>tfw on vacation >tfw tell girl I've known for 5 years but never met in real life I'm going to her town >tfw ask for any good hotels >tfw she tells me I can stay with her >tfw been here for 3 days >tfw asked her if she wanted to snuggle last night We previously talked about us fucking and all that shit if I ever visit. Also sends nudes and do shit on FaceTime >tfw she tells me no to the snuggles >tfw I go in her room and ask her what's been wrong >tfw she tells me she regrets the whole thing and she feels forced to do things and she's forcing herself to be happy... I told her to not worry about me I'm fine just chilling at her place and I told her she needs to focus on her. >tfw I just look at her and don't know that to say she was so fucking excited to see me. But now she started school and is stressed out from that among other things... We talked about all the shit we were gonna do and she was genuinely excited. >tfw I think she might actually be on her period >tfw when I have 3 more days here >tfw she's at class now and I'm just chilling here on her couch petting her dog thinking about what I'm going to do when she gets back and what I'm going to say >tfw I might just go find a motel 6 and get shit faced till I go back home so she doesn't have to feel forced anymore and can relax >tfw I just don't want our friendship to get fucked
>>35537668 I'm fucking thinking about it bro..... I just don't get it we've known each other for 5 fucking years.. Yeah we never met in person but we've FaceTimed and talked on the phone and shit.. She was so fucking excited to see me she was all like I can't wait all the things we are gonna do we are going to have so much fun.. And after last last night and her telling me she regrets it and is forcing herself to be happy and shit I'm like I guess I wasn't what she expected.. She said she hasn't had anyone stay over with her since she broke up with her ex bf not even guys she's slept with has spent the night. It's funny I'm still concerned about our friendship I don't want it to be bad once I leave
>>35537973 Shit pissed me off when she told me that... Like you fucking offered to let me stay here. Now I'm like shit what the fuck do I do?? Like I can leave and ruin our friendship or talk to her once she gets back from class and see why she feels forced into stuff
>>35538928 I don't know bro.. But I'm seriously thinking about cutting it off when I get home.. Especially if I have to go pay for a fucking hotel and shit.. Like she told me I could stay with her but now it's all fucked. It seemed like it was going really well toooo like we were laughing and enjoying ourselves. Then she hit me with that shit at the end of the night.. I have screen caps of the texts of you wanna read that shit bro
>>35538984 Go for it man. I wouldn't mind understand the situation.
Not gonna tell you what to do, but I'd tell you what I'd do. I'd just leave without a word. She'd text you obviously. Wait a week or a month. It'll be hard but if she's gonna be a cold bitch you gotta return the fucking favor.
>>35537586 You fucked up man. You should have fucked her the first night and not asking like a little bitch beta boy to "snuggle" after 3 days (I literally can feel her vagina dry up) And now you´r whining on an italian boccia board about that friendship getting fucked. Do yourself a favor and BTFO, her mood won´t get better
>>35539123 Lol thanks for the laugh bro.. I wasn't going into this expecting sex. It was a more of just like hang out type deal and finally meet after knowing each other for 5 years lol.. Plus we don't even live in the same state so once I go back home it's gonna be whatever
Sheeeiiit beta beyond delusion. Women have another view on friendship than men. She wanted to fuck because she was excited when a stranger on the internet is coming over after breakup with her ex. You messed up and have to go
>>35539380 I could have sworn she wanted me to visit.. Hell she begged me to come for New Years and I couldn't she's like I'll buy you a ticket.. I don't want to leave. When she gets back I'm going to talk to her face to face and see why she has the sudden change then I'll tell her I'm leaving
>>35539396 Lol she hasn't been in a relationship for a while.. Plus the day before she said she doesn't want to have sex cuz it will ruin our Friendship. Apparently she had sex with one of her friends before and after that he stopped talking to her or some shit.
>>35539406 If it's not her period then just don't mention shit and get her drunk and have sex. Not like you will see her again after this, but it's probably not worth it to even talk about it because it's beyond repair.
Just try to fuck her bro and on the last day if you really want to talk, talk.
>>35539446 I think I'm going to talk to her when she gets back.. It's already fucked so whatever of worst comes to worst I'll go find a hotel..
>>35539451 Yeah now that I think about it she can't keep a relationship.. Her and j have fought many of times before and stopped talking but we ended up talking again. I think she has emotional problems desu
>>35539484 Dude listen. I have been in this kind of relationships before. She's got problems. The girl I talked to was unstable as fuck, one moment telling me "I love you", next thing she was cursing me (and not in the fun way like we call each other faggots here). We kept talking and setting dates to meet and then the night before or just before the date she would cop out and do all kind of crazy shit just to apologize a few days later. Just bail. She's got problems she needs to fix and you can't fix that for her. You'll be happier trust me
>>35539522 It sounds like her bro.. I try to avoid all confrontation with her cuz once she gets in that mood it's over. I should have just stayed home and not came to visit.. Now I'm here waiting thinking.. Like I just don't want to be a dick and call a cab and go find a hotel hand have her come back and find me not here.
