>>35580736 Being a beta that felt the world owed me something, that it was everyone elses fault but mine, that for some reason the neckbearded social autist with no marketable assets, no life experience, no prospects was somehow entitled to what they wanted without work.
It took me way to long to grow out of that mindset.
>>35581741 Not OP who you asked, but if you treat light weights with respect, e.g. holding the door for them, using manners, or letting them fuck you w/o a condom, they will tell the heavy weights that you deserve their respect. Eventually, you can manipulate the heavy weights' inferior intellect, and they wont even notice because the light weights spoke highly of you. You will be fucking a heavy weight w/o a condom in no time, bud.
I'm an adult, my body is exclusively for me. I'm never going to get in a fistfight unless I start one. I'm never going to play sports at any kind of serious competitive level since adult rec leagues are cringe as fuck.
I think about what life would be like if I was a football player in high school, making plays and picking up girls and winning fistfights at the flagpole and shit. Instead I was in band. I played the trombone. Nobody picked on me or anything but still I knew my place.
>>35581741 Not him but I think he's talking about form. Treat the light weights with the same respect as you would the heavy ones and eventually you'll get stronger and stronger to the point that what you once thought was heavy is now light.
Regret is pointless, you take the good with the bad and make the bad into something good. I've experienced many hardships and heartbreaks but each has led to something better, keep that in mind next time something bad happens.
Lift for positive reasons not negative ones. I lifted because I was delusional that I could make gains fast enough doing the routine I was doing in time for baseball. So once I was in college I lifted because I didn't have anyone to invite me out on weekends and I had bad grades, so lifting was a good outlet in a "at least I know I can lift" sort of way. Thing is I changed my major and started to get a social life, so I stopped lifting because I became happier. Basically I regret not being consistent, lacking knowledge about lifting, and doubting myself and my abilities
It's not so much as a regret, it isn't even on me, but I'm not a big fan of the change in people's perception on me.
blogtime: I'm a nerd through and through, in all but looks, started lifting and hiding my powerlevel in highschool, worked out nice and got me laid. Now in college I'm having a fuckbuddy/fwb thing with this dorky girl I'm crazy into. It's a blast being around her and the sex is amazing, but every time I tell her that we should just make it official and start formally dating: >It'd just be a matter of time before you cheat on me, that would kill me, it's better this way. >You're not actually a nerd, you just get a bit into it so I can feel more comfortable, it's nice but that's not who you really are. >I'm way out of your league, what would your friends say?
Doesn't stop her from taking pics of me when me bang(no face or dick shown) so she can show me off to her dorky friends or ward off orbiters.
I have none. I wandered into a gym when my ex dumped me. So instead of being a fucking beta; I trained hard, got fucking big. Played rugby. Then fucked my ex, came on her ass and tits and never called her again.
>>35587148 I feel you mate. I'm down to 22% bf in 6 months after starting from 30%. Problem is I've still got fucking stretch marks around my pits and on the sides of my torso that are really embarrassing.
Lost over 160 pounds in total, wasn't lifting for any of it. When I think of the person I was just two years ago I cringe. I'm still kinda fat but I have hooge muscles. I regret ever letting it get so bad and not seeing a way out. I weigh like 60 pounds less than I did in high school. Just have to get started to see how easy it is.
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