Post girls willing to do her bf a favor
somehow I can't find the full 10 minute bj anymore. Did the vids get removed after all those years?
Loved her patience to go 10 minutes until he came in her mouth
you just have to explain how teeth dont feel good on cock, shell figure out some way to get them out of the way, and make her get what shes doing with her tounge, might as well just put it in place with your fingers, then get her relaxed, hold her head and use it to masturbate, little by little youll get her used to gagging, especialy if you get her to see it as 'skullfucking means true love & intimacy' or something like that, then after a while shell understand the task and do it without your help, even tho its alway nice to use your hands and help her down any way
for my all my gfs, and my current one, it just taks time and practice. tell her what you like while shes doing it and into it, moan or say something when shes doing it right, and eventually shell get the hang of it. liek the other anon said she has to get used to gagging if you want her to go deep. my gf was a virgin when i met her and she sucks dick like a pro now.
>teeth dont feel good on cock
I had a GF with relatively tilted wisdom-teeth and she used-to apologise for her FAR BACK TEETH dragging on my dick - oh no baby that is definitely part of the fun !
married man here, i can say that sexual frequency declined steadily over the course of our relationship (pre marriage & marriage), HOWEVER once my wife went off the pill she became a nympho
so there's that
i just can't cum inside her now.
yes the pill can take a woman's libido. in that case it works 100% no sex no babies lol Good for you she stopped using it.
Nowadays every teenage girl takes the pill as a lifesteyle product since it "helps" holding your white and gives you better skin lol nobody cares about the possible side effects while frigidity is one of the funnier things
What's the point? She don't wanna do it and she ain't doing it regularly just to make you happy then she clearly gives no fucks about you or what you want.
Assume you go down on he right?
Dropkick her ass to the kerb and find some new girl that wants to make you happy in the sack and outside.
I do go down on her
She used to do it more but she thinks she isn't good at it I guess because it takes me a long time to cum
I love her and shit, I don't want to dump her, I just want more blowjobs
it sounds gay as fuck but in all honesty it's all about communication. tell her whats good, try not to be too negative, ask her what she likes to do. Any skill can be learned and mastered, it just takes practice. That's how I learned how to suck cock and so can she!
this really is the best. She not going all "Oh you last more than than 2 minutes you don't like it you don't think I am attractive blabla" just being happy to do something good to her partner
I feel ya anon
Im in a really similar boat with the whole girlfriend not wanting to give blowjobs. Shes my fiance though. She'll SOMETIMES (very rarely) suck my dick for about less than 2 minutes. Its really cute and innocent how she thinks thats how long a blowjob lasts but it feels bad explaining to her that 10 minutes isn't unreasonable. She just isn't willing to do more for me. I really don't understand why. We love eachother like crazy. She'll do a lot for me but this is something she just won't budge on. She also won't go on the pill for me. Woman are strange creatures.
My girl's on the pill
I should say, we live in a European country where blowjobs aren't on TV and movies all the time, and my gf never watched much tv and shit to begin with, much less American stuff. So she doesn't get that blowjobs are kinda normal (that's my suspicion).
She will do it if I ask her, but again it's like 2-3 minutes of sucking and licking my knob, not very wholeheartedly. I can't really ask every time either, because she always makes it seem like a big deal.... Forget about deepthroating or sucking my balls.
Overall, outside the bedroom especially, things are good. And at least she's OK with anal. But it's frustrating she won't suck me off more. I do go down on her, but she isn't into it that much. She'll get wet and squirm of course, but she can't cum from it, so after several minutes she'll just say to get up and fuck her or finger her (easiest way to make her cum).
