so maybe one of you can help me with this: i've gotten to the point where i can reliably milk my prostate, and by this i mean i can make cum, and it is cum, leak out, but no orgasm. usually after i milk my prostate it stops feeling good. im kinda at a lose as to how to progress from here.
also i kinda jumped straight into anal, i went from fingers to a tantus 7in long 1.7in diameter dildo. i can take it no problem but i was wondering if it's maybe easier to learn how to cum hands free with a smaller dildo?
>How the hell does she cum so much
There are supplements you can take, being well hydrated but with an empty bladder is important, as is edging and being very turned on. Finally, you will build volume for up to 3 days of abstinence, but this is less important than the other factors. If I really dedicate myself to controlling these factors I can deliver 60ml twice a day if you include pre-volume. A heavy full condom makes a woman feel super sexy, so the effort can be worth it.
Stop finishing yourself off manually. Try to only masturbate anally until you eventually cum handsfree. Its going to be hard, but I assure you that you will learn how to orgasm HF after a month or two, the only problem is to stay away from the dick.
Will fingers/other toys work if I don't want to use the aneros every night? Does the whole abstaining between sessions thing matter if you aren't actually cumming?
I'm thinking of trying this using the aneros every 3-4 days and fingers in-between.
The point of this is to keep your excitement up until you finally manage to cum anally. As long as you dont cum that exitement will build until you finally do. Anal sex, even prostate sex, is as much mentally as physically.
Erotic hypnosis works kinda the same way. If you get excited enough it is even possible to orgasm without doing anything, but that is way harder.
If you're stimulating yourself, sure. Aneros just helps.
As the other anon said, need to basically 'teach' your body to cum from anal. So work down from edging to not touching your dick at all. The longer you go without cumming, the easier you'll find the orgasm.
I'm a different anon, but I'm interested in the conversation.
How handy would you say a toothbrush is, the back end I mean, for stimulation? I feel like it does a decent job, and I have a VERY difficult time getting my fingers deep enough for any real pleasure.
Also, seriously? Don't touch my dick at all? I have to just struggle through what's essentially going to be a dry spell? It sounds like murder. Some people suggest edging. I tried that once or twice, but no matter how close I got, I couldn't go that extra mile. Sometimes I even feel like I'm really close through prostate stim alone, and suddenly, the sensation's lost and I have to fight to work my way back up to it again
Sounds like my situation. You just have to experiment with positions and toys to get it right.
As long as it feels good it doesnt matter what you use.
If you have to you can touch your dick, but a prostate session feels better if you stay away from your dick, and jerking off without cumming is hard, since it will be very tempting after a few edges.
But as long as you build up excitement until youre ready, and then using that excitement to push yourself over the edge its fine whichever way you do it.
I've been in a similar situation, I've been trying to get hands free orgasm through anal stimulation, only tried it for a few weeks and don't have anything really to use to stimulate it apart from a pen and a spare toothbrush.
My own experience is finding an area in my ass where touching it gives me an extremely faint yet small need to pee and I played with that area for a good hour, slowly feeling it stronger and stronger, really feels good after an hour or two however this is where I got stuck.
At the point where it feels really good I feel like I will come and I really have to go really fast and hard with it and it feels amazing but it never really happens and seems like I wont come but just about to no matter how hard I try and the main problem here being my arm gets really tired so I cant continue further.
I feel like I should just get a vibrator or something, I've been really shy and not wanting to buy any sex toys but I'm really tempted to go for it, would a small vibe really be enough? I really want an aneros too but shit looks expensive, not wanting a dildo though because of size and mainly just wanting prostate stimulation and it just seems gay.
Anyway for toothbrush anon, don't give up, you will get there, I should too but boy its a lot of effort and I hope I make it but unfortunately might have to resort to buying actual products.
For me personally, I definitely get to that point where it feels like I'm almost there, but like you said, your arms start getting tired after trying so damn hard. On top of my arms getting tired, I just don't feel like spending more than 2 hours trying to cum. An hour already feels like a commitment especially since I don't live alone, so I can't always just hide away in the bathroom for 2 hours. I mostly only try at night because that's the best time where nobody can bother me, but sometimes, I just want to sleep, or I'll be busy with something else.
As far as vibrators go, I actually do have one, but the battery died. I can't afford to replace it right now because cash is tight. That's why I haven't bought any other toys and have been relying on the toothbrush. The vibrator was a Rude Boy toy, so I'm supposed to rock back and forth on it, but even with a good amount of lube, it was only but so comfortable. It felt nice when it hit right, but I'm usually better off with the toothbrush when I want to be accurate with where specifically I'm trying to stimulate. I really wish I had a dildo or something because the toothbrush is just so damn small it feels like a ton of work. Oh, but the vibrator never ever got me there either. I've actually gotten much closer to cumming with the toothbrush, BUT if you're just looking for nice stimulation why you jerk, then it's fantastic.
Don't be afraid to buy any toys though. It's definitely not gay. We shouldn't have to be stigmatized for stimulating a very nice erogenous zone just because it's more regularly practiced by homosexual and bisexual males. If you go to a store, they'll help you find what you're looking for, and they'll be really cool too. They're there to help you, not make fun of you. I mean, they work at a sex shop; they don't really have room to judge if they were overly critical anyway.
However, if you're really nervous, online shopping is very discreet.
I'll probably try to just avoid touching my dick at all for awhile and just see how that goes. Edging, like you said, is gonna get really difficult the more I do it especially if you're looking at good content. Makes it so much harder to resist. I'm gonna keep persevering though. I really want this to happen.
