Does anyone here show off their bodies on tinder and how does it work for ya?
Idk, I'm considering using this image at the moment (face uncovered of course). I don't know if it'd help me or hurt me more though.
Yeah. Chicks dig my photos. Great convo starter. Shows em that you're not some weak faggot.
im recovering from depression and dont even have my own place. I had to move home for reasons that would take too long to explain.
besides. why would they care about me when they could just hit up some 19 year old. to them, i'm "old".
show us a picture that you didn't have to sift through 100 other images to find the one with the perfect lighting
also show us that faggot-looking tribal trampstamp tattoo you have on your shoulderblades.
>match with avg korean qt
>she wants to meet after she gets back from korea in 2 weeks
>2 weeks for her to match with someone hotter and drop me
>the odds are against me
hold me /fit/. girls have forsaken me in the past when they've been given the time.
>implying dyels don't get the most pussy
a nice body is an extra and probably matters the least. its all about the face. as long as you have a decent face and aren't a manlet/socially autistic you're good to go
>implying you should be the "man" you want your mother or daughter to date
fucking kek my nigger. Its 2016, no one cares about gentleman shit anymore
I mean what the fuck more do you want
This okay..? Fuck. You post some pictures.
girls only wanna be with older guys cause they think we all have tons of money
but that isnt reality. and even if im in amazing shape, so what? it isnt like getting fit is difficult, even the dumbest fuck can get in shape. what makes me special? my face? plenty of aesthetic dudes out there.
>and if I do that, im a pedo
yet more and more women who are 18 and 19 are fucking men who are late 20's which is increasingly eliminating guys their age from the dating pool. you have an edge. if women aren't playing by rules, why should men?
No reaction on POF and okcupid. Never tried Tinder, but I guess will have absolutely no game there as well
I did a experiment, try to get girls with my before pictures in one week.
Literally got max 5 legit connections.
One with my after pictures (while on a cut), 25+ legit girls, and 5 down to fuck, where as I only landed 1 with the fat ones and all she wanted was a date, but I had to decline and told her the truth, then later she asked me for pictures and we ended up fucking.
She was a chubs, but qt, but whatever. You can't complain, you literally just get to talk to people depending on their looks, it doesn't get as swallow as that.
parents had an ugly divorce, I sided with my mom (who did nothing wrong, my dad was an asshole), ended up living with friends for a while till we could get our stuff.
oh, the locks were changed and we couldnt get back in. had to use lawyers to get my things back.
anyways, social life went to shit, and I got depressed. started smoking, got fat. ate lots of shitty food. got better thanks to the gym, now im at 12-15% bodyfat or so, good mass, small waist (30" atm). I can still get better but im happier than I was.
why would a girl want a mess like me anyways? regardless how fit I am. I don't see my appeal.
>why would a girl want a mess like me anyways? regardless how fit I am. I don't see my appeal.
Then kill yourself. People like myself had it much worse than you yet I still have my shit together and have a girlfriend (I'm 5'7). Its fucking embarrassing seeing other men grovel like they're a girl in a group chat. Stop feeling sorry for yourself.
im just wondering why a girl would pick me over anyone else when im older than they are, yet I dont have that "sugar daddy" appeal.
isnt the whole point of dating older because of money? at least, in general?
believe me, i'd love to pound some 21 year olds. but even if I build a greek god body I don't think it is possible. at least, unless I have the status to match.
90% of girls do not give a shit about anything on tinder. theyre not even there to do anything except waste time
the other 10% are ugly and slutty generally and they are the ones that all the guys will be trying to get as well as yourself
ofc it depends on what area you live in
Stop thinking so much my man. The sugar daddy appeal is for fucking providers. No matter how much feminists and leftists try to go against it, humans are still fucking animals with basic instincts. The two categories are:
2. Sexual Interest
Women are interested in older men because they come off as more mature and masculine then their younger counterparts. That can play in either a PROVIDER or SEXUAL INTEREST role. Older men have always had the edge. "He's older and its mysterious" "He's a little bit older than me and he's hot" "Oh my god it makes me tingle *insert dumb emojis*". It's just life, my boy.
No fucktard, you date someone bc you enjoy their company. Do yourself a favor, and get the fuck of f 4chan and get some real world experience. Find some local group chats through instagram, find clubs to do, find sports teams, anything that will keep you out of the house. Social wellness leads to other gains. Who knows, maybe you'll find a gymbro like me.
