> "Hey son, I know you're busy nowadays lifting them heavy things up and down ... but if you spend some time with your boring old man then I'll be right downstairs. It's just been hard on me ever since your mother died and well I just wanted you to know that I love you."
How would you react /fit/?
> "Please don't laugh at me son. I know I'm not as cool or 'hip' as all the other dads out there but I've always had you in my best interests because even though you're not as successful as all your other friends- your number one to me son."
>tfw my dad never asked for my company
>tfw I never played footballl with dad
>tfw I wish my dad would come just for ONE day to mire me at the gym
why live brehs
Who else grew up with /norolemodel/ ?
tfw dad was abusive, on-and-off with alcoholism, neglecting, mocking, macho as hell and always yelled at me since i was little, threatened to kill me a few times and i ran to the bathroom and locked myself in and cried for like half an hour. the only good thing related to him is that i want to become stronger atleast physically, so if he or anyone ever even tried anything again, i would be able to protect myself..
My father is a reasonably fit 65 year old who does a lot of cycling, works 3 part time jobs, and looks after my wheelchair bound mother.
If that happened, I'd wonder how the fuck he got half way across the country, and into my house without me knowing.
I'd still drag him to the gym to bond if I could, though. He'd be a better gym buddy than my current one.
Happy that my mother's dead, plus my dad's my best friend anyways
>tfw still kiss my Dad goodbye (on the lips)
Is this normal?
This. When I was a kid, my dad was the one who taught me how to cook, so when I moved out and started making my own meals, I had a knowledge base to work off of.
When I lost a bunch of weight and put on some muscle, my dad wanted me to help him out (Type II Diabetic, overweight). I showed him the basic lifts, and while he can't lift very heavy because of his age, he really enjoys it.
>tfw dad was a shitty deadbeat my whole life
>tfw I gave him chance after chance to stop being shitty and he never did
>kinda give up after he just straight up doesn't contact me for a year and a half
>before uni he out of the blue offered to let me live with him if I went to the uni in his town
>he said he would move to a bigger place, pay for food, bills, all I would have to worry about is school and getting to and from there
>this is the most responsibility he's ever shown, but I still really don't trust him and don't want to
>entire extended family pushes me to do it anyways, so I tell him this is his last chance to not be a shithead and that if he wastes it then I am gone
>First year is actually great
>he's not much of a dad still, but he's supportive and reliable, and I actually start to like him for the first time
>learning lots of new cooking stuff from him, he introduces me to climbing, we hike together when I have time
>After a year he meets the most horrible, miserable woman I have ever had the displeasure of meeting
>dad's attitude does a 180, he starts treating me like shit, lets this woman say the most abusive shit to me
>tell him to fix it or I'm gone
>he says it's his house, he'll do whatever he wants
>I pack my shit in my car and leave, and haven't spoken to him since
That was almost two years ago now, and it still hurts. He's tried texting me a few times and the family keeps pressuring me to make up with him after I "ruined a good thing", but they can all fuck themselves. I don't need them or him. I didn't have him my whole life before, and I don't need him now.
>implying whites are the only group of people that know their fathers
I am 100% with you that there's some retarded double standard where minorities can have pride in their race but whites can't but that's an ignorant thing to say.
Hi dad.I know we never spent much time together when I was little.you had all that work and the economic issues. I know I didn't grow up like you wanted.I had shown promise being smart and good at math and all ,but I threw it down the drain playing vidya and being a lazy idiot. You never pushed me though ,that's my only complaint you left me like a plant not pruned or watered to grow as I did according to my environment and circumstances so you can't blame me. But still I hate myself for not becoming the man you wanted me to be.for not reading literature and shit and not slaying sloots with poetry like your fedora ass wanted me to. I'll make it up though dad .I've started taking care of myself and exercising.and I'm trying to be less of a autist and also study so I don't become an utter neet disappointment by failing the exams....
So yeah that was my stupid open letter to my dad.not quite what I wanted it to be but I'm on my phone
tfw you can bench 2 plates at then end of your heavy set for reps and you still can't squat 3 plates for a 1rm
"Drop the beer and stop being so fucking fat, she's been dead for 7 years now and she killed herself because of your lying, cheating, passive-aggresive fat ass".
Fuck that man, always trying to one up everyone around him, talking bullshit about what he's done and what he can acomplish, but never living up to his words.
Even now, when I have my own family and my own child, the fucking fatass always tries to tell fake stories about how it's just like when he was my age.
Except it fucking wasn't. I know this, because when my wife tells me his stories from supposedly my childhood, they're fucking exaggerated, mixed up or outright lies that make him look good.
Fuck you man, I don't need your 30 years late love.
>The fact that they happen to have been born with less melanin than others
Do normies really believe that this is where racial differences end? In skin color?
Lmaoing at your life, m8.
Yes. It's not pleasant to think that some people are born just better than others for lifting and intelligence. Normies don't like thinking about unpleasant things. Still can't judge people based only on their race though, within a race some people are born just better than average too. And even if you rolled low stats when you were born it doesn't necessarily mean you can't overcome those stats with hard work and dedication. Judge the individual.
>directed by M Night Shyamalan
I'm the guy you replied too. I totally agree with you, and I think that is where racists fail. Characteristics regarding race should only be used to look at a racial group as a whole and their likely trends through society. An individual should always be treated without such bias, because every person is perfectly capable of being greater than what is expected of them.
That wouldn't make any sense...
My dad died 25 years ago when I was 5
do you even lift faggot?
i said faggot do you even lift?
>i dont understand, you know i dont lift, and why are you calling me a faggot?
why? ill show you why you little bitch, take off your pants you DYEL faggot, imma shove this 40 pound dumbell up your ass! dont you ever tell me to take a break from lifting again!
>no, son stop this, it hurts, im going to die
well i guess you wont interrupt my workout will you!?
> ill leave you alone son! just let me go! im sorry!
next time you come up to talk to me, you better have my protien shake with you
RRRRRRRR i cant believe my racist comment was met with a racist comment, the person who replied to me with a racist comment should feel so bad about what they said
Proud of my ancestors for creating every single thing that makes life worth living, and the single greatest country in the world.