Some girls have issues with it that you'll never figure out. I was with a girl for like a semester in college. She was a total virgin, had to teach her how to kiss and everything. She'd take it in the ass like a porn star, but right to the end she refused to suck my dick. You can always try to ease your girl into it though. Make yourself look as attractive as possible and kinda dangle that lure in her face while you're doing other stuff. Maybe she'll bite. Never done that with oral but after 10 years of trying my current girl does anal now and loves it so it is possible to train a partner who's willing to go along with it. Try exaggerating how much you enjoy it. It'll make her more into the whole thing. And don't get hung up on cumming. If you've been browsing /gif/ for years you're probably used to jerking off to crazy shit and a bj is kinda vanilla so maybe that's why it takes forever to get off. Still obviously worth the time.
I'll admit, part of why I'm the same as your girl and don't really do blow jobs, is cause I know that I'm not that good. First boyfriend I had asked me to try and had to really talk me into it and really, its just not the easiest thing to do. I was constantly scared of attaching with my teeth and worried about the movement plus the suction plus the teeth plus trying not to drool cause saliva is all over plus concentrating on not gagging and breathing. I hand it to girls that can just go for it and be a pro.
But maybe your fiance is kinda in my boat. I really have no clue what I'm doing so I just don't do it as much as I feel I should. And because of that I also lose out, cause I avoid having oral done to me because I feel it's sorta expected to give back and I don't want to go from sexy chick to clumsy screw up, you know?
You'd go from sexy chick to sexy clumsy screwup.
I guess, I haven't seen you. Also, you'd get better at it.
Get over yourself, you're deriving your boyfriends from pretty much the best thing ever.
If you're currently single, it's probably the reason why.
don't act like an idiot the only way to screw up at givin g blowjobs is not to try and being unwilling to improve. Imagine you were a boy and you had to chat up girls in order to not being lonely but you are too afraid. Still people go try, fuck up and try again. You even have the advantage that you blow someone who likes you (and wouldn't ever tell you you do it bad because he for sure knows you have no self esteem and doesn't want to hurt you)
Not sure if you meant the video was hard to find or the girl/origin itself, but I've seen this video on multiple sites.
Search for "greek vocations" on xtube, or "facefuck deepthroat on bed" on xhamster, should be first result on both.
My girlfriend at first was really bad at giving bj for most of the reason you just tell.
Bj and cunilingus are gifts we done to each other. So we took the time she need to first enjoy giving me pleasure and i've always eat her to show her how oral sex is good to receive. After several months she starts to be good and now after 14years of love and sex she can deepthroat me and kill me with her mouth with more then 30mn bj. It's a delicious torture and she's really enjoy it. Time, love, patience are some keys to help you be better.
>> Is there another solution? like a way to make the act more appealing for her or something?
Understand that this is not a logical decision for the woman. Its the fact that you act like a man that makes her wet and willing to please you. If your woman isn't willing to please you sexually then she's only with you b/c you're either 1) an emotional tampon for her or 2) you fulfill some societal function for her ( money, social status, whatever).
Sounds morel like you fagged up the relationship by either being too needy/willing to please. While tenderness to some degree is important for men ( i.e. not being a complete psycho), you shouldn't be the supplicating one.
Its tons easier to set the precedent beforehand than to try and change someone's perception of you after the fact. So basically: easier to just dump your girl and boss up with the next hoe.
But you can always try, but you sound like a typical supplicating BF, so if you attempt to do what I recommend this shit can and most likely blow up in your face. But hey, you're probably going to try anyway, you may as well TRY to do it right.
What you do:
When you're making out just get up, unbuckle your belt, and tell her to get on her knees.
If she's like EW NO, just say: "You know what? Forget this. I'm going out". Pull up your pants and leave the house. Go to a bar, go to a friends house, whatever. It SHOULD NOT sound butthurt, it should come from the frame of mind that you could literally find some other hoe easily that would suck your cock.
If she asks you where you're going just say "out". First thing that is going to go through her head (if you do this properly) is : "where is he going"? "Why did he leave"? "Who's he with"?
You don't have to cheat on the girl to do this, but just leaving gives her the impression that you're not down for this BS, and you could easily find a new hoe is the point.
