real distressed here guys
my sex drive has never been this low. i cut down to jerking a few times a week without porn and my sex drive was much higher when jerking to porn. did I fall for a meme?
I actually went to r/nofap to see what the meme was all about. The impression I got from it was that it was never meant to turn you into a superhuman or dramatically ramp up your libido or anything like that. It seemed to mostly just be a community for guys recovering from relatively extreme porn habits. In their case, it actually makes sense to just break off the habit entirely (i.e. reboot). For someone who dosen't spend hours fapping to increasingly fucked up porn it's just a meme.
I've been doing NoFap for close to a year in a half. Ended a 92 day streak around mid-December. My sex drive has dropped considerably. The upside being that I'm not constantly fantasizing about weird fetish shit any more. I also like that extra fire I have when I'm on a streak. Having a dead libido sucks for sure though. I know for me a big part of it is just lacking stimulation.
It's bullshit. All of the benefits are placebo. The research behind it all comes from the same anti porn vendetta website yourbrainonporn.com.
Porn in moderation is fine, do it too much and it can fuck you up when you're with a woman.
That USP has my sex drive through the roof if you know what I mean.
Jerking off isn't the problem, conditioning yourself to only experience sexuality through use of porn and masturbation is the problem for most NoFap/NoPorn people. You train your body to respond to one thing and it messes with your body responding to an actual live human girl in front of you.
A lot of really young guys nowadays have ED issues which has been largely attributed to sexual maladjustment through being overly exposed to porn from a young age. And it makes sense.
I know it fucked me up and I had to pretty much do a total nofap/noporn for like 6 months in order to jump start my dick.
Tri**er Warning: Anecdotal evidence
I feel better when I'm on nofap. I feel a lot more energetic, confident, and it seems like girls pay more attention to me now.
Only downside is this: there's a new trainee at work, who happens to be a very passable mtf tranny, and I'm pretty sure she's into me. Today while I was showing "her" something she got so close behind me that I could feel her hot breath on my neck, and quite frankly I'm worried that I might do something I'll regret. Something I'd never even consider if I wasn't on nofap. Something like fucking this trap.
I've tried convincing myself that its perfectly fine, like I'm the alpha silverback being fellated by my subordinate beta bitch, but honestly I can't convince myself that's the truth. I know if I did it there would be no coming back. I could be the first man on mars but there'd always be that little "yeah but you fucked a dude" voice at the back of my head.
This is all so confusing. This is why these "people" should be killed or at the very least institutionalized.
I've been doing NoFap a year & a half. I agree with you that I just feel better mentally while doing it.
That said I've fucked some girls that I never would have if I wasn't doing NoFap. Have also considered letting guys blow me, which I never would do while not NoFapping. I've also done some impulsive stupid things & been overly aggressive with girls.
I just have anxiety when banging girls and can either only get a half boner or it takes me like 10min of foreplay to get erect, which most random hoes don't have patience for.
I sleep well, eat well, exercise, and take multivitamin, fish oil, ZMA, and vitamin D.
What's worse is that the anxiety just creates a loop of failure.
I've been trying to never look at porn again and maybe fap like once or twice a week to my imagination, but my porn/fapping habits weren't extreme to begin with so hopefully I don't just have low test
feels bad man
I'm gonna do nofap and noporn for as long as possible. I'm like both you guys but I don't have months...I have bitches that want to fugg soon and I need my shit working soon
Cialis here I come
Here I go. Starting tomorrow, gonna delete all.traces of porn from my phone and internet
I need to kick this habit. I'm starting to delve into tranny porn and huge black dicks. I can't get hard from regular females now
>Lmao that feel when a girl you hit on ends up having a penis and you thought This shit only happened on 4chan
I still fucked her while she had a thong on. It wasn't a turn on but i couldn't really tell either way in the dark.
Where does one even get non-prescription cialis?
Someone linked this in another thread and idk about it.
Nigger you're only lying to yourself. You know it's a he, you know it's a mtf tranny.
You know he's just some mentally ill bitch who needs to be institutionalized or treated because shit like that isn't right and don't let the cockloving faggots on /fit/ convince you otherwise
I dont watch porn and honestly fapping isnt that interesting to me. I noticed i only fap every 3+ days of abstinence, anything before that feels a little underwhelming.
As an experiment, ive decided to not go on nofap for a year. I dont believe ill yield any substanial benefits, but i want to see what changes (whether good or bad) occur.
