Question for the sexually active people here: how do you groom your public hair. From what I gather it's not ok to do nothing to it and just let it grow at its natural length. Also what do you do with your ass hair between your cheecks?
Shave that shit twice a week since I was in high school.
Better faps, less smelly crotch, and less itchy
I trim it every once in a while. Shaving makes it itchy as fuck so I've stopped going hairless except on the shaft. Ass hair should probably be waxed if you're really concerned about it being there. Shaving it yourself is pretty awkward.
I shave, wax, or depilate all of it.
That's just my preference though, your partner may have another.
Use this powder stuff called "magic shave" on the pubic region and taint area. Check the Amazon reviews, it's cheap, painless, and effective. I use that stuff the day before events where I expect to be wearing very little or maybe getting some
My personal preference for men is they trim if it's out of control, but leaving it be if I'm not getting a mouth full isn't a big deal
Can't see any reason for a man to shave his ass hair unless you're getting shit stuck in it or something. But I warn those wanting to try: your farts will be significantly louder
I haven't touched it in 5+ years now. My girlfriend complains a few times but doesn't really force the issue. It's like armpit hair it doesn't grow massively large, it's like an inch or two now.
when I'm sexually active I'll usually trim once a month around the crotch, shaft and balls, but leave enough that it doesn't get itchy or look silly.
i used to do the same for my pits, but haven't done so in a while.
having lots of pubes does make things appear smaller, and is slightly smellier (good and bad), but trimmed/shaved sweats more noticeably.
I shave work a razor in the shower. I've been shaving my ass too since my ex started giving me rim jobs. Electrical clippers are optimal, but mine broke, so razor works.
I've never met a girl that likes hair in her mouth after a blowjob.
I just cut and trim a bit when it start getting long or too much on the sides, I'll die before I shave any part of my body other than my face.
I don't do anything about my ass since nobody has the right to touch it.
I trim down to a stubble with an electric razor and then will shave the shaft/balls. Razor burn isn't a problem if you take lots of care to always go with the grain.
To be honest, sex aside, it's a lot more comfortable in a lot of ways.
As for how I like my gf, I prefer almost all natural, just shaved to the point that nothing is visible in a bathing suit. She's really pale and has dark hair so it's a bit of a turn on t-bee-h, I definitely prefer natural to stubble on a girl.
dude if you shave off your asshair every fart will be a loud, squeaky wet fart. Your asshair is your natural tool to fart silently in public. Plus that shit would be way too hard to trim.
But whenever my pubes get unruly, I tame em down a bit. Usually go with no hair on the shaft, try to get as hairless as I can on the balls, and leave a reasonable amount above the dick
Is this a male, gay or female thread?
It makes sense for a woman to shave her ass, and it makes sense for a gay to shave it, there's no other way. But for me as a straight male, if a girl touches my ass I just ask her to grab my back instead.
THIS. THIS RIGHT HERE. THIS IS THE HOLY FUCKING GRAIL.
two long ass youtubes in case your dumb ass doesn't know how to lather up powder and apply to your body
I've shaved my junk since middle school since my dick would literally get tangled up in the fukin jungle of hair down there.
My problem is that I'm a hairy mother fugger so it really stands out.
I trim mine when things get out of control.
I'm thinking about having a Christmas tree shape down there but if a woman's like "it's not even Christmas?" it'll be weird to say "nah, but you've got Chris' mass in you right now baby".
I'm a faggot and my ex boyfriend didn't let me trim my ass or crotch, he said he liked me more when i was hairy af.
It's mostly women that prefer hairless bodies, as far as i know from straight guy friends.
You're kinda aspie though, if you prohibit someone you're fucking from touching you in certain places.
Don't touch your ass crack hair or else it'll be the most uncomfortable thing ever when it starts to grow back
Completely shaving used to give me ingrown hairs. It also means you have to decide whether to shave your stomach too, or have a weird boundary.
What I do now is use hair clippers on the shortest setting to trim anything from the navel down, and then a razor on the actual dick and balls. I've never once cut myself, btw.
As for ass hair... who cares, I never see it, and my gf doesn't object to it. You could get it professionally waxed if it bothers you.
I admit I'm slightly autistic, and if it was up to me, I wouldn't allow any part of my body to be touched. Irealise this is just stupid and retarded for literally every other person, but my ass is just mine. Only my mom or step mom can touch my hair and only when I need to get it cut, and nobody touches my balls, because it's kinda important.
I just trim my pubes and surrounding hair occasionally. Shaving is too irritating for me, plus I'd look weird because I'm really hairy all over. I'd have to go full smooth which is just way too much effort.
I'm also a faggot so I'll shave the hair around my asshole occasionally. It doesn't get in the way too much though IMO.
Trim snail trail, shorter around my junk, balls, taint and asshole clean shaved. I wouldn't bother with my asshole but my gf likes to rim me out so I feel obligated to keep it tidy
Trim my pubes with scissors and shave my balls smooth balls feel fucking amazing to the touch, amd even better when they're slapping up against my girl and spraying our collective body fluids everywhere
>I wouldn't bother with my asshole but my gf likes to rim me out so I feel obligated to keep it tidy
serious question, how do you shave it down there? I simply can't see, I can barely reach, I feel like I'm just poking around blind, which is not really smart with sharp utensils around sensitive areas. My gf has been asking me to shave so she can rim me, which sounds great, but I have no clue how to properly shave there.
either use a chemical air remover, have someone else razor your ass hole or get a beard trimmer with a guard that cuts hair short enough to not offend the mouth, but long enough not to produce sharp painful stubble.
>use beard trimmer without guard for arsehair
>use with short guard for above the benis
Yes I use the same one on my face.
