean its in our traditions. Idiots and extremists are in a lot of cultures, deal with it - that's humanity.
>In our dharma, yes
so discriminating swathes of people just because our religion tells us so is ok? how does that make us any better than unthinking barbarians?
>I think they are treated better than in western society
sorry but as an actual woman this is not true. women are treated significantly worse in south asia than the west
>so discriminating swathes of people just because our religion tells us so is ok?
Discrimination based on caste is bad. Caste is fine. Again, western ideals value egalitarianism, which is your issue with this.
Ill-defined. Please clarify what exactly this means. By our standards actually, most foreigners are 'barbarian'...Its a meaningless word.
>women are treated significantly worse in south asia than the west
not really. i agree in reality life for women south asia isn't great, but a lot of this stuff like eve-teasing is very much against our traditions.
>In our dharma, yes.
In which scripture does it say to treat people as untouchable? I can tell you it is not from the Vedas.
If treating other humans as untouchable is "our dharma" then we need to think about converting to a Bhakti school or Buddha-dharma or Sikhism 2bh.
>Women are treated better
yeah I don't think most women would agree with you on that, and that's precisely because of stuff like rape.
>a bunch of poor uneducated fucks
well our country is full of them, whilst we can talk about our glorious Dharma all day, as long as our country is uneducated, poor and those with the power to change it are apathetic and self righteous nothing will change.
>Discrimination based on caste is bad
>Caste is fine
what. then what is the point of having castes
>stuff like eve-teasing is very much against our traditions
you realize it's also against traditional, Christian western culture as well? if you're going to compare cultures you have to compare you have to compare reality, not some idealized versions of either, and the fact remains that the reality for women in south asia is significantly worse than in the west
As I said, my original statement was about our dharma, not about what is happening in reality. I am disgusted with a lot of things that happen in my country, but I do not blame my culture for it. In fact, western influence is to blame for a few of them (but not the majority).
>In which scripture does it say to treat people as untouchable?
the way they are treated is not justified but their caste itself is.
> nothing will change.
I don't know why you equate my praise for indian dharma with being apathetic. I am all for change in the way people act.
Again: all I said was that western culture is degenerate in the standards of our dharma.
>what. then what is the point of having castes
You are a hindu asking this question?
>you realize it's also against traditional, Christian western culture as well?
I never said eve-teasing was a thing in western culture either....I don't critisize westerners for things like mass shootings for the same reason. And what is 'wrong' in comparing dharmas (idealized as you will)? I made no comment implying I was doing otherwise.
>all I said was that western culture is degenerate in the standards of our dharma.
I think you should get to know your own Dharma a bit before slinging around the degeneracy cannon:
Atharvaved = "And if there were ten husbands of a woman, not Brahmans provided a Brahman has seized her hand, he is alone her husband"
so when mr Brahmin takes seizes your wife's hand are you just going to nod along and say 'well its in the Vedas'.
but if you're comparing dharma the west isn't degenerate at all since the western "dharma" would be traditional Christian values. pretty much the only thing they don't have is a caste system
it seems to me you're comparing the modern west to an idealized version of indian values
I am already aware of that section (4 or 5 of Atharvaveda no?); in fact that tradition was practiced in places until almost modern times. But in general, it was frowned upon. Such things existed in western culture as well, btw. Again, I never made a statement about morality, simply about relative morality.
I'm not, sorry if it seemed like I was. Western culture simply accepts things that ours does not (and vice versa). My point was just that the cultures (traditional in particular) are not compatible, morally.
No but my question is, would you get go and let a Brahmin cuck you just like that because its allegedly Dharma and would you say this is the ideal?
The best thing about our Dharma is its appreciation of the mysterious and odes to nature, the philosophical sophistication and the prescriptions for personal living, the ritualism and petty ad-hoc day-to-day rules and superstitions (like letting Brahmins cuck you, or taking dips in filthy rivers or mindlessly doing rituals that you have no real understanding or actual appreciation of or dolling out strange punishments based on strange criterion) are not what makes it so great.
this entire argument has been devoid of personal questions. I don't see how this is relevant. I'd say that if you adhere to an interpretation of hinduism which doesn't revise such laws in the puranas, etc. then yes, you should allow the Brahmin to take your wife.