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So what's the key here? You need to be able to give her the SUBCOMMUNICATION that you have other girls on your dick and you don't need her. Again this is hard to pull off because you can't just say "I have 10 hoes on my dick", it almost has to come the way you act around her, which is in turn a product of how confident you feel in being able to get other women.
Would a rockstar give a fuck if his gf didn't give him a BJ? No because he'd find some groupie to rail repeatedly in his trailer while on tour. So you're damn well sure his GF is pleasing him on the daily.
Unfortunately the catch-22 is that in order to feel like a boss to pull this off...you have to (you guessed it...) actually have other girls on your dick.
So really the solution is again, to meet new women. You could always just go out and actively friend-zone hoes and build a massive social circle of women if you don't want to break up with her.
That might add leverage for her to become wet for you, because women naturally like men that other women want for some stupid reason. They don't even have to like him, but women in clubs LOVE to prove that they're hotter than other girls. So your girl would def double down on your cock if she saw you with other women.
And of course meeting women, especially for a dude crawling out of a needy relationship, isn't easy. On top of that your comment seems to imply that you aren't good with girls ( no offense). So be prepared to be treated like shit in clubs because women will smell the incompetence/neediness off of you A MILE AWAY. But hey, go out consistently and barrel through the bullshit and you'll eventually befriend ( or get laid if you're not worried about cheating) so long as you're not completely socially retarded.
So yeah. Go for it anon, I just hope this doesn't explode in your face.
I envy girls who can maintain such posture.
Whenever I do, my neck hurts and start to get a headach.
>Understand that this is not a logical decision for the woman. Its the fact that you act like a man that makes her wet and willing to please you. If your woman isn't willing to please you sexually then she's only with you b/c you're either 1) an emotional tampon for her or 2) you fulfill some societal function for her ( money, social status, whatever).
This line should be on the fucking site banner. If all the fans on r9k would listen to it, that whole board would disappear. And as for the other anon whose fucking fiance won't go down him, do you think she wouldn't go down on Jamal or Chad back in college?
It's always funny seeing hate like this on webms like that desu. Makes me wonder if guys value laying silent like a dead fish and giving no indication of pleasure whatsoever while their partner is pleasing them? Must be fun for both parties, I'm sure. God forbid people show intimacy in the most intimate physical situation... Lmao
Guys like that do not value intimacy and they don't like "real sex" they like "porn sex" that isn't about pleasure. They aren't looking to see people enjoy themselves, and they aren't comfortable with expressions of pleasure.
They also want they guy erased from porn completely: face body and voice. All participants in porn are reduced to objects to gaze upon, but they want to reduce the male portion as much as possible. And because of that porn gaze, all expressions of pleasure are coded as feminine, even if its coming from a gu. And because guys who get coded feminine are also called gay, porn with male moaning is coded as gay porn. When men watch a video coded as gay porn it makes them insecure in their sexuality.
they are just jealous because this girl is hot as shit + willing to get throatfucked while they have the hassle to find a girl at all and if they got one she thinks deepthroat is evil/doesn't like to blow at all/thinks about what she looks like while doing it/won't do what he wants at all because self centered/thinks what her friends might think of her if they ever found out...
The guy in the webm can be happy as fuck and he enjoys this throat while the guys on /gif/ lick the shit out of their gfs if they have one without getting something back or only have sex as a reward when they pay for a nice present
yup I wanted to emphasize the most frustrating because dumb ones.
>not being physically capable
Are there girls without throats? deepthroat isn't done by sucking on short dicks it is about training to get the whole thing in
>not enjoying it
Throats aren't vaginas so of course nobody enjoys it except they have a think for losing breath etc. It is about being generous and being happy to make the other side feel good. But of course unselfishness isn't common so you might not understand the concept of it. This threat isn't titled "loving girlfriends" for nothing
I've heard a handful of girls say this exact thing. I've also heard some of the best advice for when you're getting head: Tell her she has a fucking gift, even if she sucks. That way, at least she tries.
