Seriously though, what can I do as a woman to look as good as possible? What will make me more appealing? Long hair? Curly hair? How to dress etc?
I know everyone likes different stuff but feel free to give your view. All advises welcome.
This is a SFW board and go for /b/ pls
as good as possible as in having as many men want to fuck you?
as good as possible as in look your best?
hope you have good genetics for fat distribution and if not get skinny so it won't matter
hair and shit doesn't really matter that's all personal preference long blonde hair will make you more attractive to people who like long blonde hair but it won't turn anyone off and if it does then they don't think much of the rest of you
It is, cause everyone's asking for facial aesthetic tips and ways to improve theirselves, this is the most normiest board here and I wanna attract guys who lift so you are basically my target group.
If you don't care about being labeled as slutty, one thing that really got me hard one time is when I saw a girl that had thongs sticking out a little bit on the sides of her pants.
>pic related, although this is kinda too much, it should stick out like 2-3 cm
She was also wearing some (for me) undefined top which looked kinda like...
When I saw her I instantly got hard and couldn't calm down my erection until she got out of the bus. It drove me crazy.
For me it's one thing that does it sexually aesthetically at least.
Get a big butt, wear tight clothing that shows it.
For facial gains, take care of your skin and hair some, and don't wear too much makeup.
But seriously. Have that booty, and even girls will dig you.
I fucking love butts
That's not why that anon meant this isn't the best board for it.
I was out in irl lately, and some guys was talking about a girls butt nearby.
If guys say they don't like big butts, they're lying. I guess Americans think "big butts" means fat cellullite butts, and that's pretty bad.
By big butt, I mean big gluteus maximus, the muscle you have to work out to grow, since we don't use it in our non-natural-squatting modern life.
Seriously, work on your butt, work on your posture, so your show it off well, wear clothing that show it. Literally every hetero male on the planet will want to fuck
>Irl I feel like it's the small skinny ass attracting dudes.
no it's just that skinny girls wear them more in my experience. also when a thick girl wears them i see it sexy but slutty. when it's a thin girl just see it as sexy. no idea why but thick girls in yoga pants look like theyre out for dick. skinny ones just look normal. neither is bad though.
but preferences ARE different
basically, all men will stare at a woman in tight clothing (assuming not fat) and flattering make up (big eyes, long lashes, full lips), but not too much; think about how pornstarts look and bring it down a notch
so thats as basic as one can get
everything else (hair, tats, breast vs butt etc) is subjective
one thing to look out for - i ve met fairly attractive girls, who had really weird face mimics or gestures. think speaking through clenched teeth or creepy laugh, or smile with just the mouth
you would enjoy how they look, but as soon as they start talking, it was a bit repulsive, so check for that, have someone make a video of you talking or whatever
and keep eye contact
Your appearance will affect the man you get, even if all guys dig slutty chicks your appearance and self respect will determine a one night stand vs a long term relationship don't be a nun but don't be a whore either.
If you like a guy talk to him, it's that simple
Makeup to make your skin look nice and to bring out your eyes.
Make sure your hair looks great at all times. Doesn't matter if it's curly or whatever, as long as it's well groomed. The vast majority of men prefer long hair to short though.
Don't be fat.
A little cleavage is good if you have tits, but don't overdo it.
It's really that simple. It's all about the basics. Everything else is just details that may or may not matter depending on personal preference.
Appealing to what, exactly?
Even the largest landwhale can get laid after a bar closes.
Pick your IRL target group and find out what is attractive to them.
>rednecks, hispanics, and negroes like slut clothing and long hair
>WASPs, Asians, and anyone looking for the long-term likes Preppy Handbook
>insecure follow every fashion trend and are best avoided
If you have things in your closet that can't last 10+ years, then you probably see relationships as similarly disposable. Check for diseases.
It's impossible to say what you are lacking without seeing a picture of you. We can all yell random shit at you that caters to our own personal preferences. But telling a flat asian girl to get a big ass and curly hair is unreasonable.
That being said, look long and hard at yourself in the mirror. You know what an attractive body looks like, if you don't just look up fitness girls on instagram. Find what you lack in comparison and work on it.
As far as clothing goes, its impossible to say without seeing how you look/dress like. Different people require different styles of clothing.
TLDR, post pics or you are basically on your own.
Don't be fat and be /fit/, you might want to do starting ass or some other that focus on you lower body.
Read the sticky
Well I can't speak for anybody else but I really like it when women dress in a way that they wouldn't normally dress. That way when I see them and like how they look and approach them, I can get a nice, drawn out slow-burn of disappointment as I discover that their interests aren't what they advertised them to be.