What you like about the dharma is up to you. I have made no comment about such subjective and personal things. I had made only one statement regarding relative morality of our dharma to the western one, and don't really see the point in talking about tangential topics if that discussion is over.
So hold on then, you if something as fundamental as whether you can be cucked by a Brahmin or not, is debateable as to which of the many thus contradictory scripture you choose takes precedence, (aren't Vedas supposed to take precedence over things like the Puranas etc anyway?)
Is our Dharma even coherent?
Guyanese coolie qt whose vagina and mouth I used to abuse back in college. I am a Black Guyanese btw. She was prob the 3rd Indo/Desi whose pussy I introduced to BBC. And you desi bros think you're getting pure wives, lololol
They're good for kicks but that bush gets mighty hairy. Yeah yellow qts are nice. I had a Chinese Aussie model. She let me fuck her pussy in a park the first night! Total freaks. Would show related pic but she's a model and pretty visible.
>India will experience a Muslim-Hindu civil war in your lifetime
>sikhs carve out their own state
>pakis take kashmir
>bongs take west bengal
can't wait t b h
>pakis unironically watch a tent fight criminals
>mfw I just missed the fastest moving /desi/ thread of all time
I'm actually one. I'm Surinamese. I'm half black and Indian. When I went to India, I got a lot of shit because I had a giant afro, but family was very warm, basically - lot of people laughing and pointing, but to be fair - a giant afro is a gag of itself.
West Indians are pretty chill for the most part. Lot of west indian men I've known do trade jobs or become mechanics.
should i have an arranged marriage, love marriage or remain a celibate
Whoever made this OC, I challenge you to a yu-gi-oh duel. I am a professional duelist and have over 555 victories. Do you think you are hot shit since you can make fun of me online, come say that to my face and I will literally kill you with my Blue Eyes White Dragon card.
Oh and heres a gif of me too, noob.
>praat je nederlands?
>waarom heeft je nog familie in India?
Nah, I can't speak dutch - weirdly enough, I can understand Hindi because my mom spoke it to me a lot as a kid.
My mom met my dad in the US. Both my parents came from their respective countries to find work in the US.
I do have relatives in the Netherlands though.
>tfw a close family friend married a black guy
Meh, but he's cool so idgaf
Lads let's rate desi qties by region
keep it civil okay no rudeness
1. Punjabis and Pashtun (this is a given considering white skin is an ideal because of european domination of the world since 1500 AD)
2. Light skinned and medium skinned girls from south India. I am talking about sweta menon from kerala for example.
3. Marathi girls
4. Gujju girls from USA
5. Everyone else
>indians have a dessert called faLOOda.. "civilized" indians shit in their food instead of on the street
>the word POOja in hindi means worship, Indians literally worship POO
>Haripada is an indian name
>pad = fart in punjabi
>indians literally fart their names out
>indian marriages happen when an indian woman marries the leader of the first gang that raped her.... so romantic
>have a prolapsed anus on their flag
>smelly diaspora claim we wuz aryan kings but always run away from that shithole
2 0 3 0
>Badi haseen hai zulfon ki shaam pee lije
>Hamaare haath se do-chaar jaam pee lije
>Pilaaye jab koi mashooq apne haathon se
>Sharaab phir nahi rehti haraam pee lije
Post end in 55
Nice have a Chakma qt
I've spotted a few similar to this gril on IG
i hope you are on the fairer side in skin color.
Indians including me have this strange fetish for fairer skin.
for example, >>53762477
if you don't mind post your a pic of your arm, the dorsal side.
1. overestimated place
2. filled with kebab, once upon a time was birth place of kashmir shaivism, a tantric practice.
3. a place which perpetrated largest mass exodus in world history.
4. snow and shit
check out zovi.com
the problem is with your bf. He was being a pussy in front of his parents'. also >>53763867
>you went all the way from the US to India with him and his parents didn't think you two were together?