Same here man. And when it comes to toys, I've been doing prostate stuff for several years now, and I got a handfull of different toys, but I have realized that more advanced toys won't necessary make orgasming easier. Its always the mood and finding the right spot.
I will also recommend to stay away from anal play when your'e not in the mood. It becomes more annoying than hot, and it will be harder to get yourself to continue. If you get tired after a night of training, fon't force yourself to continue every day after.
If you wany something more discrete you can get one of those vibrating gilette razors for like $10-20. They're shaped right and once you pop off the blade the "head" the razors attach to makes for a flared base.
So I've been trying anal play for a while and I just don't know how to get to that orgasm.
I have something I use when I want to do it. I stick it in and it feels really good when I rub it around too. I noticed that when I rub a particular spot however, that it feels a lot different, closer to that "need to pee" sensation people talk about. When I rub there and keep goind it feels really really good, and that sensation continually grows. But eventually it reaches some kind of peak and no matter what I do it just kind of subsides after that.
Is there something I'm doing wrong? Do I just need to be patient and go slower?
>tfw can't get any actual toys
It's pretty easy to do. You just have to have the right mind set and not focus on cumming.
I'd upload some gifs but I don't know how to make them and this is 4chan, I don't need neckbeards -10/10 me.
Everybody says don't focus on cumming, but that's exactly what the goal is. Kind of hard to not focus on cumming. That's like telling me to grab a plate of delicious food and then not to focus on eating it.
I think the problem with focusing on cumming is you subconsciously clench your pelvic muscles, because that's what feels good normally. But when you do that the prostate stiffens I think, and becomes harder to stimulate.
Because it's not, the goal is the orgasm. The cumming is just a side effect of that orgasm. It's also about training yourself not to jerk off, but focus on stimulating the prostate.
I come from hands free in this one :)
I'm going to start playing with my prostate and ultimately try for the illusive prostate orgasm.
Anyone got any experience?
I was going to buy a Rocks Off Naughty Boy vibrating toy hold off cumming for a week and spend the night going at it, I plan on just laying there and doing my best to enjoy the feeling.
These toys good?
nah it's a misguided attempt to optimize the size of the gif by making everything but the dick and ass static, so it's an animated ejaculation on top of a still frame, hence the creepy corpse vibe
I can get myself off using my wife's hitachi.
I sit on the office chair and put it right on my taint. Not quite sitting on it, just a little pressure to get it right and the vibrations rumble through my pelvis and eventually hit my prostate.
It takes a while though. Not one of those things that you can just whip and out and come in 5 mins.
So the vibrations start out just feeling good, then sort of expand more and more until they're a whole body thing and I come.
As best as I can tell, it feels like what I keep hearing women's orgasms described as.
Since then, I've tried various insertions, but nothing beats the hitachi done externally.
Anyone ever piss themself while doing this? The toy I have is curved a lot at the tip and hits it really well. Once I got to the part where it felt I needed to pee and I kept going like people said and I actually started to pee everywhere
Was I pressing it too hard and hitting my bladder or something? I made sure to pee beforehand too
The prostate is directly below the bladder, they are basically attached.
I started playing with my ass only a few years after I started masturbating which was before I could even ejaculate. I had plenty of orgasms from anal stimulation but no cum ever came out. Recently my wife and I have started trying it out, her fingers feel so much better than mine ever did but it does this thing where I feel intense pleasure and then with nothing changing all the sensation goes away.
I can finish in seconds if either of us touches my dick but we give it a good try first.
I piss myself more often than not, cause emptying your bladder completely isn't easy. But in my case it's when I have the sensation of peeing that I end up actually leaking semen, or even ejaculating with strong strokes.
Why all the traps and trans?
Why can't we have straight men cumming from getting pegged or something?
not quite. You want to cum, but if your just worried about cumming, you're going to miss out of living in the moment with every thrust of whatever it is in your ass. guys can cum from just touching their dicks without really being into it. its reflexive. but to cum without touching your dick, mean you need to be there mentally. if your not turned on by what you're doing, you wont cum
I get a similar sensation when i work on my ass. I get super shaky in the knees and my who body kinda shudders with it. Its a really good feeling, but it's not an orgasm. then it stops. when I get it going how i like it again, it comes back. Its only about 3-5 seconds at a time, but its great. Once im in that space, i can basicaly cum with a few strokes. my orgasms feel 10x's as good as ones without anal stimulation. I want to cum hands free, and i think i can get there soon. Im going to ask my wife to peg me soon. She should be cool with it. I get so excited just thinking about the day i have her on top of me, fucking me, and watching my previously secret, ecstasy.
>Hope Y'all know this trap is dead and you are fapping to a corpse
That's even hotter.
>Can shoot buckets strictly from anal.
>Could always achieve this just from bullying prostate.
>Orgasm feels so good my legs shake and I have trouble walking for days.
I wish to be the little girl just once but sadly being 6'4 and around 300 lbs I'll never live that dream.
For those wondering my advice is just bully your prostate relentlessly.
Make sure you're clean and your butt is up to the challenge so when you find your pleasure spot you can go to town and not stop till your balls explode.
I've tried reaching a prostate orgasm for a long time with a rubber dildo, but its too jelly to push directly at the prostate.
I found a glass dildo online which looks promising, but I'm just wondering if any of you have experience with these. Would the hard surface be painfull against the prostate, or does it actually work?
I see that many of the people in these webms use something hard to put pressure on it easily.