>>35707340 You don't give unsolicited advice to anyone unless asked, because people get pissy all the time if you correct form even if you are correct. There are also cases where people give advise and they are stupid e.g had a dyel guy tell me I shouldn't good mornings as it's dangerous.
>>35707417 >toxic It has its ups and downs. This thread is a down, OP asks for simple advice and gets a bunch of troll comments in response. The problem is 4chan had a reputation of being edgy assholes, so newfriends come here and just think that being an edgy asshole is all they should do
>>35707417 I know its really fashionable these days to be mean. Its how some people try to stand out in a crowd - see who can say the meanest, nastiest put down. It used to just be the schoolyard bully but the internet has taken it to a whole other level and people can be even meaner from the comfort of their keyboard in bed.
Before you are tempted to make that next nasty comment you think is so funny, think about this. Being mean might improve your status with a bunch of strangers on the internet. The truth is though, nice is sexy. Those looking for boyfriends/girlfriends are attracted to nice and turned off by mean. Being mean is also very career limiting, mean people get put into the "doesn't play well with others" box and get passed over for promotions.
You cant have a dual personality and compartmentalize your "mean". If you are mean and nasty all night long on your keyboard at 4chan and then try to turn on the fake sweet when you are around those you want to date, its not going to work. Mean is a cancer that you can't get rid of or control. Once you get comfortable in a social situation or at work, those mean comments will just slip out and you won't even notice .. but your boss will and that girl you had your eye on will notice too.
Turn mean off before its too late. If you use put-downs to make you feel better, give this a try for a day - try being genuinely nice for 24 hours and see how it makes you feel. Every person you come in contact, give them one honest, genuine compliment. Not some lame "you look nice today". See how their face lights up with a good, honest, and heartfelt compliment. It can be as simple as complimenting them on some article of clothing they are wearing that you *truly* love, some skill they have, or whatever. Be patient, it can take a bit of practice to go from mean to giving true compliments. One thing that you will find is that being nice will get you a lot more mileage than being mean, especially in the long run.
>>35707417 I've noticed myself saying "literally" a lot irl but apart from that I don't think 4chan has changed me much at all. If anything is helped me out by helping me get used to the idea of speaking my mind without caring so much about what other people think. There's shitters everywhere so with the amount of traffic this place gets its inevitable that we'll get our fair share of shitters as well, and if you become a shitter because of that them you probably deserve to have your life flipped turned upside down tbph
>>35707914 >If you are mean and nasty all night long on your keyboard at 4chan and then try to turn on the fake sweet when you are around those you want to date, its not going to work.
But that's not true. I'm a department manager at a semi-large bank with 23 people under me. My co-workers, friends and girlfriend says I'm an extremely nice guy, and I never talk shit about people behind their backs. But when I come home and open this mongolian yak fetish forum I turn into a nasty fucker, because it's healthy to vent.
The world isn't black and white. Nobody is just nice or just mean. The internet allowed people to vent and get the mean shit out of their system without much repercussion.
>>35715696 >when I come home and open this mongolian yak fetish forum I turn into a nasty fucker, because it's healthy to vent What do you do when you can't go onto said chinese cartoon discussion palace?
>>35715557 Remember that the movement isn't over until the weight is back on the ground. Dropping it, tossing it to the floor, or letting it fall uncontrolled is noob bait.
That bar shouldn't be able to bounce off the ground, because you should be in control the whole time. Don't bend at the waist when you're putting the weight down either. Engage that movement by pushing your hips back, and loading into your hamstrings.
Also I'm not sure why you're walking away from the weight and dancing around mid set. Stay set up until you're done.
>>35707417I think hes right man because ever since i got on 4chan my life is going down hill. i lost most of my friends and can safely say im ''alone''. i dont comunicate alot with my mom even tho i still live in her housewtf man dont even talk to my sister and she lives in my moms house to. lost my girlfriend too. all i do is lift eat and sleep FUCK!!!
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