I generally shave pubic hair and balls and shaft
Leave your ass alone unless you're committed to shaving it every few days because it is extremely uncomfortable when it grows back, not to mention your farts are a lot louder.
Shaving your pits keeps the scent down a LOT , I would recommend
If you can just get your hair really short and keep the area clean you're golden.
Shaving or waxing will make sitting down impossible as it grows back in, it's ridiculously uncomfortable.
But if that's what it takes to get a rimjob fucking do it, so worth it.
Look, if we're being totally reasonable here..I could give you a pass on your ass. It would be awkward if you were plowing some girl, and she grabs your ass and you freak out and become Tumblr.exe, but whatever. You're fucking weird.
But not letting people touch your hair or balls? So, what do you expect a girl/guy to do while they're blowing you? Have their hands behind their back? Or say you're going down on a girl/guy. She's not allowed to grab your head?
You sound like epitome of completely damaged goods if those are your lines. You deserve Wizard status.
>So, what do you expect a girl/guy to do while they're blowing you? Have their hands behind their back?
Touch my abs and my legs maybe? Touch themselves?
>Or say you're going down on a girl/guy. She's not allowed to grab your head?
Yeah no, I love my hair, I'm obsessed with my haircut, she can touch her body or grab the sheets
my entire crotch and legs are covered in hair so if i shave my pubes it looks like i have fucking mange
Yeah dude, nothing says quality blowjob like a calf massage during. Or how about that super intimate move where your partner grabs the sheets because you're off limits.
For how retarded your boundaries are, I would absolutely love to see a sex tape where you pick up a hooker (because no girl deserves to be pinned down with some dude she can't even touch) and she violates every rule you have. Just to see you stop everything in the heat of the moment to readjust your personal bubble. That shit would be the funniest thing Pornhub has ever seen.
>Excuse me miss, but I didn't give you permission to touch my balls. Please put your hair in the bun so it doesn't brush against it, and don't deepthroat because I don't want the possibility of your bottom lip touching my sack or I'll have to stop you.
>Alright, I'm going to eat that pussy like a week long meal plan, but I swear to god don't touch my hair or you can explain to your pimp why your client left without paying. I'm not even playing, I payed $14 for this haircut from SportClips and if you fuck it up I'm out.
brehs. I think im going to have sex for the first time tomorrow with this girl from my class
it's also going to be with a girl that has a 10/10 body
i am nervous as FUCK and I don't want to not get a boner. I haven't jacked off to porn in like 2-3 weeks but I have been fapping to my imagination. I also sometimes watch the porn gifs on /b/ and /gif/ but I never fap to it
any tips for me? I do NOT want to blow this opportunity, i'm 21 years old and still a virgin and I need to get this done. how the fuck do i just RELAX
You relax by accepting the fact it's not going to be that great of an experience.
The best advice I can give is just try to enjoy yourself. Don't go in with expectations, or anything like that. Just let shit happen.
Remember, this isn't the end-all-be-all of your sex life (hopefully). So don't build it up to anything special, and if you did then try to break it down. Sex gets better with experience, it rarely starts great.
You don't need to go as far back/down as you think, usually. I just do a half squat in the shower and use a disposable razor, then I pull my balls up and check myself in the mirror across from the shower.
fuckk I know but it's like I can't help but think that this needs to be awesome the first time
I hope to use the "I just get nervous my first time with a new girl" excuse and hope she doesn't realize I'm a virgin lol
not pic related but she has a body almost identical to that
Honestly dude, chances are even your second time (with this girl or in general) wont be that great of an improvement.
I would avoid using any excuse like that. Because if you get to fuck her again, and you still haven't balanced out...you put yourself into a shit situation where now you're having to lie, and it'll only add to the tension.
If worst comes to worst, honesty yo. Best case, she's understanding and wants to help. Worst case, she doesn't fuck you again.
I trim my pubes with scissors until it's at a pretty respectable length only crazy thing I'll do is literally with my hand rip out the ass hairs and pluck them with my fingers. It's such a weird concept grooming in general is just so fucking weird.
Dunno about you senpai, sweat+cum pube musk is pretty hot.
kek, I shaved my asshole 2 weeks ago and my farts have been loud af plus it gets a bit sweaty which gets a bit uncomfortable
I trim my pubes with the #2 sometimes #4 option on the trimmer, I don't like being completely shaven nor do I like being like having a bush like zohan
>Lasered pubic and ass
You're gonna regret it once you reach the inevitable twink death.
Shave pubes into landing strip (lightning bolt if I'm feeling fiesty), shave balls, pluck shaft.
And for my gooch and asshole I have a thing where I stand in the shower and just grab em and rip em the fuck out till I'm smooth. It used to hurt alot but now it just gives me a great hard on
>shave balls and shaft
>keep stop hair and edge it out
>trim taint and stop at the beginning of ass
>shave above navel
>trim a line below navel connecting to top hair
That's been my same routine since I was 15. I'm 24 now.
>tfw you realize you've been on 4chan for over a decade
I guess this place does have me forever
off topic but I feel the need to post this somewhere
>18 year old virgin
>fingered first real gf a week into the relationship
>took like 10 minutes for her to cum the first time cuz didn't know what I was doing
>about 2-3 minutes the second time
>she jerked me off and I almost nutted after 30 seconds but managed to last 3 minutes or so
were all gonna make it bros
It's routine to hold gas in until I'm in the bathroom at this point - just like you learned how to hold your piss when you were a toddler. On 95% of days this works just fine. The other 5% of the days I find an excuse to step aside somewhere isolated a little more often.
I don't think about doing this any more than you think about not peeing your pants.