What should i try to monitor/lookout for?
What should i document?
I fap on average 2 times a day and almost always watch porn while doing it. Fairly sexually active and I have never in my life had a problem getting it up, rock hard every time and can often keep going even after coming or go again in like 30 mins. Low test betas with no sex drive get out of here.
It doesn't seem like it's productive or doing more good than harm if everyone in society is behind their computers, touching their junk to other people having sex.
>spending 20-30 mins a day on fapping is a harm to society
Yeah. I mean, I kinda can understand if he's defending watching porn (for ideas to spice up sex), but I don't see the need to fucking masturbate to it. It's just depriving yourself of social interaction
It helped me with social anxiety and feel more driven to get shit done... although...
>1.5 weeks into nofap
>tinder girl wants to meet
>she lifts apparently
>right before we meet she says she's trying to lose weight
>realise tinder profile only had head shots
>too late, I don't really care I think
>get awesome bj to be fair
>she swallows my 1.5 week load
>thinks I really dig her due to huge load
>goes on about how we must keep seeing each other
>can't say no and put her down easy
>end up banging her for the past 2 months
>kinda have a fat gf now
I fucked a chub sloot from Tinder two weeks ago, had been chatting a while and she invites me over. She looked thin from her pics but then I realize it was just fucking angles. I was too horny to care though and fucked her twice and she told me it was the best she'd had for a long while. Kept wanting to meet but I just went cold and then when she asked why I wasn't replying anymore I just said I wasn't feeling it.
>But why did you have sex with me then! Atleast now I know I can't trust you!
It's not just a meme, it is some fucked up trolling like those bleach+ammonia crystals. Nofap fucked up my libido too and anytime I mention it all the cultists say I'm doing it wrong with about half insisting I'm addicted to porn and that's why I don't watch porn and the other half saying it's only meant for porn addicts bit that I'm lying and it only helps or does nothing in normal guys.
Bull fucking shit. I want to beat every nofap faggot to death. I was fapping a health once or twice a day. I thought fuckit I'll try it and see what it's like having heat vision and talking to animals. To magic powers, no feeling better, no nothing other than I don't get horny anymore. I still fap about once a week, but it's not like before where I got horny. I don't into it until after I've forced an erection and been going at it couple minutes.
She asked me if I was gonna stop replying after we'd met. This was after her telling me she had dissected a penis before (med student) so I caved and told her no. Basically I was threatened into continuing speaking to her. On the plus side she's awesome in bed and is consistently losing weight and gymming. Also great chem between us. But every now and then I hear about her eating cookies or some shit
>This was after her telling me she had dissected a penis before
But bro if you don't wanna meet her more just go cold and stop answering and don't meet her again. Not like she's gonna break into your home and dissect your dick.
... You stopped fapping for a week and now you're no longer able to get an erection?
Idgaf about nofap but you definitely had a problem to begin with.
This. The real purpose of nofap is to break other bad habits. Porn addiction gets people hunting for increasingly extreme things to arouse them. It wastes time and harms their ability to properly socialize. A healthy sexuality is on a fairly light trigger.
cialis works so well, even if it's "all in your head" cialis will make a half erection, a full erection
eventually you'll have the trained yourself to get erection naturally with a woman
Nofap and noporn definetely help
Once a week I'd say is optimum for test, sex drive etc. The whole 90 days thing is a placebo but if you want to do it it can't hurt. Word of advice though, make sure the first time you ejaculate after refraining for so long is alone because it can be thick and yellow from all the built up dead sperm.
I'm kind of fucked up. 33 years old and single by choice, homo, extremely promiscuous as I am a big, relatively fit, white guy living in Vietnam with a raging case of yellow fever/rice eater/whatever you want to call having hots for Asians.
Most days I wake up and cum twice before I get up in less than 15 mins. I'll sometimes jerk off at lunch at work in the toilet. When I get home, I'll cum again (sometimes with porn, sometimes without, many times foot fetish porn).
If I have a hookup, which is very often, I'll cum once or twice again. Before returning the light out, I'll cum one last time (alone, I don't let my hookups sleep over, once we bust they leave).
I can honestly say that since I was 10 or something, the number of days I have not done a minimum of 4 faps is.. Negligible. Weekends I spend whoring can reach 8 or 9 in a day depending how many boys show up.
My libido is very insane.