But you need to drop your current attitude right fucking now. One of my closest friends acted like you did now and became a faggot with a fucked up life. I feel bad that I never said anything to him then, so I'm telling you now
Find something to do. Go to the fucking YMCA team if you have to. Get a job. These will fill your life. Maybe not forever, but its better than sitting at home.
Don't be like my friend, man
Don't be a shithead
What point? That I'm a try-hard because I posted a pic of me in a quite natural environment? Whatever man, all that talk won't give me the game. Online dating is full of shit for men by my experience anyways.
I used to be fat. completely changed myself thanks to the gym. however I still have some confidence issues, as you might have guessed.
even if I look good now, I feel that I fucked up by waiting too long. i'm not a kid anymore, and I am afraid that all girls will see is an old dude trying to be young again.
fuck, getting old sucks. I used to have a babyface which actually helps me now (look younger) but I feel like getting fit now is too little too late.
>Online dating is full of shit for men by my experience anyways.
Sour grapes, my friend. I told you the truth
>It looks like you're flexing by the way you're making a fist.
aka "looks" as in perception (perception is everything) and you got upset.
>No shit I'm flexing. Try to stay relaxed after a dive in an iced pond while it's 5 degrees fahrenheit outside
Stop being a bitch. Women have the edge over men in dating these days. Crying won't help you, and neither will blowing off making yourself better.
Holy shit lad noone cares. You have two choices
1.Become NEET even though you're on the path to fitness (learn how to suck yourself off, you're gonna get pretty lonely)
2.Go bangsome bitches and find someone to have a nice relationship with man.
If you fuck up, pack up your shit and move to somewhere else, its typically around $250 of gas and food per couple hundred miles
>I used to be fat. completely changed myself thanks to the gym
Doesn't mean it will help much with grills. Getting fit from fat skyrocketed my self-confidence, but I didn't notice any change in how girls react on me.
I dont really care about marriage. i've seen it ruin too many lives.
I just want to fuck some hot girls before I get old. then i'll be satisfied. that's regardless of my gym progress, as I train to better myself cause I want to be my best. not going back to the fat fuck I used to be.
that's fine, although girls do seem way more friendly now. I doubt it's a coincidence, I never got attention before.
Dyel and this is the pic I use. At least 5 matches and day and have had 8 lays off tinder.
I dunno. I'm slav and was considered attractive back in Eastern Europe. Grills mired me on the streets and I had plenty of game there. I can pick up girls here in murica, even had some murican pussy already, but my online stats are awful. Not even a single date. Most grills don't even read my messages, half of them don't even view my profile. I guess I'm going to drop this shit and start to attend some meetups or something like that. I got way better luck IRL
I did, before I deleted tinder.
guess whooooo :^)
don't just use a picture of yourself shirtless in a gym or bathroom, it's offputting.
take a picture that shows you in a social and/or interesting situation, bonus points if you look great in it or show off your physique. like maybe you standing in front of a lake or mountain or some shit, shirtless playing with your dog, be sure it looks natural and unstaged
go outside and take pics of you and a dog frolicking in the snow. You'll look cut(e), fun, and ~*ADVENTUROUS*~
Okay so I dont want to come off as try hard here but what if I posted this? I already say in my bio that I'm in the process of getting bigger. Maybe this is too lame.
I put this pic on my profile and the amount of jailbait I match with has doubled, and I'm barely past dyel lol.
Proof women are shallow whores.
r u a girl
bcus i did the bathroom shot and got matches from some high test hos. idgaf 2bh :D why do u recommend putting so muxh effort into an app thats catered to fucking and going home
If you just showed the picture on the right they would think you were narcissistic and retarded. But by showing your progress is comes off more as inspirational. Devilish fucking tactics.
its crazy how much fucking time wasting goes into two people having sex in the first fucking place.
I use to really have the patience to sit around and text women for days - weeks in order to get pussy but i've lost my patience.
I made a tinder profile and used all the likes I had every day for a week straight, no matches.
I'm not disfigured, but I am a 6 and a half foot tall dyel.
What kind of pictures do I need to put up there? Do skinny fags ever get matches?
You guys need to stop basing your opinions solely on behaviour on a whore enabling app.
