>two years ago, meet my current gf
>I was at my prime then, 6'3 235 lbs
>she sees some old pictures of me
>says she liked me better skinny
>says she doesn't care for muscular men
>eventually get convinced and stop lifting and caring about my diet
>slim down a lot
>become 150lbs twink
>lately she's been a bit distant
>start thinking something is up
>check her phone when she goes to the bathroom one day
>she's cheating on me
>with an amateur bodybuilder guy
I'm just crushed guys. Should I forgive her or what?
she was thinking about other guys long before you slimmed down and that was her way of rationalizing it for herself so she didn't have a guilty conscience.
girls are pretty fucked up. different breed entirely. learn from your mistake and never change your ways for a filthy whore.
>yfw you realise girls lie to everyone about everything especially themselves
Lol this is so true.
The girl I am with right now said she doesn't want me getting too big, which i agree with. But I would never stop lifting because a girl says I am too big. That's when she is a self entitled bitch and doesn't want to stay with you because of your personality. That's when you dump her ass and find someone that likes you for who you are.
As far as OP's situation. Fuck her. Leave her and never talk to her again, srs. Be alpha and never look back.
Also, in the future... lift for yourself. If a woman tells you she doesn't like big muscles, tough shit.
>>she sees some old pictures of me
>>says she liked me better skinny
>>says she doesn't care for muscular men
This is the point you should have left her. How the fuck could you be with a girl who outright says you're not attractive to her and disagrees with your lifestyle?
I was completely the opposite. I was a hungry skeleton but my personality and facial asthetics were tier 1. I wanted to be the best guy for my gf and wanted to lift but she liked skinny guys eventually it drive me insane thinking i want god enough for her so she broke up with me and recently she married a guy who looks just like i did. I have less game now that I'm 220lbs and Ben working out for years than when i was a 130lbs twink.
>letting female opinion dictate your health
>listening to women on what they find attractive
You fucked up senpai, confront the bitch and tell her to fuck off. Get gains, get new bitches.
forgive her, but like in the buddhist-y way where you do it to stay balanced and not cary anger and resentment.
But don't fucking stay with her you tard.
but desu you shouldn't have stopped lifting
thats what happens when you let other people run your life, take it as a learning experience and move on. Time heals all wounds bruh. Lift if you wanna be big and lift for yourself only.