Kind of like when you go to check out a car listing from craigslist and everything matches the photos, nice body, no rust, and you go to pop the hood and realize it's actually one of those racecar beds kids had in the 90s.
That's my jam.
Nah dickhead, do you. Even if you're a shameful wad of subhuman filth, it's better to advertise that to the sparse few who are looking for a shameful wad of subhuman filth. Otherwise you just strike out with people when they realize you're a liar, and in the meantime miss out on all the people who are looking for a walking golem of degenerate garbage because they think you're who you're pretending to be and pass you up.
This applies to literally everyone except people who are addicted to failure and want to be unhappy or feel like the star of a soap opera.
This, its absolutely the cutest hairstyle
You first mistake is thinking beauty is a one size fits all standard. You need to find what looks good on you! Try to talk to a hair stylist about what hair styles work for your face shape. Also be fit, and take care of any excessive body hair and acne, and use makeup but don't over do it. Really just experiment around and find what looks good on you and what doesn't. If you are a 5/10, with some effort you could easily be some ones 9/10 waifu. We all gonna make it Pham
Long hair and don't be fat, that's about as basic as it gets
Other than that all you can do is makeup to make your face look better, I don't know shit about that but there's a shitton of guides that girls make for that shit, just don't overdo it. Check out the you love/you lose threads on /b/ to see what the ideal faces look like and try to match those
Biggest thing is just don't fuck yourself up with tats and weird piercings, nothing is a bigger turnoff then a degenerate slut
Which brings me to the only actual advice you'll get. Don't be a whore. I know it's cool these days for all the "pro-sex" feminist leftist cucks to talk about how great it is to slut it up, and it'll get you lots of attention, but every guy is just talking to you because you're an easy lay and they will drop you immediately after. If you want a halfway decent quality guy keep your legs together and act feminine, not like "one of the boys"
so many guys ITT who can't appreciate cute girls with short hair
No, men need to be the ones hitting on you. If they don't make the effort to try and flirt you up, they are beta bitches and only good as "friends". You can hint around that your interested and shit, but the guy needs to be the one making the moves. This is assuming you want to be with a strong alpha male and not some little beta bitch boy.
i just cut my hair about 2 inches shorter than this and now i feel sad that everyone says long hair is prettier. did you guys mean short like PIXIE cuts?
My hair is this color.
Thinkin of getting highlights. Darker highlights or lighter?
Also, should I get this piercing or not? Above my normal stud.
I know opinions differ, I just want guys' views.
Fucking fuck. I consider myself prettier than average, I see men miring every now and then, got long hair, I use make up, nice fit body and some ass and tits and good skin and white straight teeth but still
>tfw no bf
No one ever approaches me. 22 years of being single reporting in, fuggg
I just think it looks too bland. Kind of ashy dark blonde or mousey. Maybe the examples were too much. I don't want it to look fake. More like this.
How do I make myself more approachable then?
Such as? I feel like the only place where guys do even talk to you is a place where they are batshit drunk. But I'm losing my gains and money if I go to bar every weekend just hoping that someone would find me from there.
do you not have any friends who you hang out with regularly?
most proper relationships dont start by someone approaching a complete stranger out of the blue. they usually start by getting to know each other through mutual friends or acquaintances.
Hair length is glory.
Also, low rep and high weight exercise to get big (increased testosterone in females intensifies sensation, libido, and orgasm). Girls can only get so big while natty, so it's fine.
try finding places that you do things with people that don't involve drinking. if you have money and are interested, maybe dance or yoga classes. if you don't have money, try meetup.com and look around for interesting things in your area - book clubs, programming meetups, tabletop games, all kinds of things. go to something like that three times in a row and you're pretty much a regular.
My uni is basically filled with manlets who are probably fags given the subject we are studying. They are also in average younger than me.
I honestly don't hang out with anyone really, last time I spent time with someone was on NYE and I don't feel lonely. I don't need constant social interactions, yet I'm not a total autist. I just like being with myself and focusing on my stuff.
>maybe dance or yoga classes
Honest to good, you won't be able to find straight men from those places. Or maybe those ones who were forced to go there by their partners.
And I'd honestly prefer a guy who lifts or runs instead of yoga or running which I have zero interests on.
I dated one who did yoga and he was not my type. I wanna lift together, not do yoga together. I don't care if he does both, but based on my experience I've never seen any lifting dudes there. Just some random hipsters.
>My uni is basically filled with manlets who are probably fags given the subject we are studying
gender studies? kek
>I honestly don't hang out with anyone really, last time I spent time with someone was on NYE and I don't feel lonely. I don't need constant social interactions, yet I'm not a total autist. I just like being with myself and focusing on my stuff.
every autists wet dream fantasy gf
but since your target isnt getting an introvert bf but a chad, this is probably bad for you.
also fuck that 'meetup.com' and yoga class advice. aint no chads going to fucking yoga class or meetup.com tabletop gatherings, kek.
you wanna meet chads, you gotta go where chads go - that means going out in the evening, clubs, parties, the usual stuff. either get used to that lifestyle, or change the kind of man you want to attract.
