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Women who get off on that wont be pleased by dick for long.
No seriously, that shit permanently damages nerves causing numbness and frigidity.
Any woman who regularly uses a vibrator or worse a larger then normal sized phallus with extra powerful vibrator functions for multiple sessions per week will end up losing a lot of feeling in their pussy and end up completely frigid within a few years.
Fun to add a little something while having normal sex, or just to watch a woman who does it in porn or for a show.
But dicking a woman who only got off on lot of vibrator play for years? Prepare for the worst sex of your life.
>permanently damages nerves causing numbness and frigidity.
For real, this is no different than guys who use deathgrip. A couple weeks without masturbating and you go back to normal.
>>>Is it possible to please a woman that much with a dick?
OK seriously. She's sitting on a vibrator that's stimulating her entire crotch. . .every nerve ending. Its not possible to give that much stimulation with just a dick.
On the other hand, as presumably a normal human being you also have hands, a mouth, a voice, a body, and other things to stimulate a chick with, and its CERTAINLY possible to give a girl a mind-shattering orgasm, without mechanical assistance.
>>Women who get off on that wont be pleased by dick for long. No seriously, that shit permanently damages nerves causing numbness and frigidity.
Bullshit. Vibrators don't cause nerve damage.
It is true that if someone gets accustomed to a high level of stimulation over a long period of time, they won't be able to get off with less. But if they go without they'll eventually revert back to normal. . .it will just take a while.
People usually fail to mention that a big help in getting girls off is arousing them mentally. If you get a girl really truly horny you can make them cum several times pretty easily.
honestly, I find it kind of dissatisfying to get off to this because it look so intensely pleasurable compared to my own orgasms that I feel unsatisfied and envious afterwards... easy to get off to though, but just meh...
it definitely feels better than a sneeze to me, but compared to what some of these ladies seem to be experiencing, I'd might as well be fucking sneezing
Build it up and drag it out? Like repeatedly edging in the same session?
You know, I've noticed that depending on what it is I'm watching it has some varying effect on the intensity. Like, when I watch trans porn, the orgasms are much better, whereas when I watch hetero porn, it's adequate at best.
>Like, when I watch trans porn, the orgasms are much better, whereas when I watch hetero porn, it's adequate at best.
Take a couple weeks off from porn and fapping and you won't find that anymore, unless you're just full on into trannies more than women
>Like repeatedly edging in the same session?
Yes. Also it sounds like you jack off with the physical sensation and ignore the psychological components. Which is a common mistake with virgins desu senpai.
Yes, but not all women and not even some women all the time.
Some women just find it hard to cum. Sometimes they just find it hard to cum with YOU, but that's relatively rare unless you are completely incompetent. In either case, better to avoid long-term relationships with this type.
Most women are in the middle, where they cum some of the time by cock. A lot of them cum best when they are on top where they can control rhythm and angle of penetration. Get her into Cowboy position and let her do the work. If no cummage forthcoming, get to work an snatch with tongue and finish that shit before or after you spooge. Anyways, good marrying types.
Some women cum hard and relatively easy. These are best for girlfriends. Nothing better than a convulsing chick screaming 'oh my god'. They would make great wives, except they tend to be a bit sluttly and cuckage is possible. If you find one you trust, find reasonably attractive and a decent personality, then lock onto that shit.
Nope. No matter whether I edge or not, with a partner or by myself, no matter what changes, the orgasms are just...meh and a few pathetic globs of spunk. Really disappointing and for many years I couldn't figure out what the hell people were getting out of sex that I was missing. I figured they were just easily amused and easily impressed. I still kind of feel that way.
1. Know how to find the clit. Look at pictures / diagrams if of little experience.
2. Take your time getting there. Get her worked up by kissing neck, sucking nipples, roam your hands on inner thighs, brief passes over her snatch (preferably outside of panties or pants to start). Kiss your way down - don't rush but don't loiter too long either.
3. Kiss inner thighs and outside of twat for a little bit before diving in - build anticipation but avoid boredom.
4. When ready, run your tongue up her cooch, parting her outer lips. Spend a little time on outer vaginal opening, make sure things are getting wet, but move on to clit proper fairly quickly.
4. Get to work on clit - start licking gently and slowly. Start to increase pressure of your tongue to make sure it is burrowing past clit hood, but keep it slow for a bit. Further increase pressure and speed gradually.
