People here both underestimate and overestimate what lifting does for your social gains.
Lifting won't fix your autism, but it makes you look a lot better and it makes you more confident, both of which are key to getting a gf. However, there are still angsty manchildren who can pull a 5pl8 deadlift without having kissed a girl because of their shit attitude
> tfw pretty good body (or so I've been told) > tfw still scared to talk to people > tfw I get invited to parties then run away just before I knock on the door > tfw I feel uncomfortable when girls touch my arms and just walk off > tfw I just feel small,weak and boring, questioning why people want to talk to me and girls are touching me
Lifting doesn't get rid of the underlying causes. Unless your entire personality is derived from your physique, it might give you more self confidence but going from 0 to 1/10 doesn't really make anything better.
A 4pl8 squat is not more impressive to anyone than a 2pl8 squat...
>lift the entire last year >have very few friends, dont go out >read quite abit, focus on studying and lifting >get pretty big, get mires all the time, feeling strong and confident >cant get gf >7 months into lifting, stop because reasons >start going out with the few friends i have >social circle gets pretty big, can finally feel good at school and not autismo mode >meet new people almost every weekend, start finally having sex >2 months ago, meet a girl >seen her at school before, one of the hottest, never talked because autism, but wasnt afraid to have eye contact >meet her at a party, talk, a few days later ask her out, she says yes >now were dating, she thinks im some kind of player who gets all the girls and is popular >tell her about my past autism mode and how i improved, says she was the same way, sureeee >get along really nicely, like her alot, care for her, she told me she loves me etc >alot of people like us >lose all gains, become skinnyfat again, still kinda visible abs >cant start lifting or reading seriously again because became lazy You gotta lose something to get something right?
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