Not that person you replied to, but how do I find a guy who is not an autist, but not a full blown chad?
i.e I just want a guy who is confident, but also want to gf me and lift with me.
I don't think that the colour looks bland, I think it looks nice. I mean they all look nice if they aren't overdone, but I can't see any reason why you'd want to change it from what it is now. Just my two cents, though; you live with yourself 24/7, so you should do what makes you happy first.
I thought bar was a good place to find a girl, but then I learned that I disliked the kind of girl that went to the bar to pick up guys, and I disliked myself for trying to do something similar. Just seemed weird and superficial, and people are different when you're drunk. Hookups feel like shit when they ignore you afterward.
FROM EXPERIENCE: I don't talk to pretty girls unless I'm forced to during some uni or work related shit, and that's because I'm 100% sure that I'd embarrass myself every time. Every girlfriend I've had, I've either said "fuck it, I'll ask that girl on a date" or they've been the ones to approach me. Sometimes it doesn't work, but eventually it does.
If there's someone you like, and they mirin, then get on it, because: A: they'll probably say yes if they've been mirin and you don't act like a desperate skank, and B: if they say no, then they're stupid and they don't deserve a cool person like you anyway.
>gender studies? kek
Not quite but not that far either desu.
>but since your target isnt getting an introvert bf but a chad, this is probably bad for you
I definitely don't want a guy who's like that. I wouldn't have anything in common with a guy like that. My dream guy was someone who autistically enjoyed lifting too. Not a hard core nerd cause I'm not one either, but you know a normal guy and slightly shy and socially awkward would be only be a plus cause then there was two of us. But since I'm a normie, I'd like to date some other normie too.
so you want help with dating but are putting men down for their height.
let me guess, you must be fat or ugly. post a picture, so we can make fun of you too dear.
you deserve to be alone. you are just shallow.
do not train too much, do not eat too much, try not to look cheap... ...long hair is nice. Glasses are hawt if not too geeky. try act smart but not too smart :F have a sense of humor and try to forgive men the way we are in general.
I won't ask you to post pictures because you won't for obvious reasons but it's absolutely impossible to tell without seeing you. I love long hair but some faces look better with shoulder length. Being chubby can be cute if you put all your weight into tits, ass and hips. For some girls all of it goes to the face and arms and they look like disgusting fatties at the same bodyfat %. If you're really short it's cuter if you're skinny, if you're tall and skinny you look malnourished. If you look good without makeup it's better not to use it, but sometimes it helps tremendously.
TL;DR fucking impossible to tell, find some chick you think is attractive and has a look you can emulate.
>I want a beautiful smart woman who cooks and cleans
This is the male version of what you're asking for.
Also in b4 little shits telling me I described their 5/10 gf perfectly. Everyone knows how full of shit you are.
Don't be fat
I prefer a slim 4/10 over a obese 9/10 any day of the year
everyone prefers different styles/looks and all I can say is that you, by default, will not attract every single man on the face of the earth. Just don't be unfit/fat and don't be an attention whore and you should be fine.
Tight, muscular booty in yoga pants
Pin-straight long hair in a pony tail
Enough makeup to accentuate features without the plastic look
Be generally upbeat and energetic/bubbly
>tfw prefect high test Amazon gf, waifu material
>just want to smash 5 foot cardio bunnies
My personal opinion:
-Low bodyfat. Not muscular (but if you don't already have an ass you might have to do skwats), no abs (unless it's the kind that only have a crease down a middle with none of the "cells", those are GOAT on girls)
-Long wavy brown hair, or that super soft looking messy kinda bun thing some girls do.
-heels are a personal turnoff. Bootyshorts are great, it's whatever, just nothing too formal.
-makeup for a natural look
-NO tattoos, piercings (except ears) etc. Jewelry for a minimum.
Depends on who you are trying to appeal for and what situation.
