>>35657550 LOL, no. 'Lifting for girls' is about as dumb as dumb can be.. except when the 'girl' you're lifting for doesn't even exist in the real world.
OP needs to grow the fuck up and stop living his life in a fantasy world, otherwise nothing he does will ever matter, no one will take him seriously, and ultimately he will FAIL at everything he tries to do.
>>35657585 OP here i'm just really burnt out, the physical world has nothing to offer me, I have a great career agead of me, but i've become disgusted at the female body and personality, i just want a nice plain girl like megumi, but they dont exist in the real world, so im just gonna work, invest in technology that will create my ideal girl.
>>35657550 I actually enjoy some anime (gory shit like elfen lied or deadman wonderland) but I also enjoy shit like friendship, socialization, and being inside women. But "doing something" solely for a fictional character is childish and nonsensical. Hell usually doing something solely for a real person is bullshit and reeks of desperation.
I am cripplingly insecure hit the nail on the head on that one tho.
>>35657657 Do as you like OP but you're rejecting reality for a childish fantasy world because you refuse to accept flaws in others. I suspect that's just a projection of your inability to accept your own flaws, and because of that your own personal goals are probably based on a set of standards that are impossible to obtain -- so you're setting yourself up to fail from the beginning. I don't think you *want* to succeed at anything, perhaps because the responsibility of being successful is too much for you and you don't think you can handle it -- or you're just not mature enough in the right ways to handle the responsibility of being successful, which then brings us back around to rejecting reality in favor of living in a childlike state.
>>35657716 'Conventional wisdom' is not bad just because it's 'conventional', and just because the prevailing paradigm is prevailing doesn't mean it's wrong or bad either, otherwise the world would be utter chaos and there would be no civilization.
>>35657720 What? Im going to be making more money than any of my friends this summer because I got a great internship with a great company $30 an hour, 99% chance at full time offer 60k starting, im magna cum laude, I dont like to party, all around me are nothing but gold diggers and party sluts.
>>35657677 It's alright if you enjoy those things too. For example, I don't particularly enjoy being inside women; so I don't bother trying to achieve that. Sure it comes with a bunch of judgements from people whose self-worth is measured by how many girls they've been with, but at least I'm not trying to do something I dislike. If you do like it, then go ahead; no harm done!
Doing something solely for a fictional character doesn't harm anyone; regardless of how this person got in shape, he will get in shape and a fictional character is less likely to disappoint than a real one. As a result this person will continue to be motivated and his motivation will allow him to achieve goals he wants for himself, under the guise of being for this character. The way I see it, there's no harm done and things can only improve for OP.
>>35657759 Well then rather than rejecting reality why aren't you seeking out a better class of people to spend your time with? Really, you sound more like you're making excuses not to try because it just overwhelms you and you'd rather live in a childish fantasy world. As soon as things start getting tough in your 'internship' it will start to manifest and you'll start fucking up and everything will fall apart, because it's just 'too real' for you, the world is full of flaws and problems and flawed people, and you just can't deal with it, you want your childish perfect fantasy world in gel colors instead. I'm sorry but you're not very mature at all, I'd put you emotionally at about 11 or 12 years old.
>>35657813 What? Ive always exceled under pressure, but I will admit i give unrealistic expectations for girl, which is don't party , don't be a degenerate, I dont look for hook ups, it a waste of my time when i could be studying or improving myself. I just want a plain jane, nice values non degenerate.
>>35657740 I disagree on your last statement. There will always be people who enjoy "conventional wisdom" for whatever possible reason, be it self-importance, aggrandizement or, less cynically, to conserve the peace and not seemingly bother anyone. The key point I'm trying to make is that this argument isn't about conventional vs unconventional behaviours, it's about the perception of those. You perceive his behaviours as desperate and nonsensical and attempt to steer him in one that won't be perceived as such, whilst defending the idea that there is no right or wrong way behaving (if conventionality can't be wrong or bad, unconventionality can't be either; maybe less productive to society, but certainly not bad).
>>35657877 Then I suggest you go become Chrisitian, and marry some nice, plain, 4/10, submissive Christian girl, with whom you will be able to count the number of times you've had sex by counting your children. Enjoy learning on your wedding night that you're completely sexually incompatible. Or you can learn to take chances and accept the outcome, and give up your childish fantasy world where everything has to be perfect or you *cry*. Honestly dude you don't sound like any kind of actual adult man I've ever known, you sound like a perpetual manchild. I bet you got beat up a lot in highschool didn't you?
>>35657888 If you want to be successful in human society then you HAVE to play by it's predominant rules for the most part or you will be EXCLUDED from significant portions of it; you will FAIL AT LIFE. Only the independently wealthy and the highly marginalized are immune to this because they're literally outside of the bounds of it.
>>35657994 *shrug* OK I tried, I've spend 10 times as much as I should have because I'm bored, but OP is a waste of anyone's time and serves one useful purpose: An example of how to fail at being a human being. Evolution will abandon him and his genes, no woman will want to reproduce with him -- as it should be. And nothing of value was lost.
Have a nice life, OP, however it is that you do that.
>>35657783 Lifting "for" a fictional character is doesn't appear to harm anyone and it does seem like the the whole "not real" thing prevents disappointment the problem is you are still doing something for external validation from a specific source that can never give that to you. You push yourself to do something you don't like, but in the end you will have to come to terms with the fact that it will never matter in the way you wanted it to. At this point two things can happen: you have to deal with this pain fuelled by the an extended period of delusion and immense feelings of worthlessness, or retreat into a fantasy where this character does appreciate you. One hurts, the other isn't mentally healthy. Now, I'm not saying a fictional character can't be a form of guidance, for example "This character embodies traits I admire, would they think I am good person if they were real"(note, I have used this as a guide before, for example Iroh from The Last Airbender, Dr. Jonas Salk(who is real)), but you should not base your self-worth on whether or not you have/would have their approval, otherwise you are going to be setting yourself up for pain(real or fictional, doesn't matter). I know this, because I have been there, you think it will be easier to make someone like you and draw worth from that because you hate yourself that much. I don't want to sound like some early 2000s parent advocating for self-esteem over all else, but you need to like yourself at least a little bit. You have it right, you aren't basing your self-worth exclusively on what the (much harder to ignore) outside world thinks of you.
As for the insecurity, it's called life, we all have our inner demons.
>>35658035 It is funny how people invent correlations between one stratification and another, like stupid/intelligent -> immoral,party animal/moral,monogamous,etc.
What is one going to do with people who are intelligent, don't hook up and don't party? Read together? Workout together? Some other hobby, like vidya, animu, engineering? Honestly, none of those are bad answers and I'm not saying one should be opposed to them. I am saying, it seems like a lot of intelligent, good people have partying and hooking up as a hobby-- like they turn it on and off-- reserve it for the weekend.
Nothing wrong with that. Nothing wrong with either.
>>35660754 Honestly senpai the other day I tried masturbating to gay porn the other day and it didn't do anything for me. I really want to like men because it will be easier to get laid, but I just don't for some reason.
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