>>35539484 Next time just make the decision for her and go for it. She feels forced because she has to make the decision. She seems fickle, but yeah, you shoulda hit that the first night and you would have been riding that wave for the week
>>35539654 Not your fault, she is a woman after all. If you leave she might actually want to talk to you later. Speaking when she comes home is bad because i don't think she wants to come home but feel forced to do so. It is the best option, don't even think about it anymore just find a motel. If you really have to say something make a note or call her tonight. Jesus christ.
It's crazy how anons will occasionally give really good advice on girls and the OP will not listen at all and convince himself he can keep doing what he's doing and shit will work itself out. It's like fat people logic.
>>35539654 Women come and go, but nothing is guaranteed for the friendship to last. The best option is to leave. I would still try to get her drunk though. You've known her for 5 years, is she really that uncomfortable with you?
>Go on vacation overseas >Girl I know says I can stay with her >Time gets closer and she starts acting weird >Turns out she has a boyfriend >Still try to hang out with them >Dodges me We used to go out, but we were still very good friends. After the trip? Not so much.
>>35539724 Nahhh bro she's told me multiple times that she is the most comfortable around me like when I talk to her.. So I don't even know anymore.. She's done things with me like in FaceTime that she haven't done with anyone else
>>35539797 I asked her last night if she wanted to talk about it and she said I won't talk as much face to face... I just texted her saying I packed my bags so when she gets back she can take me to a hotel or I'll call a taxi
I'm still going to try to go with option 2 even tho It's probably way to fucked up already
>>35539804 Please just leave man. Get the hotel room and stop talking to this girl. Chicks will say all kinds of shit you want to hear if it means you shower them with attention. She's not worth this kind of stress.
>>35539872 It's already to late man.. I might as well try to save it so I don't have to go pay for a fucking hotel room. It's already fucked anyways the more I think about it. And me texting her I have my stuff packed and ready to leave is gonna make it worse. I just have hope that we can get past this shit
>>35539254 Man I get it how it is with unstable females. I have this one friend I thought I loved, but she kept pushing me aside like because "she had issues". She also told me she was honestly interested in dating, but not right now as she had issues to solve.
Feels like shit because you feel like you aren't worth it. Currently I said fuck it, I'm not going to do anything special for her anymore, I'm not going autism mode to insult her and saying everything that is on my mind but I'm done being just a second plane for her. If she likes me then fine but I'm not going to be just an orbiter getting constant rejection, there are other women out there that will like you for who you are anon.
I started talking to this other girl who is more stable and things seems to be better, easier, not a fucking complicated mess when you are not even getting some benefits out of it.
>>35539758 Had the exact same shit happen to me >fall for girl visiting for the summer >she ends up pretty much living with me for a bit , I don't really see anything bad about it but my close friends don't think it's a good idea >I have friends near her so if I ever visit them she says I could crash with her >miss her and buy a ticket to visit her and my buddy in the next city over >she seems excited about me coming >week before I leave >"anon maybe you should get a hotel my place isn't so great" >that's cool i don't wanna impose but let's at least hang out >sees me twice, briefly >always busy can't hang out
It is what it is and I'm trying to be a more positive person but it was tough trying to keep from getting bitter over the whole thing and typing it out I guess I am. It makes me feel shittier that I'm even upset about it and I actually had fun on my trip but that whole part of it was pretty shitty.
>>35542416 I asked her why she's feeling like that and she said she can't describe it and she doesn't have words to describe why. She said it has nothing to do with me. I asked her if I were to stay the last 3 days if it ruin out friendship and she said it feels like it would.. I just don't fucking get it. I don't know what the hell went wrong
And once I go back to my state it's gonna be whatever.. Worst part is I don't have any fucking food here and no car to go get anything
How long does it take to make back strength gains lost on a cut? My main problem is I'm too fatigued in the gym to keep up with my lifts. Literally did one rep of a weight 25lbs below my 5x5 max, and reracked the weight straight away because I was too exhausted.
>>35542509 She feels shitty about the whole thing because of guilt and overall being a terrible person. But rather than own up and take responsibility for the situation she's seeing you as the source of the problem (her guilt) and cutting you out. Maybe I'm projecting but that's what it seems like. I posted >>35541926 this experience and I wouldn't doubt that she's going to cut you off totally after all this because you're just going to be associated with negative feelings.
>>35542620 Like I said I asked her if me going into a hotel room will make her feel better.. And she told me honestly she doesn't want to see me walk out the door and she probably thinks it won't.. Then I asked if I stay here for the rest of the time here will it ruin our friendship. And she went into how it feels like it would. Then she told me how she gets to a point she just lets go and that's what she did with her ex.
I just don't fucking get it bro.. Yeah we've never met in person but we've known each other for 5 years and became really close friends she told me how she can't bare to loose me ever and how she needs me in her life... Then I finally visit and all this shit happens..
I'm laying here in my hotel room honestly waiting for her to text me.. I almost texted her but I know I need to wait till she's ready.
>>35542683 Just got out and enjoy the town forget about her she's just letting her emotions get the best of her you don't owe her anything because you're not fucking nor are you married she's being overemotional and is taking everything out on you. I say if any thank her for letting you stay for a little then cut her off because she's a shit friend.
>>35543480 I wish I could bro... But I don't have a vehicle or anything cuz I though it was gonna be good her and I.. I'm thinking about walking my ass to Walmart in the snow to get a 5th and just get shit faced
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