>if it's casual you want to look better than most people but not too overdressed
>if it's serious you don't want to look like your trying as hard as everyone else but as good/better than them
>don't go too crazy on the makeup, it doesn't look good. if you have nice eyes do use something that brings them out, guys rate eyes a lot higher than girls think
>don't get too much boob out, it makes you look classless most of the time
I am good looking, fit, social bro who likes lurking 4chan /fit/ and has sex with many attractive women
>>in b4 no such thing
listen to me and not the gays and the neets.
hair length = down to top of shoulders or longer. preferably straight
earings/piercings/studs = no guy gives a fuck. hes looking at the aesthetics of your face, you ass and your tits
body = become slim with decent amount of muscle 5-10 extra pounds will give you meat in the right places. focus on improving the size of your ass. tits you cant do much about but wear push up bras and do things to enhance the size of them. once i take off the bra and realize ive been bamboozled it usually gets a kanye shrug and i keep going
style = doesnt have to be too slutty but try to draw attention to your ass and tits. cleavage is good. yoga pants are good. if you have the body for it, mimic the style of instagram models
face = figure out how to put on make up so it makes you look prettier. im assuming all girls do this and its trial and error. dont put on so much that you look trashy
genetics control tits, you can help that and nobody really cares,
you have 100%$ control over dat ass, it will also look better and last longer than even the top natural tits out there
> work out
> eat right
> take care of your skin and hair
> get a hair cut that is right for your face
> dress a little slutty, no one likes a cold prude
THERE YOU GO!
I've banged many women so I consider myself on expert on what yall should do.
Tight ass, nice thighs, sexy feet, nice perky tits (big or small) no gut, hair doesn't matter much but I do like when a women shows off her neck, good smelling hair is a plus, clean cunt, freshly shaved, lip gloss or none(no lipstick), little makeup or none. Iv yet to meet a female that doesn't look like a fucking clown when they go ape shit with makeup. Iv noticed the chick's Iv been with actually look fine wothout anymakeup.
honestly sounds like what >>35683055 said. I personally had horrible self esteem with my looks until the attention from males after losing weight became impossible to ignore and I had to accept the overwhelming amount of opinions of these males over my singular one. If you're actually good looking, guys should have made it known by your age- unless you live under a rock or something
Squat. And don't cheat on the squats either, squeeze your butt and make sure you engage your squats.
>I know everyone likes different stuff
That's the thing. Some guys like women who get dolled up, others (like me) prefer a more laid back look. Some guys like women wearing expensive dresses, others like women wearing jeans and t-shirts. So it's going to depend on the type of guy you're after.
Overall though, you're a woman. As long as you aren't fat you're probably going to be physically attractive to a lot of guys. So beyond physically:
>don't be a bitch
>don't be an entitled princess
>try taking some initiative. A lot of guys hate when women expect us to do all of the work, if you can't meet us halfway then at least do like 1/4 of what we have to do
>be fun and up for adventure
>be interesting. So many women are boring AF and don't have any hobbies beyond Netflix
Keep your hair natural - don't colour it and don't manipulate it too much. Always dress like you're going to church and always acts as if you're in church - you don't want to attract the wrong kind of guys. You don't want to wear too much makeup, just a bit of eye shadow and lipstick will do fine. Avoid bright colours though, it sends out the wrong signals.
As for gym goes, just do pilates and aerobics
That body on a woman will take years to achieve, and a whole lot of vanity in general.
This is /thread honestly. It boils down to OP being full of shit about how attractive she is. Literallu 0% chance an actually attractive woman can go through her young adult life without being hit on fairly often. We're all wolves.
conclusion of this thread: different blokes = different strokes
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Legit just have low bf and a not fucked up looking face, and guys will approach you. Everything else such as race, hair color, eyes, they're a preference, but most preferences can be avoided.
To be honest, many guys (especially on /fit/) are aspie as fuck and are afraid to approach cute grills (especially in the gym). You should approach them and talk to them first if you're interested. Srs.
You have to meet new people and talk to them. Go to bookshops, bars, cafes, parties, etc and get to know people you find attractive. Eventually you might find someone who meets your standards or you might have to lower your standards.
Well I get hit on if I go to bars and sometimes guys talks to me on train/metro/bus though. And at gym all the old men are trying to strike a conversation with me, so it's not like no one ever talked to me. And guys often asks me to spot at gym, if that means something.
Don't be a basic bitch
Find a style that YOU like
Don't create some sort of fake ass appearance in order to attract guys
Have long hair and be reasonably fit. You dont have to have a 6-pack or anything, just slim with a bit of muscle(pic related).
You can do it!
Feels soooooo good to friendzone everybody who brozoned you.
The second I started to look pretty fuckable at 5'8 (which was apparently around ~140lbs, but i'm ~125 now) the two dudes I had expressed interest in about a year ago dumped their skinnyfat girlfriends within a week of one another to pursue me.
It was pretty pathetic to watch unfold live, but the schadenfreude was exquisite. They are both looking tubbier and their exes have moved on--one of them is my friend now and we regularly work out together.
Plus once you are at your goal body you can now enjoy bad things in moderation. As long as you keep a log of all of your food/activity there is no way you can suddenly be fat again. It's so liberating, I love being fit.