That's what bothers me. They're not stupid not to realize what's up. Who guess all the way there just because?
I guess I'm just in denial and procrastinating the whole breaking up thing. ..
My parents live here mayne. I go back like every other year with or without them.
Yeah I'd say there's a big amount of diaspora here, probably around 50 families plus more if you count the capitol. There's a split in the community with the jamaati thing and it's been really felt here because Nizami's son lives here. Most of us are educated and thing though. Saw a few difference between the New Orleans Bangladeshis and the ones I've met in New York.
There have quite a lot of top tier Bengolis in every field.
>tfw still don't know what all the hype about b*nglos is
We've got loads amazing people, don't forget our Nobel Laureate
I don't fucking care. People don't vote because of their love for India, but to get basic necessities (which the state is deprived of because all the money is gobbled up by Indian stooges and lackeys they have installed).
Really? Damn similar split here. I live in New York there's a convicted Rakazar in charge of an Islamic Circle in Jamaica, Queens, where a bunch of diaspora live. What differences in particular?
I have some writers on my mother's side of the family. Not blood related though
When you first made this was it dedicated to me?
Punjab a shit
You probably haven't heard of him but he's an absolutely amazing artist, you'll see reproductions of his work in any bengali hindu household
>Indians see the existence of Pakistan as a loss of territory.
>The genesis of Pakistan was essentially not by arguments or anything, but by convincing muslims to attack hindus and cause a retaliation, so it was born in violence.
>In that violence millions of people were displaced
>Pakistan sees itself as the successor of empires that most Indains viewed as oppressive.
>Kashmir is majority Muslim but was ceded to India, so India and Pakistan fought a war over it and continue to contest
>India and Pakistan fought other wars
>China enlisted Pakistan as a means to cuck India geostrategically
>India helped liberate East Pakistan into Bangladesh
>Pakistan essentially harbours terrorists that occasionally attack India
>India allegedly supports some separatist movements in Pakistan
>Pakistan thinks India wants to annex it
>Pakistanis abuse religious minorities
>Indians sometimes go ape shit at muslims (usually in retaliation to things though)
New York Bangladeshis seemed a lot more established.
They have their own communities, shops that target Bangladeshis specifically, and are just enterprising in general. There's nothing like a Jackson Heights or a Jamaica here. We all just go to the halal shops where the Palestinian guy rips us off because he knows there's no other place for us to buy unless we make an hour's drive.
They're welcome to live like they used to — i.e. not inside walled free cities built specifically for them.
>he seriously believes muh pundits were exiled and not that they were relocated by jagmohan &co.
Re: this whole geopolitical debate about Kashmir and terrorists harboured in Pakistan etc , you must watch an interview by the old DG of the ISI, look it up on YouTube 'head to head Pakistan durrani'
Yeah that make sense. When my family moved out of Jamaica we have to deal with Ar*bs ripping us off in the halal shops that we started swarming to the kosher places instead. Kind of changed my views a bit on the Israel Palestine debate I suppose
That's shruthi you stupid mong!
Both are my waifus. Please refrain from posting them. They belong to me
>I want to burn my eyes out desu
you should do that, m8.
polygamy is illegal, m8
Love that style, His interpretation of the last supper is my favourite
I think I'm still pretty set on the Israel Palestine issue bc of the stories my dad has about our war and that kind of thing.
and I dated a Pali girl and got to dabke and go to a wedding. lovely people when they're not trying to sell you shit.
you're not even trying now
>tfw not a single Muslim local ever hurt a Pandit
>b-but muh genocide i saw on jewpedia
a couple hundred pundits killed by who knows whom (might be your own intelligence agencies) versus tens of thousands of kashmiris
Buy her father a cow.
I think we had some of his art pieces shown in Dhaka for a limited time when visited 4 years ago.
I'm more on the 2 state solution now. Knew a few of them decent folk most of the time. I actually had this huge crush on a jewish girl once though. Didn't go anywhere but, still.
