>All the people around me are starting to get married, having kids, good jobs, buying their first houses,...
>i'm here banting chileans all day in my mom's basement
How should i end the suffering?
i want to say i have a purpose to my situation but if you can't get one and want to follow them you probably should, getting a job is not that bad
just like a baby everything comes in small steps
I'm thinking about working like a dog for as long as I can. Give everything I have, but not marry
Is there a place I can find a desired woman that will agree for surrogation? I don't know how to explain it. It is selfish of me to deprive a child of a mother, but I, as a man, was literally a mother to both my brother and sister and in today's societies, marriages are costly on all fronts. I know every house chore and do them with ease, so a woman is obsolete there as well
I would be willing to pay for a woman filling certain specifications to get inseminated with my seed, whatever method she chooses, and hand over the child after birth. Extensive agreements to prevent her to chimp out and take the kid too...
What do you think, /int/?
I'm 26. 27 in 1 month.
I have friend who didnt go to college and started working early. Like around 18. They have a wife and children.
I finished my studies at 25. My friend who also finished around 24/25/26 are just like me now : young cadres, enjoying life. I made friend with 30 year old people who are single and happy.
Then I'm in Paris, and their is a lot of 30-35 y old women and men single with no child.
Having a child between 30 and 35 is ok. Not later though, especially for the girl. Your DNA start getting old after 35.
Go to Bataclan, heard they're having a blast over there.
I mean I don't even fuck a lot of girl. And I never had a serious girlfriend. I mean I did not had a real one per say.
I'm just taking the things the way it goes. I noticed girls around my age radically changed now. There are still some that remains crazy young in the mind, but most of the woman around 27-35 have peer pressure and want to settle.
From women market to men market etc.
I understand the women market aspect, it's all nice, dandy, and if I look at my family three, there are no bald men, early "gray-ers" so I might even age better than most. HOWEVER, there's education. Something that matters...How and when. It keeps pressuring me. Now I need to dosh out a thousand euros if I want to enroll into anything. Do you know anything in (any) EU country/ies that lasts for a year/two that qualifies you for basic work. Pharmacy/medical techs especially. How long does it last in France and how much does it cost? I need to get any kind of certificate, fast
Among them, yes
I don't particularly know and I guess you can find in pretty quickly by a simple google search but there are training for people that wish to learn new job again here. And it's most of the time from 1 to 3 year.
I actually worked with some people from a pharmaceutical tech training center and it was said to be 2 years.
No idea for the cost though.
Most of my friends/colleagues around my age (23) are enjoying life, in couple or not, but no child and not married.
Most people don't get children and marriage before 30, that's also around this age you can buy your first house (unless your parents got tons of money).
Interesting. Here it lasts for two years and it's called "prequalification"...too expensive for me at this moment and I'm employed in a line of work that doesn't exactly allow saving
I was wondering if there is something in the EU, that has praxis in it as well, because our lessons don't allow any praxis at all. They give you a certificate and tell you to politely fuck off and find a job if you want praxis. Guess how many pharmacies/hospitals want to employ a prequalified tech with no experience?