If done right, you may end up speed gobbling her poon,but here is the important thing: take your cues from her. If she is just laying there, no point in thrashing your tongue like an idiot. She'll let out little moans and hip lifts when you're hitting the spot - pay attention to what you're doing when this happens and do more of that.
Fingering while eating usually best left for later in the porkage sessions. Some girls not comfortable with this right off the bat (though some are).
I've thought about it, but what do I say to him/her? "My orgasms don't seem to be very enjoyable, what's wrong with me?"...then it'll be a discussion about how everyone is different and how I shouldn't compare myself to others. Sounds like an embarrassing discussion. More so than the time I had my doctor look at my asshole after it prolapsed from doing squats one night at the gym.
Basically tell them what you said in your last post. Sometimes you just have to do something awkward to get better.
If you can, maybe find a psychologist who specialises in sexuality, might not be a medical issue
Sounds like a lot of time and money to remedy something that, in the grand scheme of things, really isn't a big deal. I'd probably get more satisfaction out of saving the money spent on co-pays for medical visits and counseling and spend it on something else, right?
I still get laid on the regular, so at least I have that going for me, which is nice. It just doesn't curl my toes.
Doctors hear and see way more embarrasing shit ALL THE TIME. All day, every day.
Definitely see doctor, get tested for low testosterone levels and thyroid function.
It is most likely that this is just how you are, but definite that physical things could be a problem.
Fair enough I guess, I was looking at it from my aussie healthcare perspective where it would basically cost nothing out of pocket.
Still think it would be a good idea though. If it's a hormone issue then it could be effecting other areas of your life that you just don't notice because they've always been there
Trust me when I say that I've taken some time off before. Just didn't feel like it is all, so for nearly two weeks anyway, I wasn't fapping at all. Anyway though, the first orgasm after all that time was obviously really nice and I'm pretty sure it was to hetero porn, but it still didn't have that same feeling I get when it's trans porn.
However, I'm not like 100% more into trans women than cis women. I love some good hetero stuff, but most of the time I can't get off to it the same way. It's not like it doesn't turn me on or anything.
To explain the difference, hetero porn seems to give me a more explosive, volcanic like ejaculation where the orgasm is meh most of the time, but trans porn gives me more of a steady build-up with a more sustained pleasure period.
Solo porn with cis girls is usually more enjoyable than anything penetrative, but that's actually really annoying since I really enjoy POV content.
I only just recently got into edging, like literally about a week. Definitely satisfying, but awfully time consuming when I'm not trying to sit around forever, but it's worth it I guess. Again, its new, so I haven't quite found my patience yet.
>Also it sounds like you jack off with the physical sensation and ignore the psychological components.
Please explain this. I have no idea what you mean by this. Also, I definitely am a virgin, so I really would like any advice you can give. I'm not really ashamed to admit that.
>awfully time consuming when I'm not trying to sit around forever
Sounds like you don't need to be "edging" for real. You just need to maintain steady arousal. Just try keeping a boner (or at least a chubby) for a few hours before you try to cum. Touch yourself for a few seconds throughout the day without seriously masturbating, look at porn, hang out with hot friends, and stay a little "buzzed" and horny from all the teasing. Then cum at the end of the day.
Different guy here.
No idea what that desu senpai jagoff was talking about, but with regards to masturbation it's possible to ejaculate without orgasm. True enough orgasm typically accompanies ejaculation, but it isn't requisite.
You know what an orgasm is, yea? You know what, don't answer that as there's to many damn wolves here. Lemme assume you don't and say it's a full body explosion of sensation, your nerves are set aflame, and it feels like a revolution has occurred in your soul (mind, psyche, sacred center, whatevs. All terms are talking about the same thing; something felt or experienced).
No rush to lose your virginity; you definitely deserve good sex, remember that, but true connection (emotional and spiritual) with another is what's best to seek IMO.
GOOD LUCK AND GREAT FUN ANON!!
>hang out with hot friends
you have no idea how impossible that one is. LOL
But in all seriousness though, that could be an interesting method to rely on. Seems like a really quick way to get frustrated though. It seems like it could be effective, I hope.
>Seems like a really quick way to get frustrated though
At first, yeah. But once you get used to having GOOD orgasms you'll be less likely to get frustrated from it and instead enjoy the tease/denial aspects.