>punjab a shit
Chuddal bhosadi ke. Panjabi girls are 10 times better than that chakma shit you post.
Love isn't illegal
>Tfw used to go to shruthis concert whenever she used to play in town. >Started talking to her and got close to her. She would talk to me after every concert.
> Then she went into movies and got plastic surgery done and no longer plays with her band.
>Has a reunion of sorts of her band. Meet her say Hi. Everybody in the band remembers me except her. T.T
Have you been in any relationships?
I dated a Latina and a Palestinian. The Latina girl, we had everything planned out man
>we were going to go to the same college
>wanted to move away closer to an apartment
>everything is great, happiest i've ever been
>thought this girl couldn't possibly disappoint me ever
>she breaks up with me over the summer
>i switch colleges not bc of her but the other college had more options in the field that I want to do
>still think about her usually around this time
Well her dad is Chachi 420 soo....
>Bengoli last supper
Fish oil stench all over the place
No, retard, its not a dindu nuffin
Watch it and you will get an insight, its one of the most interesting interviews I've seen by a Pakistani on western media, possibly /the/ most
>Everybody in the band remembers me except her.
You know what to do brother
I've been with 2, technically 3. First was this white girl I think she was German. She was kinda dumb only went on a few dates and called it off.
2nd was this Mexican girl, we went out for a year. Attended senior prom together, broke up on good terms as we both wanted to study at different universities.
Recently started dating this Mozambique/Jamaican girl. This are going pretty nice so far.
Watch hasan get ripped to shreds, which is funny because he usually tries to do the same
Good you have low expectations because I am pretty sure you will not see anything like that again for a long time
"What Bengal thinks today, India thinks tomorrow"
If you don't accept Bengal's superiority over other states and th whole region, you are deluding yourself.
How I wish I could breed a sultry Bengali chick. Our mutts would be the finest in India.
>e hardest part of dating as a /desi/ guy is hiding it from the parents
>tfw don't have this problem
being an orphan is brilliant (nah jk my parents don't care about trite shit like that)
>ever thinking he could or would
You gotta be retarded for sure
Superiority in what sense/s though? I agree Bengalis are ahead of Pakis in many respects. I don't really have a problem with Bengalis at all unlike our older generation who despise them for obvious reasons. But we gotta move on and remember who our bros in faith are.
Parents choose a few girls . Ask you which one do you like. Meet girl, if she likes you then get married.
On Internet, every desi guy - especially diaspora fags - claims to have dated women of many ethnic backgrounds, when in reality they are just sheltered, pampered manchild. Their female relatives are theif only contact with the female race.
I think my parents would have a problem for while, like 6 months, but after that they'd have to accept my decision. That's what happened with my choices of college and what I'm studying but I never wanted to disappoint so I just never told them about the girls.
What a shamefully low threshold to judge them against. Paki! Ack thoo!
Bengalis are superior in every sense, most notably in the fields of arts, literature, academia, science. You know, the things that make a culture interesting.
Parents will choose.
>hiding it from the parents
Yeah.....I wouldn't know anything about that. My parents (and most of my family) are pretty liberal for the most part. They don't pray, they drink alcohol, and they have some really mean shit to say about certain Muslims. Still, I never told them about the white girl and it took some courage for me to introduce them to the Mexican girl. They ended up liking her so it was cool. Same with my current one.
my mum isn't indian anyway, so my dad doesn't give a shit who see.
I think he may not want me to be gay, but i'm not sure about that. Anyway I don't really give a shit i could probably take my dad to be frank
My parents are quite against the weed part though. And well, though they're fine with me dating outside they would still prefer that I marry someone of my own culture.
Speaking of weed have you ever tried weed in Bangladesh?
Once. Shit quality though. Cousin and I went to a really sketchy looking part of town and got a joint for like 40 or 50 taka I think.
Wanna try ya ba and hook up w a baridhara qt in dhaka though
Steady on there fella
They haven't joined our nuclear boys club yet, and its unlikely they ever well
Also our economy is still doing better than theirs and we have better looking people by far
Bengalis look like monkeys