And I've never sucked a dick, so I don't really have pointers, but I don't imagine it's super hard to learn.
take it in your mouth. have your jaw a bit open so you don't gat your teeth on it. Press your lips together, do a vaccum, maybe get it out and let it plop. Give it a kiss, give it a lick, take it in your mouth and let your tongue twirl. There is nothing hard about it. You can try what 1 or two fingers in your mouth feel like and practice on them a bit. Blowjobs don't actually feel that good, having a motivated, active and fun girl who decided to give you a good time and give you a nice gaze from time to time does. Guys don't know what it is liked to do cunilingus but still do without being afraid to look clumsy why can't you?
I love how this thread became more about guys with frustrating sex life and girls too insecure to even try to suck on something than about gifs.
Getting your girl to blow you needs to things
1. A girlfriend with the right mindset i e a girl willing to give just for the fun at giving
2. Being the guy she wants to suck off
So provided she is the type to suck you might have a chance. Contrary to popular believe women don't get sexually aroused by you being a nice respectful guy. It isn't a bad thing, they will like you for it but they want the typical masculine guy. So since you can't change your height go to the gym. You don't have to put on the act the guy before described but never be a fucking push over. I know people say body is nothing confidence is all but I fucked girls who have orbiters about whom they say they are too weak and unmanly. Totally superficial reasons. And there is nothing wrong with it since you hopefully also get aroused by her body
>Are there girls without throats?
If your jaw has a limited range of motion there isn't anything you can do about that
>Throats aren't vaginas so of course nobody enjoys
Enjoyment is about more than physical sensation. If psychological and emotional components aren't part of your sex life then I feel sorry for your partners.
I've seen this russian compilation for years but only saw her cumshots scattered in different files. based anon please webm the full video out:
Dump her indeed.
On the onset when you're talking to your next gf tell her you are needy when it comes to oral and she needs to understand that she will be expected to give you head a lot.
I told this to my current gf and she blows me daily 2-3 times.
I gave her a long talk about how it is very intimate and bonding thing we both will enjoy.
Also told her i expected her to swallow and she does.
You have to talk about that shit beforehand or otherwise she won't do it because she can use the argument that you only now want her for sex/the case that she doesnt want to and was never expected of her.
The other Anons are right. My GF was a virgin when I met her. She didn't know shit. But if you talk about it with her and instruct her. She'll get better. Maybe watch some porn with her. Let her choose a video.
Her name is Tehya Edwards, she was on a show called Playboy Swingers. I've only seen one other video of her which is this http www xxxaporn com/41472/Cutie_gives_long_BJ_until_facial_and_eats_it.html
I forget her username, but she was a reddit gonewild poster, she removed all her stuff. I grabbed the imgur gallery that she uploaded at the time, 7 images and 3 gifs, but I'm not uploading them because they're fucking 40mb each.
This fucking Godesses name is Charlotte Vasallo. Probably around 4 vids of her, and a bunch of great pictures. I've done the heavy lifting for you idiots, search all this shit yourselves.
Well at least you acknowledge that you're not that good. If you're sincere about wanting to improve, the two best things for you are a good soft silicone dildo to practice on, and also watching deep throat porn. Now some guys don't care that much about oral but I can tell you I'm one of those guys who cannot possibly live without it, and it is super important to me. If you really wanna improve, it is possible.
Do you have any papers supporting that? Been with my wife since we where 17, got married 8 years ago, now we are 34 and got two kids.
Still, it's at least 2 blowjobs a week, if not more. Aside from regular sex.
you won't find much of Charlotte on streaming sites since videos mentioning her name get deleated. With her name you can still find pictures of her in a forum and there should still be a charlotte vassallo.rar with videos for download
I second that. Keeping her on her toes is a good strategy for pickupers who are just in for a fuck and don't want it longterm.