>it's a full body explosion of sensation, your nerves are set aflame, and it feels like a revolution has occurred in your soul
if that's what an orgasm feels like, most of us have been doing it wrong then. That sounds more like the sort of fluffy romanticized version of the reality which is much less soul lifting. Not trying to say you sound ridiculous, but THAT sounds a bit fantastical opposed to realistic.
As far as virginity goes, I'm absolutely in no rush to lose it. I want it to be special, not some quick fling with a hottie I'll never see again. However, I imagine whatever I've been experiencing alone can't quite compare to a connection between to deeply feeling people.
>but THAT sounds a bit fantastical opposed to realistic.
This. While orgasm can feel like that, and better, it isn't the most frequent feeling. Usually it's just a truckload of dopamine and vasopressing.
If i can just chime in : From experience, i had truly mind shattering orgasm from using proven masturbation technique (edging, prostate, etc) and even went into some research mode sometimes ("scratching a mosquito bite on your feet feels maddeningly good, what if i cum at the same time" or "how fast can I cum a second time in a row by interrupting my first cumming" etc) which sound somewhat related to what >>7895134 described.
A few discoveries :
>you'll probably never get better service than your own in terms of perfect orgasm
>The longest preparation work gives the most ridiculous orgasm
>You can cum from not touching yourself at all.
>Denial orgasms are best given by someone to profit from powerplay, don't ruing your own orgasms...
I've had the sensation spread to my legs like twice since I first started and that was pretty interesting. However, most times the sensation just sort of sits in the lowest reaches of my abdomen right above my dick, but a little to the right. I never really noticed the exact location of the feeling until I started trying prostate stim. There have been times where even though it didn't spread out, it was definitely deeply intense, but that shit's rare, and usually depends greatly on what I'm actually getting off too. I know if I'm under the influence of sleeping pills (100mg of diphenhydramine), it has a very interesting effect on the level pleasure I get from orgasming. Basically, it's so uniquely good to my usual situation that whenever I'm on sleeping pills, I never squander the opportunity to get off no matter how tired I am because I don't get to be under that influence very often.
Huh... you make me want to research more. I've found a few things work really well, but there aren't always convenient and sometimes, especially if I'm just dying to go, stopping to do any prep just feels irritating, but that's probably the best time for me to do it. Sometimes, I can get something really good going by pure chance, but that's really rare so a more practical approach like yours would be much better in the long haul.
>I never really noticed the exact location of the feeling until I started trying prostate stim.
You have weak PC muscles, do kegel exercises.
>There have been times where even though it didn't spread out, it was definitely deeply intense,
> depends greatly on what I'm actually getting off to.
You need to be more turned on before you cum, as others in the thread have said
>...weak PC muscles...kegel exercises
The fact that I don't know what PC muscles are and I only have a slight idea what kegels are probably would explain a lot of where the dissatisfaction may be coming from because I'm lost in this conversation right now. This is a GREAT learning experience though. I'm actually glad I dropped into this thread now.
>You need to be more turned on when you cum
sometimes I'm super turned on, but it doesn't really matter. The ejaculation seems more impacted by how turned on I am than to the orgasm itself. Like I said, when I look at trans porn, it definitely produces a different effect. Ejaculation might be a bit less, but the orgasm is usually better. On the other hand, hetero porn (primarily penetrative stuff) usually gets a bigger load out of me, but the orgasm is generally less intense.
oh definitely. I mean if you're in it for the reach of the ultimate orgasm you have to somewhat organize, but i gotta admit the first few years were spent mostly discovering stuff at random.
I don't know if I want "the Ultimate Orgasm", but I definitely want something awesome. The more I see of women looking greatly pleased and the more I feel like my own orgasms are inadequate it just really makes me want to find away to improve my own experience. It's just so frustrating and sometimes I want to just get off without all the bullshit.
Kegel = PC
Dr. Kegel is the name of the man who came up with exercises for your PuboCoccygeus muscle.
That muscle also called the pelvic floor muscle, and its a little hammock that connects to the tailbone on one end and your pelvis at the other. This is the muscle that flexes like crazy during orgasm, squeezing the prostate and propelling ejaculate out. It also does stuff unrelated to orgasm, but thats not what we're talking about today.