I guess it's not surprising that a generation taught human interaction by a TV would also think tinder encompasses the entirety of male/female interaction
I just find the chase dumb/stupid
if I wanted to play games, i'd go on my computer. too much bullshit involved with some girls.
and my reward? I get to give her the dick she wanted anyways. lucky me!
used this pic and my bio on pof is
"i like watching movies and scuba diving" (netflix and chill lmao)
odd enough i got matches. i really didnt think i would get any but oh well. my pic should be pretty blatant tht i want to fuck but im stumped on the openers.
manlet here. 5'8"
I know I'm small man. Been trying to gain weight for a long as time and its finally working. Im 142 right now but my goal is to get up to 155 in the next few months
tinder is mostly legit though since it integrates your FB and it's a mobile app
ive been using tinder for about a year now and about 5-10% of profiles ive seen are sloots with look/height requirements, the rest are either cuties that barely respond, or desperate fatties. Only like 10-15% are actually cool and end up hanging out with. I get about 5-7 matches a week but only 1 i'll end up hanging out. It should by no means be your primary way of meeting girls.
she laughed. I responded to her "hey its xxxx from tinder" text with "hey it's xxxx the Magnificent" and she lol'd again
sometimes you have to be a faggot to get grills to laugh
I use it as my main, but nothing cringey like a gym selfie even though I would look a lot bigger with a pump, you don't want to try too hard and just come across as a douche or insecure or something so I think I got a decent balance
heres some more autismo with another grill
You're so clueless.. Get out of that depressed state of mind and realise you're in your prime. If you're not, fix that shit first. No reason for a 30 year old male to feel old unless you're a competitive gymnast. In which case you wouldn't have a problem getting laid.
TL; DR: Man the fuck up, Nancy.
Well I got into this shit to begin cause I just didn't want to dwell on my ex anymore, so the first month I had a few hook ups. Now I'm considering something more exclusive and also I think I'd like to quit while I'm ahead in terms of STIs, I've never had that shit and I never plan to
I definitely get most admired when the shirt comes off in bed and they just feel up my arms and chest and back while I pound them
Me too man, talking to a qt Korean and another qt jap right now
Not sure about personality but there are definitely some 10/10 Asian girls there. Just chuck them a super like so you get there attention and play the game. Not all are gonna be responsive or match but it's just numbers in the end, there's plenty more out there but if you do feel a tad disappointed just know it happens to us all at some point
>this is only pic i have of me showing any gains
>one is me flying plane
>one is me with 9/10 friend for dat jealousy/confirmation factor
>one is my high-fiving a dog (also shows arm gains)
i read a thing that a fuckton of people joined tinder after new years and, indeed there are a ridiculous amount of madQTs on now. my hit rate is around 1 in 100, though today i maxed out my likes and got no matches, so not even 1 in 90-100 or whatever the 12 hour cap is. and the few matches i get the chat peters out after a few volleys.
ive read modern romance, i dont (think i) make the common mistakes.
conclusion: im ugly as all get out ;_;
if most people get 1 per day or 12 hours w/e, you know they save them for the finest girls. so the finest ones get a lot of them.
>tfw accidentally superlike someone only 7/10
>still doesnt respond
started with PPL, then did SL, then a upper/lower body split and back to PPL
Basically just do PPL and every 4 months or so change to SL or another strength routine so your body doesnt adapt to your routine (this is just anecdotal experience)
forgot to mention
the weirdest part in all this is that IRL i really dont have much trouble getting girls interested in me. the last place i worked, i had girls I considered hot calling me hot to my face, grabbing my ass or literally rubbing their asses on me during work (this was a fine dining restaurant lol) and I think I eventually fucked all but one i wanted to.
whatever i have going on does not translate to first impression, and thats all tinder is. so I gotta be ugly, thats the only conclusion i can come to.
now i work somewhere where there are 0 women at all, so tinder/OKC and all that garbage are the only ways to meet women and. fuck me i got nothin.
Try tweaking your bio, some shit definitely works better than others
Honestly pham I'm curious to see the competition in my area, I cant be fucked anymore actually using all my likes in the time they give but I still get like 2 a day minimum and I am pretty picky. Some of you might just be unlucky and not shape up compared to the rest of the people in your region despite not having anything wrong with you
> I'm curious to see the competition in my area
>snag pics of dudes from here or whatever, maybe someone you hate on your facebook friends list lol
>create me-only folder on FB
>replace pics on tinder with these pics
>turn fagmode on
>run through and left swipe everyone, see whats up
>go back to straight mode
>replace with your pics again.
Given that she's already attracted to you, yes. Women tend to shape what they find interesting around what you find interesting as long as they already find you attractive enough.
Actually a pretty great idea to use a progress pic.