If you want to change things with her change to be the man she wants to suck off and if that doesn't work
There are people who are right for each other or at least treasure the feelings they have for each other and others who grow tired of their spouse.
In this context people like to bring the pea soup metaphor. Even if you like pea soup if you have to eat it every day you don't want it anymore. But I also have to say that people who say this don't hold relationships in high regards. I am mid 20s and every long year relationships I knew of broke when they moved together and noticed that they can't stand having to see each other each day. People today are more self centered
Been reading through this the last few days. Decided i cant take not getting deepthroated. I have a nice 8" that i know someone would love to suck on everyday.
Taking thread advice. Woke up today and had a couple beer, and decided that i am going to have to be more dom. Will either use every tip in this thread to increase the bj frequency, or I will be losing my ling term GF here soon. Either way, im holdin off on masturbating to stay at this same sexual frustration to ensure my goals are achieved.
Will report back with results. Wish me luck.
Its an absolute deal breaker if the girl doesn't love sucking cock. it that wrong of me anons?
my last girl I dated for 4 years love sucking cock. I haven't another girl like her personality wise and loves sucking cock. life if hard right now
So I have been treating my GF dufferent today. Like, just pulling my cock out in her face, forcing her head down, spanking her. She hasnt seemed super into it, but she hasnt stopped me. And we are super open about sex so she always lets me know when its too much. I even forced her to the point of making her throw up in her mouth from gagging, and even still managed to get another blowjob right after. I stopped her right before i came, went down on her, which led to 69, and she came all over my face. She sucked a little longer and then said she needed to shower. Will be forcing her face back on my cock when she returns. Never been so dom outside of roleplaying, and damn, girls really do dig this shit... wtf... so much bj.. thanks gif!
Its no joke. Ive only been at it for today, and maybe drinking first thing in the morning was cause of false confidence, and maybe she just didnt want to stop me and hurt my feelings ir some shit (she never hesitates to stop me though), who knows. All i know is i will either train her to worship my cock or i will find less of a woman that will. Cuz besides blowjobs, my gf is 9.5/10 with literally the best ass ive ever seen. Seems kind of a shame to throw it all away for blowjobs, but if you dont understand then you havr never had a girl deepthroat your 8" cock like a pro. Would pretty much give up anything to get that everyday
While I def don't agree with the abandoning and manipulative points (granted, he did say it'd probably blow up in his face) the one thing I 100% agree on is
Understand that this is not a logical decision for the woman. Its the fact that you act like a man that makes her wet and willing to please you. If your woman isn't willing to please you sexually then she's only with you b/c you're either 1) an emotional tampon for her or 2) you fulfill some societal function for her ( money, social status, whatever). Sounds morel like you fagged up the relationship by either being too needy/willing to please. While tenderness to some degree is important for men ( i.e. not being a complete psycho), you shouldn't be the supplicating one.
Truly great advice
it will only work on the most deranged of sluts. ones who are doing it to prove something to themselves.
if you want something long term, the key is to never break trust. a woman in love will bend completely to your will so long as you never break her trust. read about how training a falcon is different from training a dog.
You sound like a bitch that wouldn't give a decent blowjob if her life depended on it.
in top 3 ways to love me is bjs, maybe top 2
this girl is the best, anyone know who it is?
Don't be too handsy; use your mouth for gods sake
Make eye contact a lot, but not ALL the time
Go deep; the deeper you go the better the up and down motion feels
It might take some practice to deepthroat it properly but a little bit of struggling and choking can be hot as fuck. Sloppy is good.
If possible stick your ass out like this: >>7995800
Be confident and passionate; act like you love how it feels and tastes (this is much easier if you actually do love it)
Let him come either in your mouth or on your face; if it's on the face, tilt you head back all the way so taht your face is parallel to the ceiling - don't look right at it - and you can open your mouth while doing this if you like.
A good rule of thumb is to be as rough as you can without teeth - just lips and tongue.
gif is shit but the sauce video is great: