Do beautiful girls motivate you to do stuff?
lifting , sticking to routine , diet , making money ?
Watched this like 100 times already and it's the best pre-workout ever , imagine not having a six-pack and jawline when you meet girl like this? DEATH
I'm ashamed to admit that they do to a certain degree
I think somewhere in my subconcious yes.
On the surface I try to improve myself for the sake of itself (FedoraTip.meme)
But I would be lying if I said I didn't feel good about the way lots of girls look at me nowadays.
I guess its more of a side benefit than the motivation.
(Plus motivation is generally bullshit anyway)
a pretty girl motivates me to try to sleep with her
the only girls that motivate me to better myself are the pretty ones who have their life sorted out and are successful and have aspirations
Yes but not 3DPD
In all seriousness, though, girls may have motivated me to start lifting, but it's now force of habit/desire to improve that keeps me at it.
I've been given a (mostly) sound body and the means to improve it so it would be wasteful to not attempt to do so.
>Started working abs to impress girls
>Eventually started actually lifting to get girls
>Gradually became a personal obsession and constant need to improve
>Switched to powerlifting
>Stuck to it
>Lifting is not something I associate with attractiveness or getting girls anymore at all
Hell of a ride.
I believe that, consciously or not, sexual desire and motivation drives men in most things they do. Sports, lifting, work, etc. From an objective perspective you could say that procreation is our only "point" of life so it would follow.
When I'm in public or generally around girls I'm glad I've been lifting and look good, but when I'm eating my food or lifting I think of guys and how I want to look like them or be bigger. so I guess other guys are my biggest motivator
A girl motivated me to be completely unacceptable with my body but I'm way past the point where I'm doing it for any girl anymore
Cute girls always have shit diets anyways and just don't eat otherwise.
yea same, i know I will never get a girl this hot.
It's friday night. I'm drinking whiskey then will probably end up booty calling this fat girl I've been fucking on and off for a few months. I know I could objectively do much better, but I'm such a social mess I'm lucky to even have access to a vagina.
>sticking to routine
da fuck are you doin?
Never ever ever make money for bitches. They will take it all away and leave you as soon you ain't got a dime.
Make money for you if that's your goal. Don't ever let a bitch run or influence your economy.
>Working out for weeks now
>My ugliness is giving me fuel
>Every-time i see Chad outside i get more furl for the fire
>Lift and put all my life into the weights at the GYM
>Lifting as much as i can, working all my muscle groups
>Every-time i see a cute girl i get more fuel for the fire knowing i will never get her because i look ugly
>My anger is turning into fuel
>Go on /soc/ and look at girls I'll never get
>Rest days i usually pump out around 150 push-ups (Not all at once) and usually with a 10kg weighted vest on throughout the day
>Skinny guy but I'm one of those strong skinny guys now
My anger is literally giving me fuel to get shredded even though i know i still wont get friends or a girlfriend. I'm loving it.
I've had a girlfriend for 10 years. I've been lifting intensely for a little over a year. I'm definitely not trying to pick up girls. I think I might not so subconsciously be trying to gain the respect of other dudes. I think I'm okay with that.
I'm a big believer that most things humans (and many other animals, probably all vertebrates) do is in fact motivated by signaling of some kind. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Signalling_(economics)
Perhaps I lift to signal to others how I want to be perceived and that makes me feel better if I think it's working? But, my initial motivation, at least what i was aware of, was an intense feeling of self loathing. I'll probably never have the best looking body but I can definitely at least look better than most people.
They think it is more empowering to not lift for girls than to lift to achieve whatever they desire.
They don't understand that lifting to get a girl is literally lifting for themselves.
Lifting for a girl is to get fit for girls with no desire to be fit themselves
Yeah, then they find out you are poor as fuck and have zero personality that interests them.
Looks might make it easy for you to get the sluts but for high class girls they won't even look at you unless you got real fucking diamonds. Tbh working out is great for your physique and looks but most importantly its confidence that matters the most
It's no lie when 99% of girls say that confidence is what attracts them the most. Confidence and money. They choose 1 or the other depending on girl.
> So what if I'm a loser with no social skills, no good looks or anything to offer these girls if I get shredded they'll be throwing themselves at me
You're seriously retarded if you believe that solely picking things up and then putting them down again will get you pussy. The reason why the iron is cited to improve your game is because if you respect the iron and it's ability to make you a stronger and fitter person physically you will soon realize that if you can radically change your physique that you can change anything about yourself. Out of perseverance with the iron will come self-respect, discipline and a new found power that can't be emulated through other means. Once you have the disciple, conviction and will from the iron you can apply it to anything and get better at it (Job prospects, social skills, money management etc.) as they are just as repairable as a weak body - that's when you start improving as a person in the same way the iron improved your body - this is why people say that lifting makes you a better person, it is not so much a direct effect of lifting weights but more a second hand effect.
So OP, your wanting of women to want you & men to worship you is nothing more than your ego dying for it's validation, possibility through previous trauma (Which I'm guessing as most people here are ex/recovering betas who probably were nobodies through 16-21.
Tl;dr: Iron isn't a magical medicine that makes everything better, it is the spark that starts the fire of self-determination that could be the difference between being the lifelong beta and the alpha male that most people want to be.
Models are attractive facially but their bodies are trash tier and couldn't make me more flaccid. Honestly I think most of their appeal is their fame and makeup, without which they'd be pretty average. They mostly have great smiles because their job is mugging at the camera to sell products but when I watch a video like OPs its just so blatantly fake. At first it's appealing but then you realize it's all just a vain act and their bodies are low test af.
Yeah they motivate me to punch them in the fucking mouth.
>Like oh my god kelly did you see her fucking top fucking like fucking GROSS
>Makes dumb duck faces trying to look cute and funny
>Like oh em gee i totally think I need to get my eyebrows done like I'm going clubbing tonight and like want to get fucked
Thats what I hear when I talk to these idiots.
I can't even put my penis is that stupidity.
It's why I fuck milfs who don't care.
That's a dumb question m8. Sex has been proven to be the best motivator. 90% of the reason anyone in their young age spends time on their appearance is so they can be better looking. The other 10% is either boredom or the need to impress their friends. Would you spend half the time you do now shaving, getting new clothes, watching what you eat, and washing if you were in an environment where there were no women around for miles?
That's a good point m8. But why does your confidence rely on what others think of you? Why does your confidence rely on your appearance? Do you believe appearance completely reflects a persons character?
It's more all I can think of when lifting is hating girls. I know it's bad but I can't help it. If I see a cute girl at the gym all I can think of is "fuck you bitch" while repping out. Maybe because I'm ugly and a KV?
>But why does your confidence rely on what others think of you? Why does your confidence rely on your appearance?
Why does it matter? I enjoy looking good/dressing well/etc., it feels good and has obvious social benefits. I don't care for high-school philosophising about why.
>Do you believe appearance completely reflects a persons character?
No, not at all, but it reflects some parts of it and its a tool with which I can express myself.
No. It actually sometimes annoys me how successful they can be just by looks alone and then act as if she is so much better than everyone else.
Although those cases are rare, at least in my personal life so I can't hold a grudge.
they definitely motivate me to cut for the summer
Yea, pretty much. I mean I've been overweight my entire life and been going to the gym for 8 months, 4 times a week, never missed a day, getting plenty of rest, eating right and all I really see are the downsides in what I've been doing. I don't think I've made progress, or I think people are judging me in the gym because I've been going for a little while and can still only squat 140 3x5. and I still look exactly the same. So I can see myself lashing out at people.
Your mom says hi. Also to go to bed your underage and its way to late to be shit posting.
So why dont you be a good little scamp and run off while your new daddy porks your whore mom.
Yeah I think its fucking pethatic how guys are always chasing after girls and hitting on them effectively turning girls into socially inept retards that let everything depend entirely on your input. Like when I don't keep the convo going they will easily stop talking to, rarely ever do girls initiate intimacy unless they can be assured of the answer they are expecting.
Why are most guys so fucking thirsty, like I have a gf and love sex but I could easily go months without it. If I were single I wouldn't even be interested in to putting so much effort into just fucking a girl when there is no prospect of things in the future...
Control your thirstyness men!
i didn't get any pussy when i deadlifted 1pl8 and i don't get any pussy deadlifting 5pl8