Do kegel exercises to strengthen this muscle. Once its Hulk strong you'll notice during orgasm that it flexes more strongly, rapidly, frequently. You should feel it pretty deep and shoot further.
>More so than the time I had my doctor look at my asshole after it prolapsed from doing squats one night at the gym.
What the fuck dude! What the ever loving fuck!!
Okay, all this talk about kegels is right on because that doesn't happen to people with normal/healthy pelvic floors. Or at the very least your muscles got damaged during the process of prolapse and repair, and that will diminish the strength of your orgasm.
Also, post greentext of your prolapse adventure, cause I need something to help me throw up.
So that must be what I'm feeling during orgasm. Usually, I feel something in that general vicinity, so that actually makes a lot of sense. I'm definitely gonna start doing those kegel exercises ASAP. Thanks for the tips.
Never realized 4chan could be such a learning environment. lol
Women are a mystery to me, man. I mean she sleeps with her head and face pressed against that pillow every night and here she is giving it full contact friction with her asshole and urethra. Her curtains don't cover the whole height of the window so are basically useless. And wtf is that shit on the wall about?
probably because when they actually give you sex ed in like fucking middle school, they only teach you about the functions of the reproductive systems and not anything about actual sex. I can't tell you one thing I learned from a sex ed course that actually taught me about actual sex besides that you can get pregnant and STDs.
Here's my favorite, anyone have a source of this? I think this is a somewhat popular porn actress.
You'd think so, but unfortunately that isn't the case. You have to take a course somewhere outside of public school to learn any of this shit unless your school is just down for a real lesson.
Forgive the use of descriptive language, but we are talking about something that I feel deserves it. I didn't feel then, nor do I now, that starchy semi-scientific terminology can ever truly describe how wonderful and special these bodily feelings are. It's real, it's yours, and it's something that's happening to you on your walk through living existence. Forgive my language, but I refuse to diminish...whatever the fuck this is that's happening, whatever this reality is.
If, however, that's what you're looking for....orgasm = feel good.
Does know the name of the girl in this? (pic related)
I just have trust issues when on 4chan. A while ago I was going through a porn gif thread and someone disguised the thumbnail on a gif to make it seem porn related, the next minute I'm watching some guy have an autopsy on him while he's alive...
Ever heard of death grip?
It's a real thing.
Ever hear about how the head of circumcised mens penises become calloused and unfeeling over the years?
Yeah that's a real thing.
Ever heard about how the hands jack hammer operators become numb and deadened after a little while?
Yeah, that's a thing.
Women can and do become deadened to sensation with constant vibrator use. Tripply so if it's particularly strong vibrator use. This isn't some bullshit or a fantasy. It's true.
If that chick in the OP made sybian use a permanent part of her sexual life she's going to be numb and completely frigid within a few years.
>Ever heard of death grip?
>Ever hear about how the head of circumcised mens penises become calloused and unfeeling over the years?
Nothing to do with nerve damage, just psychological conditioning and (as you said) calloused skin.
If anyone has the sauce for this, I'd be very grateful.
I never post on here, but give this man a fucking medal, never a truer word was spoken. To add: different kinds of stimulation make them cum differently- I've been with girls who cum many times whilst i'm just fucking them hard- vaginal stimulation. Some enjoy anal stimulation, like guys. My current girlfriend can only cum if there's the RIGHT sort of clit stimulation. I can sometimes get her to, but most of the time I let her do it (she knows her body better than I do) and learn, or let her take charge altogether and do that weird grinding thing that massively turns me off. But that's cool, because then I get doggy as a result ;).
A "circumcised men's penis"? As opposed to what? A circumcised women's penis?
Son, I do not think you have the first idea as to what is a callus. I am 62, circumcised, and the corona of my penetrator becomes so sensitive during sex I can barely stand it. If it was any more sensitive I could not have sex.
It is kinda sad seeing all of these insecure people worried about orgasms. Like if there was a big tit thread would you all be questioning what was wrong with your tits? Everybody is different. Don't sweat it :)
Losing sensation due to vibrators is a real thing, but this guy has it horribly wrong at all levels when it comes to how and why it happens. IIRC excessive stimulation causes her to build up a 'tolerance' to it (kind of like drug users) which means when lesser stimulation is applied it doesn't have the same effect.
I'm also fairly certain sensitivity can be restored just by not using vibrators and shit for a while, so it's probably some chemical thing.