I'm almost jealous that I started as a skellington now - no girls give a shit that I went from thin to fit, they'd interpret a progress pic as conceited.
kek'd I'll keep that in mind thanks m8, but I'm fairly sure the guys also need to have the interested in guys otherwise you wont actually see the ones going for girls as >>35584929
actually come to think of it i think the 10 friends thing is only to actually make matches, you can probably look through all the people anyway they just wont ever be able to match with you (not that they need to/want to)
also every convo went nowhere sooner or later with girls id actually wanna date, did see one girl for a month.
>tfw really liked this girl but she disappeared
You look like Stewart from the Big Bang Theory got fit.
I just have a face picture. it's funny, I almost never get a match, even less girls chat back. yesterday I created a grindr account out of curiosity and got 5 messages saying I'm cute in less than 5 minutes.
[spoiler]maybe I'll answer[/spoiler]
I had shirtless pictures on mine, but girls never mentioned my body when we would talk. They always focused on how much they liked my face. So, I decided to remove all shirtless pictures, and now nobody talks to me.
I used to have it saved on my phone, when I get home if I remember I'll post it
Damn bruh you sound salty, I don't usually act to smug towards my /fitfam/ but I've probably got it better than you, how does that make you feel? Lmaoing at your life
See above (some girls love it, also tanning in Australia as a supreme white being, not even once)
So it's nothing to do with your age then. It's the fact you're overcoming depression and live with your parents.
If you had your shit together, younger girls would be all over your dick because they love slightly older guys.
This is like the first routine I ever did, and I guess it did me pretty well, I will post my 18 month progress picture which I did solely on this routine (before I learnt I should change routine, and I changed mostly because my legs were as developed as my upper body)
I do actually have 2 eyebrows thanks senpai
I was dating exclusively for 2 years,being single has been good though I've learnt a lot in this time and learnt to prioritise myself again and know that focusing on yourself will eventually bring girls who are interested in you as you develop
Bit more north friendo
pic (wasn't always so vascular though but its kind of the onyl old picture that has made it so far)
Yeah sort of bulked, this was about my prime 'bulk' before I went to schoolies, lost some mass, went to get wisdom teeth out, lost mass and then got gf, lost mass.. Went from like 74kg to 68kg haha but I was very good with my macros at that stage, have always stayed natural
being a male on tinder is really hit and miss, anon. either you get like 0-5 matches or you get 100+, girls go for the top 10% of guys and the rest are discarded. Don't lose hope, the only thing to do is to climb the attractiveness ladder by lifting, clothing and grooming
Generally i would think so, but im asian so my market is already super limited.
I just did it for kicks and it ended up being better.
I even had a match compliment my gf for being hot
what do they say about the girl in your pic usually? And I'm asian too so it'll stand out more with a white grill, trying this now and got 2 visitors on okcupid so maybe it works
Seriously man, your attitude is shit. 30 is the perfect age for a male. You are past your teenage-early twenties awkwardness and faggotry, you probably look your best to date, you have enough life experience to talk about just anything, your sexual performance is great because you are not longer easily excited. Even without having your life/career on point you outclass most of the <25 guys. Your attitude a shit.
So I have a question for those guys with 300+ matches, do you just swipe right for every old ugly bitch or are you selective and have a collection of hot ass bitches ready for the dick?
>only using Tinder to swipe bitches to see who I attract here
op here I was thinking of doing one of these poses without a shirt on for the abs pic, is this really autistic or maybe a good idea?
Are you a tard? You sound like a tard.
I use 2, one of my back and the other front. Shredded in both, I'm carrying more fat around in winter. I get qt3.14 sluts all the time. My first pic though is just face though, don't wanna seem like a try hard. I'm 200lbs though so not a little twink
Not really about showing body (I'm 6'4 lanklet) but I need advice lads, should I use pics with grills or without them? What are the pros and cons?
At the moment I'm trying to get this qt friend of mine I know jealous (which is pretty stupid anyway because of long story no one cares about) so having grills in pics would be the answer, but I'm still unsure
pic related, my autism. don't mind the lighting
What's best way to take a shirtless picture? Mirror selfies seen to be frowned upon. Should I just take a webcam shot, or like have a friend take one outside? The problem is it's winter, there aren't any chances to take a shirtless picture just naturally.
Also do you have to upload to Facebook? Can you make it private or an I gonna be just sharing my sexy pics with all my friends?
It's not just money. Older guys are also more assertive and better at taking charge. Chicks love that more than anything. I have no problem taking all of the initiative in relationships now but I struggled with it when I was younger, I kept expecting women to meet me halfway.
Also just by being older you have higher status. A lot of women are obsessed with age, I see 23 year old girls on okcupid with an age range of like 24-36 all the time.