I just realized that I can't stand the company of about 99% of my male peers. They're just so soft and listless. Now I don't claim to be the hardest motherfucker around, there are guys an order of magnitude harder than me, but I'm talking about the majority. No focus, no drive, no sharpness. No inner fire. They just float around, making no difference either way. Hanging around them only gets your own energy leeched off.
To make this /fit/ related, lifting heavy shit is a great initial cure. Worked tremendously for me.
I'm glad lifting worked for you. Make use of this while it lasts. After many years it will just become another habit and you'll end up just as you described (if you don't do anything to prevent it).
Listen here Anon.
Join a martial arts club- BJJ, boxing, MMA or some other shit. Enjoy the competition, enjoy the brotherhood, enjoy a room full of testosterone.
I'm convinced that men needs the company of other men, especially a competitive one. Read 'The Way of Men' by Jack Donovan. It says a lot about our society that a gay guy wrote the best book a man could read today.
I have bad focus and no drive like you described when i fapped in the last week, i heard somewhere that porn/musturbation isn't a habit of the successful, do you have an opinion on that?
Not OP, but that's weird that you say that.
I just started reading that book, well I suppose listening since it's an audiobook.
He talks overly manly but he makes some really good points. One that has happened to me/my friend group a lot in college is girls will like this one guy but almost every guy can tell something is off about him.
I mean one point he talked about in his books is how a group of guys can almost immediately tell if another guy will be part of the already established group. This is because of how guys judge other guys by if they would help their group "survive" or bring something to the table.
For instance this guy, is a talker, good with girls, average intelligence, decent looking. However almost ever single time he is brought up in conversation with a group of guys, it's almost unanimous that he rubs everyone the wrong way.
Turns out he never had a male friend growing up, was raised by his mother, and always had girl-friends(not gf but friends that are girls). So he is almost incapable of fitting in with guys but the girls don't notice because obviously if you're brought up around a certain group you will be able to talk to them easier.
Oh I see.
Well it benefits your group because he is attracting girls to your group.
There are a lot of things you have to learn or unlearn, especially if you grew up without a male mentor.
Sociologically I don't think one guy being a "ladies man" is a benefit to your group unless you are a desperate and dysfunctional band.
Women are attracted to men and groups of men who hold status and value, a group of successful men will attract women and bringing in another man who offers nothing but brings competition and challenges the hierarchy is not an advantage.
I had male friends in school but I haven't had any successful male friendship since then and haven't been part of a male group as an adult. I'm solitary in general though partly because I have very low energy (auto-immune disorder).
In my view all this pseudo-scientific evolutionary talk is more justifying your own behaviour than it is real information about how humans work.
join your college's weightlifting club, or make one.
join a pl gym if youre into that
join a martial arts gym
most men are slack jawed faggots thanks to the Jews making everything increase estrogen and the blasting of masculinity
I pump iron with the thought in my head that if I fail this rep, I fail the remaining shreds of masculinity that is still in this society, while listening to nazi anthems.